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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Go...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Room full of moths ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stuck at the bottom of the ocean when the cage chain gas snapped and mu swim to survive. Sharks..aaahhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snakes and castration. Freud would have a fucking field day with that one I'd imagine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being in a room full of the most gorgeous women all wanting.... And the old fella doesn't work

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Being alone in the world....I have a recurring nightmare that I wake up and no one else is here - not anyone....it's silent and eerie and I don't know what to do or where to go so I sit on the stairs and cry. I cry out loud even though I am asleep and wake up covered in tears with Pete holding me and kissing me - but it happens again and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain...

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

The fear of a lifetime spent on futile labour not having achieved my full potential.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being alone in the world....I have a recurring nightmare that I wake up and no one else is here - not anyone....it's silent and eerie and I don't know what to do or where to go so I sit on the stairs and cry. I cry out loud even though I am asleep and wake up covered in tears with Pete holding me and kissing me - but it happens again and again "

Have you seen anyone about this? Doctor or councillor ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The fear of a lifetime spent on futile labour not having achieved my full potential."

Morning howi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biggest fear is anything bad happening to my son.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain..."

I need to repeat this when my fear takes over me.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Being alone in the world....I have a recurring nightmare that I wake up and no one else is here - not anyone....it's silent and eerie and I don't know what to do or where to go so I sit on the stairs and cry. I cry out loud even though I am asleep and wake up covered in tears with Pete holding me and kissing me - but it happens again and again

Have you seen anyone about this? Doctor or councillor ? "

Nope.....I have a counsellor who helps rewire my brain but that is more about the day to day trying to fit into the real world while having Aspergers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My biggest fear is anything bad happening to my son."

I have this fear too.. Not as bad now he is older (16) but Christ when he was younger all I thought about pedophiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My biggest fear is anything bad happening to my son.

I have this fear too.. Not as bad now he is older (16) but Christ when he was younger all I thought about pedophiles "

Really? Why? The world is no more full of weirdos now than it was when we were kids. I have a son but I don't fear this at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being alone in the world....I have a recurring nightmare that I wake up and no one else is here - not anyone....it's silent and eerie and I don't know what to do or where to go so I sit on the stairs and cry. I cry out loud even though I am asleep and wake up covered in tears with Pete holding me and kissing me - but it happens again and again

Have you seen anyone about this? Doctor or councillor ?

Nope.....I have a counsellor who helps rewire my brain but that is more about the day to day trying to fit into the real world while having Aspergers "

Could you not mention that to her?

Do you think it's your Aspergers that cause the dreams?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My biggest fear is anything bad happening to my son.

I have this fear too.. Not as bad now he is older (16) but Christ when he was younger all I thought about pedophiles

Really? Why? The world is no more full of weirdos now than it was when we were kids. I have a son but I don't fear this at all."

I know, but when I was growing up I didn't know anything about pedophiles, it wasn't on the news or in papers like it is now.

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

When I was little I was scared of monsters under the bed and being home alone. I used to say to myself "I'm safe 24 hours a day , 7 days a week, 52 weeks a year, for infinity years" or if I was really scared it would be "I'm safe 60 seconds a minute, 60 minutes an hour, 24 hours a day......" So on. And because it was a bit of a mouthful to say all that and I was afraid I'd slip up and the monsters would get me, I changed it to "I'm safe 24/7/52/infinity"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My biggest fear is anything bad happening to my son.

I have this fear too.. Not as bad now he is older (16) but Christ when he was younger all I thought about pedophiles

Really? Why? The world is no more full of weirdos now than it was when we were kids. I have a son but I don't fear this at all.

I know, but when I was growing up I didn't know anything about pedophiles, it wasn't on the news or in papers like it is now. "

I bet it was, it was just that we didn't have the same amount of coverage. Example: the headmaster at my primary school was arrested and sent to prison for it, and it was reported all over the place. It's such a shame parents are made to feel frightened of such things these days, by media-saturation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I worry more about my son now he's 16 than when he was younger but he doesn't know that & I let him go out & live his life as wrapping him up in cotton wool isn't going to help him.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"The fear of a lifetime spent on futile labour not having achieved my full potential.

Morning howi "

This isn't the 'Good Morning' thread but good morning to you too beautiful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My biggest fear is anything bad happening to my son.

I have this fear too.. Not as bad now he is older (16) but Christ when he was younger all I thought about pedophiles

Really? Why? The world is no more full of weirdos now than it was when we were kids. I have a son but I don't fear this at all.

I know, but when I was growing up I didn't know anything about pedophiles, it wasn't on the news or in papers like it is now.

I bet it was, it was just that we didn't have the same amount of coverage. Example: the headmaster at my primary school was arrested and sent to prison for it, and it was reported all over the place. It's such a shame parents are made to feel frightened of such things these days, by media-saturation."

That's the word I was looking for- coverage!

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

needles and dying alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"needles and dying alone "

That's tragic. Try not to worry mate - we all die alone essentially

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

That's the word I was looking for- coverage! "

Coverage can be a good thing......I mean I'm a very thorough lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biggest fear is turning into my mother who is phycho bitch who left 5 kids cause she said she didnt want her feet under kitchen sink for rest of her life.

thats why I have only one child

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it's if something awful were to happen to me that I'd not be able to provide for my dependants or participate in the things we currently do together.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"needles and dying alone

That's tragic. Try not to worry mate - we all die alone essentially "

Thanks i mean with loved ones there really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biggest fear defo spiders (Dee shudders)

urm also being tied up during sex having the fear they wouldnt let me go and id be stuck (silly i no) but always felt it.....

I use to have a huge fear of feet.. Got so bad i couldnt put my 2yr old nieces socks on id just freeze... So went to feet therapy haha really helped...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasps!

Working as a gardener I have hit several nests while Strimming or hedge trimming. Luckily the most stings I have had is around 15 at once, but the fear is on a hot day and I hit a nest I will be covered by them!

Makes me shudder at the thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is that something bad would happen to my daughter.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

CANCER

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By *ridmusCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

farting in me scuba suit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wasps!

Working as a gardener I have hit several nests while Strimming or hedge trimming. Luckily the most stings I have had is around 15 at once, but the fear is on a hot day and I hit a nest I will be covered by them!

Makes me shudder at the thought."

I'm not a fan of wasps!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

That's the word I was looking for- coverage!

Coverage can be a good thing......I mean I'm a very thorough lover"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"farting in me scuba suit "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not finding someone to spend the rest of my life with.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Losing my independence (physical)...

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Falling. Which is pretty mad really as i used to be a roofer. Having said that I think it kept me alive

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Being alone in the world....I have a recurring nightmare that I wake up and no one else is here - not anyone....it's silent and eerie and I don't know what to do or where to go so I sit on the stairs and cry. I cry out loud even though I am asleep and wake up covered in tears with Pete holding me and kissing me - but it happens again and again

Have you seen anyone about this? Doctor or councillor ?

Nope.....I have a counsellor who helps rewire my brain but that is more about the day to day trying to fit into the real world while having Aspergers

Could you not mention that to her?

Do you think it's your Aspergers that cause the dreams? "

I have mentioned it in the past but it's not something that happens all the time so not always a problem. As a child I was very isolated and non verbal so it could be something to so with it but I am happy now so it's all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My biggest fear is anything bad happening to my son."

I know what you mean! My oldest daughter was sexually assaulted once - nearly 200 miles from my arms! Worst day of my - and her - life!!

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By *uyfromchiMan
over a year ago

CHICHESTER

fear itself !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biggest fear is a snitch or a wedding ring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trivial fear is slugs, incident when I was younger getting out my tent bare foot in the night to go to the outside toilet, slug got mashed between my toes!

I fear anything happening to my child.

I fear never finding a boyfriend, been single 6 years and I'm not getting any younger.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have a fear of cliffs too

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"I have a fear of cliffs too"

Same here. Cliff Richard freaks me out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Singing and/or dancing in public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My biggest fear is anything bad happening to my son.

I know what you mean! My oldest daughter was sexually assaulted once - nearly 200 miles from my arms! Worst day of my - and her - life!! "

oh my that must of been very very hard for you both, I have a 3 year old daughter and cant imagine what I would do or feel if anything like that happened to her.

I must admit that is a very big massive fear for me xx

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I have a fear of cliffs too

Same here. Cliff Richard freaks me out! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting herpes, syphilis and gonorrhea again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting herpes, syphilis and gonorrhea again "

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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria

Clowns. Birds. Balloons. Dwarfs. Wasps. Masks.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Clowns. Birds. Balloons. Dwarfs. Wasps. Masks. "

Nothing much then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having an argument with someone I love, and them suddenly dying before we'be had a chance to make up. I think that's coupled with my inability to stay mad with anyone for too long.

In fact anyone that I love dying full stop, that and getting too lost in my mind again and being unable to get out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Death probably. Although funnily enough you're not around to worry about it. Must just be an age thing.

B

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

Chickens even if there penned up i start shaking and cant get past them

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By *eddy004Man
over a year ago

Toy Town


"Trivial fear is slugs, incident when I was younger getting out my tent bare foot in the night to go to the outside toilet, slug got mashed between my toes!

I fear anything happening to my child.

I fear never finding a boyfriend, been single 6 years and I'm not getting any younger. "

HOW ARE YOU STILL SINGLE!! I would sweep you off your feet for sure xx

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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria


"Clowns. Birds. Balloons. Dwarfs. Wasps. Masks.

Nothing much then "

Not really. Lol. Luckily I don't come across them alot nowadays. Miss C. Xx

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Being stuck in hospital (or wherever) with tubes and pipes coming in and out and nobody having the gumption to throw the off switch.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

That when I'm wanking my cock will dissolve into a writhing mass of maggots and larvae.

Bad disco biscuits in my youth...

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

heights and my daughters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A long and painful death. I watched my mother die for nearly 3 years....awful.

Looking back at my life and seeing it as a wasteland of regrets

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

death of loved ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rod and Emu !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ONLY thing on this planet I'm superstitious about is talking about my fears.

I think about my fears.

But nobody knows them. I won't talk about them.

That's the only thing I'm superstitious about.

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

Losing my daughter' spider infestation and flying Monkeys from the wizard of of oz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aside from anything happening to my boys. My biggest fear is hospitals. It's getting worse too. Now I even fear going to the Dr and avoid it at all costs .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a fear of cliffs too

Same here. Cliff Richard freaks me out!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Singing and/or dancing in public. "

2 left feet huh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself. FDR

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had my greatest fear come true , lived though it and still am

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