FabSwingers.com forum: Well I did it ....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I went and broke the biggest no no of a fwb relationship and fell for him and after 13mths of going out, sleeping over at each other's place, visiting at work. Helping him out at work, the feelings are not reciprocated. So I've finished things.and camcelled our couples profile

It hurts like hell and I feel like shit . But I know it's the best thing for me

How many of you fab fabbers experienced this and how did you cope.xx

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

If it's right for you then move forward with strength.

Hold firm and don't torment yourself with "what if" too much.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it's right for you then move forward with strength.

Hold firm and don't torment yourself with "what if" too much.

Good luck.

"
thx Lickety x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I can see where/how/why the lines could have become blurred as from what you wrote you actually sound like bf and gf rather fwb.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Good luck to you and to him, too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To be fair I can see where/how/why the lines could have become blurred as from what you wrote you actually sound like bf and gf rather fwb."
. Sometimes I think it was more gf/bf. But as he didn't have the same feelings he had to go,,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good luck to you and to him, too. "
thx Tina

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Sorry it didnt work out for you,if you hadnt tried you night never have known,big hugs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cyber hugz hun.

We all been there at some point with others but all I can say is time is your best friend now nothing more or nothing less just time.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Sorry it didnt work out for you,if you hadnt tried you night never have known,big hugs x"

this..

better to have loved etc..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope it was an amicable split. Good luck to you both.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Sorry to hear that sweet but in time I'm sure you'll bounce back. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw that's rubbish for you both. If only everything could be ruled by your head only sometimes life would be far simpler. .. but boring as hell

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Good for you. Onwards and upwards

I've been 'fabbed dumped' but you soon get over it

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By *urpleflowersXXXWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

I started seeing someone before joining here he sent roses at valentines and was more about cuddles than sex I was in a vulnerable position so fell for him even tho I knew would never work. It does hurt to walk away but you did the right thing you definately have respect for yourself iy does get easier ive not spoke to mine for two months now. If he cant see how amazing you are then his loss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I started seeing someone before joining here he sent roses at valentines and was more about cuddles than sex I was in a vulnerable position so fell for him even tho I knew would never work. It does hurt to walk away but you did the right thing you definately have respect for yourself iy does get easier ive not spoke to mine for two months now. If he cant see how amazing you are then his loss"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Purpleflowersxxx has hit the proverbial nail on the head.....I am amazing and it's his loss. Thx purple.xxxx I mite even put it as my status...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy for you that you too the plunge and did it , I have done it before and yes it does hurt but time is a healer.

I don't agree with the it's his loss bit as he obviously didn't feel the same so won't be feeling as it's his loss at at I would think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair I can see where/how/why the lines could have become blurred as from what you wrote you actually sound like bf and gf rather fwb.. Sometimes I think it was more gf/bf. But as he didn't have the same feelings he had to go,,, "

That's how it goes sometimes, have no regrets, and one day you'll find what/who your looking for.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

I feel your pain going through a recent split myself with someone that I met off here. Slightly different circumstances but i wish I'd had your courage and got out when things started to go wrong.

As much as it hurts I firmly believe what don't kill us makes us stronger. Things get easier as they say xx

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