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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For those who are married and the partner don't know your on here....

What would you do if you found your partner had a profile on here too, even worse they were doing better than you!!!

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands


"For those who are married and the partner don't know your on here....

What would you do if you found your partner had ai profile on here too, even worse they were doing better than you!!!"

This made me laugh out loud in the pub

Excellent point

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

I am not but my online self would arrange a meet with him at the same time as he was supposed to be doing something with me in the vanilla world and see which one he bailed out on .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its cheating and if caught,i suppose your partner gona lose total trust in u forever lol

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By *lirtyjjWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Id ask for tips on how he is doing so well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd ask for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Didn't vera duckworth find jack on a dating site years ago and arrange a meet with him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its cheating and if caught,i suppose your partner gona lose total trust in u forever lol"

Er, they'd both be cheating if I read the hypothesis correctly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind off similar but my ex is on here we both found out a while ago by sheer chance.

Its all very civil we just keep looking at one another and not speaking. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its cheating and if caught,i suppose your partner gona lose total trust in u forever lol"

Correct but what's that got to do with this thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didn't vera duckworth find jack on a dating site years ago and arrange a meet with him? "

Lol I remember that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its cheating and if caught,i suppose your partner gona lose total trust in u forever lol

Er, they'd both be cheating if I read the hypothesis correctly..."

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"For those who are married and the partner don't know your on here....

What would you do if you found your partner had a profile on here too, even worse they were doing better than you!!!"

I'd write a song about it, and get that Rupert Holmes to sing it.

Then I'd probably go and drown my sorrows in a long Pina Colada

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plan a threesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would imagine it would be time for a very interesting conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Its cheating and if caught,i suppose your partner gona lose total trust in u forever lol

Correct but what's that got to do with this thread? "

I have been cheated on in a previous relationship but the trust was not gone forever .... it can be a catalyst to work things out or move on ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not but my online self would arrange a meet with him at the same time as he was supposed to be doing something with me in the vanilla world and see which one he bailed out on ..... "

I did something like that with my ex when he was my husband. Pretended to be his bit on the side on a new phone,as I knew where she worked,and asked him to meet her after work. My cousin and I plotted up in a car near her work and waited. In the meantime I had texted him and asked what time he would be home. He gave himself a couple of hours with her. I watched him drive up and then texted him saying her boyfriend had turned up unexpectedly. Sad I know but I wanted to know if he had stopped seeing her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be Fuckin gobsmacked knowing my hub it would have to be a fake profile

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"I am not but my online self would arrange a meet with him at the same time as he was supposed to be doing something with me in the vanilla world and see which one he bailed out on .....

I did something like that with my ex when he was my husband. Pretended to be his bit on the side on a new phone,as I knew where she worked,and asked him to meet her after work. My cousin and I plotted up in a car near her work and waited. In the meantime I had texted him and asked what time he would be home. He gave himself a couple of hours with her. I watched him drive up and then texted him saying her boyfriend had turned up unexpectedly. Sad I know but I wanted to know if he had stopped seeing her. "

It's not sad,when your head is being fucked up you want to find out what's going on

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Think it would be time for a "chat" but then I've never been with anyone that's needed to go behind my back.

Open and honest relationships are paramount

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not but my online self would arrange a meet with him at the same time as he was supposed to be doing something with me in the vanilla world and see which one he bailed out on ..... "

I think if you got to this point in reality you're expecting him to fail so unless you want finality it's a pointless exercise.

That's not a dig at you just an observation.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I am not but my online self would arrange a meet with him at the same time as he was supposed to be doing something with me in the vanilla world and see which one he bailed out on .....

I think if you got to this point in reality you're expecting him to fail so unless you want finality it's a pointless exercise.

That's not a dig at you just an observation."

I actually did this because I knew the guy was playing me. He said he knew it was me all along .... so was playing me to see how far I would go. Nothing like that with my current bf though, no need for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those who are married and the partner don't know your on here....

What would you do if you found your partner had a profile on here too, even worse they were doing better than you!!!"

In many ways it would be a relief to stop having to hide and worry about how to talk about opening up the relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not but my online self would arrange a meet with him at the same time as he was supposed to be doing something with me in the vanilla world and see which one he bailed out on .....

I did something like that with my ex when he was my husband. Pretended to be his bit on the side on a new phone,as I knew where she worked,and asked him to meet her after work. My cousin and I plotted up in a car near her work and waited. In the meantime I had texted him and asked what time he would be home. He gave himself a couple of hours with her. I watched him drive up and then texted him saying her boyfriend had turned up unexpectedly. Sad I know but I wanted to know if he had stopped seeing her.

It's not sad,when your head is being fucked up you want to find out what's going on"

And I wanted him to not turn up but I knew he would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be shocked and surprised, not hurt as after all both parties were being deceitful. I'm sure after a discussion trust could be regained and it would be a bit of a relief. It would be time for an open discussion and who knows, possibly a couples profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not but my online self would arrange a meet with him at the same time as he was supposed to be doing something with me in the vanilla world and see which one he bailed out on .....

I did something like that with my ex when he was my husband. Pretended to be his bit on the side on a new phone,as I knew where she worked,and asked him to meet her after work. My cousin and I plotted up in a car near her work and waited. In the meantime I had texted him and asked what time he would be home. He gave himself a couple of hours with her. I watched him drive up and then texted him saying her boyfriend had turned up unexpectedly. Sad I know but I wanted to know if he had stopped seeing her.

It's not sad,when your head is being fucked up you want to find out what's going on

And I wanted him to not turn up but I knew he would."

Exactly what I said above ~ you already knew he would fail & if you can deal with the reality of finding out then so be it.....a lot of people can't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is a case of he/ she who laughs last, laughs the longest

Her

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's alright from those of us not cheating but I guess most cheats on fab won't say too much.

I just like a simple straight forward life and am amazed what people risk and how they create complexity and potential chaos.

I'm guessing if they found their partner was on here, they'd feel some relief, anger and mixed up emotional twist.

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