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By *usty OP Woman
over a year ago

inverclyde

why do ex husbands cause so many problems when they know that legally they have to pay the settlement money, mine is still delaying mine and I have been trying to buy a place since july but still no further forward, he is now going to ruin the relationship he has with his daughter so hell mend him on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can't children be left out of their parent's bickering. If I have a problem with my ex/w, or she with me, our daughter never gets to hear about it.

Happily, this isn't very frequent as we get on better now than we ever did when we were married to each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because exs have an amazing ability to convince themselves of an alterative truth. Making you into the devil of all devils, made from pure evil, you have poisoned the kids against them and you don't deserve any consideration whatsoever.

It takes them several or more years, if they ever get to grips with the truth at all.

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By *usty OP Woman
over a year ago

inverclyde

mine dont even speak to me or look at me, but he is holding back on the settlement and really making life miserable for me and his daughter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know some think offspring should not be involved but I talked to mine and explained there is a point where they have to decide and take a stand. They agreed we should all talk together and things got a little better when he realised things from the mouth of babes.

We are ok now. We are agreed that we shall remain always family, appreciate the good times, don't talk about the bad and don't see each other very often. Fine.

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