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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So recently I've had a string of bad runs. Men who promise to fuck me senseless for hours and repeatedly only to meet them and did out that either:

1. They cum as soon as or just before they slide it up me and then can't repeat

2. It gets soft as soon as they put a condom on it so they can't penetrate safely

Obviously this leaves me unsatisfied especially if I've traveled a distance or made special arrangements just to meet them.

Is it too much to ask for a bloke with a rock hard dick with no trouble using a condom who can last at least ten minutes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one meet where guy had small cock and came within 5 minutes, and then had a "text to say his mother was dying" so disappeared after an hour...he had paid for room in hotel and I was only about 10 mins from home...sent my regular fb a message on whatsapp who peed himself laughing and then said "fancy Chams" so drove to him and we went arrived about midnight...and then had 3 hours of awesome play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you have been lied to just so they can meet you. Maybe there is a way a potential meet can prove themselves? I once made a video of myself repeating to get a meet with a woman who had been let down time and time again like yourself.

And there are always the blue pills.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have more than 1 guy there?

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

possibly be more discerning, if they are boasting about coming over and over and going all night, think again, you'll probably not regret it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some Men are so selfish sometimes... You never find me being selfish

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some Men are so selfish sometimes... You never find me being selfish "

Lol but actually I'm not selfish. Everything I do is to pleasure a man so very disappointing and frustrating

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have more than 1 guy there?"

A few weeks ago I arranged a meet off here and came before putting in. So arranged another who couldn't get hard. And then another small dick who claimed 7 inches who came fast again.

I don't want lots of men. I want one who can actually fuck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe you have been lied to just so they can meet you. Maybe there is a way a potential meet can prove themselves? I once made a video of myself repeating to get a meet with a woman who had been let down time and time again like yourself.

And there are always the blue pills.

Good luck "

If you've shown that much dedication to get some pussy then you deserve to fuck it! Glad to hear some men are actually putting the effort in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some Men are so selfish sometimes... You never find me being selfish

Lol but actually I'm not selfish. Everything I do is to pleasure a man so very disappointing and frustrating "

Oh I wasn't suggesting you were

I make sure I get some pleasure first on my meets- it's the way forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe what he saw didn't quite meet his expectations

Shocking but possible!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe what he saw didn't quite meet his expectations

Shocking but possible! "

He obviously can't read the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I steer well clear of the talkers,they are seldom the doers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iss InnocenceWoman
over a year ago

Coventry/Bristol


"So recently I've had a string of bad runs. Men who promise to fuck me senseless for hours and repeatedly only to meet them and did out that either:

1. They cum as soon as or just before they slide it up me and then can't repeat

2. It gets soft as soon as they put a condom on it so they can't penetrate safely

Obviously this leaves me unsatisfied especially if I've traveled a distance or made special arrangements just to meet them.

Is it too much to ask for a bloke with a rock hard dick with no trouble using a condom who can last at least ten minutes?

"

Am having the same problem myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So recently I've had a string of bad runs. Men who promise to fuck me senseless for hours and repeatedly only to meet them and did out that either:

1. They cum as soon as or just before they slide it up me and then can't repeat

2. It gets soft as soon as they put a condom on it so they can't penetrate safely

Me too ! There hard work men

Obviously this leaves me unsatisfied especially if I've traveled a distance or made special arrangements just to meet them.

Is it too much to ask for a bloke with a rock hard dick with no trouble using a condom who can last at least ten minutes?

Am having the same problem myself "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So recently I've had a string of bad runs. Men who promise to fuck me senseless for hours and repeatedly only to meet them and did out that either:

1. They cum as soon as or just before they slide it up me and then can't repeat

2. It gets soft as soon as they put a condom on it so they can't penetrate safely

Obviously this leaves me unsatisfied especially if I've traveled a distance or made special arrangements just to meet them.

Is it too much to ask for a bloke with a rock hard dick with no trouble using a condom who can last at least ten minutes?

Am having the same problem myself "

Don't think its just you. I think to be honest its a big reason I'm reluctant to meet separately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe you have been lied to just so they can meet you. Maybe there is a way a potential meet can prove themselves? I once made a video of myself repeating to get a meet with a woman who had been let down time and time again like yourself.

And there are always the blue pills.

Good luck

If you've shown that much dedication to get some pussy then you deserve to fuck it! Glad to hear some men are actually putting the effort in! "

I put the effort in and it's exhausting lol

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford


"So recently I've had a string of bad runs. Men who promise to fuck me senseless for hours and repeatedly only to meet them and did out that either:

1. They cum as soon as or just before they slide it up me and then can't repeat

2. It gets soft as soon as they put a condom on it so they can't penetrate safely

Obviously this leaves me unsatisfied especially if I've traveled a distance or made special arrangements just to meet them.

Is it too much to ask for a bloke with a rock hard dick with no trouble using a condom who can last at least ten minutes?

"

it makes me wonder what some would say if they told the truth like

1, that they havent been near someone in a while

2, that they may cum really fast

would you still meet them ?

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"I steer well clear of the talkers,they are seldom the doers. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I steer well clear of the talkers,they are seldom the doers. "

I'm saying nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So recently I've had a string of bad runs. Men who promise to fuck me senseless for hours and repeatedly only to meet them and did out that either:

1. They cum as soon as or just before they slide it up me and then can't repeat

2. It gets soft as soon as they put a condom on it so they can't penetrate safely

Obviously this leaves me unsatisfied especially if I've traveled a distance or made special arrangements just to meet them.

Is it too much to ask for a bloke with a rock hard dick with no trouble using a condom who can last at least ten minutes?

it makes me wonder what some would say if they told the truth like

1, that they havent been near someone in a while

2, that they may cum really fast

would you still meet them ?

"

to be honest I have met guys that have said this.. And it was far less disappointing than being promised this amazing experience and then not getting it...

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I tend not to take any notice if men big themselves up about their capabilities,I discovered very early on that apart from the rare exception it's just bluff and bullshit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe what he saw didn't quite meet his expectations

Shocking but possible! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

it makes me wonder what some would say if they told the truth like

1, that they havent been near someone in a while

2, that they may cum really fast

would you still meet them ?

to be honest I have met guys that have said this.. And it was far less disappointing than being promised this amazing experience and then not getting it..."

Ditto!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe you have been lied to just so they can meet you. Maybe there is a way a potential meet can prove themselves? I once made a video of myself repeating to get a meet with a woman who had been let down time and time again like yourself.

And there are always the blue pills.

Good luck

If you've shown that much dedication to get some pussy then you deserve to fuck it! Glad to hear some men are actually putting the effort in!

I put the effort in and it's exhausting lol"

Good! Great sex should be exhausting for both!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet northern men were a better class than the southerners :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meet northern men were a better class than the southerners :p"

Chat would be a bit thin on the ground though, as you can never understand what they are saying...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man cant control his erection to have the perfect performance all the time, it depends on many factors, like who they meet and things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I prefer women, they can just keep going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you and the women who complain about this are just crap shags? Did ye ever consider that? Nah, blame the dude...

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells


"So recently I've had a string of bad runs. Men who promise to fuck me senseless for hours and repeatedly only to meet them and did out that either:

1. They cum as soon as or just before they slide it up me and then can't repeat

2. It gets soft as soon as they put a condom on it so they can't penetrate safely

Obviously this leaves me unsatisfied especially if I've traveled a distance or made special arrangements just to meet them.

Is it too much to ask for a bloke with a rock hard dick with no trouble using a condom who can last at least ten minutes?

"

Sometimes sadly yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe you and the women who complain about this are just crap shags? Did ye ever consider that? Nah, blame the dude..."

Too busy having fun to blame anyone. My preferences come from experience rather than hearsay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I prefer women, they can just keep going. "

See I disagree there too... We have had loads of meets where the ladies say they need to stop... And women can't do what a man can do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us men are a visual creature you see, so if hes not inclined to try and hang about and get himself up for round 2 i think it he means hes not overly enamoured by what hes looking at im afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Us men are a visual creature you see, so if hes not inclined to try and hang about and get himself up for round 2 i think it he means hes not overly enamoured by what hes looking at im afraid"

Lol guys want round two, I just don't bother If round 1 didn't excite me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I prefer women, they can just keep going.

See I disagree there too... We have had loads of meets where the ladies say they need to stop... And women can't do what a man can do. "

What can a man do? I guess it's all down to personal experience. I'm not saying I don't have a break, but I don't need for my body to recover after cumming before I can carry on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Us men are a visual creature you see, so if hes not inclined to try and hang about and get himself up for round 2 i think it he means hes not overly enamoured by what hes looking at im afraid"

If he's not overly enamoured by what he's looking at, why did he bother with round one??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I prefer women, they can just keep going.

See I disagree there too... We have had loads of meets where the ladies say they need to stop... And women can't do what a man can do.

What can a man do? I guess it's all down to personal experience. I'm not saying I don't have a break, but I don't need for my body to recover after cumming before I can carry on."

well a woman can't fuck me like a man can. Or give me the pleasure a man can.. And we have had plenty of women that not only had to wait but had to stop as they couldn't have anymore x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I had a recent meet who not only told me that he loved oral and would spend ages on it, but also had never had a decent blow job. Well, challenge accepted!

He really appreciated his BJ (of course!), but in return I got 3 mins of tentative tonguing then he stopped. I swear to god there must be a guy out there who actually means it when he says he loves to give oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Us men are a visual creature you see, so if hes not inclined to try and hang about and get himself up for round 2 i think it he means hes not overly enamoured by what hes looking at im afraid

If he's not overly enamoured by what he's looking at, why did he bother with round one??"

Because hes a man, and seeing as hes turned up hes gonna wanna get his rocks off regardless...hes happy to zip up and go soon after though if shes not to his liking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a recent meet who not only told me that he loved oral and would spend ages on it, but also had never had a decent blow job. Well, challenge accepted!

He really appreciated his BJ (of course!), but in return I got 3 mins of tentative tonguing then he stopped. I swear to god there must be a guy out there who actually means it when he says he loves to give oral. "

You fell for the oldest line in the book there im afraid

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I had a recent meet who not only told me that he loved oral and would spend ages on it, but also had never had a decent blow job. Well, challenge accepted!

He really appreciated his BJ (of course!), but in return I got 3 mins of tentative tonguing then he stopped. I swear to god there must be a guy out there who actually means it when he says he loves to give oral.

You fell for the oldest line in the book there im afraid"

Yyyyyyyup! I should have bitten a bit harder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I prefer women, they can just keep going.

See I disagree there too... We have had loads of meets where the ladies say they need to stop... And women can't do what a man can do.

What can a man do? I guess it's all down to personal experience. I'm not saying I don't have a break, but I don't need for my body to recover after cumming before I can carry on. well a woman can't fuck me like a man can. Or give me the pleasure a man can.. And we have had plenty of women that not only had to wait but had to stop as they couldn't have anymore x "

I guess only a man can fuck like a man As usual, it's down to personal experience and we build our preferences from that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It basically boils down to the men if there is a fuck or not cos all the woman needs to do is lay like a log lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"It basically boils down to the men if there is a fuck or not cos all the woman needs to do is lay like a log lol "

I assure you I don't lie like a log. You need to raise your standards a bit Shag.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Promises are comfort to a fool....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It basically boils down to the men if there is a fuck or not cos all the woman needs to do is lay like a log lol "

You've been boinking the wrong women lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a recent meet who not only told me that he loved oral and would spend ages on it, but also had never had a decent blow job. Well, challenge accepted!

He really appreciated his BJ (of course!), but in return I got 3 mins of tentative tonguing then he stopped. I swear to god there must be a guy out there who actually means it when he says he loves to give oral. "

There is a man that does.. and I actually meet another guy that did at a club..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Us men are a visual creature you see, so if hes not inclined to try and hang about and get himself up for round 2 i think it he means hes not overly enamoured by what hes looking at im afraid

If he's not overly enamoured by what he's looking at, why did he bother with round one??

Because hes a man, and seeing as hes turned up hes gonna wanna get his rocks off regardless...hes happy to zip up and go soon after though if shes not to his liking. "

And therein lies a whole heap of difference. Some men (not all) will fuck anything for their own satisfaction regardless. These men are crap shags.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It basically boils down to the men if there is a fuck or not cos all the woman needs to do is lay like a log lol

You've been boinking the wrong women lol "

lol yes I have there, meant in general

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It basically boils down to the men if there is a fuck or not cos all the woman needs to do is lay like a log lol

I assure you I don't lie like a log. You need to raise your standards a bit Shag."

That's good and I know need to raise the standard abit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a recent meet who not only told me that he loved oral and would spend ages on it, but also had never had a decent blow job. Well, challenge accepted!

He really appreciated his BJ (of course!), but in return I got 3 mins of tentative tonguing then he stopped. I swear to god there must be a guy out there who actually means it when he says he loves to give oral. "

There is. Me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Us men are a visual creature you see, so if hes not inclined to try and hang about and get himself up for round 2 i think it he means hes not overly enamoured by what hes looking at im afraid

If he's not overly enamoured by what he's looking at, why did he bother with round one??

Because hes a man, and seeing as hes turned up hes gonna wanna get his rocks off regardless...hes happy to zip up and go soon after though if shes not to his liking.

And therein lies a whole heap of difference. Some men (not all) will fuck anything for their own satisfaction regardless. These men are crap shags."

Not true at all...how discerning you are with your shags has no correlation whatsoever to your shagging abilities. Im sure women would like to believe there is but theres not. Dont be silly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes guys meet in person and are not attracted to the couple or female. Pics they have seen can be old or photoshopped.

So since he invested his time and will never see you again. He will just try to orgasm as soon as possible and leave. It's sad but true

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I had a recent meet who not only told me that he loved oral and would spend ages on it, but also had never had a decent blow job. Well, challenge accepted!

He really appreciated his BJ (of course!), but in return I got 3 mins of tentative tonguing then he stopped. I swear to god there must be a guy out there who actually means it when he says he loves to give oral.

There is. Me "

Sorry, but I don't believe you. Not one man I have met on here who states on his profile or in person that he adores giving oral has actually made me believe it subsequently. Some don't even bother to try.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Us men are a visual creature you see, so if hes not inclined to try and hang about and get himself up for round 2 i think it he means hes not overly enamoured by what hes looking at im afraid

If he's not overly enamoured by what he's looking at, why did he bother with round one??

Because hes a man, and seeing as hes turned up hes gonna wanna get his rocks off regardless...hes happy to zip up and go soon after though if shes not to his liking.

And therein lies a whole heap of difference. Some men (not all) will fuck anything for their own satisfaction regardless. These men are crap shags.

Not true at all...how discerning you are with your shags has no correlation whatsoever to your shagging abilities. Im sure women would like to believe there is but theres not. Dont be silly"

Yes there is a correlation. A man entirely focussed on what he wants, to the point of being willing to shag anyone, does not care about the pleasure of the other party and is therefore a rubbish fuck. They're only there to unload, they've no interest in making it enjoyable for the other person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Us men are a visual creature you see, so if hes not inclined to try and hang about and get himself up for round 2 i think it he means hes not overly enamoured by what hes looking at im afraid

If he's not overly enamoured by what he's looking at, why did he bother with round one??

Because hes a man, and seeing as hes turned up hes gonna wanna get his rocks off regardless...hes happy to zip up and go soon after though if shes not to his liking.

And therein lies a whole heap of difference. Some men (not all) will fuck anything for their own satisfaction regardless. These men are crap shags.

Not true at all...how discerning you are with your shags has no correlation whatsoever to your shagging abilities. Im sure women would like to believe there is but theres not. Dont be silly"

Have you shagged many men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Us men are a visual creature you see, so if hes not inclined to try and hang about and get himself up for round 2 i think it he means hes not overly enamoured by what hes looking at im afraid

If he's not overly enamoured by what he's looking at, why did he bother with round one??

Because hes a man, and seeing as hes turned up hes gonna wanna get his rocks off regardless...hes happy to zip up and go soon after though if shes not to his liking.

And therein lies a whole heap of difference. Some men (not all) will fuck anything for their own satisfaction regardless. These men are crap shags.

Not true at all...how discerning you are with your shags has no correlation whatsoever to your shagging abilities. Im sure women would like to believe there is but theres not. Dont be silly

Yes there is a correlation. A man entirely focussed on what he wants, to the point of being willing to shag anyone, does not care about the pleasure of the other party and is therefore a rubbish fuck. They're only there to unload, they've no interest in making it enjoyable for the other person."

Not at all. There is such a thing as mutual pleasure where they both get lots out of it even though neither party is doing it with the intent of pleasuring the other. Him doing his best for her doesnt automatically mean she is going to enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Us men are a visual creature you see, so if hes not inclined to try and hang about and get himself up for round 2 i think it he means hes not overly enamoured by what hes looking at im afraid

If he's not overly enamoured by what he's looking at, why did he bother with round one??

Because hes a man, and seeing as hes turned up hes gonna wanna get his rocks off regardless...hes happy to zip up and go soon after though if shes not to his liking.

And therein lies a whole heap of difference. Some men (not all) will fuck anything for their own satisfaction regardless. These men are crap shags.

Not true at all...how discerning you are with your shags has no correlation whatsoever to your shagging abilities. Im sure women would like to believe there is but theres not. Dont be silly

Have you shagged many men? "

Nope but ive had the odd shag where i had no particular interest in the woman...subsequent requests for repeats suggest i was anything but a crap shag

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Us men are a visual creature you see, so if hes not inclined to try and hang about and get himself up for round 2 i think it he means hes not overly enamoured by what hes looking at im afraid

If he's not overly enamoured by what he's looking at, why did he bother with round one??

Because hes a man, and seeing as hes turned up hes gonna wanna get his rocks off regardless...hes happy to zip up and go soon after though if shes not to his liking.

And therein lies a whole heap of difference. Some men (not all) will fuck anything for their own satisfaction regardless. These men are crap shags.

Not true at all...how discerning you are with your shags has no correlation whatsoever to your shagging abilities. Im sure women would like to believe there is but theres not. Dont be silly

Yes there is a correlation. A man entirely focussed on what he wants, to the point of being willing to shag anyone, does not care about the pleasure of the other party and is therefore a rubbish fuck. They're only there to unload, they've no interest in making it enjoyable for the other person.

Not at all. There is such a thing as mutual pleasure where they both get lots out of it even though neither party is doing it with the intent of pleasuring the other. Him doing his best for her doesnt automatically mean she is going to enjoy it"

As above, how many men have you shagged?

Men who are selfish in bed and want to cum and run as fast as possible, are shit shags.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I find the following equation to be true

The more they go on about their sexual prowess . ..less likely is it to be true .

Those who are confident in their performance have no need to boast or big themselves up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Us men are a visual creature you see, so if hes not inclined to try and hang about and get himself up for round 2 i think it he means hes not overly enamoured by what hes looking at im afraid

If he's not overly enamoured by what he's looking at, why did he bother with round one??

Because hes a man, and seeing as hes turned up hes gonna wanna get his rocks off regardless...hes happy to zip up and go soon after though if shes not to his liking.

And therein lies a whole heap of difference. Some men (not all) will fuck anything for their own satisfaction regardless. These men are crap shags.

Not true at all...how discerning you are with your shags has no correlation whatsoever to your shagging abilities. Im sure women would like to believe there is but theres not. Dont be silly

Yes there is a correlation. A man entirely focussed on what he wants, to the point of being willing to shag anyone, does not care about the pleasure of the other party and is therefore a rubbish fuck. They're only there to unload, they've no interest in making it enjoyable for the other person.

Not at all. There is such a thing as mutual pleasure where they both get lots out of it even though neither party is doing it with the intent of pleasuring the other. Him doing his best for her doesnt automatically mean she is going to enjoy it

As above, how many men have you shagged?

Men who are selfish in bed and want to cum and run as fast as possible, are shit shags."

Read my response above to the 'how many men have u shagged' question

In response to you, i agree that if the guy comes quickley and is then out the door then yes, that prob is a crap shag

What im disagreeing with is the notion that a selfish shag is automatically a crap shag. A selfish shag can go on for ages and in plenty of positions...all for his own pleasure but she can be getting the time of her life too out of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Us men are a visual creature you see, so if hes not inclined to try and hang about and get himself up for round 2 i think it he means hes not overly enamoured by what hes looking at im afraid

If he's not overly enamoured by what he's looking at, why did he bother with round one??

Because hes a man, and seeing as hes turned up hes gonna wanna get his rocks off regardless...hes happy to zip up and go soon after though if shes not to his liking.

And therein lies a whole heap of difference. Some men (not all) will fuck anything for their own satisfaction regardless. These men are crap shags.

Not true at all...how discerning you are with your shags has no correlation whatsoever to your shagging abilities. Im sure women would like to believe there is but theres not. Dont be silly

Have you shagged many men?

Nope but ive had the odd shag where i had no particular interest in the woman...subsequent requests for repeats suggest i was anything but a crap shag"

Just the odd one? If you see that as a ringing endorsement of your point of view then all is good. However, having fucked a fair number of men over the years, I think my point of view might be a more educated one than yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a recent meet who not only told me that he loved oral and would spend ages on it, but also had never had a decent blow job. Well, challenge accepted!

He really appreciated his BJ (of course!), but in return I got 3 mins of tentative tonguing then he stopped. I swear to god there must be a guy out there who actually means it when he says he loves to give oral.

There is. Me

Sorry, but I don't believe you. Not one man I have met on here who states on his profile or in person that he adores giving oral has actually made me believe it subsequently. Some don't even bother to try."

I like oral but it tends to be rimming more than anything but that's cause i love bums ^_^

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I had a recent meet who not only told me that he loved oral and would spend ages on it, but also had never had a decent blow job. Well, challenge accepted!

He really appreciated his BJ (of course!), but in return I got 3 mins of tentative tonguing then he stopped. I swear to god there must be a guy out there who actually means it when he says he loves to give oral.

There is. Me

Sorry, but I don't believe you. Not one man I have met on here who states on his profile or in person that he adores giving oral has actually made me believe it subsequently. Some don't even bother to try.

I like oral but it tends to be rimming more than anything but that's cause i love bums ^_^"

I'd settle for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So recently I've had a string of bad runs. Men who promise to fuck me senseless for hours and repeatedly only to meet them and did out that either:

1. They cum as soon as or just before they slide it up me and then can't repeat

2. It gets soft as soon as they put a condom on it so they can't penetrate safely

Obviously this leaves me unsatisfied especially if I've traveled a distance or made special arrangements just to meet them.

Is it too much to ask for a bloke with a rock hard dick with no trouble using a condom who can last at least ten minutes?

it makes me wonder what some would say if they told the truth like

1, that they havent been near someone in a while

2, that they may cum really fast

would you still meet them ?

"

I have,and that's fine,as long as they don't come and bolt. Nothing wrong with a quick cummer if he sticks around after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a recent meet who not only told me that he loved oral and would spend ages on it, but also had never had a decent blow job. Well, challenge accepted!

He really appreciated his BJ (of course!), but in return I got 3 mins of tentative tonguing then he stopped. I swear to god there must be a guy out there who actually means it when he says he loves to give oral.

There is. Me

Sorry, but I don't believe you. Not one man I have met on here who states on his profile or in person that he adores giving oral has actually made me believe it subsequently. Some don't even bother to try.

I like oral but it tends to be rimming more than anything but that's cause i love bums ^_^

I'd settle for that."

I have a habit of biting though :p

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I had a recent meet who not only told me that he loved oral and would spend ages on it, but also had never had a decent blow job. Well, challenge accepted!

He really appreciated his BJ (of course!), but in return I got 3 mins of tentative tonguing then he stopped. I swear to god there must be a guy out there who actually means it when he says he loves to give oral.

There is. Me

Sorry, but I don't believe you. Not one man I have met on here who states on his profile or in person that he adores giving oral has actually made me believe it subsequently. Some don't even bother to try.

I like oral but it tends to be rimming more than anything but that's cause i love bums ^_^

I'd settle for that.

I have a habit of biting though :p"

Biting what?

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London


"I had a recent meet who not only told me that he loved oral and would spend ages on it, but also had never had a decent blow job. Well, challenge accepted!

He really appreciated his BJ (of course!), but in return I got 3 mins of tentative tonguing then he stopped. I swear to god there must be a guy out there who actually means it when he says he loves to give oral.

There is. Me

Sorry, but I don't believe you. Not one man I have met on here who states on his profile or in person that he adores giving oral has actually made me believe it subsequently. Some don't even bother to try."

My bf is awesome at oral. He does not state it on his profile, he says he should not need to. I was totally shocked at our first meet when he rolled his tongue out and its not stopped since. I adore it and would never settle for anything less from anyone I meet now ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe you and the women who complain about this are just crap shags? Did ye ever consider that? Nah, blame the dude..."

Or the men are so excited they can't control themselves,feel embarrassed and leave. There's still stigma attached to premature ejaculation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a recent meet who not only told me that he loved oral and would spend ages on it, but also had never had a decent blow job. Well, challenge accepted!

He really appreciated his BJ (of course!), but in return I got 3 mins of tentative tonguing then he stopped. I swear to god there must be a guy out there who actually means it when he says he loves to give oral.

There is. Me

Sorry, but I don't believe you. Not one man I have met on here who states on his profile or in person that he adores giving oral has actually made me believe it subsequently. Some don't even bother to try.

I like oral but it tends to be rimming more than anything but that's cause i love bums ^_^

I'd settle for that.

I have a habit of biting though :p

Biting what? "

Bum cheeks ^_^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So recently I've had a string of bad runs. Men who promise to fuck me senseless for hours and repeatedly only to meet them and did out that either:

1. They cum as soon as or just before they slide it up me and then can't repeat

2. It gets soft as soon as they put a condom on it so they can't penetrate safely

Obviously this leaves me unsatisfied especially if I've traveled a distance or made special arrangements just to meet them.

Is it too much to ask for a bloke with a rock hard dick with no trouble using a condom who can last at least ten minutes?

"

Sadly I too have experienced this many many times, then you try to make them feel better!!!! Sigh

Miss Lovepuppies xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I had a recent meet who not only told me that he loved oral and would spend ages on it, but also had never had a decent blow job. Well, challenge accepted!

He really appreciated his BJ (of course!), but in return I got 3 mins of tentative tonguing then he stopped. I swear to god there must be a guy out there who actually means it when he says he loves to give oral.

There is. Me

Sorry, but I don't believe you. Not one man I have met on here who states on his profile or in person that he adores giving oral has actually made me believe it subsequently. Some don't even bother to try.

I like oral but it tends to be rimming more than anything but that's cause i love bums ^_^

I'd settle for that.

I have a habit of biting though :p

Biting what?

Bum cheeks ^_^"

Yeah, I can go with that.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff


"So recently I've had a string of bad runs. Men who promise to fuck me senseless for hours and repeatedly only to meet them and did out that either:

1. They cum as soon as or just before they slide it up me and then can't repeat

2. It gets soft as soon as they put a condom on it so they can't penetrate safely

Obviously this leaves me unsatisfied especially if I've traveled a distance or made special arrangements just to meet them.

Is it too much to ask for a bloke with a rock hard dick with no trouble using a condom who can last at least ten minutes?

"

I'm not in my teens or early twenties anymore so I wont make these repeater claims..i like to cum just the once,maybe twice in one session if I'm really lucky,and you can take that much of a pounding to make it happen...however I won't blow my load in a few minutes either.I have mastered control of my body over the years with Cath to our mutual satisfaction...and if I'm really lucky I can get to the point of cumming,and with breathing techniques I can hold it there, and it then turns into a whole body sensation from toes to head that comes in waves,last for as long as I can take it,and feels unfuckingbelivable....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Promise to show cock pictures. That's an easy one to keep

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By *ngel delight 69Woman
over a year ago

Torquay


"Maybe you and the women who complain about this are just crap shags? Did ye ever consider that? Nah, blame the dude...

Too busy having fun to blame anyone. My preferences come from experience rather than hearsay. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Us men are a visual creature you see, so if hes not inclined to try and hang about and get himself up for round 2 i think it he means hes not overly enamoured by what hes looking at im afraid

If he's not overly enamoured by what he's looking at, why did he bother with round one??

Because hes a man, and seeing as hes turned up hes gonna wanna get his rocks off regardless...hes happy to zip up and go soon after though if shes not to his liking.

And therein lies a whole heap of difference. Some men (not all) will fuck anything for their own satisfaction regardless. These men are crap shags.

Not true at all...how discerning you are with your shags has no correlation whatsoever to your shagging abilities. Im sure women would like to believe there is but theres not. Dont be silly

Have you shagged many men?

Nope but ive had the odd shag where i had no particular interest in the woman...subsequent requests for repeats suggest i was anything but a crap shag

Just the odd one? If you see that as a ringing endorsement of your point of view then all is good. However, having fucked a fair number of men over the years, I think my point of view might be a more educated one than yours. "

What?? That doesnt even make sense...what im saying is that a selfish shag isnt always a bad shag. Youre confusing a quick shag with a selfish shag. Obviously i dont fuck men...im straight, that doesnt mean my opinion isnt ever bit at educated as yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not only men making promises that they can't keep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't engage in filthy chat before I've met someone. Things. Ever really go to plan and there's a risk that you can build things up too much. Rather meet them and just do whatever takes my fancy.

As for the first shag quick cummers I must be the only person who likes it! I feel like its a compliment if they cum within minutes or sometimes seconds of being inside me, they can always go longer the second time so don't see the problem.

The last guy I slept with who I was dating had just come back from 6 months in afghan and the first time we slept together he said he's gonna cum quickly cos he hasn't fucked anyone for over a year but I didn't care. Within minutes he could go again and again and then again with a little help from some rimming a wank and a prostrate massage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some Men are so selfish sometimes... You never find me being selfish "

Want to rethink that statement?

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I find the following equation to be true

The more they go on about their sexual prowess . ..less likely is it to be true .

Those who are confident in their performance have no need to boast or big themselves up. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find the following equation to be true

The more they go on about their sexual prowess . ..less likely is it to be true .

Those who are confident in their performance have no need to boast or big themselves up. "

THIS

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