FabSwingers.com forum: Speak, Meet Or Block

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seeing as I have not had a meet yet see how this goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seeing as I have not had a meet yet see how this goes

BLOCK

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Block.

I don't meet smokers or cheaters, (when I am meeting, which I'm not at the moment).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too young for me but block doesn't.seem fair

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

Block. I don't meet cheaters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't do any of them.

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

Only meets men, but again, block does not seem fair, we may be able to have a chat??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Block.

I don't meet smokers or cheaters, (when I am meeting, which I'm not at the moment)."

And there certainly seems to be a lot of cheaters on here lately. Or maybe it is their constant moaning on Forum threads about the fact no-one wants to meet them that makes us think there are more on here than ever.

Obviously they don't see the lifestyle side of Swinging, they just think they will make an appearance and get sex on tap.

Swinging is not the same as Cheating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only meets men, but again, block does not seem fair, we may be able to have a chat??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pint.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pint.

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

Speak x

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By *rSuave88Man
over a year ago

Mirfield

"Speak x

Meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Speak x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block. Don't do cheaters.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Block. Don't do cheaters."

Hmmm morels to so got to be meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speak, quite funny on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Speak, quite funny on the forums. "

Meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Speak, quite funny on the forums.

Meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Meet"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meet

Block

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Meet

Block "
you allredy have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meet

Block you allredy have

Pass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meet

Block you allredy have

Very true!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Meet

Block you allredy have

Pass"

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Meet

Block you allredy have

Very true!!

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Block.

I don't meet smokers or cheaters, (when I am meeting, which I'm not at the moment).

Obviously they don't see the lifestyle side of Swinging, they just think they will make an appearance and get sex on tap.

Swinging is not the same as Cheating."

I see the moral minority is out in force again. I think block is what you meant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Talk

Meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speak then meet

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By *exybum_30Woman
over a year ago

Speak x

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Speak x"

Speak & meat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet

And wow ice meat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Speak x"

Meet..xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Block.

I don't meet smokers or cheaters, (when I am meeting, which I'm not at the moment).

Obviously they don't see the lifestyle side of Swinging, they just think they will make an appearance and get sex on tap.

Swinging is not the same as Cheating.

I see the moral minority is out in force again. I think block is what you meant."

They Certainly made their point in this thread and a million others.

Disclaimer. I may have exaggerated there, but it fecking feels like that many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speak

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

"Speak "

Speak, meet, meet, meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Speak

Speak, meet, meet, meet

Meet......for a nice cup of tea!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Speak

Speak, meet, meet, meet

Meet......for a nice cup of tea!

Meet

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

"Speak

Speak, meet, meet, meet

Meet......for a nice cup of tea!

Meet

Meet.... You sound a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has this now changed from the op to the post above as there seems to be a lot of switch between lol

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Speak

Speak, meet, meet, meet

Meet......for a nice cup of tea!

Meet

Meet.... You sound a laugh

Meet.

Hey you gota have a giggle or 2 its the law and thanks for the compliment

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"Speak

Speak, meet, meet, meet

Meet......for a nice cup of tea!

Meet

Meet.... You sound a laugh

Meet.

Hey you gota have a giggle or 2 its the law and thanks for the compliment "

Meet! Not just for a drink though.....maybe some licking/sucking too

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Meet with Voddy included of course

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"Meet with Voddy included of course

Yes please

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By *rSuave88Man
over a year ago

Mirfield

Meet for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meet for sure

Meet

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By *tandingtallMan
over a year ago

york

"Meet for sure

Meet

Definite meet, that Irish accent uhhhhh...

Aren't the guys always just going to say meet?

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"Has this now changed from the op to the post above as there seems to be a lot of switch between lol"

I think someone should tell the OP that the meets on the thread aren't necessarily for him??

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Has this now changed from the op to the post above as there seems to be a lot of switch between lol

I think someone should tell the OP that the meets on the thread aren't necessarily for him??

Na leave him be he's off looking for supper saver deals on condom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seeing as I have not had a meet yet see how this goes

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block

(Apparently our earlier response to this question was deleted)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what has this guy done to be called a cheater as I am completely lost on this thread lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Speak "

Speak

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Has this now changed from the op to the post above as there seems to be a lot of switch between lol

I think someone should tell the OP that the meets on the thread aren't necessarily for him??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Speak

Speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Countryloving

Speak and hopefully meet if I was ever so lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's amazing how many people misread the post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what has this guy done to be called a cheater as I am completely lost on this thread lol "

He is cheating on his partner, pure and simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seeing as I have not had a meet yet see how this goes

Tag team. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So what has this guy done to be called a cheater as I am completely lost on this thread lol

He is cheating on his partner, pure and simple.

Well seeing as I have not met anyone yet I haven't technical cheated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But you intend to meet to cheat same thing buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But you intend to meet to cheat same thing buddy "
I'm not going in to the ins and outs of my relationship on here if I'm not for you thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But you intend to meet to cheat same thing buddy "

Exactly the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pmsl!

The amount of people who whine and moan about how blokes lie etc etc

Then along comes a fella like the OP who has been open and honest about it from day one and he gets all this bullshit.

And people wonder and get all pissed off when blokes lie? ...

Seriously this thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pmsl!

The amount of people who whine and moan about how blokes lie etc etc

Then along comes a fella like the OP who has been open and honest about it from day one and he gets all this bullshit.

And people wonder and get all pissed off when blokes lie? ...

Seriously this thread.

"
Amen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pmsl!

The amount of people who whine and moan about how blokes lie etc etc

Then along comes a fella like the OP who has been open and honest about it from day one and he gets all this bullshit.

And people wonder and get all pissed off when blokes lie? ...

Seriously this thread.

But he's still laying only now to his partner :p

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pmsl!

The amount of people who whine and moan about how blokes lie etc etc

Then along comes a fella like the OP who has been open and honest about it from day one and he gets all this bullshit.

And people wonder and get all pissed off when blokes lie? ...

Seriously this thread.

But he's still laying only now to his partner :p"
there's alot of women who are taken or married playing away on here and they get no stick why is this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pmsl!

The amount of people who whine and moan about how blokes lie etc etc

Then along comes a fella like the OP who has been open and honest about it from day one and he gets all this bullshit.

And people wonder and get all pissed off when blokes lie? ...

Seriously this thread.

Amen

There are sites out there for married and cheating people, have they had no luck there so they think they will strike it lucky on a Swingers site?

Is it because they think Swingers will fuck anyone regardless?

After all, Swingers want sex don't they?? It certainly seems like that's what some of these people think.

We know loads of Swingers, and they are very choosy. They take a very dim light on people lying to their partners.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

OP - None of the 3 options

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pmsl!

The amount of people who whine and moan about how blokes lie etc etc

Then along comes a fella like the OP who has been open and honest about it from day one and he gets all this bullshit.

And people wonder and get all pissed off when blokes lie? ...

Seriously this thread.

But he's still laying only now to his partner :p there's alot of women who are taken or married playing away on here and they get no stick why is this "

How many do you see highlighting themselves on a Forum?

They just quietly go on their way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pmsl!

The amount of people who whine and moan about how blokes lie etc etc

Then along comes a fella like the OP who has been open and honest about it from day one and he gets all this bullshit.

And people wonder and get all pissed off when blokes lie? ...

Seriously this thread.

Amen

There are sites out there for married and cheating people, have they had no luck there so they think they will strike it lucky on a Swingers site?

Is it because they think Swingers will fuck anyone regardless?

After all, Swingers want sex don't they?? It certainly seems like that's what some of these people think.

We know loads of Swingers, and they are very choosy. They take a very dim light on people lying to their partners."
This is the 1st site I have joined you don't know the start of anything so I am going to stop there

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Pmsl!

The amount of people who whine and moan about how blokes lie etc etc

Then along comes a fella like the OP who has been open and honest about it from day one and he gets all this bullshit.

And people wonder and get all pissed off when blokes lie? ...

Seriously this thread.

I agree with Greedy...

While we choose not to meet those that are cheating at least the OP is honest on his profile about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pmsl!

The amount of people who whine and moan about how blokes lie etc etc

Then along comes a fella like the OP who has been open and honest about it from day one and he gets all this bullshit.

And people wonder and get all pissed off when blokes lie? ...

Seriously this thread.

I agree with Greedy...

While we choose not to meet those that are cheating at least the OP is honest on his profile about it. "
thankyou I could of went down the same road as all the rest and said I was single but I fort no but I guess I was wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was pointing out the fact why no meets op was not a judgement

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was pointing out the fact why no meets op was not a judgement "
No1 wants to meet hahaha

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Pmsl!

The amount of people who whine and moan about how blokes lie etc etc

Then along comes a fella like the OP who has been open and honest about it from day one and he gets all this bullshit.

And people wonder and get all pissed off when blokes lie? ...

Seriously this thread.

I didn't give him bullshit. I just said I wouldn't be interested and why. Are we not allowed to be honest about our preferences and limits in return?

The OP and other cheaters are going to do what they're going to do. I'm not going to meet someone who is cheating just because they're honest about it to strangers.

I don't really care what the OP does, I just hope, as a passing thought, that his partner doesn't get hurt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pmsl!

The amount of people who whine and moan about how blokes lie etc etc

Then along comes a fella like the OP who has been open and honest about it from day one and he gets all this bullshit.

And people wonder and get all pissed off when blokes lie? ...

Seriously this thread.

I didn't give him bullshit. I just said I wouldn't be interested and why. Are we not allowed to be honest about our preferences and limits in return?

The OP and other cheaters are going to do what they're going to do. I'm not going to meet someone who is cheating just because they're honest about it to strangers.

I don't really care what the OP does, I just hope, as a passing thought, that his partner doesn't get hurt."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pmsl!

The amount of people who whine and moan about how blokes lie etc etc

Then along comes a fella like the OP who has been open and honest about it from day one and he gets all this bullshit.

And people wonder and get all pissed off when blokes lie? ...

Seriously this thread.

I didn't give him bullshit. I just said I wouldn't be interested and why. Are we not allowed to be honest about our preferences and limits in return?

The OP and other cheaters are going to do what they're going to do. I'm not going to meet someone who is cheating just because they're honest about it to strangers.

I don't really care what the OP does, I just hope, as a passing thought, that his partner doesn't get hurt.

We just hope that his partner does exactly the same back to him.

Karma is a bitch, and it should bite those who deserve it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pmsl!

The amount of people who whine and moan about how blokes lie etc etc

Then along comes a fella like the OP who has been open and honest about it from day one and he gets all this bullshit.

And people wonder and get all pissed off when blokes lie? ...

Seriously this thread.

I didn't give him bullshit. I just said I wouldn't be interested and why. Are we not allowed to be honest about our preferences and limits in return?

The OP and other cheaters are going to do what they're going to do. I'm not going to meet someone who is cheating just because they're honest about it to strangers.

I don't really care what the OP does, I just hope, as a passing thought, that his partner doesn't get hurt.

We just hope that his partner does exactly the same back to him.

Karma is a bitch, and it should bite those who deserve it.

"
If she does I am in no position to moan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pmsl!

The amount of people who whine and moan about how blokes lie etc etc

Then along comes a fella like the OP who has been open and honest about it from day one and he gets all this bullshit.

And people wonder and get all pissed off when blokes lie? ...

Seriously this thread.

But he's still laying only now to his partner :p there's alot of women who are taken or married playing away on here and they get no stick why is this "
Because someone men will do anything to try and get a shag and not want to hurt thier chances.

personal I treat men an women cheating exactly the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thx - speak and meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thx - speak and meet!

Meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thx - speak and meet!

Boldgirl.

Drinks gossip and laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thx - speak and meet!

Boldgirl.

Drinks gossip and laugh"

Id meet both of u xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't give him bullshit. I just said I wouldn't be interested and why. Are we not allowed to be honest about our preferences and limits in return?

Fuck me. You make the awesome assumption I'm talking specifically about you. ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thx - speak and meet!

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after seeing your face meet meet meet lick

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pass"

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I didn't give him bullshit. I just said I wouldn't be interested and why. Are we not allowed to be honest about our preferences and limits in return?

Fuck me. You make the awesome assumption I'm talking specifically about you. ...

Your post was a blanket statement as if everyone is giving him bullshit.

I didn't think you were talking specifically about me, more that you were having a pop at the entire thread and everyone on it. The criticism is coming from a few people on the thread, not everyone. Some people seem to think they are answering based on the poster above them and aren't even commenting to the OP.

Also, you didn't define bullshit. That could, for all we know, include someone saying they'd block because they don't meet cheats.

I've seen far worse threads vilifying cheats. This one - the bits I've read anyway - seems quite tame and certainly not worthy of the entire thread being slated.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I didn't give him bullshit. I just said I wouldn't be interested and why. Are we not allowed to be honest about our preferences and limits in return?

Fuck me. You make the awesome assumption I'm talking specifically about you. ...

Your post was a blanket statement as if everyone is giving him bullshit.

Also, you didn't define bullshit. That could, for all we know, include someone saying they'd block because they don't meet cheats.

I've seen far worse threads vilifying cheats. This one - the bits I've read anyway - seems quite tame and certainly not worthy of the entire thread being slated."
I totally understand I am going to get stick from alot of people and and maby some sexy time from some of the others

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Speak "

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Pmsl!

The amount of people who whine and moan about how blokes lie etc etc

Then along comes a fella like the OP who has been open and honest about it from day one and he gets all this bullshit.

And people wonder and get all pissed off when blokes lie? ...

Seriously this thread.

I didn't give him bullshit. I just said I wouldn't be interested and why. Are we not allowed to be honest about our preferences and limits in return?

The OP and other cheaters are going to do what they're going to do. I'm not going to meet someone who is cheating just because they're honest about it to strangers.

I don't really care what the OP does, I just hope, as a passing thought, that his partner doesn't get hurt.

We just hope that his partner does exactly the same back to him.

Karma is a bitch, and it should bite those who deserve it.

Not sure what you're saying here. Are you saying it's OK for a woman to cheat on a man if he's cheated on her but never OK for a man to cheat or what?

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