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Trying To Have My Cake And Eat It

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I am in a relationship I'm not getting in to the ins and outs is this for any of the women or couples on here

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

Is it a burt and ernie cake?

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

CAKE.....love it

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Is it a burt and ernie cake? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need to have cake with a nice cup of Yorkshire xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Need to have cake with a nice cup of Yorkshire xx"
indeed lol I love a strong one leave the bag in mine

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Well I am in a relationship I'm not getting in to the ins and outs is this for any of the women or couples on here"

Nothing wrong with that but equally nothing wrong with who are judgemental about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I am in a relationship I'm not getting in to the ins and outs is this for any of the women or couples on here

Nothing wrong with that but equally nothing wrong with who are judgemental about it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It'll not bother some, it'll bother others.

Just be prepared for a lot of deletes and flak from those vehemently opposed to the cheaters.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It'll not bother some, it'll bother others.

Just be prepared for a lot of deletes and flak from those vehemently opposed to the cheaters."
I totaly understand that I have been getting that alot but I would rather say I'm in a relationship now then on a meet or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone mention

CAKE!!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Try ordering this cake from a certain bakery in Northern Ireland and they may refuse service

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone mention

CAKE!! "
Hahah there's allways time for cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It'll not bother some, it'll bother others.

Just be prepared for a lot of deletes and flak from those vehemently opposed to the cheaters."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try ordering this cake from a certain bakery in Northern Ireland and they may refuse service "
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It'll not bother some, it'll bother others.

Just be prepared for a lot of deletes and flak from those vehemently opposed to the cheaters. I totaly understand that I have been getting that alot but I would rather say I'm in a relationship now then on a meet or something "

Best to be up front and honest from the start .

How's it working our for you so far ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I am in a relationship I'm not getting in to the ins and outs is this for any of the women or couples on here"

So why post the thread?? And in's and out's are very specifically what I'm here for!! Oh and cake! Chocolate cake, carrot cake, white chocolate and raspberry cake - I'm a bit of a cake slut!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It'll not bother some, it'll bother others.

Just be prepared for a lot of deletes and flak from those vehemently opposed to the cheaters. I totaly understand that I have been getting that alot but I would rather say I'm in a relationship now then on a meet or something

Best to be up front and honest from the start .

How's it working our for you so far ?"

Have a few I chat too but nothing to brag about lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I am in a relationship I'm not getting in to the ins and outs is this for any of the women or couples on here

So why post the thread?? And in's and out's are very specifically what I'm here for!! Oh and cake! Chocolate cake, carrot cake, white chocolate and raspberry cake - I'm a bit of a cake slut!! "
the post was to see who would play with someone who's openly saying there in a relationship

And we all love cake

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Not for me. Plenty of single guys on here. And I wouldn't appreciate being cheated on so won't knowingly do it to someone else.

But IMHO you are doing the right thing being up front about it so people can make an informed choice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not for me. Plenty of single guys on here. And I wouldn't appreciate being cheated on so won't knowingly do it to someone else.

But IMHO you are doing the right thing being up front about it so people can make an informed choice"
Thanks

I had a foot think and I could of said I was anyone on here but it's not worth it so fort would put it out there

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By *emini1637Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire

I currently play with 2 married/taken guys and they have their reasons for being on here (which they have told me, truth or not I don't know!). Some will be ok with it and others will find it wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty on a profile is a good thing and its good to read see photos then the person you are messaging, can make up there own mind to see if they want to continue chatting or not!

I know if i was looking to meet an attached person i would like to speak to the other person 1st so i know they are ok with that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I currently play with 2 married/taken guys and they have their reasons for being on here (which they have told me, truth or not I don't know!). Some will be ok with it and others will find it wrong! "
I have mine witch I will get into once I start to know someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, you are honest about that in your profile so all credit to you for that. I don't think a thread on that alone is particularly edifying though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes life is too short to judge and make opinions on people

We all arent perfect and we all make mistakes in life even if we are thinking at the time it was the right one to make

good luck to you Op x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sometimes life is too short to judge and make opinions on people

We all arent perfect and we all make mistakes in life even if we are thinking at the time it was the right one to make

good luck to you Op x "
Thanks lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can i ask what would happen if you found out your gf was on here?just curious

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can i ask what would happen if you found out your gf was on here?just curious "
nothing I could do as I'm on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheers for your honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can i ask what would happen if you found out your gf was on here?just curious "

Maybe if he found out his girl friend was on here, he would be getting from his gf all ready

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

This is the second time today I've had deja vu about users starting the same subject in a thread more than once

I avoid men in relationships,if their OH suddenly decides she wants to go out or do something when they're meant to be meeting me i'll get dropped like a ton of shit,they are edgy on meets,they're paranoid they'll be left with unintentional marks of passion and they are always on a time limit

Not my idea of fun at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is the second time today I've had deja vu about users starting the same subject in a thread more than once

I avoid men in relationships,if their OH suddenly decides she wants to go out or do something when they're meant to be meeting me i'll get dropped like a ton of shit,they are edgy on meets,they're paranoid they'll be left with unintentional marks of passion and they are always on a time limit

Not my idea of fun at all

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Not me atall phone off so no calls and I won't be bothered about scratches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is the second time today I've had deja vu about users starting the same subject in a thread more than once

I avoid men in relationships,if their OH suddenly decides she wants to go out or do something when they're meant to be meeting me i'll get dropped like a ton of shit,they are edgy on meets,they're paranoid they'll be left with unintentional marks of passion and they are always on a time limit

Not my idea of fun at all

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This is my view too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It'll not bother some, it'll bother others.

Just be prepared for a lot of deletes and flak from those vehemently opposed to the cheaters. I totaly understand that I have been getting that alot but I would rather say I'm in a relationship now then on a meet or something "

At least you are being honest about it up front.... Which also probably why you aren't getting any..... Cake that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op your honesty about it helps people make a choice. For us it's a no no for others it's fine. The key point is your not hiding it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 years ago i was in a open relationship.

I met an attached man (didnt know at the time)

I believed he had a flatmate until one night i was invited to his.

One bedroom flat.

By then we was fuck buddies and it continued for a while until one day a friend (vanilla) asked how would u like it if it happened to myself

I ended the friendship the next night

Honesty is great on a profile but be honest to your partner too

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Honesty is great on a profile but be honest to your partner too

"

Technically, if he were honest, the title would be

"Having my cake and licking the icing off someone else's."

(And maybe nibbling the marzipan too)

Either way I'm hungry now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Honesty is great on a profile but be honest to your partner too

Technically, if he were honest, the title would be

"Having my cake and licking the icing off someone else's."

(And maybe nibbling the marzipan too)

Either way I'm hungry now

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Hahaha

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Who mentioned cake?

Okay, step away from the Battenburg! Now assume the position.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Lemon drizzle. That is all.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"This is the second time today I've had deja vu about users starting the same subject in a thread more than once

I avoid men in relationships,if their OH suddenly decides she wants to go out or do something when they're meant to be meeting me i'll get dropped like a ton of shit,they are edgy on meets,they're paranoid they'll be left with unintentional marks of passion and they are always on a time limit

Not my idea of fun at all

Not me atall phone off so no calls and I won't be bothered about scratches "

I don't meet attached guys on fab, but if I did, that attitude would put me off - what kind of respect does that show your gf? Do you not care about her feelings, or are you looking for a way out?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is the second time today I've had deja vu about users starting the same subject in a thread more than once

I avoid men in relationships,if their OH suddenly decides she wants to go out or do something when they're meant to be meeting me i'll get dropped like a ton of shit,they are edgy on meets,they're paranoid they'll be left with unintentional marks of passion and they are always on a time limit

Not my idea of fun at all

Not me atall phone off so no calls and I won't be bothered about scratches

I don't meet attached guys on fab, but if I did, that attitude would put me off - what kind of respect does that show your gf? Do you not care about her feelings, or are you looking for a way out?"

Yes I do and not looking for a way out

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Lemon drizzle. That is all. "

I make a great lemon drizzle

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lemon drizzle. That is all.

I make a great lemon drizzle "
I bet you make a good few things drizzle

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Lemon drizzle. That is all.

I make a great lemon drizzle I bet you make a good few things drizzle "

It has been known

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I fuck your Mrs next time you go out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I fuck your Mrs next time you go out? "

Can I take the photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I fuck your Mrs next time you go out?

Can I take the photos "

Only if you join in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I fuck your Mrs next time you go out? "
If she let's you yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I fuck your Mrs next time you go out?

Can I take the photos "
hahaah you can film too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It'll not bother some, it'll bother others.

Just be prepared for a lot of deletes and flak from those vehemently opposed to the cheaters. I totaly understand that I have been getting that alot but I would rather say I'm in a relationship now then on a meet or something "

So you are saying you would rather be honest from the beginning.

One question though.

Why not show your partner the same honesty, doesn't she deserve that or you just not that honest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It'll not bother some, it'll bother others.

Just be prepared for a lot of deletes and flak from those vehemently opposed to the cheaters. I totaly understand that I have been getting that alot but I would rather say I'm in a relationship now then on a meet or something

So you are saying you would rather be honest from the beginning.

One question though.

Why not show your partner the same honesty, doesn't she deserve that or you just not that honest?"

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