FabSwingers.com forum: Dating vs swinging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

had a few interesting messages on a well known site asking me to decide

Swinger or relationship

Lying in the bath, (one foot out as tattoos healing)

Made me think

Im single like meeting others for nsa on here where frolics and fantasies happen

Yet

If i met someone special i would consider leaving this behind (consider as I don't know till i meet that person)

The person said conflict of interest, yet why would i put my fab profile on a dating site and vice versa

Does it bother you if you are meeting someone who is also looking for a relationship? (I dont hide the fact of im looking to date btw, my meets on here are nsa)

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

My profile says something similar to what you require

I find no conflict of interests whatsoever

I hope you find what or who you seek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"had a few interesting messages on a well known site asking me to decide

Swinger or relationship

Lying in the bath, (one foot out as tattoos healing)

Made me think

Im single like meeting others for nsa on here where frolics and fantasies happen

Yet

If i met someone special i would consider leaving this behind (consider as I don't know till i meet that person)

The person said conflict of interest, yet why would i put my fab profile on a dating site and vice versa

Does it bother you if you are meeting someone who is also looking for a relationship? (I dont hide the fact of im looking to date btw, my meets on here are nsa)

It wouldn't bother me at all.

I just want people to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. Though I was talking to someone off here last night about relationships and we both agreed that if we met someone we'd sack Fab off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I hope you find what or who you seek "

Seek,far from it enjoying life if it happens so be it. Im not forcing anything.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

As long as you're honest and clear what you want then I see no issues.

I've been on here for about 5 years and taken time out for two 18-month relationships before by hiding my account (I'm too cynical to delete it - though I came close with the last lady... lucky I didn't it turns out).

I'm now in an open, distance relationship with a lady - something between a FWB and easy going relationship. She plays with others and I have that option too.

The key is honesty.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I agree. Though I was talking to someone off here last night about relationships and we both agreed that if we met someone we'd sack Fab off."

See i would. Some men get threatened

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

As long as you're honest and clear what you want then I see no issues.

I'm now in an open, distance relationship with a lady - something between a FWB and easy going relationship. She plays with others and I have that option too.

The key is honesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you can enjoy what you're doing now but also hope for something different as well.

I know i'd give all this up for someone special, but not as soon as a met them, only once trust has been built up between us and a proper bond formed. Otherwise i'm not giving up anything, i reckon most people are reciprocal like me and feel no incentive to do something for nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"had a few interesting messages on a well known site asking me to decide

Swinger or relationship

Lying in the bath, (one foot out as tattoos healing)

Made me think

Im single like meeting others for nsa on here where frolics and fantasies happen

Yet

If i met someone special i would consider leaving this behind (consider as I don't know till i meet that person)

The person said conflict of interest, yet why would i put my fab profile on a dating site and vice versa

Does it bother you if you are meeting someone who is also looking for a relationship? (I dont hide the fact of im looking to date btw, my meets on here are nsa)

It wouldn't bother me at all.

I just want people to be honest.

This for me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree. Though I was talking to someone off here last night about relationships and we both agreed that if we met someone we'd sack Fab off.

See i would. Some men get threatened "

I think I'm weird for the fact that I'm happy to play with other couples, but if I was in a couple I wouldn't want to see someone I love fucking someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree. Though I was talking to someone off here last night about relationships and we both agreed that if we met someone we'd sack Fab off."

Exactly!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not looking for a long term relationship, but does that exclude dating ?

What's wrong with seeing more than one person ?

Is there an exclusivity clause that you sign in the dotted line ?

But I'm not after lots of one night stands and fuck and goes either

If I'm up front and honest about it, that I want to spend time with several people, but to be close enough in that relationship that we're good friends, is that ok ?

I guess it's a form of polygamy

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By *ngel delight 69Woman
over a year ago

Torquay

"I'm not looking for a long term relationship, but does that exclude dating ?

What's wrong with seeing more than one person ?

Is there an exclusivity clause that you sign in the dotted line ?

But I'm not after lots of one night stands and fuck and goes either

If I'm up front and honest about it, that I want to spend time with several people, but to be close enough in that relationship that we're good friends, is that ok ?

I guess it's a form of polygamy

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polygamy needs a man with a big bank account.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"I agree. Though I was talking to someone off here last night about relationships and we both agreed that if we met someone we'd sack Fab off.

See i would. Some men get threatened "

Being single myself ive always thought if i met someone on here and we fell for each other big time, then if she wanted to quit here i would in a heartbeat but if she wanted to stay as a couple i wouldnt say no ethier but it would be her choice xx Dont force anyone to do anything they dont want to do xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" polygamy needs a man with a big bank account.

I knew women were just after the size of my wallet

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

When I met jay we where both swingers, had the same outlook. Neither of us had to explain why we did what we did we just knew.

I have to have variety in my life, I don't "need" to shag a different guy each week but its knowing that I can do what I like when I like.

Its always been my life ever since I've been sexually active so I couldn't just stop.

Only difference is as I've gotten older I don't have to cheat in relationships I can be open and honest.

I couldn't be with someone who wouldn't let me have my freedom

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I agree. Though I was talking to someone off here last night about relationships and we both agreed that if we met someone we'd sack Fab off.

See i would. Some men get threatened

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I met jay we where both swingers, had the same outlook. Neither of us had to explain why we did what we did we just knew.

I have to have variety in my life, I don't "need" to shag a different guy each week but its knowing that I can do what I like when I like.

Its always been my life ever since I've been sexually active so I couldn't just stop.

Only difference is as I've gotten older I don't have to cheat in relationships I can be open and honest.

I couldn't be with someone who wouldn't let me have my freedom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to add a twist I'd be OK for an open or swinging relationship if we both met at a club or on here say,

But if it was a purely vanilla meet not sure how i'd go about that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just to add a twist I'd be OK for an open or swinging relationship if we both met at a club or on here say,

But if it was a purely vanilla meet not sure how i'd go about that"

This is the point of the thread

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