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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's the best way to get verified when the majority of people are not interested unless you verified?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the best way to get verified when the majority of people are not interested unless you verified?"

Clubs socials or chat?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"What's the best way to get verified when the majority of people are not interested unless you verified?

Clubs socials or chat? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find that threats of violence and torture work well!

Maybe bribery too or extorsion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to explain why you can not travel or accommodate

Get some good photos and sell yourself in your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can get cam verified but it's better to attend a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat & web cams on here.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"You need to explain why you can not travel or accommodate

Get some good photos and sell yourself in your profile"

Why does he need to explain why he cant travel or accom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to explain why you can not travel or accommodate

Get some good photos and sell yourself in your profile

Why does he need to explain why he cant travel or accom?"

Most will assume Tha as he can not accom hes married, travel does he expect to be picked up and taken home after a meet?

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"You need to explain why you can not travel or accommodate

Get some good photos and sell yourself in your profile

Why does he need to explain why he cant travel or accom?

Most will assume Tha as he can not accom hes married, travel does he expect to be picked up and taken home after a meet? "

Most? Are you included in that?

I cant travel and accom, does that meN im married and expect to be picked up and dropped off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go in cam rooms on cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to explain why you can not travel or accommodate

Get some good photos and sell yourself in your profile

Why does he need to explain why he cant travel or accom?

Most will assume Tha as he can not accom hes married, travel does he expect to be picked up and taken home after a meet?

Most? Are you included in that?

I cant travel and accom, does that meN im married and expect to be picked up and dropped off?"

We would pass him by, if he messaged us and the message interested us we would ask

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"You need to explain why you can not travel or accommodate

Get some good photos and sell yourself in your profile

Why does he need to explain why he cant travel or accom?

Most will assume Tha as he can not accom hes married, travel does he expect to be picked up and taken home after a meet?

Most? Are you included in that?

I cant travel and accom, does that meN im married and expect to be picked up and dropped off?

We would pass him by, if he messaged us and the message interested us we would ask"

Therefor he can discuss his reasons if asked in private with people who are interested in meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course he can, but his profile is his shop window to attract people into contacting him,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry,the not been able to travel means not travel miles.i assumed most people could travel local.i should maybe change that as it could be misleading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry,the not been able to travel means not travel miles.i assumed most people could travel local.i should maybe change that as it could be misleading."

Indeed, maybe say how many miles you are willing to travel.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Op - put your travel range for meets in your profile, so viewers can see if you'd potentially match them. Derby has reasonably good public transport, so Nottingham, Chesterfield, Burton on Trent are just a few minutes away by train and bus, for example, if you're not driving.

As for verification - it is often expected by longer term members here, but not for everyone. As others state, focus on your profile and make yourself stand out, as even if tons of messages are sent by you, recipients will check out your profile, to see if you seem attractive/of interest to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need 22 verifications...... I will lend you some of my spares if you like.

Actually just joking. Seriously....get yourself to a club or a social..... Meet people there first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get to one of the local socials, the next Bradford one is in a couple of weeks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for the advise.it seems my profile needs some work and I need to attend a local social.im not into the cam thing but thanks for the tip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your avatar would put us off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok fair point.but I wouldn't message you anyway as you are a couple.but I can see that my avatar isn't very appealing to probably 99.99 percent of people on here.i can hope tho that with a little work my profile might attract the 0.01 percent that's left

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