FabSwingers.com forum: when to ask

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do woman find a guy or couple being too forward if they ask too meet socially for a coffee / tea within a short space off time after chatting as it is only sparing a little time too meet in a public place off ladies choice .

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

I prefer it asap to be fair

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Yes, I find it pushy. I'd rather get to know someone by chatting on here for a good while, and then when it feels natural and comfortable to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to talk a while before meeting

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'd be pleasantly surprised if a guy asked for a social meet, but they never do. I just get requests for pics, and shags at that very moment.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I like hour profile

nice read

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Your

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask for a social first...meet me in my bed usually doesn't go down very well on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be pleasantly surprised if a guy asked for a social meet, but they never do. I just get requests for pics, and shags at that very moment."

Not all

some I is like socials.. Haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd be pleasantly surprised if a guy asked for a social meet, but they never do. I just get requests for pics, and shags at that very moment."

Only a shame i am never down your way or i would av easily asked you out for a coffee / tea or even lunch .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us?! Damn auto correct.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Ledbury

"I'd be pleasantly surprised if a guy asked for a social meet, but they never do. I just get requests for pics, and shags at that very moment."

I always social first.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We chat a little first, and if that goes alright we organise a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time I went out for coffee it ended in tears

I spilt it all over someone

Cold drinks only from now on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather find there's a click and arrange a social within 2-4 weeks at most.. any longer than that and I get bored of just chatting as a rule

(Her - when meeting solo)

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Last time I went out for coffee it ended in tears

I spilt it all over someone

Cold drinks only from now on

Make sure it isn't a milkshake though, you wouldn't want someone crying over spilt milk either.

OP: we like a social early, since it's easier to chat with facial expressions etc. But I can see that women especially would like the security of getting to know you better first. Best advice is not to be too pushy, and just enjoy getting a response.

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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