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If I Asked You If You Liked Sex With The Lights On, Or Off...

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By *erbyDalesCpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

...would I expect to get a load of grief about my perjorative use of the binary construct 'on' and it's inherent implication that to be 'not on' is somehow a 'turn off'? That in the modern, enlightened world of dimmer switches we should instead embrace the multi-faceted variability of luminosity and celebrate our ability to see, or perhaps not see, regardless of the amount of light reaching our ocular organs?

Or would I just get a succession of posts saying

"On" or

"Off"

#justaskin

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the lights were off it would turn me off, may as well drag out a nightie and rollers and finish it off

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On.

I hope that clarifies dear.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how attractive the woman I'm with is.

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

As things can change depending on how I feel, I guess I could say that I like them on and off, off and on...

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By *erbyDalesCpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Depends how attractive the woman I'm with is. "

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I've never had a dimmer switch but I do have a range of occasional lights. What about candles? Would they be classed in a pejorative manner as flickering?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The only time I have sex in the dark is if its the middle of the night and we wake up and don't bother putting the light on.

Never had sex under the bed covers though

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We have never has sex with the light off.....if I wake him up in the middle of the night we put the light on so we can see each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the lights on, I really love out door day time fun aswell..... But i wouldnt mind if the other person wanted the lights off id go with their wishes.... If im pleasing myself then defo lights on with a mirror facing me so i can watch me pleasure myself, such a turn on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

daytime or lights on or moonlight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if I'm feeling smarmy.

Dimmed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no fussed - either will do - light and dark both have pros and cons wow its bright on this fence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off can be great too; when it's pitch black and you can't see, just feel and hear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Off can be great too; when it's pitch black and you can't see, just feel and hear. "

we played out a fantasy like this once - no talking either - sex sound was the only noise allowed -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...would I expect to get a load of grief about my perjorative use of the binary construct 'on' and it's inherent implication that to be 'not on' is somehow a 'turn off'? That in the modern, enlightened world of dimmer switches we should instead embrace the multi-faceted variability of luminosity and celebrate our ability to see, or perhaps not see, regardless of the amount of light reaching our ocular organs?

Or would I just get a succession of posts saying

"On" or

"Off"

#justaskin

Mr ddc"

What have you been told about mixing the red pills with your green ones?......

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By *rMrsAdriaCouple
over a year ago

Gosport

Depends on the time of year as the mosquitos love mr, so in the summer we have the lights off so he doesn't get eaten alive

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"no fussed - either will do - light and dark both have pros and cons wow its bright on this fence "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about daytime?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is candle light ok?

I always use candle light or natural day light.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Probably just curtains closed. No full on lighting its not a pretty sight ??

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By *erbyDalesCpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"... What about candles? Would they be classed in a pejorative manner as flickering?

"

Trust you and Breakfast-can-wait to try to twist a simple debate with the long, tall, phallic symbolism of a candle. These were always designed to oppress men by making them feel inadequate with their length and girth. You should have more consideration for those of us who only have a little tea-light.

That said, anyone self-confident enough to describe their luminosity as 'flickering' should be applauded for their honesty...

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By *erbyDalesCpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"...

Mr ddc

What have you been told about mixing the red pills with your green ones?......"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suppose to some that turning the lights off saves on using a paper bag......?

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By *erbyDalesCpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"daytime or lights on or moonlight "

Don't you go blaming it on the moonlight.

Or the boogie...

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By *erbyDalesCpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"no fussed - either will do - light and dark both have pros and cons wow its bright on this fence "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suppose to some that turning the lights off saves on using a paper bag......?"

Well Sainsburys stopped doing the mahoosive ones that you could put an arm through each handle to stop them falling off.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On. I like looking at and perving over who i'm fucking.

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By *erbyDalesCpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"On. I like looking at and perving over who i'm fucking."

Surely that depends who you're with?

The phrase "No likey, no lighty" was first coined for bedroom fun with people like me

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

On. Unless it's a second round sleepy night time session.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer the lights on, I really love out door day time fun aswell..... But i wouldnt mind if the other person wanted the lights off id go with their wishes.... If im pleasing myself then defo lights on with a mirror facing me so i can watch me pleasure myself, such a turn on x"

Oh my

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends what you mean by "on" and "off"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"daytime or lights on or moonlight

Don't you go blaming it on the moonlight.

Or the boogie...

"
cheeky

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Red herring?? Surely tis the word off which is the pejorative element of the particular binary opposition of which you speak?

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

Either on or of don't matter

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

If you were to ask me if I liked sex with the lights on or the lights off.... My answer would most certainly have to be a loud and proud YES!!!

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't mind...just so long as I'm having sex Lol.

Seriously though, I like to see the lady I'm enjoying, so it's her preference...if she wants lights off then lights off it is. Dimmed is a good compromise, but I also love the fun being fully illuminated too.

Sex outdoors in a nice private spot with the sunshine shining on proceedings (when the opportunity arises) is also wonderful.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

Lights on xx

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

Lights off, candles on.

I got a line of dragonflies with blue L.E.D's in and they look awesome with the lights turned off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full lighting, After all there's not much chance of blackmailing them if all you get on the video is silhouettes is there

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh I prefer a lamp on so I can see the full body, as like to enjoy every part of the body, yes every little part

If it's too dark and only see teeth then it's not for me lol

And if it's too bright then eyes wonder, I like to relax my eyes so lamp needs to be on, not next to me but further away.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

We love to see what we are eating lol, we wouldn't eat in a dark restaurant so why eat people we like in the dark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lights off, candles on.

I got a line of dragonflies with blue L.E.D's in and they look awesome with the lights turned off "

I neeeeeeed to see this!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Sorry lights off all the way with me, maybe hitch my nightie up just so and 30tog quilt to make sure things don't move and I'm happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Tbh I prefer a lamp on so I can see the full body, as like to enjoy every part of the body, yes every little part

If it's too dark and only see teeth then it's not for me lol

And if it's too bright then eyes wonder, I like to relax my eyes so lamp needs to be on, not next to me but further away. "

The club I went to on Saturday was so dark that I could only be seen if I smiled. We spent ages trying to find a well lit spot.

By the by, are you the Malteaser people post about so often?

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london


"...would I expect to get a load of grief about my perjorative use of the binary construct 'on' and it's inherent implication that to be 'not on' is somehow a 'turn off'? That in the modern, enlightened world of dimmer switches we should instead embrace the multi-faceted variability of luminosity and celebrate our ability to see, or perhaps not see, regardless of the amount of light reaching our ocular organs?

Or would I just get a succession of posts saying

"On" or

"Off"

#justaskin

Mr ddc"

perjoratively speaking, my orcular organs will tell my cockylongman organ that the light is in its eye and my cockylongman organ will tell my medula oblongota to pack it in or it will go floppy. So my fingerscular organ will switch off the electrical outlet of the ac voltage and wala darkness. Sex in the dark is the best

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By *erbyDalesCpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

I have been wondering, looking at all these jewelled butt-plugs, whether there isn't a Dragon's Den opportunity in putting a small battery and bulb inside them.

What could be more romantic than saying "something really does shine out of your behind"?

And you'd save on candles

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24


"Suppose to some that turning the lights off saves on using a paper bag......?"

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester


"...would I expect to get a load of grief about my perjorative use of the binary construct 'on' and it's inherent implication that to be 'not on' is somehow a 'turn off'? That in the modern, enlightened world of dimmer switches we should instead embrace the multi-faceted variability of luminosity and celebrate our ability to see, or perhaps not see, regardless of the amount of light reaching our ocular organs?

Or would I just get a succession of posts saying

"On" or

"Off"

#justaskin

Mr ddc

What have you been told about mixing the red pills with your green ones?......"

LMAO!

It's time for your medication now!

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By *hinkingoutloudMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Lights on over off all day at least that way u can even capture the moment on camera !

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london


"Off can be great too; when it's pitch black and you can't see, just feel and hear. "

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I have been wondering, looking at all these jewelled butt-plugs, whether there isn't a Dragon's Den opportunity in putting a small battery and bulb inside them.

What could be more romantic than saying "something really does shine out of your behind"?

And you'd save on candles

"

Mr DDC, don't start lighting candles to shove up your botty!

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london


"We love to see what we are eating lol, we wouldn't eat in a dark restaurant so why eat people we like in the dark. "

huh, you eat people ?

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

On always

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Always on remember when we were courting mid summer out in a field i went down on Jane said i wished i had brought my torch with me she said so do i you have been munching the grass for half an hour that was a learning curve

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