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By *irce OP   Woman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Okay so i walk to town go to a pub i like walk home......is this wrong?

Over the past year Gloucester city has become like a third world, i get hassle from guys asking for Bjs and asking if i am a pro.....ffs i do not dress that bad..

Also the Ts hate has just hit the roof, so bad the police tell me to stay off the streets had a battle on with 7 guys the other night on my own and no police show...now i just care not,society is crap!!

I can see my death from Ts hate coming very soon,no drama just a _iew from feet on the street.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

that is very sad to read.... stay safe and I hope things improve for you and your friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's awful to hear and the fact that authorities do nothing about it is equally staggering. Continue to pester the police with reports of every incident and hopefull, they'll be shamed into action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some shallow people around! Don't let the behaviour and attitude of bigoted people bring you down or God forbid contemplate anything!

They probably have small dicks as well as minds

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Nothing but scum of the earth those guys are dont you ever think about suicide dont give in to the hate xxx

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

if you feel you are receiving less than an adequate response from the police then notify your mp

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By *irce OP   Woman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Its like holding water in your hands, i do report and now i am a pest for doing so....oh look the cameras facing the wrong way is one example and unless i get hit they treat it as nothing.

Abuse is just horried, i never see a single female out at night, has it come to this ...back to having to have male company just to walk a street...

Thanks for your reply x

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By *irce OP   Woman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"if you feel you are receiving less than an adequate response from the police then notify your mp "

Local Mp is a Tory boy who hates TS folk delt with him before.

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By *irce OP   Woman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Thank you and i have no friends lol x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

That is horrible to read about I am sorry you are experiencing this in your streets.

If the police are not taking this seriously have you considered using one of the little portable cameras to film what is happening as you walk down the streets? I know it shouldn't be necessary but you will have the proof and that becomes harder to ignore.

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By *layfull pairingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Judging by your pic im surprised anyone sees you as anything but a "normal" girl.... a very attractive one too.....

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"Judging by your pic im surprised anyone sees you as anything but a "normal" girl.... a very attractive one too....."

I would never guess she was trans if i didnt know xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is horrible to read about I am sorry you are experiencing this in your streets.

If the police are not taking this seriously have you considered using one of the little portable cameras to film what is happening as you walk down the streets? I know it shouldn't be necessary but you will have the proof and that becomes harder to ignore.

"

Good call from the lovely lady, embarrass the authorities into action. Send footage to the press 'police ignore vile hatred acts'

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By *irce OP   Woman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"That is horrible to read about I am sorry you are experiencing this in your streets.

If the police are not taking this seriously have you considered using one of the little portable cameras to film what is happening as you walk down the streets? I know it shouldn't be necessary but you will have the proof

and that becomes harder to ignore.

"

Thank you all and my post is just to show what is faced on a daily basis and it takes over any chance of a normal life the camera idea is awesome, will look into this option..xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Lickety said try and film it. End of the day it is aggravated sexual abuse and classed as a hate crime, go to the papers about it as you shouldn't have to endure stuff like that.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"That is horrible to read about I am sorry you are experiencing this in your streets.

If the police are not taking this seriously have you considered using one of the little portable cameras to film what is happening as you walk down the streets? I know it shouldn't be necessary but you will have the proof

and that becomes harder to ignore.

Thank you all and my post is just to show what is faced on a daily basis and it takes over any chance of a normal life the camera idea is awesome, will look into this option..xxx

"

Do, cyclists use them to prove their cases, dashboard cameras are being used more and more in accident cases.

I have a transitioning cyclist friend and it was her wearing a camera that gave me the idea. Thankfully, here in London, she has never had the abuse you have experienced.

Stand tall and be gorgeous.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"if you feel you are receiving less than an adequate response from the police then notify your mp "

Or go to the police complaints commission?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sorry to hear about the hassle. Streets are becoming less safe and behaviour is worsening. It's going to get worse as people turn a blind eye, or let certain behaviour seem acceptable by doing nothing.

As others have said discreetly film it. There are lots of small tech cameras you can get.

There are police commissioners to go to to complain about the police and your local councillors for the streets you are using should be aware/helping.

Telling people to stay off the street if they don't want the hassle is unacceptable.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"That is horrible to read about I am sorry you are experiencing this in your streets.

If the police are not taking this seriously have you considered using one of the little portable cameras to film what is happening as you walk down the streets? I know it shouldn't be necessary but you will have the proof

and that becomes harder to ignore.

Thank you all and my post is just to show what is faced on a daily basis and it takes over any chance of a normal life the camera idea is awesome, will look into this option..xxx

Do, cyclists use them to prove their cases, dashboard cameras are being used more and more in accident cases.

I have a transitioning cyclist friend and it was her wearing a camera that gave me the idea. Thankfully, here in London, she has never had the abuse you have experienced.

Stand tall and be gorgeous.

"

She does stand tall and she is gorgeous for sure xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm appalled that you're suffering like this.

Is this a particular group of people or are you saying everyone around you is causing you grief?

Looking at your pics I'm guessing most people wouldn't know you're TS unless you tell them?

I hope you resolve this soon and can live without fear of verbal of physical attack xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Google dogcam bullet. I use one on my motorbike and the quality is good even when dark.

Good luck hope all goes well

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

I'm sorry to hear about your experiences

Take me with you sometime

I do a mean impression of a Rottweiler

Grrrrrrowl

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By *irce OP   Woman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Thank you all again...Fabbers, just a kind word helps heaps when....mega stressed.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"Thank you all again...Fabbers, just a kind word helps heaps when....mega stressed."

Your never alone Jess not really ever xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever you do keep yourself safe. Bear in mind that if someone is aggressive and they see you have a camera it may antagonise them and make it worse. Don't wish to be the voice of doom here. Strongly suggest self defence classes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crikey.

Stay safe! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Self defence classes sound a great idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm...get a taxi from now on for your safety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell!!! Op dont put yourself in danger! Stay safe xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is quite a while on from the original post.

How are things now OP? Hoping its settled down and you're being left to go about your life like everyone should be?

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By *irce OP   Woman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"This is quite a while on from the original post.

How are things now OP? Hoping its settled down and you're being left to go about your life like everyone should be?"

Hey, nope still the same and the police just keep watering down issues, all the trans and police meetings I went to are nothing but bulls shit properganda, empty vessel's of false hopes.

Ta for asking

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By *rbusyhandsMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

sorry for resurrecting an old thread but was watching the gay video where they walk down the street in Russia etc and secretly film the reactions.

https://youtu.be/ls6-ZYSZoDM

perhaps you could contact a media outlet or popular youtube filmmaker and see if they would do something similar with you to highlight the plight you are suffering...

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Okay so i walk to town go to a pub i like walk home......is this wrong?

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No it is not wrong but it is naive.

Everyone should be able to walk where they like anytime they like wearing what they like but in the real world that is not possible.

When I was in my teens and twenties it was not possible for a single straight man to walk home from a pub late at night without the possibility of being assaulted; that is life.

We are all responsible for our own safety and though you may like to walk home we would suggest you play safe and get a taxi or some other form of transport home.

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Thats terrible. Why people can't accept now a days its a modern society i havent a prob with people who are different. I myself have had people saying things to me as im alternative an gothic

stay safe an its not acceptable to be treated like this shame on the people who treat u this way.

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