FabSwingers.com forum: do i meet or not

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok before I joined fab last October I choked on a piece of garlic bread n ended up in hospital since then ive had a bad cough that has steadily gotta worse n developed into a sore throat my doc is sending me for tests and suspects my voicebox/throat is damaged

My question is should I still go on meets as im not sure oral is wise atm especially deep throat witch I love doing

Also my cough is so bad I choke n cough up clear fluid and even worse often wet myself ggross I no.

I don't want to miss out on any fun tho n lose the interest of my men

Wot would you guys do as this issue may well drag on along time

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Don't meet until it has cleared up

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Your health is more important than a meet,get the issue sorted out

Anyone who loses interest because of that is'nt worth meeting anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers _iew its so frustrating as the rest of me works lol noticed my voice has changed too now lol im tuning into Barry white

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your health is more important than a meet,get the issue sorted out

Anyone who loses interest because of that is'nt worth meeting anyway"

ur a star thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gut reaction would be to say don't meet till cleared up. However you have said you dint want to miss any fun. With that in mind explain the situation to any potential meetee. At least then they are prepared.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Gut reaction would be to say don't meet till cleared up. However you have said you dint want to miss any fun. With that in mind explain the situation to any potential meetee. At least then they are prepared."

Thats a good idea thanks mite even put a new argument to the squirting is it wee thread lmfao it is now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats a good idea thanks mite even put a new argument to the squirting is it wee thread lmfao it is now!"

Haha indeed. As purehoneypot said, anyone not understanding is not worth your time anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a serious suggestion. Have you tried milk chocolate? It's great for soothing sore throats temporarily and helps calm coughs.

I'd definitely consider putting meets on hold though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is a serious suggestion. Have you tried milk chocolate? It's great for soothing sore throats temporarily and helps calm coughs.

I'd definitely consider putting meets on hold though."

No i haven't ill try that ive been drinking cold iced water x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your health is more important than a meet,get the issue sorted out

Anyone who loses interest because of that is'nt worth meeting anyway"

great advice

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'd avoid the deep throat. Keep things light until your health is sorted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't stop you having socials tho

If we were closer I wouldn't hesitate cheering you up with a social meet x

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

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"This is a serious suggestion. Have you tried milk chocolate? It's great for soothing sore throats temporarily and helps calm coughs.

I'd definitely consider putting meets on hold though.

No i haven't ill try that ive been drinking cold iced water x "

Room temperature water or warm/hot water is much better for your throat (coming from a singer) good luck. Oh, if it were me i'd probably wait til I was better. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are taking time out due to ill health. Get yourself better first is my advice. You can still chat to people or have socials in the meantime.

All the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is a serious suggestion. Have you tried milk chocolate? It's great for soothing sore throats temporarily and helps calm coughs.

I'd definitely consider putting meets on hold though.

No i haven't ill try that ive been drinking cold iced water x

Room temperature water or warm/hot water is much better for your throat (coming from a singer) good luck. Oh, if it were me i'd probably wait til I was better. X"

Vocalzone lozenges could also be helpful. They're an acquired taste though...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Doesn't stop you having socials tho

If we were closer I wouldn't hesitate cheering you up with a social meet x"

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is a serious suggestion. Have you tried milk chocolate? It's great for soothing sore throats temporarily and helps calm coughs.

I'd definitely consider putting meets on hold though.

No i haven't ill try that ive been drinking cold iced water x

Room temperature water or warm/hot water is much better for your throat (coming from a singer) good luck. Oh, if it were me i'd probably wait til I was better. X"

Ok cheers ill experiment

Its just embarrassing lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is a serious suggestion. Have you tried milk chocolate? It's great for soothing sore throats temporarily and helps calm coughs.

I'd definitely consider putting meets on hold though.

No i haven't ill try that ive been drinking cold iced water x

Room temperature water or warm/hot water is much better for your throat (coming from a singer) good luck. Oh, if it were me i'd probably wait til I was better. X

Vocalzone lozenges could also be helpful. They're an acquired taste though..."

Ok thanks I think since Xmas ive tryed every type of medicine im working thro sweets as we speak so far covonia is the one that helps the best x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

When I was under investigation for cervical cancer (all clear thank god) I put all thoughts of meeting on hold, your health is far more important then when everything is sorted, you can always catch up on the fun you have missed, but I wish you well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't stop you having socials tho

If we were closer I wouldn't hesitate cheering you up with a social meet x"

fuck that

socials wants me to have more than just a coffee and a chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would always assume a social is just that.....a social.

I might want to play but I'd be a good boy-until instructed otherwise

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think ill take all your advice. N stick to socials for now n see how it pans out unless of course anyone is into watersports lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think ill take all your advice. N stick to socials for now n see how it pans out unless of course anyone is into watersports lmfao

If you're worried about your throat then you could always meet and not give oral?

I've accidently peed when gagging, most men don't care. I even puked on someones cock once...he didn't care and we wiped it up and carried on, i blamed it on him buying me dinner haha.

I actually could confess to worse stuff than this and the guy didn't care but i will shh now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your worried about the wee problem you can get some of those balls from love honey , they do work! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think ill take all your advice. N stick to socials for now n see how it pans out unless of course anyone is into watersports lmfao

If you're worried about your throat then you could always meet and not give oral?

I've accidently peed when gagging, most men don't care. I even puked on someones cock once...he didn't care and we wiped it up and carried on, i blamed it on him buying me dinner haha.

I actually could confess to worse stuff than this and the guy didn't care but i will shh now."

Brilliant lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your health is more important than a meet,get the issue sorted out

Anyone who loses interest because of that is'nt worth meeting anyway"

This. Doesn't sound like you'd be able to relax and enjoy yourself anyway, so you won't be missing out.

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By *r jblMan
over a year ago

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Take time out girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was under investigation for cervical cancer (all clear thank god) I put all thoughts of meeting on hold, your health is far more important then when everything is sorted, you can always catch up on the fun you have missed, but I wish you well

this is me (jane) at the moment. Just chatting and social meeting till I get the all clear.Your health is the most important thing and if people don't respect that they are not worth meeting anyway.

Hope you get sorted soon xx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Have the meets with controlled conditions, where your health is protected but you all get the type of fun that will satisfy you.

Inform your partners in advAnce of thw situation and what you wont be doing. Also that you may need to cut it short, if you get an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get that cough checked out too, sounds a little like sinusitis but a persistent hacking cough needs looking at.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all gonna stick with socials for now xxxx

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