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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I get weird requests from men. They don't phase me. They do make me feel sick at times. Most show that these men have NO knowledge whatsoever of female sexuality or for that matter human impossibilities.

I can't speak for women.

So ....... On the whole ( no pun intended )

Do women know more about pleasing men than men do about pleasing women.

Please feel free to get uppity and argue. I'll be gone in half an hour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I know nothing about pleasing men. Any pleasure I give is purely accidental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe that what is paramount is an ability to listen, and a willingness to learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel I have a good idea how to please a woman, but......everyone is different and it's different strokes for different folks x

Some fellas like their balls kicked, now that is definately not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe that what is paramount is an ability to listen, and a willingness to learn."

Failing that, a willingness to invest in wands by Hitachi.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I am still making a tally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So ....... On the whole ( no pun intended )

Do women know more about pleasing men than men do about pleasing women.

"

That's subjective as fuck.

What pleases one woman could be a total turnoff for another.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I believe that what is paramount is an ability to listen, and a willingness to learn.

Failing that, a willingness to invest in wands by Hitachi."

I was given one of them as a birthday present. Should I be using it on the male giver?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree that a lot, note I didn't say all, of men have no idea how to please a woman, they watch to much porn and think porn catered towards the male fantasy is what women like

the amount of guys I have met who haven't given oral is shocking and they are genuinely surprised when they ask me if I want to meet again and i say no and then go into to tell me how they though we got on and had a great night....

well yes I'm sure you did cause I was sucking your cock for the most of if

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body knowledge isn't always important. Being able to read people's reactions to what you're doing is probably better as anatomically women are essentially all the same but each one of them likes things to be done in different ways.

That being said, if you don't know where the clitoris is you're fucked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe that what is paramount is an ability to listen, and a willingness to learn.

Failing that, a willingness to invest in wands by Hitachi."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe that what is paramount is an ability to listen, and a willingness to learn.

Failing that, a willingness to invest in wands by Hitachi."

Hitachi? ... leave off.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"I believe that what is paramount is an ability to listen, and a willingness to learn.

Failing that, a willingness to invest in wands by Hitachi."

That might work for some women...but I can't stand the wand!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Body knowledge isn't always important. Being able to read people's reactions to what you're doing is probably better as anatomically women are essentially all the same but each one of them likes things to be done in different ways.

That being said, if you don't know where the clitoris is you're fucked!"

I agree

if you meet off here of course you won't know how they like things but you can hazard a guess once you start playing, reading their body language and responding to their noises should help you know what they expecially like

if I meet someone for the first time of course I'm not going to be the best shag they have had, I'm not that arrogant, but I always sure as hell try my best

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By *amcummerukMan
over a year ago

Woodsford

Care to give an example?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pssst,has she gone yet? That woman don't half ask some strange questions. Anyone thinks she's a bit doolally? You can tell the truth,she's not coming back to read it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe that what is paramount is an ability to listen, and a willingness to learn.

Failing that, a willingness to invest in wands by Hitachi."

Come near me with one of those things and you'll be wearing it

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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

Always willing to learn more about the female body and sexuality if you want to teach me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the OP is suggesting that for a guy,as long as he has his cock sucked a bit he and cums he's happier-hence easier to please!

Women can be a lot more sensual.It's all about gauging reactions,moans,movements etc

Of course there are some women who just want to be bent over and banged all over,so that's easy

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I believe that what is paramount is an ability to listen, and a willingness to learn."

^This, and to realise that everyone likes to be treated differently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe that what is paramount is an ability to listen, and a willingness to learn.

Failing that, a willingness to invest in wands by Hitachi.

That might work for some women...but I can't stand the wand!"

I'm glad it's not just me. It does nothing for me at all. Shows how different we all are.

OP- I think, as with everything. Some men definitely know how to please a woman and vice versa. Noticing the nuances in the other's reactions makes the difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe that what is paramount is an ability to listen, and a willingness to learn.

Failing that, a willingness to invest in wands by Hitachi.

That might work for some women...but I can't stand the wand!

I'm glad it's not just me. It does nothing for me at all. Shows how different we all are.

OP- I think, as with everything. Some men definitely know how to please a woman and vice versa. Noticing the nuances in the other's reactions makes the difference. "

I think a lot of it can be down to how selfish or selfless a lover is, male or female. how reactive are they to your body. Do they shut their eyes and go for it, or do they look in your eyes to see how you react to every move? Some people can tune in really quickly, some need more guidance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to please my men if they go away happy then come back for more i consider it a job well done any pleasure I recive is a bonus but I am a sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women who say he didn't know what he was doing or he came he cum he left are you talking about Men you met in the past or some Men you have met on here,

I just don't see the point of being on here wanting to meet Women and not wanting to please them in one way or the other but the same goes for Women wanting to meet Men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still figuring out what to do every time!

Every woman's body is unique, what every woman likes is unique and whatever that was 2 mins ago you can be damn sure it's different now

But isn't it so much fun working out what comes next?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I'm still figuring out what to do every time!

Every woman's body is unique, what every woman likes is unique and whatever that was 2 mins ago you can be damn sure it's different now

But isn't it so much fun working out what comes next? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kinda see what the OP means and I agree to an extent.

Now this is not true for all the guys on here (I've met some lovely ones) but for the majority, men seem to be deluded about the sexual needs of women. My inbox is full of 'come to my hotel now', 'I'd love to pound you with my 8 inches' and a barrage of cock pics (why do they think this is all we need to see?)...Then I look at the local news feed and it's mainly 'need my balls draining', 'need a pussy to fuck', 'who's gonna ride my cock' and so it goes on.

For once I'd like to read the news feed and see what is on offer for ME! One can but hope!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The focus on here seems mainly to be on oral sex both ways, to the detriment in my opinion anyway of further exploration and discovery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The focus on here seems mainly to be on oral sex both ways, to the detriment in my opinion anyway of further exploration and discovery."

It's easy to fixate on oral because it's so much fun to get naked and touch each other with your tongues.

But I totally agree with the wand comment above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The focus on here seems mainly to be on oral sex both ways, to the detriment in my opinion anyway of further exploration and discovery."

I totally agree. A mouth is not just for lips. And we have a whole body and 5 senses to use.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"The focus on here seems mainly to be on oral sex both ways, to the detriment in my opinion anyway of further exploration and discovery.

I totally agree. A mouth is not just for lips. And we have a whole body and 5 senses to use."

If it is to be so orally focused think about lips that brush your neck or your breath on her/his back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I agree

if you meet off here of course you won't know how they like things but you can hazard a guess once you start playing, reading their body language and responding to their noises should help you know what they expecially like

"

A huge turn on for me is having that conversation with a new partner before playing for the first time. Describing, suggesting, maybe even demonstrating....

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