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To wink or not to wink?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've read some people don't respond to winks, I've seen some profiles that say "give us a wink"...

Personally, I like to wink, show interest, if it's not reciprocal I'll know by no response.

Anybody got any other thoughts?...

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

Don't bother with them it just looks like you have nothing to say.

Winking is easy, writing a message that captures attention and intrigues them into responding is not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winking to me just says like your profile or.pics but not interested in meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just had a cheeky wink. Happy with that one.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I've just had a cheeky wink. Happy with that one. "

You've miss counted try again

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

If a wink comes from a good profile I may respond,I don't feel guilty if I ignore them either

I don't blame guys for sending a wink of interest when the majority of thought out messages get ignored or deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just had a cheeky wink. Happy with that one.

You've miss counted try again "

Seen that one too.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I've just had a cheeky wink. Happy with that one.

You've miss counted try again

Seen that one too. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to wink at sexy peoples pictures and profile it shows an interest an ice breaker if a wink comes back fantastic then a message is sent its not everyone's thing

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Awwwww I got 1 too. I've gone all giddy now dancing round the room the lot.

A wink is still a contract for getting jiggie isn't it

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I love winking both IRL and on here.

I have been described as a total winker many times.

Incidentally with Platinum Site Membership you are not limited to one wink a month to the same person and have unlimited winks all day. The fun I have.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"Winking to me just says like your profile or.pics but not interested in meeting "

Yes. I agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mean to be rude but I disagree I love a wink and a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm intrested I wink ig I recived a wink and I'm interested I send a message

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

A wink takes a couple of seconds so you've not lost much effort. No point if profile states don't do it!

As with messages, busy recipients may not cope easily with the volumes - so don't assume others can immediately drop what they're doing, in astonishment at having received the sum total of 3 seconds effort.

I respond with a wink if intrigued or interested, though a months lapsed time must pass before you send another.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I must admit, I never look at my winks, so they are a bit of a waste for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do look at winks. Some have lead to fantastic things

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I only get em off bloke ......come on you can't blame a guy for trying it worked on the fabbed pic thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like winks.

I wink when I see s profile that interests me and am not sure whether I am their taste. So its testing the waters.

That's how I treat the ones I receive, as testing the waters. If they are local and I like their profile I will wink or message back.

As others have said I don't bother about ignoring a wink whereas messages are more of a pain.

I've had some very good things start from just a wink.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"I've read some people don't respond to winks, I've seen some profiles that say "give us a wink"...

Personally, I like to wink, show interest, if it's not reciprocal I'll know by no response.

Anybody got any other thoughts?..."

Read the profiles and wink the people who tell you to and message the ones who say don't wink.......easy

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I like winks.

I wink when I see s profile that interests me and am not sure whether I am their taste. So its testing the waters.

That's how I treat the ones I receive, as testing the waters. If they are local and I like their profile I will wink or message back.

As others have said I don't bother about ignoring a wink whereas messages are more of a pain.

I've had some very good things start from just a wink. "

Well you asked for it

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I like winks.

I wink when I see s profile that interests me and am not sure whether I am their taste. So its testing the waters.

That's how I treat the ones I receive, as testing the waters. If they are local and I like their profile I will wink or message back.

As others have said I don't bother about ignoring a wink whereas messages are more of a pain.

I've had some very good things start from just a wink.

Well you asked for it "

Doh to old again

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"If a wink comes from a good profile I may respond,I don't feel guilty if I ignore them either

I don't blame guys for sending a wink of interest when the majority of thought out messages get ignored or deleted "

True.

I do both. If someone really hates wink then I won't send one but I totally disagree with some people calling them lazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'll look at people who have winked at us, but I can see why some people don't use them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like winks.

I wink when I see s profile that interests me and am not sure whether I am their taste. So its testing the waters.

That's how I treat the ones I receive, as testing the waters. If they are local and I like their profile I will wink or message back.

As others have said I don't bother about ignoring a wink whereas messages are more of a pain.

I've had some very good things start from just a wink.

Well you asked for it

Doh to old again "

The age caught you but even if it had got through that you'd not class as local by any stretch of the imagination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a wink comes from a good profile I may respond,I don't feel guilty if I ignore them either

I don't blame guys for sending a wink of interest when the majority of thought out messages get ignored or deleted "

This

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By *ave1977Man
over a year ago

Mid Cheshire

I like to wink, it shows im intrested as it says so on my profile, but im sure the majority are just ignored, likewise when i write a message thats taken time & thought to put together and send that it annoys me when they get totally blanked & deleted...

If someone winks me i ALWAYS check out their profile, if they're not my type or too far away i always send a message of 'No Thanks'

It doesn't cost anything to be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have reached the conclusion that it is a futile exercise. Unless you have a twitch in your eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a wink comes from a good profile I may respond,I don't feel guilty if I ignore them either

I don't blame guys for sending a wink of interest when the majority of thought out messages get ignored or deleted

Well said

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