FabSwingers.com forum: Woman scared off by bi sexual guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just wondered if the fact I have bi sexual on my profile puts women off. I'm an easy going guy who likes women just as much as guys but I seem to only get guys message me but I do love to please women too and sometimes I want female company. Appreciate any sensible comments thanks

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it disgusts some, it attracts some......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your profile , veris and pics appeal way more to men than women .

Perhaps if you got to a social , or had a meet veri from a couple or a woman , and had a pic or two that appealed to women more it may help .

And there are a lot of couples and women who won't meet bi guys .

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BOO!!!!!

Right that's all the anti bi guy people gone, let's party with the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the same problem, I like a bit of cock, but also like to drink from pussy towers too

Seems to scare couples and females off though

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

We love bi guys as it is the only way we can both get some cock. But, just because we meet bi guys, doesn't mean we meet every bi guy. We still have to click. Love meeting TVs too, of course, actually that is our preference at the moment. Pepper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not exactly a tv but I always wear knickers haha

Been to a swingers club and everyone got to see them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't put me off.

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

For a 1-2-1 meet it doesn't matter to me if the guy is bi or straight and I don't really understand why in this context a woman would be put off by it.

For group meets I'd prefer bi guys, much more fun to be had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty sure being honest about my sexuality gets me way more female and couple interest than if I was just on here pretending to be a straight guy.

A short skirt seems to help too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh so I need a skirt to go with my lace knickers then haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really understand why in this context a woman would be put off by it."

It because we know too much. It intimidates some people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahhh so I need a skirt to go with my lace knickers then haha

It works for me. A few tiny bits of cloth and the messages just fill up my inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think your profile , veris and pics appeal way more to men than women .

Perhaps if you got to a social , or had a meet veri from a couple or a woman , and had a pic or two that appealed to women more it may help .

And there are a lot of couples and women who won't meet bi guys .

Good luck

I agree. You come across 100% man only not bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only wear knickers, I don't do any other female clothes, I just like the feel of lace or silk round my bits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It puts me off especially if they have lots of bum pics cos to me that seems like they're trying to get male attention more

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By *emini1637Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire

It doesn't bother me but looking at your profile it does, I think, edge towards men rather than women!? I love a guys bum but if your trying to attract more women maybe change your profile pics slightly x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Some people will be put off, others wouldn't give a monkeys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just wondered if the fact I have bi sexual on my profile puts women off. I'm an easy going guy who likes women just as much as guys but I seem to only get guys message me but I do love to please women too and sometimes I want female company. Appreciate any sensible comments thanks "
I don't understand why women tend not to want a bi guy. Perhaps they think there is more of a health risk involved but unless you are barebacking, which you shouldn't, then the risk is minimised. Illogical thinking in. Y book. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the same problem too. Maybe it is intimidating who knows. I just like to have a good time what's wrong with that??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with liking cock and pussy

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

in all my years on here, the one thing I have learned is not to give a flying fuck about people who have deselected me for their own preferences....

and that is because I don't give a flying fuck about the people that I have deselected.....

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

It's just a case of each to their own really.

Personally I wouldn't meet a bi guy either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have the same problem, I like a bit of cock, but also like to drink from pussy towers too

Seems to scare couples and females off though "

It's not scaring off its called sexual preference.. and some can't if they give blood .. we find way more couples that want bi guys and more women that find it a turn on.. so I don't get why guys complain as we find looking for straight guys is so hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only wear knickers, I don't do any other female clothes, I just like the feel of lace or silk round my bits

I prefer a warm mouth or pussy around mine but a bit of silk caressing my balls sounds nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"in all my years on here, the one thing I have learned is not to give a flying fuck about people who have deselected me for their own preferences....

and that is because I don't give a flying fuck about the people that I have deselected....."

Over four years ago when we first joined fab we used to get all het up over those who didn't want to meet us . We thought ' what's wrong with us then ? ' and when we posted on the forums we thought we must be pretty horrible people as no one seems to respond to our posts !

Anyway , this is our third stint on fab , and now we are wiser . Just like _iew , we don't give a hoot who doesn't want to meet us , and the silly worries about whether we get positive , negative or no response on the forum is less significant than who is gonna make the next cup,of coffee !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only wear knickers, I don't do any other female clothes, I just like the feel of lace or silk round my bits

I prefer a warm mouth or pussy around mine but a bit of silk caressing my balls sounds nice

Yeah that too

but for everyday feel I like my lace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you all look for in a profile? Want to make mine stand out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you all look for in a profile? Want to make mine stand out "

Try posting asking for profile critique then. In the meantime 6 out of seven of your pics are cock. That really helps you blend into the background with all the other cock pic profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you all look for in a profile? Want to make mine stand out

Try posting asking for profile critique then. In the meantime 6 out of seven of your pics are cock. That really helps you blend into the background with all the other cock pic profiles. "

Thank you,

Yeah I should try and take some different ones.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Appreciate the comments and of course understand everyone has preferences was just thinking out loud not moaning. I am easy going and laid back about everything sexual and people's outlook. I certainly don't get hetup worrying about it but feedback is good. I might just have to reconsider the photos on here to appeal to a more balanced profile. I now just need some women to meet and verify me, any ladies want to help lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think there is anything wrong with your photos they hardly scream Bisexual.

For every person it puts off there is someone who enjoys it and for some it's even a prerequisite.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Some people will be put off, others wouldn't give a monkeys.

Sadly, some people seem incapable of accepting they won't appeal to all and instead of focusing on those that are expect those not interested to justify their choice of sexual playmate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm neither intimidated or scared by bi men- just turned off. You'd be absolutely right not to give a feck about my preferences and instead look for those who share the same tastes as yourself. Much more productive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think I will give the forums a miss from now on lesson learnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive met 4 bi men and all of thrm wanted me to pleasure them anally.. This isnt my cup if tea and by 3 of the men a comment was made i need to just play with straight men... Im also not into fisting, watersports or poo so does that mean i have to go through everyones preferences before i agree to meet?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Think I will give the forums a miss from now on lesson learnt "

Why? Just join in where you want, post what you want under the rules and sometimes you might even enjoy it.

Bi men don't scare me - some of my best (non-Fab) friends are bi men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it does make a difference - particularly to narrow minded, stupid men who think that because you have a bi interest, you intend to jump their bones whenever you have the chance in much the same way as some folk cannot bear the thought of being in the presence of a gay person because lets face it Gays only want to shag you don't they .... ? Yeah right !

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It wouldnt bother me either.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I was married to a bi guy, I go out with a bi guy, and most of the guys I meet are bi

Don't think I could have a Ltr with a straight guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it does make a difference - particularly to narrow minded, stupid men who think that because you have a bi interest, you intend to jump their bones whenever you have the chance in much the same way as some folk cannot bear the thought of being in the presence of a gay person because lets face it Gays only want to shag you don't they .... ? Yeah right !"

This is spot on!

I may have a bi side, but this does not mean I want to suck every cock in the world! I am happy to play straight if the people im with dont like bi play, or I can play bi and all enjoy the fun, it doesn't have to be all about 2 men, im sure some women enjoy having double entry etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have the same problem, I like a bit of cock, but also like to drink from pussy towers too

Seems to scare couples and females off though "

Think for some it's the perception of an increase in the risk of std's - and bringing the possibility of HIV into the situation too! I've only (to my knowledge) slept with straight guys - but it's certainly not a golden rule!

There's a bi guy on fab I chat to regularly who is love to meet!! Get you're arse into gear Danny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am only into sucking, I dont fuck men, the use of toys is accepted though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to there own preference,

But would not appeal to me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think I will give the forums a miss from now on lesson learnt "

Don't be put off OP they may seem a bit ruthless but plenty of BI fans on here. Pull up a chair and you will soon see that whilst divided opinions abound on the forums it's quite fun!

For the record we don't partake but not because we fear your going to jump on a stray cock (yawn!!!!!!) It's the females decision because of simple vanilla reasons.

You have a great profile just keep being you.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Personally I prefer bi men. Espesh hot ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I prefer bi men. Espesh hot ones!

Where abouts in South east are you from puff?

I would love you to watch me sucking, could possibly teach me a thing or 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like bi men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always up for meeting people that are looking for bi males to play

Shame im not hot enough though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really understand why in this context a woman would be put off by it.

It because we know too much. It intimidates some people!

Could well be that, but it doesn't put me off, massive turn on to be fair

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

well why do u think theres so many "straight" guys on here ..if its women u want just pretend your straight. most find it a turn off if they think youve been fucking some guy .. even tho u might just like sucking cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we don't meet bi men cus I want all the cock for myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finally; a bit of honesty!

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

It doesn't scare me, I just don't want to meet bi guys. I was talking to my daughter about this yesterday funnily enough. She said she was the same. It's all about what we like and don't like. Nothing to do with prejudice or being homophobic, which I've been accused of in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find that to be absolutely true. There are so many profiles with just cock pictures. We all know what a cock looks like by now. Most of our pictures in friends are face pictures and we have several messages a day.

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

It dont scare me, but my preference is for straight guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It dont scare me, but my preference is for straight guys "

BOO!

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