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By *lassyandadventurous OP Man
over a year ago

England and Wales

I am a long stayer...i can fuck for ages...

Problem is i can only cum out of a condom ......

Is this common lol??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that an excuse so you can go BB?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I don't see a problem. Keep going and when everyone is ready to stop withdraw, remove the condom and cum into your hand.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It's psychology. Try wanking with a condom on.. Or cum in her mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Empty the load in the pussey

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

"I don't see a problem. Keep going and when everyone is ready to stop withdraw, remove the condom and cum into your hand.

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By *lassyandadventurous OP Man
over a year ago

England and Wales

Great advice so far lol

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Sounds like you have delayed ejaculation. Similar to premature, but at the other end of the spectrum. Not that common. Most fellas don't seek help cos some bird along with the help of their own ego is telling them it's a good thing, that they are a stallion or some such.

I'd go to the doctors. Will much improve your sex life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it's time, pull out, whip off the plastic wrapper and artex the headboard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally find it an insult if a guy takes ages to cum. It's like I haven't turned him on enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally find it an insult if a guy takes ages to cum. It's like I haven't turned him on enough."

You would have loved me last week then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally find it an insult if a guy takes ages to cum. It's like I haven't turned him on enough.

You would have loved me last week then

With a body like yours I'd love you whenever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same problem, I have to really concentrate if I'm to cum in a condom, takes some of the fun out of it. Can't cum from blowjobs either although I enjoy them and they bring me close, but no cigar, so to speak. It's either my hand or a wet pussy. I need a girlfriend!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I personally find it an insult if a guy takes ages to cum. It's like I haven't turned him on enough."

I prefer them not to cum at all.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

"I don't see a problem. Keep going and when everyone is ready to stop withdraw, remove the condom and cum into your hand.

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By *lassyandadventurous OP Man
over a year ago

England and Wales

I cant tell my doctor about this...!..

unless its the new asian lady doctor at my practise..

Shes hot

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Can you not with draw and get the lady to finish you off with her mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Porn-conditioned?

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

"I cant tell my doctor about this...!..

unless its the new asian lady doctor at my practise..

Shes hot

You definitely can lol.

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

"I personally find it an insult if a guy takes ages to cum. It's like I haven't turned him on enough.

You would have loved me last week then

See that just sounds like a challenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See that just sounds like a challenge

so you like a challenge? well I have one for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try different condoms.

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

hubby is like 6 mins or 6 hrs !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can't cum in a condom then you will have to either get her to mastrrbate you, do it yourself or not cum or of course go bareback with a willing partner.

I'm sure you wouldn't use the 'i can't cum in a condom' line to put pressure on a woman to.go bareback would you?

It will be a problem to some of course but if told in advance then they just won't meet with you so all good really. I personally don't choose long stayers because it would bore me and I'd have to leave.

There are people who match each others desires, you just have to find them.

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

Great thing for me is I can chum quickly with the right person, or toy, and then again and again and then there's the gush ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take a good while to cum when fucking my Pepper but the moment she goes on all fours I start to cum in seconds I just luv it ! Something about her ass just don't know what it is !!

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

Because you are so romantic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck with that old chestnut!

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By *lassyandadventurous OP Man
over a year ago

England and Wales

No i never ever go bareback...im too consious for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally find it an insult if a guy takes ages to cum. It's like I haven't turned him on enough."

I had an ex who thought this and actually spent half the night crying because she thought I wasn't attracted to her etc!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe focus with one lady for now? Find out what makes you cum obvious without a condom and work out why a condom stops that. Regardless of me just being with mr we use condoms on the odd occasion to sorta.. keep things fun as it were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cant tell my doctor about this...!..

unless its the new asian lady doctor at my practise..

Shes hot :-

You definitely can lol. "

If you can tell a bunch of strangers.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally find it an insult if a guy takes ages to cum. It's like I haven't turned him on enough."
years ago I would of found it an insult as I would think I hadn't turned him on enough.But nowadays I've learnt to listen to the man ....although only happened once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm proper turned on it doesn't take me long.

Though if it's a big load the first time that impacts on how much I cum afterwards.

Sometimes I'm bang in the mood for penetration which can be frustrating as i love splattering faces, but if I've already cum quite heavily through penetration then no matter how furiously I wank nothing comes out.

But then if I switch back to penetration I'll cum. .. no problem. That's usually because I'm really turned on.

Depends how much I want penetrative sex with her at the time.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

I have a similar issue with delayed ejaculation, sometimes it just doesn't happen at all but over the years I've learnt to live with it, it has up and down sides.

I made a post about it a while back and it's actually not uncommon, just inform them in advance and if they turn you down don't worry about it.

Better than the alternative of them thinking it's their fault, a condom on or off plays no part in it for me though obviously bareback feels better but that's the trade off for having safe fun.

I think regarding the condoms issue that's a personal issue you need to talk to someone professional about.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

"I personally find it an insult if a guy takes ages to cum. It's like I haven't turned him on enough."

Backwards sexism right there, the belief that if a guy has sexual problems it's bad and there's something wrong with them/you.

In this day and age I should hope we're past such stigmas, comments like that stop the people who need sexual help (primarily men) from getting it out of embarrassment.

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By *lassyandadventurous OP Man
over a year ago

England and Wales

Im not hung up on it

It has its positives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally find it an insult if a guy takes ages to cum. It's like I haven't turned him on enough."
Its something we cant control, it just happens, same as how long you can fuck for, depends on all things, the next time we might cum within seconds lol and some think its to quick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To quote Boris the animal.

Let's agree to disagree.

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By *lassyandadventurous OP Man
over a year ago

England and Wales

Its been one day now....and i still havent cum lol

Im knackered!

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

"I personally find it an insult if a guy takes ages to cum. It's like I haven't turned him on enough.

Backwards sexism right there, the belief that if a guy has sexual problems it's bad and there's something wrong with them/you.

In this day and age I should hope we're past such stigmas, comments like that stop the people who need sexual help (primarily men) from getting it out of embarrassment. "

True enough. The problem is that men and women just do not understand each other, we think in entirely different ways.

When, generally speaking men do something which women don't like, it's called sexism. The other way round no one cares.

It's a complex issue, and boils down to the high societal value of female sexuality in contrast with the low and disposable value of the males. That's why society views women who sleep around as slags whilst men are heroes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally find it an insult if a guy takes ages to cum. It's like I haven't turned him on enough.

Backwards sexism right there, the belief that if a guy has sexual problems it's bad and there's something wrong with them/you.

In this day and age I should hope we're past such stigmas, comments like that stop the people who need sexual help (primarily men) from getting it out of embarrassment.

True enough. The problem is that men and women just do not understand each other, we think in entirely different ways.

When, generally speaking men do something which women don't like, it's called sexism. The other way round no one cares.

Or not.

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Or not.

Please elaborate oh wise one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or not.

Please elaborate oh wise one. "

I'd maybe agree with you if the statements weren't so sweeping and generalised.

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Or not.

Please elaborate oh wise one.

I'd maybe agree with you if the statements weren't so sweeping and generalised. "

One cannot discuss anthropology without generalisation or sweeping statements...

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By *lassyandadventurous OP Man
over a year ago

England and Wales

I cum !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know where the op is on this one

I've had a couple of meets where the lady has said i was 'too in control' its not that at all. I love to fuck, the orgasm is always a little end hence its called a climax so I think over the years I have got to the point where I cum when im ready and I really want to cum, I think some ladies have had men just bolt there load in 10 minutes and if I'm 45 mins in they think I'm not enjoying it...which is far from it..but I never really have sex just to cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know where the op is on this one

It's nice when a man has control and takes his time,when he isn't banging away for ages. It seems like he's just trying to make his enjoyment last and doesn't care about mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally find it an insult if a guy takes ages to cum. It's like I haven't turned him on enough."

Don't ever go with a guy on high doses of citalopam then lol.

When I was on that plus the painkillers after the crash deciding to have a wank meant clearing the whole afternoons schedule lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally find it an insult if a guy takes ages to cum. It's like I haven't turned him on enough.

Don't ever go with a guy on high doses of citalopam then lol.

When I was on that plus the painkillers after the crash deciding to have a wank meant clearing the whole afternoons schedule lol"

I'll remember to ask them before meeting then

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