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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can i ask all you men out there what some of you think of larger ladies?

What do you see in them.

Im a larger lady myself and sometimes feel very conscious of undressing in front of strangers even though they say they love curves.

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By *reddy96Man
over a year ago

scunthorpe

I think the larger ladys are great. Have met 1 twice and am deffo goin bac for more. I am a larger man so like my women with curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men like it, some don't, I love a curvy sexy woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love all women no matter shape age or size, all women are beautiful and should be treated as such.

My mum brought me up well x

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By *bfoxxxMan
over a year ago

Crete or LANCASTER

From what I've seen, they know how to have fun.

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

I like larger ladies as long as they are ok with it have been with ladies before with no go areas for touching and lights always off or hidden under sheets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can beat curves, and from past experience bigger girls have nicer "bits".

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"I love all women no matter shape age or size, all women are beautiful and should be treated as such.

My mum brought me up well x"

Well aren't you a good boy and a credit to your mum

A lovely attitude to have.....

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Can i ask all you men out there what some of you think of larger ladies?

What do you see in them.

Im a larger lady myself and sometimes feel very conscious of undressing in front of strangers even though they say they love curves."

I've often been asked/wondered about this. Not sure I can give a definitive answer. Sometimes it's best not to analyse the whys and wherefores - but simply to smile, lick your lips and go for it.

If I'm pushed - I suppose it boils down to this: I'm attracted to people rather than a body 'feature'. Having said that, I tend to be drawn to ladies with a fuller figure.

But the attraction has to be there. For both of us.

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By *est-coupleMan
over a year ago

Southwick (near Trowbridge)


"Can i ask all you men out there what some of you think of larger ladies?

What do you see in them.

Im a larger lady myself and sometimes feel very conscious of undressing in front of strangers even though they say they love curves."

Love larger ladies - real women begin at size 16 xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends. My best Fab Friend lists herself on here as large, but is beautifully shaped and utterly gorgeous.

You see slimmer men and ladies who aren't that attractive.

Size is not the only thing which makes someone attractive or sexy.

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Can i ask all you men out there what some of you think of larger ladies?

What do you see in them.

Im a larger lady myself and sometimes feel very conscious of undressing in front of strangers even though they say they love curves.

Love larger ladies - real women begin at size 16 xxxx"

Shit does that make me an imaginary woman then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Shit does that make me an imaginary woman then "

You have appeared in my imagination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can i ask all you men out there what some of you think of larger ladies?

What do you see in them.

Im a larger lady myself and sometimes feel very conscious of undressing in front of strangers even though they say they love curves.

Love larger ladies - real women begin at size 16 xxxx"

Isn't every woman a "real woman" regardless of their size? It's like saying a man isn't a real man unless he has a ten inch dick. (Not that I would ever say such a thing.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can i ask all you men out there what some of you think of larger ladies?

What do you see in them.

Im a larger lady myself and sometimes feel very conscious of undressing in front of strangers even though they say they love curves.

Love larger ladies - real women begin at size 16 xxxx

Shit does that make me an imaginary woman then "

That must make me imaginary too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like any types of women and sizes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing to do with me being a big handsome man haha but I love all women's shapes and sizes it's a woman's mind that I want and her body to follow I've been with slim women larger women, women who are in the middle with curves etc

But saying that I do love a curvy woman tho just so nice and curvy and mmmmm hard to describe haha damn awesome lol

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By *omtdhMan
over a year ago

IOM

All ladies are special. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder after all, and as such is personal to all of us. A sexy body comes from a sexy lady no matter what size, or shape, she is, or more importantly purports to be. Ladies do seem to judge themselves larger than they actually are in reality. I love all sexy ladies but I do love curves and the baroque figure. The artist in me loves them and the man in me lusts after them. I agree that confidence plays a part though. I am a voyeur as are most men and if any lady wants the lights off and covered up fully it does affect the quality of kissing, teasing, sucking, nibbling and pleasure that I can give the lady especially during oral. After all, if a job is worth doing it is worth doing exquisitely well. It gets hot anyway in the throes of passion, so add a ruddy duvet over the top it is stifling and you can’t see the pleasure you are giving your playmate. If a man does not like the more curvaceous lady that is fair enough but they should not belittle a sexy lady because she does not conform to their ideals however impossible their ideals may be to achieve. Most of them after all are no Michelangelo’s David are they… lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All ladies are special. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder after all, and as such is personal to all of us. A sexy body comes from a sexy lady no matter what size, or shape, she is, or more importantly purports to be. Ladies do seem to judge themselves larger than they actually are in reality. I love all sexy ladies but I do love curves and the baroque figure. The artist in me loves them and the man in me lusts after them. I agree that confidence plays a part though. I am a voyeur as are most men and if any lady wants the lights off and covered up fully it does affect the quality of kissing, teasing, sucking, nibbling and pleasure that I can give the lady especially during oral. After all, if a job is worth doing it is worth doing exquisitely well. It gets hot anyway in the throes of passion, so add a ruddy duvet over the top it is stifling and you can’t see the pleasure you are giving your playmate. If a man does not like the more curvaceous lady that is fair enough but they should not belittle a sexy lady because she does not conform to their ideals however impossible their ideals may be to achieve. Most of them after all are no Michelangelo’s David are they… lol "

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Can i ask all you men out there what some of you think of larger ladies?

What do you see in them.

Im a larger lady myself and sometimes feel very conscious of undressing in front of strangers even though they say they love curves.

Love larger ladies - real women begin at size 16 xxxx"

Jesus wept. I am still a larger lady at a size 14 since I am relatively short but I am as real as I was when I was a size 20 and would probably be just as 'real' if I was smaller. I get that people have preferences but saying women are less real if they're under a size 16 is every bit as bad as fat shaming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love all women no matter shape age or size, all women are beautiful and should be treated as such.

My mum brought me up well x"

I agree with this man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not into skinny women at all really. There is an upper size limit in my head but to describe that I'd find impossible. Having been with skinny, average and bigger ladies, my preference is for the average to larger end both aesthetically and in terms of the feel of them. Hope that doesn't sound too bad!

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By *emini1637Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"All ladies are special. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder after all, and as such is personal to all of us. A sexy body comes from a sexy lady no matter what size, or shape, she is, or more importantly purports to be. Ladies do seem to judge themselves larger than they actually are in reality. I love all sexy ladies but I do love curves and the baroque figure. The artist in me loves them and the man in me lusts after them. I agree that confidence plays a part though. I am a voyeur as are most men and if any lady wants the lights off and covered up fully it does affect the quality of kissing, teasing, sucking, nibbling and pleasure that I can give the lady especially during oral. After all, if a job is worth doing it is worth doing exquisitely well. It gets hot anyway in the throes of passion, so add a ruddy duvet over the top it is stifling and you can’t see the pleasure you are giving your playmate. If a man does not like the more curvaceous lady that is fair enough but they should not belittle a sexy lady because she does not conform to their ideals however impossible their ideals may be to achieve. Most of them after all are no Michelangelo’s David are they… lol "

Love this comment

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Can i ask all you men out there what some of you think of larger ladies?

What do you see in them.

Im a larger lady myself and sometimes feel very conscious of undressing in front of strangers even though they say they love curves."

Sometimes, just sometimes don't ask. The brutal honesty will dent fragile egos. I'm sure Kate Moss types don't ask why. We won't appeal to all!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Can i ask all you men out there what some of you think of larger ladies?

What do you see in them.

Im a larger lady myself and sometimes feel very conscious of undressing in front of strangers even though they say they love curves.

Love larger ladies - real women begin at size 16 xxxx"

Bollocks!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"All ladies are special. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder after all, and as such is personal to all of us. A sexy body comes from a sexy lady no matter what size, or shape, she is, or more importantly purports to be. Ladies do seem to judge themselves larger than they actually are in reality. I love all sexy ladies but I do love curves and the baroque figure. The artist in me loves them and the man in me lusts after them. I agree that confidence plays a part though. I am a voyeur as are most men and if any lady wants the lights off and covered up fully it does affect the quality of kissing, teasing, sucking, nibbling and pleasure that I can give the lady especially during oral. After all, if a job is worth doing it is worth doing exquisitely well. It gets hot anyway in the throes of passion, so add a ruddy duvet over the top it is stifling and you can’t see the pleasure you are giving your playmate. If a man does not like the more curvaceous lady that is fair enough but they should not belittle a sexy lady because she does not conform to their ideals however impossible their ideals may be to achieve. Most of them after all are no Michelangelo’s David are they… lol "

Is anyone else feeling a little hot?

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

Why ask just the men?

I'm bisexual

I absolutely love larger ladies

They just don't seem to take themselves too seriously

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Can i ask all you men out there what some of you think of larger ladies?

What do you see in them.

Im a larger lady myself and sometimes feel very conscious of undressing in front of strangers even though they say they love curves.

Love larger ladies - real women begin at size 16 xxxx

Jesus wept. I am still a larger lady at a size 14 since I am relatively short but I am as real as I was when I was a size 20 and would probably be just as 'real' if I was smaller. I get that people have preferences but saying women are less real if they're under a size 16 is every bit as bad as fat shaming."

I never understand why it has to become a size war. There is someone out there who will be turned on whatever size you are.

I'm fat but just because there is more of me doesn't make me more real than someone with less fat on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can i ask all you men out there what some of you think of larger ladies?

What do you see in them.

Im a larger lady myself and sometimes feel very conscious of undressing in front of strangers even though they say they love curves.

Love larger ladies - real women begin at size 16 xxxx"

What constitutes "real" as opposed to those below size 16?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curves are what make a woman womanly and desirable, in my opinion. It doesn't matter to me what size her body is. As long as she has breasts and bum in proportion, I feel like I'm in heaven!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

size , shape, colour mean nothing to me as long as they are clean and respectful. some of my best meets are with larger ladies and i love them. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can i ask all you men out there what some of you think of larger ladies?

What do you see in them.

Im a larger lady myself and sometimes feel very conscious of undressing in front of strangers even though they say they love curves.

Love larger ladies - real women begin at size 16 xxxx

Jesus wept. I am still a larger lady at a size 14 since I am relatively short but I am as real as I was when I was a size 20 and would probably be just as 'real' if I was smaller. I get that people have preferences but saying women are less real if they're under a size 16 is every bit as bad as fat shaming."

I'm approaching a 16 again as I lose weight, I'm looking forward to disappearing again soon.

Ps, would that be a M&S size 16 or a H&M size 16? They're very different things, I'd hate to be thinking I don't exist when I still do...

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can i ask all you men out there what some of you think of larger ladies?

What do you see in them.

Im a larger lady myself and sometimes feel very conscious of undressing in front of strangers even though they say they love curves.

Love larger ladies - real women begin at size 16 xxxx"

What a pathetic thing to add. Nothing wrong with your preferences but to try and justify them is absolutely ridiculous. I have daughters ranging from a size 6 to a 20, all curvy, all beautiful and all very real! You ought to be ashamed of yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like any types of women and sizes "

Amen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the real answer is on a size where women out number men a zillion to one (ok I admit I don't know the real figures ) if your female and you want a shag you will get one regardless of size

happy to help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

"

Your first sentence is horrible. Correct me if wrong but you said that only hard up guys like larger ladies?

Also I haven't seen any put downs of slimmer ladies on this thread.

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

Your first sentence is horrible. Correct me if wrong but you said that only hard up guys like larger ladies?

Also I haven't seen any put downs of slimmer ladies on this thread."

I think he may of been referring to the comment that 'real' women start at size 16, there are always plenty of snidey comments on these threads about bags of bones, anorexic looks, stick insects etc just look at some old threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can i ask all you men out there what some of you think of larger ladies?

What do you see in them.

Im a larger lady myself and sometimes feel very conscious of undressing in front of strangers even though they say they love curves.

Love larger ladies - real women begin at size 16 xxxx

Jesus wept. I am still a larger lady at a size 14 since I am relatively short but I am as real as I was when I was a size 20 and would probably be just as 'real' if I was smaller. I get that people have preferences but saying women are less real if they're under a size 16 is every bit as bad as fat shaming.

I'm approaching a 16 again as I lose weight, I'm looking forward to disappearing again soon.

Ps, would that be a M&S size 16 or a H&M size 16? They're very different things, I'd hate to be thinking I don't exist when I still do..."

Exactly. It's always about the individual. Whether it be about size, colour, height or whatever. I personally have a preference but that would not exclude someone outside my criteria. I prefer brunettes to blondes but I have met a blonde off here and she's bloody ace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

Your first sentence is horrible. Correct me if wrong but you said that only hard up guys like larger ladies?

Also I haven't seen any put downs of slimmer ladies on this thread.

I think he may of been referring to the comment that 'real' women start at size 16, there are always plenty of snidey comments on these threads about bags of bones, anorexic looks, stick insects etc just look at some old threads "

Ah in that case I apologise. I never get snidey. Certain looks do repulse me. But live and let live.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Whoops I will be the invisible woman soon then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

Your first sentence is horrible. Correct me if wrong but you said that only hard up guys like larger ladies?

Also I haven't seen any put downs of slimmer ladies on this thread."

No I didn't just that there's sucking up.

Really. So you think "real women start at size 16" isn't a put down of those who are below that size?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

Your first sentence is horrible. Correct me if wrong but you said that only hard up guys like larger ladies?

Also I haven't seen any put downs of slimmer ladies on this thread.

No I didn't just that there's sucking up.

Really. So you think "real women start at size 16" isn't a put down of those who are below that size?"

I'm bit a size 16 and I didn't take offence, if men want to see me as less that a woman that's their choice I get more than enough offers on here without having to worry about the ones who don't like me

don't fret I'm not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not*

damn fingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From what I've seen, they know how to have fun."

Or do they just try harder? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

Your first sentence is horrible. Correct me if wrong but you said that only hard up guys like larger ladies?

Also I haven't seen any put downs of slimmer ladies on this thread.

No I didn't just that there's sucking up.

Really. So you think "real women start at size 16" isn't a put down of those who are below that size?"

That's how I read it and you have corrected me so fair enough.

The real women comment I believe was that chap expressing his preference. He could have put it better for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From what I've seen, they know how to have fun.

Or do they just try harder? Lol"

nope I'm as great In bed now I'm fat as I.was when I was slimmer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From what I've seen, they know how to have fun.

Or do they just try harder? Lol"

I've been deep throating cake from a young age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

Your first sentence is horrible. Correct me if wrong but you said that only hard up guys like larger ladies?

Also I haven't seen any put downs of slimmer ladies on this thread.

No I didn't just that there's sucking up.

Really. So you think "real women start at size 16" isn't a put down of those who are below that size?

I'm bit a size 16 and I didn't take offence, if men want to see me as less that a woman that's their choice I get more than enough offers on here without having to worry about the ones who don't like me

don't fret I'm not "

True, no point taking anything personal on this site, even if it's meant .

Just thought the comment was ridiculous. Besides dress size has little to do with shape when you consider you get fat 10s and slim 16s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All ladies are special. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder after all, and as such is personal to all of us. A sexy body comes from a sexy lady no matter what size, or shape, she is, or more importantly purports to be. Ladies do seem to judge themselves larger than they actually are in reality. I love all sexy ladies but I do love curves and the baroque figure. The artist in me loves them and the man in me lusts after them. I agree that confidence plays a part though. I am

voyeur as are most men and if any lady wants the lights off and covered up fully it does affect the quality of kissing, teasing, sucking, nibbling and pleasure that I can give the lady especially during oral. After all, if a job is worth doing it is worth doing exquisitely well. It gets hot anyway in the throes of passion, so add a ruddy duvet over the top it is stifling and you can’t see the pleasure you are giving your playmate. If a man does not like the more curvaceous lady that is fair enough but they should not belittle a sexy lady because she does not conform to their ideals however impossible their ideals may be to achieve. Most of them after all are no Michelangelo’s David are they… lol "

Ohlala

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I just had a chocolate cake with cream and it was fabulous

I wonder if any of the desperate men on here that go for fatties will shag me later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men like it, some don't, I love a curvy sexy woman! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can honestly say that as a size 20 woman I feel much sexier than when I was a size 10 weighing 8.5 stones. I will add that it was the man I was with who made me feel unsexy and the men I have now who make me feel sexy. I'm not embarrassed,ashamed or have feelings of guilt for being this weight now,it happened,I live with it. As I lose weight I don't feel sexier,my knees just hurt less.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for all your nice comments and well.the noy so.nice ones can.go.and whistle lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I just had a chocolate cake with cream and it was fabulous

I wonder if any of the desperate men on here that go for fatties will shag me later "

Your too far or I'd say hell yes. Have some fabs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you for all your nice comments and well.the noy so.nice ones can.go.and whistle lol x"

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love all women no matter shape age or size, all women are beautiful and should be treated as such.

My mum brought me up well x"

go the top of the class good answer star plus

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over a year ago

Well I used to be 20 stone in 09 and skinny women never payed any attention so it's always been the way for me

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over a year ago


"I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

"

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Upper size limit .....????

How rude ...

Good job us ladies dont go look at lower size limits .... cause a lot of guys on here would be stuffed ... lol x

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By *wloverMan
over a year ago

evesham

Size doesn't bother me if im treated with respect I will treat others with respect we are all human

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Pretty simple answer really. Some fetishise obesity. Some, like me ,don't care what your body shape is as long as you are nice, and attractive.

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate


"Upper size limit .....????

How rude ...

Good job us ladies dont go look at lower size limits .... cause a lot of guys on here would be stuffed ... lol x "

A lot do. It's called height lol. It's daft though cause in real life it really doesn't matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Upper size limit .....????

How rude ...

Good job us ladies dont go look at lower size limits .... cause a lot of guys on here would be stuffed ... lol x "

I love larger ladies skinny women don't do it for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Upper size limit .....????

How rude ...

Good job us ladies dont go look at lower size limits .... cause a lot of guys on here would be stuffed ... lol x

A lot do. It's called height lol. It's daft though cause in real life it really doesn't matter. "

It does when you like to be fucked bending over standing up...lol

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate


"Upper size limit .....????

How rude ...

Good job us ladies dont go look at lower size limits .... cause a lot of guys on here would be stuffed ... lol x

A lot do. It's called height lol. It's daft though cause in real life it really doesn't matter.

It does when you like to be fucked bending over standing up...lol "

I've got a yellow pages.. Haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Upper size limit .....????

How rude ...

Good job us ladies dont go look at lower size limits .... cause a lot of guys on here would be stuffed ... lol x I love larger ladies skinny women don't do it for me x"

how about slim women, average/medium women, why is it on these threads women are either fat or bags of bones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Upper size limit .....????

How rude ...

Good job us ladies dont go look at lower size limits .... cause a lot of guys on here would be stuffed ... lol x

A lot do. It's called height lol. It's daft though cause in real life it really doesn't matter.

It does when you like to be fucked bending over standing up...lol

I've got a yellow pages.. Haha."

can you find the number of a tall guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Upper size limit .....????

How rude ...

Good job us ladies dont go look at lower size limits .... cause a lot of guys on here would be stuffed ... lol x

A lot do. It's called height lol. It's daft though cause in real life it really doesn't matter.

It does when you like to be fucked bending over standing up...lol "

I found someone tall with long enough legs that I have to wear heels to make this successful, which was fantastic!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

a curvy lady with confidence

a curvy lady with insecurities that impact on the time that is spent together: No, sorry

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Upper size limit .....????

How rude ...

Good job us ladies dont go look at lower size limits .... cause a lot of guys on here would be stuffed ... lol x I love larger ladies skinny women don't do it for me x

how about slim women, average/medium women, why is it on these threads women are either fat or bags of bones "

Exactly. Do I lose weight? Do I put it on? Or do I think 'sod the men who make such distinctions' and meet the ones who fancy me the way I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if a lady is happy with her size, whatever size, then i am happy. All women should be treated well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Upper size limit .....????

How rude ...

Good job us ladies dont go look at lower size limits .... cause a lot of guys on here would be stuffed ... lol x "

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Upper size limit .....????

How rude ...

Good job us ladies dont go look at lower size limits .... cause a lot of guys on here would be stuffed ... lol x I love larger ladies skinny women don't do it for me x

how about slim women, average/medium women, why is it on these threads women are either fat or bags of bones

Exactly. Do I lose weight? Do I put it on? Or do I think 'sod the men who make such distinctions' and meet the ones who fancy me the way I am."

There is nobody

you don't exist

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Upper size limit .....????

How rude ...

Good job us ladies dont go look at lower size limits .... cause a lot of guys on here would be stuffed ... lol x I love larger ladies skinny women don't do it for me x

how about slim women, average/medium women, why is it on these threads women are either fat or bags of bones

Exactly. Do I lose weight? Do I put it on? Or do I think 'sod the men who make such distinctions' and meet the ones who fancy me the way I am.

There is nobody

you don't exist "

Then what's that smell?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Upper size limit .....????

How rude ...

Good job us ladies dont go look at lower size limits .... cause a lot of guys on here would be stuffed ... lol x I love larger ladies skinny women don't do it for me x

how about slim women, average/medium women, why is it on these threads women are either fat or bags of bones

Exactly. Do I lose weight? Do I put it on? Or do I think 'sod the men who make such distinctions' and meet the ones who fancy me the way I am.

There is nobody

you don't exist

Then what's that smell? "

sorry that was me, I just farted

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Upper size limit .....????

How rude ...

Good job us ladies dont go look at lower size limits .... cause a lot of guys on here would be stuffed ... lol x I love larger ladies skinny women don't do it for me x

how about slim women, average/medium women, why is it on these threads women are either fat or bags of bones

Exactly. Do I lose weight? Do I put it on? Or do I think 'sod the men who make such distinctions' and meet the ones who fancy me the way I am.

There is nobody

you don't exist

Then what's that smell?

sorry that was me, I just farted "

Who said that? I'm confused. I'm off to put some weight on so I can be considered a good shag.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

"

Nauseating isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Upper size limit .....????

How rude ...

Good job us ladies dont go look at lower size limits .... cause a lot of guys on here would be stuffed ... lol x I love larger ladies skinny women don't do it for me x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Upper size limit .....????

How rude ...

Good job us ladies dont go look at lower size limits .... cause a lot of guys on here would be stuffed ... lol x

A lot do. It's called height lol. It's daft though cause in real life it really doesn't matter. "

I think she was talking about cock size

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Upper size limit .....????

How rude ...

Good job us ladies dont go look at lower size limits .... cause a lot of guys on here would be stuffed ... lol x I love larger ladies skinny women don't do it for me x

how about slim women, average/medium women, why is it on these threads women are either fat or bags of bones

Exactly. Do I lose weight? Do I put it on? Or do I think 'sod the men who make such distinctions' and meet the ones who fancy me the way I am.

There is nobody

you don't exist

Then what's that smell?

sorry that was me, I just farted

Who said that? I'm confused. I'm off to put some weight on so I can be considered a good shag. "

Me too....bring on the cake, buns and pies

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Can i ask all you men out there what some of you think of larger ladies?

What do you see in them.

Im a larger lady myself and sometimes feel very conscious of undressing in front of strangers even though they say they love curves.

Love larger ladies - real women begin at size 16 xxxx"

Silly quote!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"All ladies are special. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder after all, and as such is personal to all of us. A sexy body comes from a sexy lady no matter what size, or shape, she is, or more importantly purports to be. Ladies do seem to judge themselves larger than they actually are in reality. I love all sexy ladies but I do love curves and the baroque figure. The artist in me loves them and the man in me lusts after them. I agree that confidence plays a part though. I am a voyeur as are most men and if any lady wants the lights off and covered up fully it does affect the quality of kissing, teasing, sucking, nibbling and pleasure that I can give the lady especially during oral. After all, if a job is worth doing it is worth doing exquisitely well. It gets hot anyway in the throes of passion, so add a ruddy duvet over the top it is stifling and you can’t see the pleasure you are giving your playmate. If a man does not like the more curvaceous lady that is fair enough but they should not belittle a sexy lady because she does not conform to their ideals however impossible their ideals may be to achieve. Most of them after all are no Michelangelo’s David are they… lol

Is anyone else feeling a little hot? "

Some men know how to get the best out of a woman and say things in the correct way. Unfortunetly not everyone is the same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All ladies are special. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder after all, and as such is personal to all of us. A sexy body comes from a sexy lady no matter what size, or shape, she is, or more importantly purports to be. Ladies do seem to judge themselves larger than they actually are in reality. I love all sexy ladies but I do love curves and the baroque figure. The artist in me loves them and the man in me lusts after them. I agree that confidence plays a part though. I am a voyeur as are most men and if any lady wants the lights off and covered up fully it does affect the quality of kissing, teasing, sucking, nibbling and pleasure that I can give the lady especially during oral. After all, if a job is worth doing it is worth doing exquisitely well. It gets hot anyway in the throes of passion, so add a ruddy duvet over the top it is stifling and you can’t see the pleasure you are giving your playmate. If a man does not like the more curvaceous lady that is fair enough but they should not belittle a sexy lady because she does not conform to their ideals however impossible their ideals may be to achieve. Most of them after all are no Michelangelo’s David are they… lol

Is anyone else feeling a little hot?

Some men know how to get the best out of a woman and say things in the correct way. Unfortunetly not everyone is the same!"

well said

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

Your first sentence is horrible. Correct me if wrong but you said that only hard up guys like larger ladies?

Also I haven't seen any put downs of slimmer ladies on this thread.

I think he may of been referring to the comment that 'real' women start at size 16, there are always plenty of snidey comments on these threads about bags of bones, anorexic looks, stick insects etc just look at some old threads "

I for one are sick of being made to feel disgusting because I'm a size 8,because I'm not a real woman. I'm made to feel like a bloody freak and it pisses me off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

Your first sentence is horrible. Correct me if wrong but you said that only hard up guys like larger ladies?

Also I haven't seen any put downs of slimmer ladies on this thread.

I think he may of been referring to the comment that 'real' women start at size 16, there are always plenty of snidey comments on these threads about bags of bones, anorexic looks, stick insects etc just look at some old threads

I for one are sick of being made to feel disgusting because I'm a size 8,because I'm not a real woman. I'm made to feel like a bloody freak and it pisses me off!"

There is a tendency to glorify obesity and being terribly out of shape it seems as many men wil fuck anyone it seems. I'm by no means a size 8, but nor am a BBW, somewhere in the middle I guess, yet where are all the people sying I'm 'half a real woman' lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

Your first sentence is horrible. Correct me if wrong but you said that only hard up guys like larger ladies?

Also I haven't seen any put downs of slimmer ladies on this thread.

I think he may of been referring to the comment that 'real' women start at size 16, there are always plenty of snidey comments on these threads about bags of bones, anorexic looks, stick insects etc just look at some old threads

I for one are sick of being made to feel disgusting because I'm a size 8,because I'm not a real woman. I'm made to feel like a bloody freak and it pisses me off!"

Does it really make you feel disgusting, reading some misguided comments from men on here who have just sussed that fat women are more likely to have low self esteem as a result of being regularly put down for their looks in the real world, and therefore by their estimation are an easier target?

I'd choose size 8 and a few shitty comments on here (this doesn't mean I don't think they're shitty, there's no need) than size 18 with compliments on here but some of the abuse I've had in the street any day of the week.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Love larger ladies - real women begin at size 16 xxxx"

Absolute bollocks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

Your first sentence is horrible. Correct me if wrong but you said that only hard up guys like larger ladies?

Also I haven't seen any put downs of slimmer ladies on this thread.

I think he may of been referring to the comment that 'real' women start at size 16, there are always plenty of snidey comments on these threads about bags of bones, anorexic looks, stick insects etc just look at some old threads

I for one are sick of being made to feel disgusting because I'm a size 8,because I'm not a real woman. I'm made to feel like a bloody freak and it pisses me off!

There is a tendency to glorify obesity and being terribly out of shape it seems as many men wil fuck anyone it seems. I'm by no means a size 8, but nor am a BBW, somewhere in the middle I guess, yet where are all the people sying I'm 'half a real woman' lol"

Are you saying that fat people aren't attractive to anyone and should be seen as an anything? That isn't a very open minded attitude either is it.

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

It's disgusting when men encourage women to be overweight and unhealthy in order to satisfy their own personal kinks.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"It's disgusting when men encourage women to be overweight and unhealthy in order to satisfy their own personal kinks.

"

and more fool them for doing it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

Your first sentence is horrible. Correct me if wrong but you said that only hard up guys like larger ladies?

Also I haven't seen any put downs of slimmer ladies on this thread.

I think he may of been referring to the comment that 'real' women start at size 16, there are always plenty of snidey comments on these threads about bags of bones, anorexic looks, stick insects etc just look at some old threads

I for one are sick of being made to feel disgusting because I'm a size 8,because I'm not a real woman. I'm made to feel like a bloody freak and it pisses me off!

There is a tendency to glorify obesity and being terribly out of shape it seems as many men wil fuck anyone it seems. I'm by no means a size 8, but nor am a BBW, somewhere in the middle I guess, yet where are all the people sying I'm 'half a real woman' lol

Are you saying that fat people aren't attractive to anyone and should be seen as an anything? That isn't a very open minded attitude either is it. "

People are free to find what they like attractive-Fab caters to all tastes

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

Your first sentence is horrible. Correct me if wrong but you said that only hard up guys like larger ladies?

Also I haven't seen any put downs of slimmer ladies on this thread.

I think he may of been referring to the comment that 'real' women start at size 16, there are always plenty of snidey comments on these threads about bags of bones, anorexic looks, stick insects etc just look at some old threads

I for one are sick of being made to feel disgusting because I'm a size 8,because I'm not a real woman. I'm made to feel like a bloody freak and it pisses me off!

Does it really make you feel disgusting, reading some misguided comments from men on here who have just sussed that fat women are more likely to have low self esteem as a result of being regularly put down for their looks in the real world, and therefore by their estimation are an easier target?

I'd choose size 8 and a few shitty comments on here (this doesn't mean I don't think they're shitty, there's no need) than size 18 with compliments on here but some of the abuse I've had in the street any day of the week.

"

I can't change my build,I am who I am. I also don't want to change,but whenever women's sizes are mentioned on here,the slimmer women are alway's referred to as being skinny and said in a negative way. Beauty comes from within as well,it's not just our shell,I may not have hugely womanly curves,my 14 year old daughter has more curves than I do,but it doesn't make me any less a 'real' woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Upper size limit .....????

How rude ...

Good job us ladies dont go look at lower size limits .... cause a lot of guys on here would be stuffed ... lol x I love larger ladies skinny women don't do it for me x

how about slim women, average/medium women, why is it on these threads women are either fat or bags of bones

Exactly. Do I lose weight? Do I put it on? Or do I think 'sod the men who make such distinctions' and meet the ones who fancy me the way I am."

Hit the nail on the head with this ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

Your first sentence is horrible. Correct me if wrong but you said that only hard up guys like larger ladies?

Also I haven't seen any put downs of slimmer ladies on this thread.

I think he may of been referring to the comment that 'real' women start at size 16, there are always plenty of snidey comments on these threads about bags of bones, anorexic looks, stick insects etc just look at some old threads

I for one are sick of being made to feel disgusting because I'm a size 8,because I'm not a real woman. I'm made to feel like a bloody freak and it pisses me off!

Does it really make you feel disgusting, reading some misguided comments from men on here who have just sussed that fat women are more likely to have low self esteem as a result of being regularly put down for their looks in the real world, and therefore by their estimation are an easier target?

I'd choose size 8 and a few shitty comments on here (this doesn't mean I don't think they're shitty, there's no need) than size 18 with compliments on here but some of the abuse I've had in the street any day of the week.

I can't change my build,I am who I am. I also don't want to change,but whenever women's sizes are mentioned on here,the slimmer women are alway's referred to as being skinny and said in a negative way. Beauty comes from within as well,it's not just our shell,I may not have hugely womanly curves,my 14 year old daughter has more curves than I do,but it doesn't make me any less a 'real' woman."

I completely agree with you, and there's no need for the negative comments on here. But surely you can see (as I as a larger lady certainly can) that it's all just a whole load of bullshit and the same men blowing smoke up my ass for my 'curves' would probably drop me like a hot stone for the chance of a meet with you as a size 8?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not into skinny women at all really. There is an upper size limit in my head but to describe that I'd find impossible. Having been with skinny, average and bigger ladies, my preference is for the average to larger end both aesthetically and in terms of the feel of them. Hope that doesn't sound too bad!

"

why did you message me then ?

i am a slim woman,its my choice sorry if people want big ones.

i think the real women start at 16 comments are utterly laughable

i am pretty sure the trumpet blowing for large women is because the men know the stereotypically good looking women wont respond to them so in their minds they are taking the easy option.which is an insult to the big women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not into skinny women at all really. There is an upper size limit in my head but to describe that I'd find impossible. Having been with skinny, average and bigger ladies, my preference is for the average to larger end both aesthetically and in terms of the feel of them. Hope that doesn't sound too bad!

why did you message me then ?

i am a slim woman,its my choice sorry if people want big ones.

i think the real women start at 16 comments are utterly laughable

i am pretty sure the trumpet blowing for large women is because the men know the stereotypically good looking women wont respond to them so in their minds they are taking the easy option.which is an insult to the big women."

hahah brilliant.

and this is what i was referring to when i mentioned guys sucking up, i know a lot of what they say in the forums about their "type" is radically different to the people they message :D

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

if I ever comment on these threads we get a barrage of messages from men telling us how they really love BBW's and find them really attractive, when point out that I am not a BBW but merely commenting they suddenly actually prefer average sized women...funny that.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Did the OP ever come back ?

She must know the reaction ?

Picking a username Hot Horny speaks confidence

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and reading the status... it seems driven by a personal agenda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not into skinny women at all really. There is an upper size limit in my head but to describe that I'd find impossible. Having been with skinny, average and bigger ladies, my preference is for the average to larger end both aesthetically and in terms of the feel of them. Hope that doesn't sound too bad!

why did you message me then ?

i am a slim woman,its my choice sorry if people want big ones.

i think the real women start at 16 comments are utterly laughable

i am pretty sure the trumpet blowing for large women is because the men know the stereotypically good looking women wont respond to them so in their minds they are taking the easy option.which is an insult to the big women."

Fat women know it's bullshit; thin women know it's bullshit, average women know it's bullshit; it's only the men who do it who are still deluding themselves that this kind of flattery to larger women by putting down slim women will help them to pull.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and reading the status... it seems driven by a personal agenda"

of course it is, every thread on here has an agenda.

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over a year ago

You got to love Men tripping over themselves on here in order to appear to say the right thing!! Backtracking, White knighting et al.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You got to love Men tripping over themselves on here in order to appear to say the right thing!! Backtracking, White knighting et al. "

And some being straightforward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did the OP ever come back ?

She must know the reaction ?

Picking a username Hot Horny speaks confidence"

Yes she did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if I ever comment on these threads we get a barrage of messages from men telling us how they really love BBW's and find them really attractive, when point out that I am not a BBW but merely commenting they suddenly actually prefer average sized women...funny that. "

I enjoy getting messages from profiles which state they're only looking for slim women, under size 12 only, "I keep myself fit at the gym, I expect you to do the same" (that was a good'un). Makes me wonder how many of these slim temptresses they've been rejected by before breaking all their own rules....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You got to love Men tripping over themselves on here in order to appear to say the right thing!! Backtracking, White knighting et al.

And some being straightforward. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You got to love Men tripping over themselves on here in order to appear to say the right thing!! Backtracking, White knighting et al.

And some being straightforward. "

Kudos to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

Your first sentence is horrible. Correct me if wrong but you said that only hard up guys like larger ladies?

Also I haven't seen any put downs of slimmer ladies on this thread.

I think he may of been referring to the comment that 'real' women start at size 16, there are always plenty of snidey comments on these threads about bags of bones, anorexic looks, stick insects etc just look at some old threads

I for one are sick of being made to feel disgusting because I'm a size 8,because I'm not a real woman. I'm made to feel like a bloody freak and it pisses me off!

Does it really make you feel disgusting, reading some misguided comments from men on here who have just sussed that fat women are more likely to have low self esteem as a result of being regularly put down for their looks in the real world, and therefore by their estimation are an easier target?

I'd choose size 8 and a few shitty comments on here (this doesn't mean I don't think they're shitty, there's no need) than size 18 with compliments on here but some of the abuse I've had in the street any day of the week.

"

That really is very sad if you have been on the receiving end of verbal abuse in the street for being a size 18. I must be very lucky to live where I do as I am a size 18/20 and have never experienced such vile behaviour. Or the Welsh just love a fatty

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"and reading the status... it seems driven by a personal agenda"

Just noticed that myself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most men here will shag all sizes I find .. Most just happy to get a meet and a shag .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

Your first sentence is horrible. Correct me if wrong but you said that only hard up guys like larger ladies?

Also I haven't seen any put downs of slimmer ladies on this thread.

I think he may of been referring to the comment that 'real' women start at size 16, there are always plenty of snidey comments on these threads about bags of bones, anorexic looks, stick insects etc just look at some old threads

I for one are sick of being made to feel disgusting because I'm a size 8,because I'm not a real woman. I'm made to feel like a bloody freak and it pisses me off!

Does it really make you feel disgusting, reading some misguided comments from men on here who have just sussed that fat women are more likely to have low self esteem as a result of being regularly put down for their looks in the real world, and therefore by their estimation are an easier target?

I'd choose size 8 and a few shitty comments on here (this doesn't mean I don't think they're shitty, there's no need) than size 18 with compliments on here but some of the abuse I've had in the street any day of the week.

That really is very sad if you have been on the receiving end of verbal abuse in the street for being a size 18. I must be very lucky to live where I do as I am a size 18/20 and have never experienced such vile behaviour. Or the Welsh just love a fatty "

Oh they get abuse back as they drive away in their shitty pimped up Corsas, but yep I've had people shout things at me in the street on numerous occasions before (mostly when I lived in Yorkshire actually, they must be more scared of fat birds there).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if I ever comment on these threads we get a barrage of messages from men telling us how they really love BBW's and find them really attractive, when point out that I am not a BBW but merely commenting they suddenly actually prefer average sized women...funny that.

I enjoy getting messages from profiles which state they're only looking for slim women, under size 12 only, "I keep myself fit at the gym, I expect you to do the same" (that was a good'un). Makes me wonder how many of these slim temptresses they've been rejected by before breaking all their own rules.... "

Nah ~ we all know men don't read before messaging

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester


"if I ever comment on these threads we get a barrage of messages from men telling us how they really love BBW's and find them really attractive, when point out that I am not a BBW but merely commenting they suddenly actually prefer average sized women...funny that.

I enjoy getting messages from profiles which state they're only looking for slim women, under size 12 only, "I keep myself fit at the gym, I expect you to do the same" (that was a good'un). Makes me wonder how many of these slim temptresses they've been rejected by before breaking all their own rules....

Nah ~ we all know men don't read before messaging "

Don't tar us all with the same brush laydee!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if I ever comment on these threads we get a barrage of messages from men telling us how they really love BBW's and find them really attractive, when point out that I am not a BBW but merely commenting they suddenly actually prefer average sized women...funny that.

I enjoy getting messages from profiles which state they're only looking for slim women, under size 12 only, "I keep myself fit at the gym, I expect you to do the same" (that was a good'un). Makes me wonder how many of these slim temptresses they've been rejected by before breaking all their own rules....

Nah ~ we all know men don't read before messaging

Don't tar us all with the same brush laydee! "

Moi?!

I did put a and a for good measure....

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By *est-coupleMan
over a year ago

Southwick (near Trowbridge)


" Jesus wept. I am still a larger lady at a size 14 since I am relatively short but I am as real as I was when I was a size 20 and would probably be just as 'real' if I was smaller. I get that people have preferences but saying women are less real if they're under a size 16 is every bit as bad as fat shaming."

Fair point, Ligea. That throwaway remark of mine was unfair to ALL women, and I would like to apologise for it. I was thoughtless, and my intention was not to offend or provoke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

Your first sentence is horrible. Correct me if wrong but you said that only hard up guys like larger ladies?

Also I haven't seen any put downs of slimmer ladies on this thread.

I think he may of been referring to the comment that 'real' women start at size 16, there are always plenty of snidey comments on these threads about bags of bones, anorexic looks, stick insects etc just look at some old threads

I for one are sick of being made to feel disgusting because I'm a size 8,because I'm not a real woman. I'm made to feel like a bloody freak and it pisses me off!

There is a tendency to glorify obesity and being terribly out of shape it seems as many men wil fuck anyone it seems. I'm by no means a size 8, but nor am a BBW, somewhere in the middle I guess, yet where are all the people sying I'm 'half a real woman' lol

Are you saying that fat people aren't attractive to anyone and should be seen as an anything? That isn't a very open minded attitude either is it.

People are free to find what they like attractive-Fab caters to all tastes"

As long as you're ok with being lumped in with the anything's you talk of.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Another non real skinny Minnie bag of bones pops in and waves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

Your first sentence is horrible. Correct me if wrong but you said that only hard up guys like larger ladies?

Also I haven't seen any put downs of slimmer ladies on this thread.

I think he may of been referring to the comment that 'real' women start at size 16, there are always plenty of snidey comments on these threads about bags of bones, anorexic looks, stick insects etc just look at some old threads

I for one are sick of being made to feel disgusting because I'm a size 8,because I'm not a real woman. I'm made to feel like a bloody freak and it pisses me off!

There is a tendency to glorify obesity and being terribly out of shape it seems as many men wil fuck anyone it seems. I'm by no means a size 8, but nor am a BBW, somewhere in the middle I guess, yet where are all the people sying I'm 'half a real woman' lol

Are you saying that fat people aren't attractive to anyone and should be seen as an anything? That isn't a very open minded attitude either is it.

People are free to find what they like attractive-Fab caters to all tastes

As long as you're ok with being lumped in with the anything's you talk of. "

where did she call anyone an "anything" that seems to be your bias not hers.

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester


"if I ever comment on these threads we get a barrage of messages from men telling us how they really love BBW's and find them really attractive, when point out that I am not a BBW but merely commenting they suddenly actually prefer average sized women...funny that.

I enjoy getting messages from profiles which state they're only looking for slim women, under size 12 only, "I keep myself fit at the gym, I expect you to do the same" (that was a good'un). Makes me wonder how many of these slim temptresses they've been rejected by before breaking all their own rules....

Nah ~ we all know men don't read before messaging

Don't tar us all with the same brush laydee!

Moi?!

I did put a and a for good measure...."

I know you secretly meant it, the and were just clever disguises

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I'm not into skinny women at all really. There is an upper size limit in my head but to describe that I'd find impossible. Having been with skinny, average and bigger ladies, my preference is for the average to larger end both aesthetically and in terms of the feel of them. Hope that doesn't sound too bad!

why did you message me then ?

i am a slim woman,its my choice sorry if people want big ones.

i think the real women start at 16 comments are utterly laughable

i am pretty sure the trumpet blowing for large women is because the men know the stereotypically good looking women wont respond to them so in their minds they are taking the easy option.which is an insult to the big women."

Some men genuinely don't fancy stereotypically good looking women in the slim or even average range.

It takes all sorts and all sorts are available here.

I don't meet the profile requirements for some people but when I have met them at a club (mostly not playing with them) they are eager enough to contact me to try and arrange a meet.

No one needs to be rude about personal characteristics. Size seems to be the new black.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not into skinny women at all really. There is an upper size limit in my head but to describe that I'd find impossible. Having been with skinny, average and bigger ladies, my preference is for the average to larger end both aesthetically and in terms of the feel of them. Hope that doesn't sound too bad!

why did you message me then ?

i am a slim woman,its my choice sorry if people want big ones.

i think the real women start at 16 comments are utterly laughable

i am pretty sure the trumpet blowing for large women is because the men know the stereotypically good looking women wont respond to them so in their minds they are taking the easy option.which is an insult to the big women.

Fat women know it's bullshit; thin women know it's bullshit, average women know it's bullshit; it's only the men who do it who are still deluding themselves that this kind of flattery to larger women by putting down slim women will help them to pull."

I don't care who tries to blow smoke up my arse,if I don't find someone attractive I won't fuck them whatever physical shape they are in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All depends. My best Fab Friend lists herself on here as large, but is beautifully shaped and utterly gorgeous.

You see slimmer men and ladies who aren't that attractive.

Size is not the only thing which makes someone attractive or sexy. "

sexy is NOT a dress size..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You see fab is a sex site men here looking for fast lane sex no strings some don't even wish to see you in public or know you so really don't care if your working out every day to keep slim or not as not looking to date you .... Woman now we are more picky .. Why a lot not into beer tummy s .

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

Your first sentence is horrible. Correct me if wrong but you said that only hard up guys like larger ladies?

Also I haven't seen any put downs of slimmer ladies on this thread.

I think he may of been referring to the comment that 'real' women start at size 16, there are always plenty of snidey comments on these threads about bags of bones, anorexic looks, stick insects etc just look at some old threads

I for one are sick of being made to feel disgusting because I'm a size 8,because I'm not a real woman. I'm made to feel like a bloody freak and it pisses me off!

Does it really make you feel disgusting, reading some misguided comments from men on here who have just sussed that fat women are more likely to have low self esteem as a result of being regularly put down for their looks in the real world, and therefore by their estimation are an easier target?

I'd choose size 8 and a few shitty comments on here (this doesn't mean I don't think they're shitty, there's no need) than size 18 with compliments on here but some of the abuse I've had in the street any day of the week.

I can't change my build,I am who I am. I also don't want to change,but whenever women's sizes are mentioned on here,the slimmer women are alway's referred to as being skinny and said in a negative way. Beauty comes from within as well,it's not just our shell,I may not have hugely womanly curves,my 14 year old daughter has more curves than I do,but it doesn't make me any less a 'real' woman.

I completely agree with you, and there's no need for the negative comments on here. But surely you can see (as I as a larger lady certainly can) that it's all just a whole load of bullshit and the same men blowing smoke up my ass for my 'curves' would probably drop me like a hot stone for the chance of a meet with you as a size 8? "

No not at all,I did originally say I wouldn't change my size,but on reflection I would like to be more curvy. I think it's been ingrained in me that I'm not a real woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

Your first sentence is horrible. Correct me if wrong but you said that only hard up guys like larger ladies?

Also I haven't seen any put downs of slimmer ladies on this thread.

I think he may of been referring to the comment that 'real' women start at size 16, there are always plenty of snidey comments on these threads about bags of bones, anorexic looks, stick insects etc just look at some old threads

I for one are sick of being made to feel disgusting because I'm a size 8,because I'm not a real woman. I'm made to feel like a bloody freak and it pisses me off!

Does it really make you feel disgusting, reading some misguided comments from men on here who have just sussed that fat women are more likely to have low self esteem as a result of being regularly put down for their looks in the real world, and therefore by their estimation are an easier target?

I'd choose size 8 and a few shitty comments on here (this doesn't mean I don't think they're shitty, there's no need) than size 18 with compliments on here but some of the abuse I've had in the street any day of the week.

I can't change my build,I am who I am. I also don't want to change,but whenever women's sizes are mentioned on here,the slimmer women are alway's referred to as being skinny and said in a negative way. Beauty comes from within as well,it's not just our shell,I may not have hugely womanly curves,my 14 year old daughter has more curves than I do,but it doesn't make me any less a 'real' woman.

I completely agree with you, and there's no need for the negative comments on here. But surely you can see (as I as a larger lady certainly can) that it's all just a whole load of bullshit and the same men blowing smoke up my ass for my 'curves' would probably drop me like a hot stone for the chance of a meet with you as a size 8?

No not at all,I did originally say I wouldn't change my size,but on reflection I would like to be more curvy. I think it's been ingrained in me that I'm not a real woman!"

speaking as a bum perve squats should be part of everyone's morning routine :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

Your first sentence is horrible. Correct me if wrong but you said that only hard up guys like larger ladies?

Also I haven't seen any put downs of slimmer ladies on this thread.

I think he may of been referring to the comment that 'real' women start at size 16, there are always plenty of snidey comments on these threads about bags of bones, anorexic looks, stick insects etc just look at some old threads

I for one are sick of being made to feel disgusting because I'm a size 8,because I'm not a real woman. I'm made to feel like a bloody freak and it pisses me off!

Does it really make you feel disgusting, reading some misguided comments from men on here who have just sussed that fat women are more likely to have low self esteem as a result of being regularly put down for their looks in the real world, and therefore by their estimation are an easier target?

I'd choose size 8 and a few shitty comments on here (this doesn't mean I don't think they're shitty, there's no need) than size 18 with compliments on here but some of the abuse I've had in the street any day of the week.

I can't change my build,I am who I am. I also don't want to change,but whenever women's sizes are mentioned on here,the slimmer women are alway's referred to as being skinny and said in a negative way. Beauty comes from within as well,it's not just our shell,I may not have hugely womanly curves,my 14 year old daughter has more curves than I do,but it doesn't make me any less a 'real' woman.

I completely agree with you, and there's no need for the negative comments on here. But surely you can see (as I as a larger lady certainly can) that it's all just a whole load of bullshit and the same men blowing smoke up my ass for my 'curves' would probably drop me like a hot stone for the chance of a meet with you as a size 8?

No not at all,I did originally say I wouldn't change my size,but on reflection I would like to be more curvy. I think it's been ingrained in me that I'm not a real woman!"

We can swap then, because the real world has ingrained on me that I'm lazy, greedy, unworthy, a drain on the NHS and disgusting for having a BMI that puts me in the obese bracket.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Can i ask all you men out there what some of you think of larger ladies?

What do you see in them.

Im a larger lady myself and sometimes feel very conscious of undressing in front of strangers even though they say they love curves."

I'm going to stick my head above the parapet and give my honest (for me) answer.

I do not find significantly overweight women physically attractive. I might love someone's personality and enjoy their company, but, if they are what I consider to be obese then I am simply not turned on by them.

It has been suggested that 'most men on here will shag any woman they get the chance to meet'. Well, if that is indeed the case, then I am happy to say that I am one of the small minority who will not.

On a closing note, if I were gay or bisexual then I am sure that I would feel precisely the same way about seriously overweight men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your happy being big why worry I say . if your not do something about it ... ..i think this post was about op feeling not her best ..why let others get you down ...

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Thinking about something a male friend has said in the past, I wonder if a big part of the men liking larger women (for those who do) is the larger boobies that come with the larger woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking about something a male friend has said in the past, I wonder if a big part of the men liking larger women (for those who do) is the larger boobies that come with the larger woman?

"

they tend to be a big on the saggy side though, i quite like pert boobs but pert, natural and big is a very very rare thing to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking about something a male friend has said in the past, I wonder if a big part of the men liking larger women (for those who do) is the larger boobies that come with the larger woman?

"

Yes I like big boobs, I like big bums, and I seem to find larger women attractive, can't be a coincidence!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking about something a male friend has said in the past, I wonder if a big part of the men liking larger women (for those who do) is the larger boobies that come with the larger woman?

they tend to be a big on the saggy side though, i quite like pert boobs but pert, natural and big is a very very rare thing to see."

Mine sag far less when I'm fatter, because there's more fat keeping them inflated

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By *ricerMan
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees

I don't think size is an issue other than for those who are very shallow, it's all about the person and their personality!!

I do find some larger women are conscious of there size, and some lack confidence, but this is where we can help by taking them out on a social or a meet and be proud to be with them, help boost their confidence!!

Some not so large women suffer confidence issues and the same applies!!

Embrace yourselves, your being and enjoy life, it's too short for worrying about appearances - you are who you are!!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Thinking about something a male friend has said in the past, I wonder if a big part of the men liking larger women (for those who do) is the larger boobies that come with the larger woman?

they tend to be a big on the saggy side though, i quite like pert boobs but pert, natural and big is a very very rare thing to see."

Yep, mine sag when I lay on my side. On my back they look like big buns with dark cherries on top (from my _iewing angle). Straight on they teardrop.

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe


"Can i ask all you men out there what some of you think of larger ladies?

What do you see in them.

Im a larger lady myself and sometimes feel very conscious of undressing in front of strangers even though they say they love curves."

They normally more down to earth and not up their own arses or full of emselves lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking about something a male friend has said in the past, I wonder if a big part of the men liking larger women (for those who do) is the larger boobies that come with the larger woman?

they tend to be a big on the saggy side though, i quite like pert boobs but pert, natural and big is a very very rare thing to see."

Might not sag so much on Mars

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I don't think size is an issue other than for those who are very shallow, it's all about the person and their personality!!

I do find some larger women are conscious of there size, and some lack confidence, but this is where we can help by taking them out on a social or a meet and be proud to be with them, help boost their confidence!!

Some not so large women suffer confidence issues and the same applies!!

Embrace yourselves, your being and enjoy life, it's too short for worrying about appearances - you are who you are!! "

and they will hopefully return the favours of socials to the larger, lower confidence guys whose self esteem lowers each time they send a message and get no where....

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I don't think size is an issue other than for those who are very shallow, it's all about the person and their personality!!

"

Sorry, I take offence at the idea that I and others might be deemed 'shallow' because we do not find significantly overweight people physically attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

Your first sentence is horrible. Correct me if wrong but you said that only hard up guys like larger ladies?

Also I haven't seen any put downs of slimmer ladies on this thread.

I think he may of been referring to the comment that 'real' women start at size 16, there are always plenty of snidey comments on these threads about bags of bones, anorexic looks, stick insects etc just look at some old threads

I for one are sick of being made to feel disgusting because I'm a size 8,because I'm not a real woman. I'm made to feel like a bloody freak and it pisses me off!

Does it really make you feel disgusting, reading some misguided comments from men on here who have just sussed that fat women are more likely to have low self esteem as a result of being regularly put down for their looks in the real world, and therefore by their estimation are an easier target?

I'd choose size 8 and a few shitty comments on here (this doesn't mean I don't think they're shitty, there's no need) than size 18 with compliments on here but some of the abuse I've had in the street any day of the week.

I can't change my build,I am who I am. I also don't want to change,but whenever women's sizes are mentioned on here,the slimmer women are alway's referred to as being skinny and said in a negative way. Beauty comes from within as well,it's not just our shell,I may not have hugely womanly curves,my 14 year old daughter has more curves than I do,but it doesn't make me any less a 'real' woman.

I completely agree with you, and there's no need for the negative comments on here. But surely you can see (as I as a larger lady certainly can) that it's all just a whole load of bullshit and the same men blowing smoke up my ass for my 'curves' would probably drop me like a hot stone for the chance of a meet with you as a size 8?

No not at all,I did originally say I wouldn't change my size,but on reflection I would like to be more curvy. I think it's been ingrained in me that I'm not a real woman!

speaking as a bum perve squats should be part of everyone's morning routine :p

"

They used to be for me,I called them pliès though. My knees don't allow me to squat low any more.

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By *te tMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I don't think size is an issue other than for those who are very shallow, it's all about the person and their personality!!

Sorry, I take offence at the idea that I and others might be deemed 'shallow' because we do not find significantly overweight people physically attractive."

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Can i ask all you men out there what some of you think of larger ladies?

What do you see in them.

Im a larger lady myself and sometimes feel very conscious of undressing in front of strangers even though they say they love curves.

They normally more down to earth and not up their own arses or full of emselves lol x "

And how do you figure that one out?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't think size is an issue other than for those who are very shallow, it's all about the person and their personality!!

Sorry, I take offence at the idea that I and others might be deemed 'shallow' because we do not find significantly overweight people physically attractive."

welcome to fab where you can be in the wrong whatever you say or do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can i ask all you men out there what some of you think of larger ladies?

What do you see in them.

Im a larger lady myself and sometimes feel very conscious of undressing in front of strangers even though they say they love curves.

They normally more down to earth and not up their own arses or full of emselves lol x "

I only appear to be "up my own arse" when I say thanks but no thanks......

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By *te tMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I don't think size is an issue other than for those who are very shallow, it's all about the person and their personality!!

Sorry, I take offence at the idea that I and others might be deemed 'shallow' because we do not find significantly overweight people physically attractive.

"

I like all shapes and sizes, but it should be down to each individual preferences x

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Can i ask all you men out there what some of you think of larger ladies?

What do you see in them.

Im a larger lady myself and sometimes feel very conscious of undressing in front of strangers even though they say they love curves.

They normally more down to earth and not up their own arses or full of emselves lol x "

Why do these type of threads always turn into slanging matches? It always seems the op's of these type of threads start them then sit back quietly and watch the nastiness unfold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear, now larger ladies tend to have saggy breasts as well according to the expert on here. Couldn't make this shit up lol. Must be great being a perfect specimen. Loads of larger ladies on here look great even with so called "saggy breasts" .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

Your first sentence is horrible. Correct me if wrong but you said that only hard up guys like larger ladies?

Also I haven't seen any put downs of slimmer ladies on this thread.

I think he may of been referring to the comment that 'real' women start at size 16, there are always plenty of snidey comments on these threads about bags of bones, anorexic looks, stick insects etc just look at some old threads

I for one are sick of being made to feel disgusting because I'm a size 8,because I'm not a real woman. I'm made to feel like a bloody freak and it pisses me off!

Does it really make you feel disgusting, reading some misguided comments from men on here who have just sussed that fat women are more likely to have low self esteem as a result of being regularly put down for their looks in the real world, and therefore by their estimation are an easier target?

I'd choose size 8 and a few shitty comments on here (this doesn't mean I don't think they're shitty, there's no need) than size 18 with compliments on here but some of the abuse I've had in the street any day of the week.

I can't change my build,I am who I am. I also don't want to change,but whenever women's sizes are mentioned on here,the slimmer women are alway's referred to as being skinny and said in a negative way. Beauty comes from within as well,it's not just our shell,I may not have hugely womanly curves,my 14 year old daughter has more curves than I do,but it doesn't make me any less a 'real' woman.

I completely agree with you, and there's no need for the negative comments on here. But surely you can see (as I as a larger lady certainly can) that it's all just a whole load of bullshit and the same men blowing smoke up my ass for my 'curves' would probably drop me like a hot stone for the chance of a meet with you as a size 8?

No not at all,I did originally say I wouldn't change my size,but on reflection I would like to be more curvy. I think it's been ingrained in me that I'm not a real woman!

speaking as a bum perve squats should be part of everyone's morning routine :p

They used to be for me,I called them pliès though. My knees don't allow me to squat low any more."

have you tried glute bridges? must less strain on the knees, but still very effective.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"

Why do these type of threads always turn into slanging matches? It always seems the op's of these type of threads start them then sit back quietly and watch the nastiness unfold "

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I don't think size is an issue other than for those who are very shallow, it's all about the person and their personality!!

I do find some larger women are conscious of there size, and some lack confidence, but this is where we can help by taking them out on a social or a meet and be proud to be with them, help boost their confidence!!

Some not so large women suffer confidence issues and the same applies!!

Embrace yourselves, your being and enjoy life, it's too short for worrying about appearances - you are who you are!! "

It's an issue for me. I wasn't happy bigger and I don't find very overweight men attractive. And I'm not shallow. That's a ridiculous thing to say. On a site like this the first thing that I notice are photos to see if there's an attraction. Then I'll chat and see if the personality is there. But you cos be the nicest person in the world but If im not attracted to you it ain't gonna happen.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Can i ask all you men out there what some of you think of larger ladies?

What do you see in them.

Im a larger lady myself and sometimes feel very conscious of undressing in front of strangers even though they say they love curves.

They normally more down to earth and not up their own arses or full of emselves lol x "

yea right......you do make me laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think size is an issue other than for those who are very shallow, it's all about the person and their personality!!

Sorry, I take offence at the idea that I and others might be deemed 'shallow' because we do not find significantly overweight people physically attractive."

It's not offensive,we all have traits or physical appearances that put us off others. My grievance is calling people "anything's". It's not just fat women that are called that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont Have any problem at all if anything the curvier ladies out there are better to be with than the so called fit ones

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )


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Love larger ladies - real women begin at size 16 xxxx"

Really? Do any woman under a size 16 isn't real?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where's Arnie in Kindergarten Cop when you need him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I have already said ......

I love all women no matter shape age or size, all women are beautiful and should be treated as such.

My mum brought me up well x

People who have an issue with size age and shape should take a good look at themselves, vanity is a horrible trait!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite love these threads the desperate sucking up from the hard up guys, the put downs of women who aren't obease while at the same time saying "all sizes are beautiful", the attempts to shame someone for having a preference when it comes to size from the same people who vehemently defend the "no blacks/Asians" profiles as "preference".

It's always a chuckle.

The mental gymnastics of some folk would be a better watch than the Olympics finals.

Your first sentence is horrible. Correct me if wrong but you said that only hard up guys like larger ladies?

Also I haven't seen any put downs of slimmer ladies on this thread.

I think he may of been referring to the comment that 'real' women start at size 16, there are always plenty of snidey comments on these threads about bags of bones, anorexic looks, stick insects etc just look at some old threads

I for one are sick of being made to feel disgusting because I'm a size 8,because I'm not a real woman. I'm made to feel like a bloody freak and it pisses me off!

Does it really make you feel disgusting, reading some misguided comments from men on here who have just sussed that fat women are more likely to have low self esteem as a result of being regularly put down for their looks in the real world, and therefore by their estimation are an easier target?

I'd choose size 8 and a few shitty comments on here (this doesn't mean I don't think they're shitty, there's no need) than size 18 with compliments on here but some of the abuse I've had in the street any day of the week.

I can't change my build,I am who I am. I also don't want to change,but whenever women's sizes are mentioned on here,the slimmer women are alway's referred to as being skinny and said in a negative way. Beauty comes from within as well,it's not just our shell,I may not have hugely womanly curves,my 14 year old daughter has more curves than I do,but it doesn't make me any less a 'real' woman.

I completely agree with you, and there's no need for the negative comments on here. But surely you can see (as I as a larger lady certainly can) that it's all just a whole load of bullshit and the same men blowing smoke up my ass for my 'curves' would probably drop me like a hot stone for the chance of a meet with you as a size 8?

No not at all,I did originally say I wouldn't change my size,but on reflection I would like to be more curvy. I think it's been ingrained in me that I'm not a real woman!

speaking as a bum perve squats should be part of everyone's morning routine :p

They used to be for me,I called them pliès though. My knees don't allow me to squat low any more.

have you tried glute bridges? must less strain on the knees, but still very effective."

Never heard of them. I'll have a Google

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I have already said ......

I love all women no matter shape age or size, all women are beautiful and should be treated as such.

My mum brought me up well x

People who have an issue with size age and shape should take a good look at themselves, vanity is a horrible trait!

"

So is a vain woman beautiful?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

What a lot of pent up (and not so withheld) aggression on here.

Let's all have a mass debate and let it go. Cum on now, all together...

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I don't think size is an issue other than for those who are very shallow, it's all about the person and their personality!!

I do find some larger women are conscious of there size, and some lack confidence, but this is where we can help by taking them out on a social or a meet and be proud to be with them, help boost their confidence!!

Some not so large women suffer confidence issues and the same applies!!

Embrace yourselves, your being and enjoy life, it's too short for worrying about appearances - you are who you are!!

It's an issue for me. I wasn't happy bigger and I don't find very overweight men attractive. And I'm not shallow. That's a ridiculous thing to say. On a site like this the first thing that I notice are photos to see if there's an attraction. Then I'll chat and see if the personality is there. But you cos be the nicest person in the world but If im not attracted to you it ain't gonna happen. "

Well said and right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Never heard of them. I'll have a Google "

they're very good can be body weight or weighted too (but need a bar i think for weighted dunno if you could safety improvise with something else.)

i find they have helped with my lower back pain too (not sure if you have that but bad knees and bad backs seem to go hand in hand lol)

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"As I have already said ......

I love all women no matter shape age or size, all women are beautiful and should be treated as such.

My mum brought me up well x

People who have an issue with size age and shape should take a good look at themselves, vanity is a horrible trait!

"

So now im vain because I was unhealthily overweight and chose to do something about it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can i ask all you men out there what some of you think of larger ladies?

What do you see in them.

Im a larger lady myself and sometimes feel very conscious of undressing in front of strangers even though they say they love curves.

Love larger ladies - real women begin at size 16 xxxx"

all women are real women. You can praise larger women without putting others down. I'm real, have a pulse and everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You see fab is a sex site men here looking for fast lane sex no strings some don't even wish to see you in public or know you so really don't care if your working out every day to keep slim or not as not looking to date you .... Woman now we are more picky .. Why a lot not into beer tummy s . "

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"

Never heard of them. I'll have a Google

they're very good can be body weight or weighted too (but need a bar i think for weighted dunno if you could safety improvise with something else.)

i find they have helped with my lower back pain too (not sure if you have that but bad knees and bad backs seem to go hand in hand lol)"

Ive done them with a bar, dumbells and even just a plate. And a 4 year old lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very real and i am far from a size 16!

I have never seen so much crap in all my life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this thread nearly finished? I want to go and get a kebab.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"

People who have an issue with size age and shape should take a good look at themselves, vanity is a horrible trait!

"

...and I suppose the mere idea that you might like to keep yourself in shape and try to look your best is therefore also a 'horrible trait'

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"What a lot of pent up (and not so withheld) aggression on here.

Let's all have a mass debate and let it go. Cum on now, all together..."

Will there be cake at the debate? If so I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Never heard of them. I'll have a Google

they're very good can be body weight or weighted too (but need a bar i think for weighted dunno if you could safety improvise with something else.)

i find they have helped with my lower back pain too (not sure if you have that but bad knees and bad backs seem to go hand in hand lol)

Ive done them with a bar, dumbells and even just a plate. And a 4 year old lol x"

where'd you balance the dumbells one on each hip?

i wasn't sure if you could keep the form right as ive never tried weighted yet (bitch trying to find enough space in the tiny weights section at the gym, next year no gym subscription money is going on a rack and a bar lol)

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"

People who have an issue with size age and shape should take a good look at themselves, vanity is a horrible trait!

...and I suppose the mere idea that you might like to keep yourself in shape and try to look your best is therefore also a 'horrible trait' "

Yes apparently I should drop my knickers to the next 65 year old 30 stone guy who messages me as if i don't im just mean...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All feeling put upon for keeping fit or being slim go and stick the telly on or buy a magazine, there'll soon be something to reassure you that you are the golden ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Never heard of them. I'll have a Google

they're very good can be body weight or weighted too (but need a bar i think for weighted dunno if you could safety improvise with something else.)

i find they have helped with my lower back pain too (not sure if you have that but bad knees and bad backs seem to go hand in hand lol)

Ive done them with a bar, dumbells and even just a plate. And a 4 year old lol x"

I've done these before,didn't call them anything lol I'm going to try some later to see if there's any impact on my knees.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a lot of pent up (and not so withheld) aggression on here.

Let's all have a mass debate and let it go. Cum on now, all together...

Will there be cake at the debate? If so I'm in "

I'm eating ice cream and meringue :D

oh one tip though microwave chocolate cake this recipe has saved me so many times when i've forgotten to make a dessert.

4 tablespoons flour

4 tablespoons sugar

2 tablespoons cocoa

1 egg

3 tablespoons milk

3 tablespoons oil (personally i use 3 TBS butter though)

3 tablespoons chocolate chips (optional)

a small splash of vanilla extract

1 large coffee mug

Add dry ingredients to mug, and mix well. Add the egg and mix thoroughly. Pour in the milk and oil and mix well. Add the chocolate chips (if using) and vanilla extract, and mix again.

Put your mug in the microwave and cook for 3 minutes at 1000 watts (high). The cake will rise over the top of the mug, but don't be alarmed! Allow to cool a little, and tip out onto a plate if desired.

Cooking times may vary stick a skewer in to test (if it comes out clean its done)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I completely agree with you, and there's no need for the negative comments on here. But surely you can see (as I as a larger lady certainly can) that it's all just a whole load of bullshit and the same men blowing smoke up my ass for my 'curves' would probably drop me like a hot stone for the chance of a meet with you as a size 8? "

And that's probably the truest comment I've read on here

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

What a lot of pent up (and not so withheld) aggression on here.

Let's all have a mass debate and let it go. Cum on now, all together...

There's cake, sausage rolls, jelly and ice cream and clotted cream on one side of the room. The other has healthy stuff. Pick a side and abuse the people on the other side for their choices. Then get really confused that some thin people choose cake and some fat people choose carrot sticks.

Now just stick your hand in your pants and relax.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow there are some tactless white knights and arse kissers on here. a dress size, is no indication of shape. a slim framed lady could be fat at size 12, where as with my frame, when I was a size12 I looked like Id been starved. all boney, I looked unhealthy. height also plays a part, a 5'2 size 14 will look very different to a 5'10 size 14.

slim women can have just as nice curves as average or fat.

what I find sexy in a woman as much as their figure, is there attitude, personality, confidence. that can be found at a size 6, or a size 26.

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