FabSwingers.com forum: Relationships and you. Yes, you!

By *L Rogue OP Man
over a year ago

London

Seen a lot of heartache and confusion on some of these threads.

People here for fun and catching feelings and then wanting more or meeting in the hope that things will just head that way.

So what do we want and are we being honest with ourselves?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

From fab - its to fill a very physical need - I have a high sex drive, and a lover who lives 3 hours away, who I can't see that often.

I also like the friendship side of things from fab... and its easier to find like minded women and couples on here than on a night out

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Just what is it that you want to do?

We wanna be free

We wanna be free to do what we wanna do

And we wanna get loaded

And we wanna have a good time

That's what we're gonna do

(No way baby let's go)

We're gonna have a good time

We're gonna have a party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't help bond with people, it's part of how we're chemically made up. I think you have to be hard hearted or can go with how you feel, depends on who it's with and how they feel about you.

I'm only looking for NSA on here myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just rolling with the punches, letting the chips fall where they may.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

You gotta know when to hold em

Know when to fold em...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From fab - its to fill a very physical need - I have a high sex drive, and a lover who lives 3 hours away, who I can't see that often.

I also like the friendship side of things from fab... and its easier to find like minded women and couples on here than on a night out"

This minus the lover

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Not looking for a relationship full stop as I genuinely don't know how I would fit one in my life.

If it happens on here or in the real world then I would give it a chance but I am careful to watch my feelings when I meet off here and remember that it's just NSA.

Difficult when it's someone you can see yourself with though.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm honest about being open to a relationship but I find it harder to "catch feelings" these days.

I don't meet that many new people these days and just keep the friendships I have and value augmented with trips to clubs. I like sharing my sexual friends.

The non-sexual friendships on here are important to me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From fab.....I'm looking for hot steamy sex with a/some hot steamy guys. Those that understand the relationship I have with my husband are more desirable. Those that are capable of being able to separate feelings and emotion from fantastic sex are at the top of my list. Those that can do that on a fairly regular basis are very rare, but there are one or 2 i can rely on. I don't want needy emotional guys. I get all the emotional relationship bits from my husband. Yes I think I am completely honest about what I want.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Cake.

Honestly.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Cake.

Honestly.

I had a cake meet today. We just didn't eat it together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I a looking for cake as well, if anyone wants to bring some to mine when we meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to have fun. in and out the bedroom, I love the social side and chatting with ppl, but I want more than just sex, but I dont intend to date again, as have a mini me, and having had a failed relationship where she had got attatched to him and his kids Im not doing that again. Iv found what I want, an fwb.suits us both, and both free to see others for meets.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friendship , Passion , Lust & Laughter x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Seen a lot of heartache and confusion on some of these threads.

People here for fun and catching feelings and then wanting more or meeting in the hope that things will just head that way.

So what do we want and are we being honest with ourselves?

I was looking for nsa sexual encounters. Seven years of fun, met a man with a find em, fuck em and forget them attitude...eight months later he moved in, ten months on he's still here!

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By *ricerMan
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees

I've had my cake today and eaten it in the company of a very nice lady!!

Home made Victoria sponge with blackcurrant jelly, bitter icing and clotted cream!! Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nemo

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

For me its finding and making new friends, being social with others and pure physical contact that we all need from time to time. If i meet a woman through here and we become more than friends then i wont push her away. xx

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By *L Rogue OP Man
over a year ago

London

I'm not looking for a relationship as I work a lot and work anti-social hours. But I like to have fun when I can.

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By *L Rogue OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I'm honest about being open to a relationship but I find it harder to "catch feelings" these days.

I don't meet that many new people these days and just keep the friendships I have and value augmented with trips to clubs. I like sharing my sexual friends.

The non-sexual friendships on here are important to me too.

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By *L Rogue OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Seen a lot of heartache and confusion on some of these threads.

People here for fun and catching feelings and then wanting more or meeting in the hope that things will just head that way.

So what do we want and are we being honest with ourselves?

I was looking for nsa sexual encounters. Seven years of fun, met a man with a find em, fuck em and forget them attitude...eight months later he moved in, ten months on he's still here! "

I feel bad for people when it doesn't work out but love it when it does.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've been single now for so long and can't see it changing anytime soon, I think I will just stay for the fun, though I do have the never say never attitude, nobody knows what is round the corner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To compete my training and defeat Cobra Kai.

There is no room for failure in this dojo.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"I've been single now for so long and can't see it changing anytime soon, I think I will just stay for the fun, though I do have the never say never attitude, nobody knows what is round the corner.

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

Was looking to fab to help me get nsa and not the feelings but then my bf happened and we are strong together. We meet together as well as alone, are completely honest with each other and love what we have - the emotional bits as well as the sex. I think it comes when you are not looking.

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

Ehem... Somehow this thread spoke to me CL

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"Was looking to fab to help me get nsa and not the feelings but then my bf happened and we are strong together. We meet together as well as alone, are completely honest with each other and love what we have - the emotional bits as well as the sex. I think it comes when you are not looking. "

They say the best and strongest relationships happen when you stop looking and let things happen wish you both well.

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

London.

Just a bit of fun for what I seek , which I can't get in normal life....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking for adventures in what ever form they come; play, friendships or a few wild nights. I'm sometimes amazed at what and who's out there.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I want an understanding lady friend with benefits and a swinging couple where the guy is bi, to be friends with, not necessarily benefits.

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Joined FaB going from dogging to here, did not expect to have emotions kick in..but they have, now i face new emotions very raw and real, players come and go but the few who stay have given alot in the heart dept.

Where this goes i do not know, just go with the flow.x

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"Joined FaB going from dogging to here, did not expect to have emotions kick in..but they have, now i face new emotions very raw and real, players come and go but the few who stay have given alot in the heart dept.

Where this goes i do not know, just go with the flow.x"

Same for me really amazing place this and some truly amazing folks on here xx

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By *L Rogue OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Ehem... Somehow this thread spoke to me CL

oh Mae!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I cant imagine Id meet my partner here and I organise things to be no strings only. But i understand how it can happen, if you suddenly meet with and recognise someone youre feeling well matched with and heavily attracted to, whilst sharing very intimate fun together.

Mostly its just lust that can be manAged.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Seen a lot of heartache and confusion on some of these threads.

People here for fun and catching feelings and then wanting more or meeting in the hope that things will just head that way.

So what do we want and are we being honest with ourselves?

I was looking for nsa sexual encounters. Seven years of fun, met a man with a find em, fuck em and forget them attitude...eight months later he moved in, ten months on he's still here!

I feel bad for people when it doesn't work out but love it when it does.

This.

Except I don't really feel bad, so long as all parties end things in a civilised manner. Like any relationship started anywhere - if it's not meant to be it's not meant to be. Fab is no different.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I am absolutely not looking for love or a relationship. Been there, done that.

Quite happy as I am.

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By *L Rogue OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Seen a lot of heartache and confusion on some of these threads.

People here for fun and catching feelings and then wanting more or meeting in the hope that things will just head that way.

So what do we want and are we being honest with ourselves?

I was looking for nsa sexual encounters. Seven years of fun, met a man with a find em, fuck em and forget them attitude...eight months later he moved in, ten months on he's still here!

I feel bad for people when it doesn't work out but love it when it does.

This.

Except I don't really feel bad, so long as all parties end things in a civilised manner. Like any relationship started anywhere - if it's not meant to be it's not meant to be. Fab is no different.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No thank you......

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I've been one for the majority of my life

Didn't come on here for another one

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