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By *pice of life 79 OP   Man
over a year ago

lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham

What is the best when it comes to having fun swinging and if your a single guy who's been swinging for a long time would you leave fab for a vanilla relationships ? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i met someone and yes i would leave and go vanilla

but does not mean completely vanilla sex

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Done it twice in the last 6 years.

Both worlds have their advantages but I'm done with conventional relationships now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest answer I couldn't say...He would have to be something special a d a kinky deviant for me to leave fab..but I don't think I could ever go back to vanilla sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just prefer being single full stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just prefer being single full stop"

snap!!!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Generally I prefer being in a relationship with the right person xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't met anyone yet. Would leave fab for a meaningful girlfriend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generally I prefer being in a relationship with the right person xx"

nothing beats happiness content respect x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive left fab twice for relationships. They werent interested and its not my nature to cheat.

Saying that. They werent exactly vanilla so had its benifits too.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"I just prefer being single full stop"

Plus, I think a lot of people, deep down, want vanilla relationships which can make things confusing and hurtful here. Not saying that it's not possible but some want it more than others.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

My ex knew I was on here although she didn't want to join in. If I met someone else, I would tell them about being on here, then the ball's in their court as to whether they wanted to take it any further. I'm happy being single though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i met my match who can give me both id love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done twice but it did not work out so returned to the scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd ideally like to meet someone who could give me the best of both worlds

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm quite happy having the best of both worlds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as most people the best off both worlds would be ideal . but we all live in the real world do its as to be one or the other xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like a girl who i could be with but also be on here with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the people on here that have left and come back, would you say that the fact you'd been on here caused issues in your relationships or was the reason for splitting due to other non related issues that would could of still happened regardless of being a swinger, vanilla etc?

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

I'm after a cuckold husband

So I'd remain on sites like this because it's what I want in a long term relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just prefer being single full stop"

Same here. Less hassle

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By *hyblueEyesMan
over a year ago

Daventry

Single is the way for me. I'm a bit selfish at times and just like my own company.

Don't like having somebody around me 24/7. However if I was to find a FB/FWB I'm not one to stray and would probably just play with the one person.....just with no commitment........maybe it's just I'm afraid of commitment haha

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells


"I just prefer being single full stop

Same here. Less hassle"

Agreed

Who needs a man who expects you to cook, clean, wash, iron, mow the flipping lawn

Best stay single

Make the bar stewards look after themselves Lmfao xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just prefer being single full stop

Same here. Less hassle

Agreed

Who needs a man who expects you to cook, clean, wash, iron, mow the flipping lawn

Best stay single

Make the bar stewards look after themselves Lmfao xx"

I thought you had found someone the other day or was I just reading things wrong ?

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells


"I just prefer being single full stop

Same here. Less hassle

Agreed

Who needs a man who expects you to cook, clean, wash, iron, mow the flipping lawn

Best stay single

Make the bar stewards look after themselves Lmfao xx

I thought you had found someone the other day or was I just reading things wrong ? "

I'm dating one man sure

Not married to him yet though

So until I get an engagement ring

I'm single but dating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that swinging is more fun with a partner to share it with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to be with someone I could share this lifestyle with but have a loving relationship or even get married one day hate being on my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is a good thread and it makes a change

thank you for all posting on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be nice to have some friends here I guess lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would be nice to have some friends here I guess lol "

start looking at club socials

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Generally I prefer being in a relationship with the right person xx"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id prefer to be in a loving relationship with an open minded man who wants to explore the scene with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id prefer to be in a loving relationship with an open minded man who wants to explore the scene with me."

Yep, best of both worlds.

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I'd ideally like to meet someone who could give me the best of both worlds"

I agree with this.

I don't think I could ever have a relationship now with someone that isn't into the swinging or fetish scene. I don't have a need to swing but I have fetish needs. I'm more than happy to thrive and be satisfied by one person but there are parts of this scene that I don't want to give up. I just feel freer having choice, even if I don't take advantage of it.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"For the people on here that have left and come back, would you say that the fact you'd been on here caused issues in your relationships or was the reason for splitting due to other non related issues that would could of still happened regardless of being a swinger, vanilla etc?"

Good question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id prefer to be in a loving relationship with an open minded man who wants to explore the scene with me.

Yep, best of both worlds."

Yep totally agree having a partner to explore this with would be ideal until that happens its single all the way lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if i met my match who can give me both id love it "

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried being in a relationship, just the once, tried it didn't like it I know when to quit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just prefer being single full stop"

Moi aussi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honest answer I couldn't say...He would have to be something special a d a kinky deviant for me to leave fab..but I don't think I could ever go back to vanilla sex"

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I will never have a relationship...... ever

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By *oe bloggs69Man
over a year ago

fife

Relationship..with kinky sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few open relationships would do me lovely, but I really can't see myself in one full time relationship. I've sort of worked out that I'll eventually end up on my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Relationship..with kinky sex "

oh yes...got to be kinky

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Id prefer to be in a loving relationship with an open minded man who wants to explore the scene with me.

Yep, best of both worlds.

Yep totally agree having a partner to explore this with would be ideal until that happens its single all the way lol x"

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