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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's quite cute when genuine nice people politely reject you by saying "your not ugly your just not my type" lol

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"It's quite cute when genuine nice people politely reject you by saying "your not ugly your just not my type" lol"

Read between the lines.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's quite cute when genuine nice people politely reject you by saying "your not ugly your just not my type" lol

Read between the lines. "

I fully understand what they really mean lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's quite cute when genuine nice people politely reject you by saying "your not ugly your just not my type" lol

Read between the lines. "

I fully understand what they really mean lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's quite cute when genuine nice people politely reject you by saying "your not ugly your just not my type" lol"

That's nice. I don't know why people can't say no nicely anyway. I know some don't take it well but even so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's quite cute when genuine nice people politely reject you by saying "your not ugly your just not my type" lol

That's nice. I don't know why people can't say no nicely anyway. I know some don't take it well but even so."

I so prefer a polite "no" rather than being ignored, I prefer I polite "yes" ideally but hey.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even being ignored is polite.

They're refraining from saying 'eurgggghh, not a chance'

We just accept that we know not every person is gonna find us attractive and me may even actively repulse some. Does it bother us? Not in the slightest.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"It's quite cute when genuine nice people politely reject you by saying "your not ugly your just not my type" lol

Read between the lines.

I fully understand what they really mean lol"

But there is no such thing as ugly...

You could look like the elephant man to one person while looking like Brad Pitt to another, so it IS just down to "types"...?

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

For example, there is a lot of hype about Tom Hardy and Jason Stathom, but if they messaged me on here I'd turn them down as they are not attractive to ME. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My other pet hate is people adding you but never saying a word lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even being ignored is polite.

They're refraining from saying 'eurgggghh, not a chance'

We just accept that we know not every person is gonna find us attractive and me may even actively repulse some. Does it bother us? Not in the slightest. "

Yes! Some guys i just wanna tell them to fuck off. I just politely ignore them instead.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"For example, there is a lot of hype about Tom Hardy and Jason Stathom, but if they messaged me on here I'd turn them down as they are not attractive to ME. x"

Ooh I'll take Jason thank you very muchie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's quite cute when genuine nice people politely reject you by saying "your not ugly your just not my type" lol"

I don't give reasons to why im not interested.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For example, there is a lot of hype about Tom Hardy and Jason Stathom, but if they messaged me on here I'd turn them down as they are not attractive to ME. x

Ooh I'll take Jason thank you very muchie "

God yes.

Or hugh jackman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's quite cute when genuine nice people politely reject you by saying "your not ugly your just not my type" lol

Read between the lines.

I fully understand what they really mean lol

But there is no such thing as ugly...

You could look like the elephant man to one person while looking like Brad Pitt to another, so it IS just down to "types"...?"

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"For example, there is a lot of hype about Tom Hardy and Jason Stathom, but if they messaged me on here I'd turn them down as they are not attractive to ME. x

Ooh I'll take Jason thank you very muchie

God yes.

Or hugh jackman"

Nooo, Hugh Jackman's mine!!!

Unless you're willing to share?

- Amy. x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"For example, there is a lot of hype about Tom Hardy and Jason Stathom, but if they messaged me on here I'd turn them down as they are not attractive to ME. x

Ooh I'll take Jason thank you very muchie "

And I'll have Tom if he's at a loose end.. You can keep jason x

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By *ewsburyfun4uCouple
over a year ago

dewsbury

I don't really have type.. Its more personality... What more annoys me is when a guy messages and says can't believe you won't reply to me look at some of guys you've fucked on your veris...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For example, there is a lot of hype about Tom Hardy and Jason Stathom, but if they messaged me on here I'd turn them down as they are not attractive to ME. x

Ooh I'll take Jason thank you very muchie

God yes.

Or hugh jackman

Nooo, Hugh Jackman's mine!!!

Unless you're willing to share?

- Amy. x"

Have i got to share.

Or we take turns and your lovely partner can have me too

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"For example, there is a lot of hype about Tom Hardy and Jason Stathom, but if they messaged me on here I'd turn them down as they are not attractive to ME. x

Ooh I'll take Jason thank you very muchie

God yes.

Or hugh jackman

Nooo, Hugh Jackman's mine!!!

Unless you're willing to share?

- Amy. x

Have i got to share.

Or we take turns and your lovely partner can have me too "

Deal.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"It's quite cute when genuine nice people politely reject you by saying "your not ugly your just not my type" lol

I don't give reasons to why im not interested.

X"

Think it's the best way, as some will try to overcome the reasons for rejection, a bit like sales people finding out what's stopping you from purchasing, so that they can smash that barrier down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's quite cute when genuine nice people politely reject you by saying "your not ugly your just not my type" lol

I don't give reasons to why im not interested.

X

Think it's the best way, as some will try to overcome the reasons for rejection, a bit like sales people finding out what's stopping you from purchasing, so that they can smash that barrier down."

I agree as some will try to say "why am i fat,ugly etc"

If i say no in a pub or club i dont give reasons why so why should here be different

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