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By *heffcouple77 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Why do people or a male in this case block you when you have sent a polite sorry your to far away nothing against the guy hes just to far away rant over ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah the bitterness of rejection!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos they can't handle rejection

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

Maybe so they know not to bother you again? X

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

So they don't message you again by mistake?

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Maybe so they know not to bother you again? X"

Snap!

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By *heffcouple77 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Ok maybe so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe so they know not to bother you again? X"

Why do folk get so hung up about being blocked by someone they don't know ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be that they dont want to bother you again. There are a lot of complaints on here about guys continuing to message after a rebuff.

I do it for that reason.

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By *tcroftMan
over a year ago

durham

well at leastt you replied i dislike it when people cant even bother to do that good on you and his loss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Answered while typing. So As above.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Maybe they have seen the many threads from couples and females who say they block men after a rejection mail so they can't mail them again...so they have done the same thing.

Either way, is it really so bad?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

You don't want to meet him, but you are upset he blocked you?

I block people who I have said no to, and also those who say no to me, so we don't show on each others searches, and I don't want to bother them in the future.

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

why were you trying to message them after saying no thanks anyway ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well at leastt you replied i dislike it when people cant even bother to do that good on you and his loss x"

His loss that they won't meet up with him cos they're too far away?

Ok.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I send a message to a gorgeous couple like yourselves and get turned down then I wouldn't want to be classed as a pest and men do so I block.

Nothing horrible in anyway.. no means no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people or a male in this case block you when you have sent a polite sorry your to far away nothing against the guy hes just to far away rant over ffs "

they block so they dont bother you again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't want to meet him, but you are upset he blocked you?

I block people who I have said no to, and also those who say no to me, so we don't show on each others searches, and I don't want to bother them in the future.

"

Says it much better than I tried too

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By *heffcouple77 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Yes to say thanks have a good day etc hope you find what your looking for

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

So they won't mistakenly message you again maybe. That is what I do.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Well I think that's answered that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find this to a ridiculous post if it was make saying that about couple or single male the response on here would be lot worse.

Why would the chap feel need to continue contact you were if i get a message saying too far away I usually block so as not to in future send another message and risk aggro.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Can't say we've ever been bothered by a block, even less so by someone we're never going to meet. At a guess, probably to eliminate you from the equation of a possible meet as there's no chance.

Him.

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By *heffcouple77 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Ok people so what i get off some people is be rude and have done move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So they don't re-email you. Simple. We do it to people we aren't interested in and those we say no thanks to. Easier than going through the search and having people who have said no to you getting annoyed with another email.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look out the ego has landed! No one likes being rejected but hey that's life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you're upset because he didn't reply to your no thanks message?

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By *heffcouple77 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

No i was just trying to be polite but hy ho you learn something new everyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is why site supporters and the private notes are a great asset for me

I usually put something in there to warn me or phone numbers etc

but also if i say no i also put the reason why im saying no

if the persist i block

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"this is why site supporters and the private notes are a great asset for me

I usually put something in there to warn me or phone numbers etc

but also if i say no i also put the reason why im saying no

if the persist i block

"

We use it in the exact same way, when you see that little blue box then click to open you soon recollect. A very good tool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is why site supporters and the private notes are a great asset for me

I usually put something in there to warn me or phone numbers etc

but also if i say no i also put the reason why im saying no

if the persist i block

We use it in the exact same way, when you see that little blue box then click to open you soon recollect. A very good tool. "

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Blocks prevent repetition of mistakes with others and make some sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you're upset because he didn't reply to your no thanks message? "

I think it would have been more standard for him to have had a hissy fit and sent an abusive message.

I know people do get upset if I don't do this after rejection.

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By *ob55Man
over a year ago

PE13

If I message someone and they delete with out reading or read and then delete it's not a lot of difference but obviously they aren't interested so I just block so I don't write again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I message someone and they delete with out reading or read and then delete it's not a lot of difference but obviously they aren't interested so I just block so I don't write again "

the problem is, if im on myphone i can press delete all not delete all read occasionally we all do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We ask people to block us if they don't want to meet saves us wasting their time . That's why we can only see 10 per cent of the profiles cas we ugly

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