FabSwingers.com forum: Falling in love with a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has any one had regular meets with someone and those meets have turned in to something a lot more? Or has anyone a meet with someone a few times and meet has told them they loved you?

It hasn't happened to me but I'm interested as we're all on here for the same reason, whether we are with a partner who actively joins us or whether we are single we are on here to have our scratch itched.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has any one had regular meets with someone and those meets have turned in to something a lot more? Or has anyone a meet with someone a few times and meet has told them they loved you?

I think it's it's happened, a lot more than people care to admit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone loves me.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It happens. Some have moved in together and some have even made it up the aisle.

For others it's the start of a one way set of feelings that cause pain and misery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened to me meet someone a few times last time I was on here and she messages me saying she loved me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far better to love yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Any whiff of anything other than friendship and all contact is severed. I'm not here for that and don't need emotional dramas in my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I admit i have

He knows how I feel but I knew his situation before getting involved

So I will make do ..... Being just a bit on the side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this site for real . No females want fun .

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

yes a few years back....he was always saying he loved me.... big big mistake funny though as now we don't even talk

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not through this site but I met someone through swinging, were great friends for a year then realised we had fallen in love. Nine years and blissfully happy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not through this site but I met someone through swinging, were great friends for a year then realised we had fallen in love. Nine years and blissfully happy

Brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy once who was a single dad after a few meets he wanted to move himself and his daughter into my house

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Everyone loves me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We didn't mean to ......!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Lust yes

Love no

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I admit i have

He knows how I feel but I knew his situation before getting involved

So I will make do ..... Being just a bit on the side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone loves me.

Damn...i was just too obvious wasnt i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. Any whiff of anything other than friendship and all contact is severed. I'm not here for that and don't need emotional dramas in my life."

I've always had this approach from day 1 on here.

If i wanted to date. . I'd delete myself off fab.

(And I'm not a dating kind of guy)

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

"Nope. Any whiff of anything other than friendship and all contact is severed. I'm not here for that and don't need emotional dramas in my life.

I've always had this approach from day 1 on here.

If i wanted to date. . I'd delete myself off fab.

(And I'm not a dating kind of guy)

this!

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

"Everyone loves me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a guy once who was a single dad after a few meets he wanted to move himself and his daughter into my house

Well that sounds like he was looking for a home not a partner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has any one had regular meets with someone and those meets have turned in to something a lot more? Or has anyone a meet with someone a few times and meet has told them they loved you?

Lust yes

But not love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Far better to love yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 years ago i got talking to Natalie in the chatrooms... Fast forward to now and i moved to Bolton from Sunderland and life couldn't be any better

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Lust plenty of times xx Cant rule love out i guess its part of life xx If we both wanted to be part of each others then its more than possible xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have... However I'd never fall in love again... Its awful so my emotions are locked up tight and only the heat and sexual passion is ever shown.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

Well actually

I've met someone recently

Seen him 6 times so far

We are officially dating I suppose

He cares for me a lot

Who knows what will happen but I certainly asked for a certain type of man to date

And he's just that type

So yes it can and does happen

Even had a dozen red roses off him today

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By *iss InnocenceWoman
over a year ago

Coventry/Bristol

Madly in lust wiv sumone

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"Well actually

I've met someone recently

Seen him 6 times so far

We are officially dating I suppose

He cares for me a lot

Who knows what will happen but I certainly asked for a certain type of man to date

And he's just that type

So yes it can and does happen

Even had a dozen red roses off him today

Thats great good luck to you both xx

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By *iss InnocenceWoman
over a year ago

Coventry/Bristol

"Well actually

I've met someone recently

Seen him 6 times so far

We are officially dating I suppose

He cares for me a lot

Who knows what will happen but I certainly asked for a certain type of man to date

And he's just that type

So yes it can and does happen

Even had a dozen red roses off him today

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By *iss InnocenceWoman
over a year ago

Coventry/Bristol

"5 years ago i got talking to Natalie in the chatrooms... Fast forward to now and i moved to Bolton from Sunderland and life couldn't be any better

Arrrrh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be telling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a problem with feeling emotion towards people I like being intimate with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"5 years ago i got talking to Natalie in the chatrooms... Fast forward to now and i moved to Bolton from Sunderland and life couldn't be any better

That poor poor woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once bitten twice shy ...lesson learnt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, I have. It ended last September after two years.

Never.

Ever.

Again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried it once. Got publically humiliatedk. Won't be doing that again.

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

Think this Site probably Creates More Divorces than Marriages

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Think this Site probably Creates More Divorces than Marriages

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

I met someone from the chat rooms here in august 2013........we got married two weeks ago

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I met someone from the chat rooms here in august 2013........we got married two weeks ago

Congratulations.

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

Lust yes love no

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I met someone from the chat rooms here in august 2013........we got married two weeks ago

Congratulations!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think this Site probably Creates More Divorces than Marriages

That's probably very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No feelings from me for anyone on here other than lust and physical. I have had men want an exclusive relationship or say I should have less men in my life. Funny isn't it. I don't care how many women they are fucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fell in love with someone on here last year but kept it to myself until he said he'd fallen for me.

I was happy but also not over my ex so couldn't really handle it and asked him to back off, carried on seeing him until he left here in april.

Was nice knowing i could still have those feelings for someone but also confusing and complicated at the same time.

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By *iss InnocenceWoman
over a year ago

Coventry/Bristol

"I met someone from the chat rooms here in august 2013........we got married two weeks ago

Congrats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv no wish to date, if I thought I was getting too attached to someone, It would be time to stop seeing them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me.....never ever again!

Although it is easier to tell a fellow swinger that you like him than tell someone you're dating that you're a swinger....

I think people on fab have a similar mindset to each other and that inevitably people will fall for each other.

I think swingers have much more honest and open relationships and if that's what you're looking for it's more likely to be found in this type of community than a conventional dating site.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I don't make myself available that way. Any hint that someone's moving in a different dimension to me and I'd close it. Yes, I get to develop feelings for people, especially such as my current eight year fb, but it's not love and romance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone loves me.

Bet the guy from the other days post didnt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fall in love easy. Show me attention and I'm all yours. Give me an orgasm and well, we'll be inseparable. I LOVE YOU RIGHT HAND XXXXXXX ( and you lefty...you're sooo good with those balls mmmmmm)

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"Happened to me.....never ever again!

Although it is easier to tell a fellow swinger that you like him than tell someone you're dating that you're a swinger....

I think people on fab have a similar mindset to each other and that inevitably people will fall for each other.

I think swingers have much more honest and open relationships and if that's what you're looking for it's more likely to be found in this type of community than a conventional dating site."

Never ever..

you mean except with me obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not happened to me but I've had chats with guys on here that say they could never get in a relationship with someone off here cos they're not the type of women they'd want to be with! I hate that they judge like that cos just cos were on a sex site it doesn't make us easy or not worthy of a relationship. I must admit tho if it were to happy to me I think they'd be a bit of be worrying that they were on here stagging about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does happen, met my boyfriend off here and been together 2 years and have a wonderful daughter together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not looking for love on here just good fucking

Lust happens, but not happened in a while on here for me.

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

Myself and my bf met on here and I know he is not shagging about because he does not need to. He has my support to meet who he wants to and part of hype fun is knowing what each other is doing, if indeed you chose to do tot. I think anyone ca cheat on anyone, they don't need to be on Fabs to do it. I also think that any man who could not see himself having a relationship with a woman on here is maybe scared of a woman's sexuality, or does not understand it. Poor them, I would say .... But just my opinion, of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once met a scaffolder off a hook up website. He was one of the roughest fucks id ever had. Met him a few more times before he told me he didn't want me seeing other men. He was very dominant and possessive and staked his claim there and then. I agreed and we had a very intense relationship. Crazy good sex. Ultimately didn't last but we had fun with it and definitely enjoyed each other. I was completely monogamous to him. We still meet up for fun occasionally and will always care for him.

I've also met a few men who fell for me even though I told them I was only looking for no strings.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

"I met someone from the chat rooms here in august 2013........we got married two weeks ago

Well done you

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"It does happen, met my boyfriend off here and been together 2 years and have a wonderful daughter together.

Congrats to you and all those who have found soulmates here its great xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Myself and my bf met on here and I know he is not shagging about because he does not need to. He has my support to meet who he wants to and part of hype fun is knowing what each other is doing, if indeed you chose to do tot. I think anyone ca cheat on anyone, they don't need to be on Fabs to do it. I also think that any man who could not see himself having a relationship with a woman on here is maybe scared of a woman's sexuality, or does not understand it. Poor them, I would say .... But just my opinion, of course."

Good point about being scared

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

good lord No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it happened so be it.

But on here im looking for nsa fun,fantasies to be fulfilled and great fucking

And so far i haven't been disappointed

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By *nne CallanWoman
over a year ago

Nothing to see here. Please move along.

Met my man at a fab social November 2013. We now live together. Love my Dutchie to bits. Wasnt looking for love neither was he. Love found us

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By *iz78Woman
over a year ago

wirral

Hope for me yet

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

yes we had to stop meeting a couple year,s ago got to friendly started to go out every weekend with them. She wanted Paul to meet her on his own with out me and her husband knowing. She even suggested separate holidays with each other,s partner

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"Met my man at a fab social November 2013. We now live together. Love my Dutchie to bits. Wasnt looking for love neither was he. Love found us"

Love finds us all in the end xx Congrats xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes we had to stop meeting a couple year,s ago got to friendly started to go out every weekend with them. She wanted Paul to meet her on his own with out me and her husband knowing. She even suggested separate holidays with each other,s partner "

That's not on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In 2011 I found a guy on here who lived in hull, used to watch him in cam then exchanged numbers, then chatted for about 4 months everyday and I finally decides to get the train up to hull and meet him. Following weekend he arrived at my house on a Friday and left on the Sunday, this continues for about 13 months, him coming down for full weekends and bank holidays and me catching the train up there. I said I couldn't handle the distance anymore and said he'd have to move here (I couldn't cos I have a child) He said he couldn't leave his job and friends so I said let's call it day then. 6 weeks later he gets back in touch saying he'd move here blah blah blah, I let him come down one weekend but by that time I didn't like him in the same way. Thinking back it was the train ride and the packed lunch that I enjoyed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't have a problem with feeling emotion towards people I like being intimate with."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In 2011 I found a guy on here who lived in hull, used to watch him in cam then exchanged numbers, then chatted for about 4 months everyday and I finally decides to get the train up to hull and meet him. Following weekend he arrived at my house on a Friday and left on the Sunday, this continues for about 13 months, him coming down for full weekends and bank holidays and me catching the train up there. I said I couldn't handle the distance anymore and said he'd have to move here (I couldn't cos I have a child) He said he couldn't leave his job and friends so I said let's call it day then. 6 weeks later he gets back in touch saying he'd move here blah blah blah, I let him come down one weekend but by that time I didn't like him in the same way. Thinking back it was the train ride and the packed lunch that I enjoyed. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Met my man at a fab social November 2013. We now live together. Love my Dutchie to bits. Wasnt looking for love neither was he. Love found us"

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

It can be the good, the bad and damn right ugly...lol. I wouldn't say I fell in love but there were feelings right person, wrong time and wrong place...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it happened so be it.

But on here im looking for nsa fun,fantasies to be fulfilled and great fucking

And so far i haven't been disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep! I was sworn off men until I went for a meat with Hornball69 and boom, won over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It'd be nice just to make some friends!

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"I met someone from the chat rooms here in august 2013........we got married two weeks ago

That's lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes meet Ad on here Feb 2011 we got married Aug 2013 had baby April last year.still very much happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep...

I met andy on here we have been together 19 months and living

Together for the same length of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happened to me.....never ever again!

Although it is easier to tell a fellow swinger that you like him than tell someone you're dating that you're a swinger....

I think people on fab have a similar mindset to each other and that inevitably people will fall for each other.

I think swingers have much more honest and open relationships and if that's what you're looking for it's more likely to be found in this type of community than a conventional dating site.

Never ever..

you mean except with me obviously

Of course

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres only 1 person ive met more than once. I can see them becoming a good friend but cabt imagine developing feelings more than that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know RG fell in love with her previous guys technique and cock, wether feelings were involved I doubt it but with time I think yes. They used to make love instead of fuck so it's only a matter of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think im a little infatuiated with my fb..

I dont want to be

But I am

Not what I planned on fabs

This is not going to end well

Maybe im a masochist !!!

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By *aramelMINXWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I met someone last November from FAB and he fell in love with me

I told him from the start it was just fun

he used to get annoyed all the time when I didn't feel the same about him,when I didn't put kisses in my messages... when I just wanted fun... caused alot of arguments

then I just ended it I was so frustrated with his pressure.

Now after not being in touch 3 4 months we send the odd texts here and there but he still tells me he loves me.

not what I wanted

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Not here for any of that, however, a meeting of minds and feeling of like mindedness (for us) is a must for sparks to fly but strictly for the meet circumstances. Meets and real life, again, for us, are not to be blurred.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not here for any of that, however, a meeting of minds and feeling of like mindedness (for us) is a must for sparks to fly but strictly for the meet circumstances. Meets and real life, again, for us, are not to be blurred. "

Wowser, I think I'm in love... Oh wait, damn it!

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