FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

politeness

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When replying to a message, I always try to be nice and polite, often get back the same, which is lovely.

Boggles my mind when we get a message and give a negative reply, usually because,,we don't have a meet up, not looking for single men, bareback,cuckhold,tvs or whatever, we get labelled timewaster or abuse, quite often just a deleted message and no reply....i get that its hard work on here, I really do, but people do themselves no favours.....

Surely messaging people who don't have a 'meet me today' up for a meet when the kids are in bed and the o.h is at work are the timewasters.... Only persons time I'm wasting in my own, chatting shit in the forums??!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG dramz

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Peoples expectations can be very different.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When replying to a message, I always try to be nice and polite, often get back the same, which is lovely.

"

Single male:

"Hi, how are you? "

Female:

."fuck off, fuck you, I told you not to say Hi, hello or any variation of that in your opening message!!"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When replying to a message, I always try to be nice and polite, often get back the same, which is lovely.

Single male:

"Hi, how are you? "

Female:

."fuck off, fuck you, I told you not to say Hi, hello or any variation of that in your opening message!!"

"

Our profile doesn't say that though.... Think its quite clear without all the ranty capitals and secret passwords people expect you to remember.

I've only ever said "fuck off" when had some nutter calling me a fat pathetic timewaster or something equally delightful at which point they've usually blocked me cos they are a shithouse

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"

I've only ever said "fuck off" when had some nutter calling me a fat pathetic timewaster or something equally delightful at which point they've usually blocked me cos they are a shithouse "

I shouldn't laugh at abuse but your comment has made me chuckle

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I've only ever said "fuck off" when had some nutter calling me a fat pathetic timewaster or something equally delightful at which point they've usually blocked me cos they are a shithouse

I shouldn't laugh at abuse but your comment has made me chuckle "

True though, keyboard warriors!! Id love to have someone say it in person!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OMG dramz "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Just take it that you've dodged a bullet.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OMG dramz "

I like a wee dramz...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

The block button, use it.

Don't engage in arguments and rage matches simply block and move on.

I've started using it more and more and honestly my site experience has been better for it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I usually get blocked before I have chance to reply.

My block list is vast

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

I believe that politeness on here is important and goes a long way to revealing one's character and how a meet might go. I know it goes against the "rules" that people don't have to reply to messages but, seriously, I spend a long time composing polite messages, none of the "hi, how's u?" junk and I just get deleted or ignored. Still, worse things have happened at sea.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I believe that politeness on here is important and goes a long way to revealing one's character and how a meet might go. I know it goes against the "rules" that people don't have to reply to messages but, seriously, I spend a long time composing polite messages, none of the "hi, how's u?" junk and I just get deleted or ignored. Still, worse things have happened at sea."

True. I'm just a bit hormonal and sensitive maybe?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top