FabSwingers.com forum: face pics

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wht dont people put face pics on profile even in private, so they can control who they let see them? sick and tired of have friend request so people can see what we look like with nothing on there profile, after all how else are you gonna knoe who to look out for when you wanna meet??? there no excuse for it am affraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont add random strangers to your friends list then

that way people who have no pics to offer back not be lookiung at yours

ive never seen the need for a friends list, its a pretty pointless function as far as i can see

I prefure to chat cam to cam anyway with people im planning on meeting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

we dont do camming or msn dont like it,or have the time to be honest, we like to swap a few messages see what each other look like to see if there is an attraction on all parties, then phone call and meet up,Any one we invite to friends list that dont have face pics we delete them, our problem is people try and stress how genuine they are yet refuse to show there face, with various different excuses, were all here for the same thing, so lets just get on with it and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally OP I don't see your problem!

Why add people to your friends list who don't have pictures?!! I delete all friends requests from people I've never spoken to, takes a second, and no stress/frustration here!

If people were more selective about the people they came in contact with they'd save themself a whole load of grief!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

people know that calls to Crimewatch would soar..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont add anyone to my friends list without chatting to them first, why add someone you dont know, or not going to meet as they are miles from you. Friends to me means someone you know not dont know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we dont do camming or msn dont like it,or have the time to be honest, we like to swap a few messages see what each other look like to see if there is an attraction on all parties, then phone call and meet up,Any one we invite to friends list that dont have face pics we delete them, our problem is people try and stress how genuine they are yet refuse to show there face, with various different excuses, were all here for the same thing, so lets just get on with it and have fun

It sounds like you want it all and you want it right away. Why invite people to be friends if there is no face pic on their public profile? .. unless all you want to do is perv their photos first to see if their meet your exacting standards, and here's a shock.... no face pics on your profile either

MSN and camming are a great way to see.... yup, you guessed it.... someone's face!!!

...and here's the clincher... amend your profile to take off all the BLOCK CAPITALS... cos it's a pain in the arse when your eyesight is continually switching from BLOCKS to lower case , and while you're at it add a short line that says something spurious like...

... "we prefer to see face pics on first contact to see if you're too ugly to continue speaking to or good looking enough to warrant our attention."

Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" no excuse for it am affraid.

Unfortunately there is an excuse ...

The profile belongs to the member and provided it is within the site rules, they can add or omit any detail that they wish, so if they have no desire to show their face, they don't have to .... despite how much it may raise your blood pressure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have face pics and i know the risks only had two storkers so far one was from finding me on msn and even place i lived and my number and one was from seeing me at a wedding ..I have been married over 25 years swinging over 10 on and off and family and friends know and we work for ourselfs ,,, I really dont care who know or see me ..... and thats how i feel. I have nothing to hide from no one. And i know each to there own but one thing is i will not meet or really chat to a person with out a face pic , as years ago i meet a man who said he was 36 slim good looking and was like sreck and about 60 with green theeth so never never again. You live and you learn on sites like this. I do from this forum all the time and its no face no meet i am happy to see there faces on web cam msn or privet but you know if thay will not do that somthing is up how on earth can you tell if you like or not with out a face just a cock or bum or a body part you cant as could be old as the hills.JO XXX

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"Wht dont people put face pics on profile even in private, so they can control who they let see them? sick and tired of have friend request so people can see what we look like with nothing on there profile, after all how else are you gonna knoe who to look out for when you wanna meet??? there no excuse for it am affraid.

Why don't some members concentrate more on their own profiles without constantly whinging about the profiles of others?

It's like the feckin Swinging Police on these forums at times....

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are perfectly good reasons why people dont put face pics on. I dont because i was once approached by someone in my childs school playground who had seen me on a site such as this.

I dont intend for that to happen again. If you don't like it just delete the friends request. Sorted.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

We cam to show face,and expect the same from the other person.

We never ask anyone for a face pic. Maybe don't add to your friends list unless they have a picture too?

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I only ever accept a friends invite now(after experience) if I have met a person for coffee and they have proved to be the same as in the face pic on the profile. I will also swap msn or chat in the chat room on cam to also prove myself and expect the same.

I dont accept a friends invite now til I have met them. I know I have a number of face pics and others in my private so wont hand out friends invites just so someone can jerk off on my pics that I am never going to meet.

Cam chat essential or meet for a coffee after seeing a face pic always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the good old face pic routine, we went to a party quite recently and were greeted at the door by the hostess...tho we didnt realise she was the hostess?her pics showed a gorgeous size 10/12 woman.

when she opened the door she had aged 10 years and grew 4 sizes to what we would think to be a size 20.

were no supermodels but the others in there we had all swapped face pics with and to be honest we hardly recognised any of them.

more like the bar in star wars than a swingers party....so the bottom line is pics can be very deceptive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me meeting face to face at clubs is best thing we are of to fabs party chams this weekend .I go on my web cam alot thay can see its me . But really face to face at a clubs or partys is best way to get to know people and you can chat and only play if you really like. jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have face pics, infact just added a new one, taken yesterday,it's nice to see a face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only ever accept a friends invite now(after experience) if I have met a person for coffee and they have proved to be the same as in the face pic on the profile. I will also swap msn or chat in the chat room on cam to also prove myself and expect the same.

Cam chat essential or meet for a coffee after seeing a face pic always"

awww where's yer sense of generosity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cam chat essential or meet for a coffee after seeing a face pic always"

neither of us can stand the taste of coffee like

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I always have current face pics set as private so I can allow buddies to see my slightly awesome face.

For me this gives the right balance over anonymity and public handsomeness.

Cam to cam I would think is a more reliable way to get a real idea of a persons look, pics can be so deceptive i.e. some people really are photogenic and some, well, are not lol. But can look fine in real life.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Must admit I islike coffee too generally so go for a hot choc. Always sounds funny to say do you fancy meeting for a hot choc. I think they would run to check my age lol. Meet me for an ovaltine lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must admit I islike coffee too generally so go for a hot choc. Always sounds funny to say do you fancy meeting for a hot choc. I think they would run to check my age lol. Meet me for an ovaltine lol"
I think its really sweet xxxxx And i am sure would be just find on a cold winters day.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

It's when you ask if they fancy meeting you for a goblet of mead they think you are REALLY REALLY old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just mailed a bloke asked him for a fAce pic b4 I added him n he blocked me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually meet for a Horlicks.........trouble is we're asleep before the fun starts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mmmm ovaltine, have not had one of those for ages. maybe we should meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FECK!!! the face pics, "mantlepiece and fire" comes to mind.

You guys are getting sooooooooo choosey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FECK!!! the face pics, "mantlepiece and fire" comes to mind.

You guys are getting sooooooooo choosey.

working with marble a lot i love a good gander at the old mantlepiece.

poking the old fire is never as clever if your looking at an old 1940s boiler!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FECK!!! the face pics, "mantlepiece and fire" comes to mind.

You guys are getting sooooooooo choosey.

oh god your not choosey , we feel violated now !!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good debate lol but just to make sure people understand, we don't accept people we not swapped messages with first who we think were gonna get on with but what's the point of getting to friendly if you don't know what they look like, if they don't do it for ya no matter how nice they are to talk to don't mean ya gonna jump into bed with them, and if some one you been talking to asked to be friends then why not show your face,

And regarding our profile what difference does CAPITALS make ? Looked like it worked as it drew your attention to it, that's why we did it! As we want to draw particular attention to that part..

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

What YOU don't understand is there are many, many members on here that swap face pics or cam before they meet without feeling the need to place face pics on their profile.

If you want to then good for you, but I like many others get on very well on this site with meets even though I choose not to place face pics on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

if you have pics on the profile in friends only or even private so you can send them with a message through fab, rather then to people private email, just seems very simple to us, each to there own, no right or wrong way to do this but dont understand while people get funny about having a face pic in there private gal, Dont do msn or camming as limited time and work shift so we find once we seen face pics a quick chat on the phone is the best way for us

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