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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

2 weeks ago I moved to Newcastle to start a new job which is fine but I'm living in my car (which is kinda fun tbh) but bills coming out my ears and I am down to mere £20 to last me 10 days and still bills to pay anyone know how I can make quick cash to tide me over?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely speaking to your employer would be the best place to start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we knew, we'd all be out doing it

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Speak to your employer, family and friends. Go and see Citizen's Advice and get help to prioritise the bills as £20 isn't going to cover paying anything if you need to eat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely speaking to your employer would be the best place to start "

I tried but he said I have to wait till pay day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Speak to your employer, family and friends. Go and see Citizen's Advice and get help to prioritise the bills as £20 isn't going to cover paying anything if you need to eat.

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I did and they said I need to get a second imcome

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

What happened to the flatmates?

Or are they living in the car too?

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely speaking to your employer would be the best place to start

I tried but he said I have to wait till pay day "

When's pay day?

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Nice boss .. . no one at work help? try the * couch surfing app * .. may help

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

My advice would be chat to your work mates , they might over to help out maybe some might over to put you up for a few days . you will soon find out if your working for mates or assholes . don't go to easy cash as you will never get out of it and try the CAB .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My flatmates are were unused to live and 10 days till I get my final pay slip from last employer but that will only be about £100 my next full pay is the 12th next month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be a big car to have flat mates

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Come on guys be serious I don't need accommodation I just need a cash in hand deal but can't think of any

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By *ngel delight 69Woman
over a year ago

Torquay


"2 weeks ago I moved to Newcastle to start a new job which is fine but I'm living in my car (which is kinda fun tbh) but bills coming out my ears and I am down to mere £20 to last me 10 days and still bills to pay anyone know how I can make quick cash to tide me over? "
sound like u boss is a arse. Why would u move to a job without securing accommodation. Try getting a job delivery like pitza or Indian or Chinese. Get paid and eat and u already in your car. So winwin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rates are ridiculous but if your really stuck apply for a payday loan?

Bar selling your body, cant think of much else!

And what did happen to your flatmates?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to an employment agency that send people out daily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bet your £20 on this being a bogus thread.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Sell ya car and kip in the canteen

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

What bills are you paying if living in a car?

Or is it tax/insurance/petrol, etc?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What bills are you paying if living in a car?

Or is it tax/insurance/petrol, etc?"
and sky and internet and phone bill..... All from what I had

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"What bills are you paying if living in a car?

Or is it tax/insurance/petrol, etc? and sky and internet and phone bill..... All from what I had"

You have sky in your car??

Flash bugger!

A

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"What bills are you paying if living in a car?

Or is it tax/insurance/petrol, etc?

and sky and internet and phone bill..... All from what I had"

So these are bills that have built up or you're still technically living in a house somewhere?

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

Could ypu sublet the boot or take a lodger?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

*sigh* •_•

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"What bills are you paying if living in a car?

Or is it tax/insurance/petrol, etc? and sky and internet and phone bill..... All from what I had

You have sky in your car??

Flash bugger!

A"
where does he say he has sky in his car? I thought the "all from what I had" made it obvious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is internet gold.

Find a sugar momma... I heard Cougars will pay big money for a fine young man like yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Still technically living there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we knew, we'd all be out doing it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if you're technically living there. Go and actually live there if you're still paying

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"What bills are you paying if living in a car?

Or is it tax/insurance/petrol, etc? and sky and internet and phone bill..... All from what I had

You have sky in your car??

Flash bugger!

Awhere does he say he has sky in his car? I thought the "all from what I had" made it obvious "

I took that just as "all coming from my money", etc, but then again, I'm hungry and tired.

But seriously, speak to C.A.B and your bank.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So if you're technically living there. Go and actually live there if you're still paying "
its 70miles away.....

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"So if you're technically living there. Go and actually live there if you're still paying "

House is probably too far from the new job if he's decided to live out of his car.

So what's the long term plan? Because this arrangement clearly isn't going to be able to last long.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Bar work.. auxiliary nurse . care home assistant massuer - there are obviously other things that could be suggested but not risking putting that on the page.

Lastly Parents !!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Still technically living there"

But if you're no longer living there - as you say you're in your car - then your priority financially should be food and fuel to get to work.

Worst case if you don't pay the sky/Internet/phone bills? They switch off the supply.

Which won't affect you as you're not there anymore.

Concentrate on the immediate priorities.

A

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"What bills are you paying if living in a car?

Or is it tax/insurance/petrol, etc? and sky and internet and phone bill..... All from what I had

You have sky in your car??

Flash bugger!

Awhere does he say he has sky in his car? I thought the "all from what I had" made it obvious

I took that just as "all coming from my money", etc, but then again, I'm hungry and tired.

But seriously, speak to C.A.B and your bank."
maybe I'm reading the thread wrong but I thought it said he's not looking for accommodation but having to pay bills that have mounted up from where he lived before, does look like I'm in the minority though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Temporary bank overdraft, credit card? There's always options

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"What bills are you paying if living in a car?

Or is it tax/insurance/petrol, etc? and sky and internet and phone bill..... All from what I had

You have sky in your car??

Flash bugger!

Awhere does he say he has sky in his car? I thought the "all from what I had" made it obvious "

It was a joke!

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As soon as I get paid nxt month get into accommodation go from there

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Do you have anything you can pawn or sell?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I am guessing people missed the bit where he said he has moved area and why he is in a car.

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By *unguy2757Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Sell the car ... simples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Other than myself no not in my car anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So wank banks pay?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

If you ring sky and phone people and explain the situation and youve been a reliable customer before they will suspend your account for a while. I know a lot of people who have done that when out of work or off sick for a while and struggled to pay bills. Or ask them how much it will be to buy out of your contract , get cut off then dodge the payment for a bit till you get on your feet.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Still technically living there

But if you're no longer living there - as you say you're in your car - then your priority financially should be food and fuel to get to work.

Worst case if you don't pay the sky/Internet/phone bills? They switch off the supply.

Which won't affect you as you're not there anymore.

Concentrate on the immediate priorities.

A"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sell the car ... simples"
the where do I sleep?...

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"Do you have anything you can pawn or sell?"

Desperate times, desperate measures.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Still technically living there

But if you're no longer living there - as you say you're in your car - then your priority financially should be food and fuel to get to work.

Worst case if you don't pay the sky/Internet/phone bills? They switch off the supply.

Which won't affect you as you're not there anymore.

Concentrate on the immediate priorities.

A"

They won't be able to chase you immediately.

This all reminds me of a travelling poster who ended up in Devon.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Sell sperm, apparently there's a shortage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you clarify why you would move to another area and job without sorting place to stay first makes no sense at all naieve or stupid or both?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I think there are companies that loan money against your car but you need to be very careful you can pay it back or they will take your car away.

You need to ask your parents or family to help you out for a week or two....good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Still technically living there

But if you're no longer living there - as you say you're in your car - then your priority financially should be food and fuel to get to work.

Worst case if you don't pay the sky/Internet/phone bills? They switch off the supply.

Which won't affect you as you're not there anymore.

Concentrate on the immediate priorities.

A

They won't be able to chase you immediately.

This all reminds me of a travelling poster who ended up in Devon.

"

Will do cheers

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Can you clarify why you would move to another area and job without sorting place to stay first makes no sense at all naieve or stupid or both?"

With the jobs market the way it is, some people have to do what they can and go where the work is. Plus, what if he paid out, sorted accomodation and moved only for the job to fall through?

I once moved 300 miles away for a job but was lucky enough to be able to stay with friends until I got accomodation sorted.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Sell the car ... simples the where do I sleep?..."

In the canteen. re my post earlier

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think there are companies that loan money against your car but you need to be very careful you can pay it back or they will take your car away.

You need to ask your parents or family to help you out for a week or two....good luck xx"

No family unfortunately

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Can you clarify why you would move to another area and job without sorting place to stay first makes no sense at all naieve or stupid or both?"
was you never 20? I did far stupider things

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Another reason I was hoping for meets to relieve some stress haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another reason I was hoping for meets to relieve some stress haha"

How could you think about sex at a time like this?

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"I think there are companies that loan money against your car but you need to be very careful you can pay it back or they will take your car away.

You need to ask your parents or family to help you out for a week or two....good luck xx

No family unfortunately "

How about an emergency loan from DWP given that you have just started a new job they should be willing to help you out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps spending a fiver to become a site supporter wasn't the best life choice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What happened to the flatmates

A"

I thought this

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

As a poster mentioned earlier, contact all the people you owe money to and explain that you are in between jobs, with a break in your income. Tell them you are suspending making any further payments until your new salary commences, when you will put a payment plan in place to clear any arrears. So long as you communicate with these companies you should be ok. But if you stop paying and stop communicating it will harm your credit rating.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Try for some cash in hand jobs.. like labourer for a builder... or bar work.. or washer upper... how about car valeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another reason I was hoping for meets to relieve some stress haha

How could you think about sex at a time like this?

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Free bed for the night maybe

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"As a poster mentioned earlier, contact all the people you owe money to and explain that you are in between jobs, with a break in your income. Tell them you are suspending making any further payments until your new salary commences, when you will put a payment plan in place to clear any arrears. So long as you communicate with these companies you should be ok. But if you stop paying and stop communicating it will harm your credit rating."

This, and do you have any friends who could lend you money for food and fuel until you get sorted?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I could of adopted you but I don't live in newcastle

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

Sorry OP but this whole thread just does not read true to me. What's really going on? What do you really want?

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By *ricerMan
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees


"I think there are companies that loan money against your car but you need to be very careful you can pay it back or they will take your car away.

You need to ask your parents or family to help you out for a week or two....good luck xx

No family unfortunately

How about an emergency loan from DWP given that you have just started a new job they should be willing to help you out?"

Sounds ideal, but Dwp take the piss - an emergency loan is £7 - be better off staying in the car!! Looking round the bars for a casual job is probably the best bet until you can get sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get down the docks and turn some tricks for the sailors. Worked for Blackadder when he had the Bishop of Bath and Wells on his case

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By *urvybrunette91Woman
over a year ago

tidworth


"Another reason I was hoping for meets to relieve some stress haha"

Where are you showering?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A gym

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Sorry OP but this whole thread just does not read true to me. What's really going on? What do you really want?"

A zigazig ha ?

A

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By *urvybrunette91Woman
over a year ago

tidworth


"Sorry OP but this whole thread just does not read true to me. What's really going on? What do you really want?

A zigazig ha ?

A"

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

Medical trials.

Some range from £100 to £1000.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A gym"

So u can afford a gym subscription yet asking to survive on 20 quid.

This is getting more suss

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

All these jobs that people are suggesting, do any of them really pay cash in hand on a daily basis? Because it sounds like that's what he's asking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sell stuff, pawn stuff, car boot sale stuff, eBay. There's ways to make a bit of cash if you're as desperate as you claim.

Been there done it.

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"This is internet gold.

Find a sugar momma... I heard Cougars will pay big money for a fine young man like yourself. "

LooooooooooooL

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Look guys before commenting READ THIS I decided to stay in car incase job fell through out of the money I had I secured a few necessary minimums eg washing of clothes and shower and I am ask for help as I'm down to £20 and can't make it stretch you don't think it is humiliating enough to have no money or food that I have to ask people on a sex website for help..... thank you to everyone who has helped me I will contact the company's tomorrow

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look guys before commenting READ THIS I decided to stay in car incase job fell through out of the money I had I secured a few necessary minimums eg washing of clothes and shower and I am ask for help as I'm down to £20 and can't make it stretch you don't think it is humiliating enough to have no money or food that I have to ask people on a sex website for help..... thank you to everyone who has helped me I will contact the company's tomorrow "

Find a local soup kitchen or food bank. They will help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub let the room in your flat?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Look guys before commenting READ THIS I decided to stay in car incase job fell through out of the money I had I secured a few necessary minimums eg washing of clothes and shower and I am ask for help as I'm down to £20 and can't make it stretch you don't think it is humiliating enough to have no money or food that I have to ask people on a sex website for help..... thank you to everyone who has helped me I will contact the company's tomorrow

Find a local soup kitchen or food bank. They will help. "

The food bank will only give food if you have a voucher from a doctor, social worker etc. See a gp and explain your situation they can give you a food bank voucher, once at the food bank explain that you have no cooking facilities and they will try and give you three days worth of food that can be eaten without being cooked. If you don't have a tin opener tell them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sub let the room in your flat?

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He hasnt got a flat. Hes living in a car

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Other than myself no not in my car anyway"

I would sell My car.

Use that money for accommodation until I got my next decent wage slip.

Then I'd rely on public transport as long as i could live and eat.

Get a new job and buy a car again.

Maybe I'm being fucking thick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look guys before commenting READ THIS I decided to stay in car incase job fell through out of the money I had I secured a few necessary minimums eg washing of clothes and shower and I am ask for help as I'm down to £20 and can't make it stretch you don't think it is humiliating enough to have no money or food that I have to ask people on a sex website for help..... thank you to everyone who has helped me I will contact the company's tomorrow

Find a local soup kitchen or food bank. They will help.

The food bank will only give food if you have a voucher from a doctor, social worker etc. See a gp and explain your situation they can give you a food bank voucher, once at the food bank explain that you have no cooking facilities and they will try and give you three days worth of food that can be eaten without being cooked. If you don't have a tin opener tell them."

Never knew that. And thanks for explaining x

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"As a poster mentioned earlier, contact all the people you owe money to and explain that you are in between jobs, with a break in your income. Tell them you are suspending making any further payments until your new salary commences, when you will put a payment plan in place to clear any arrears. So long as you communicate with these companies you should be ok. But if you stop paying and stop communicating it will harm your credit rating."

In addition to the above advice, if you are making the payments by direct debit stop the direct debates otherwise you bank will add failed payment charges to your account.

Main thing is talk to the people you owe money to.

Most will try to help.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Other than myself no not in my car anyway

I would sell My car.

Use that money for accommodation until I got my next decent wage slip.

Then I'd rely on public transport as long as i could live and eat.

Get a new job and buy a car again.

Maybe I'm being fucking thick. "

The car is NOT for sale for reason I don't have to explain on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are you actually after op

People have gave you some great information on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Other than myself no not in my car anyway

I would sell My car.

Use that money for accommodation until I got my next decent wage slip.

Then I'd rely on public transport as long as i could live and eat.

Get a new job and buy a car again.

Maybe I'm being fucking thick.

The car is NOT for sale for reason I don't have to explain on here"

Dude.

If I was THAT desperate, I would sell my car in a heartbeat.

/out.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Other than myself no not in my car anyway

I would sell My car.

Use that money for accommodation until I got my next decent wage slip.

Then I'd rely on public transport as long as i could live and eat.

Get a new job and buy a car again.

Maybe I'm being fucking thick.

The car is NOT for sale for reason I don't have to explain on here

Dude.

If I was THAT desperate, I would sell my car in a heartbeat.

/out."

But not possible if you don't actually own the car...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And I'm taking that advice

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Are you asking for advice or are you asking for money?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've had plenty of suggestions but seem to be shooting them down...........not much point in asking for help only to dismiss advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Other than myself no not in my car anyway

I would sell My car.

Use that money for accommodation until I got my next decent wage slip.

Then I'd rely on public transport as long as i could live and eat.

Get a new job and buy a car again.

Maybe I'm being fucking thick.

The car is NOT for sale for reason I don't have to explain on here

Dude.

If I was THAT desperate, I would sell my car in a heartbeat.

/out.

But not possible if you don't actually own the car...

"

Well unless I'm blind or can't read he said it's his car.

In any case.

He has options.

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

Cash in hand jobs, let's think,

Bar work possibly, early morning cleaning, check out the take away outlets round you, do they require leaflets to be door dropped? Also ask if they need delivery drivers.

As its been mentioned on the thread already, contacting your debtors and explaining your situation could possibly delay any further DDs until your in a position to start paying again.

Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not im walking round town trying to find cash in hand job and tomorrow I am speaking to bank how is this dismissing advice?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Other than myself no not in my car anyway

I would sell My car.

Use that money for accommodation until I got my next decent wage slip.

Then I'd rely on public transport as long as i could live and eat.

Get a new job and buy a car again.

Maybe I'm being fucking thick.

The car is NOT for sale for reason I don't have to explain on here

Dude.

If I was THAT desperate, I would sell my car in a heartbeat.

/out.

But not possible if you don't actually own the car...

Well unless I'm blind or can't read he said it's his car.

In any case.

He has options. "

He does, if he can see them.

I say my car is mine but it in, in fact, leased. I can't sell it.

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )


"You've had plenty of suggestions but seem to be shooting them down...........not much point in asking for help only to dismiss advice"

He has thanked those that have given good suggestions, don't think he has shot down all of them.

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"Are you asking for advice or are you asking for money? "

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Look guys before commenting READ THIS I decided to stay in car incase job fell through out of the money I had I secured a few necessary minimums eg washing of clothes and shower and I am ask for help as I'm down to £20 and can't make it stretch you don't think it is humiliating enough to have no money or food that I have to ask people on a sex website for help..... thank you to everyone who has helped me I will contact the company's tomorrow

Find a local soup kitchen or food bank. They will help.

The food bank will only give food if you have a voucher from a doctor, social worker etc. See a gp and explain your situation they can give you a food bank voucher, once at the food bank explain that you have no cooking facilities and they will try and give you three days worth of food that can be eaten without being cooked. If you don't have a tin opener tell them.

Never knew that. And thanks for explaining x"

Lots of people think you just turn up and they dish out food, it isn't so. I was explaining for the op really but glad you found it informative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Street corner...red light?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look guys before commenting READ THIS I decided to stay in car incase job fell through out of the money I had I secured a few necessary minimums eg washing of clothes and shower and I am ask for help as I'm down to £20 and can't make it stretch you don't think it is humiliating enough to have no money or food that I have to ask people on a sex website for help..... thank you to everyone who has helped me I will contact the company's tomorrow

Find a local soup kitchen or food bank. They will help.

The food bank will only give food if you have a voucher from a doctor, social worker etc. See a gp and explain your situation they can give you a food bank voucher, once at the food bank explain that you have no cooking facilities and they will try and give you three days worth of food that can be eaten without being cooked. If you don't have a tin opener tell them.

Never knew that. And thanks for explaining x

Lots of people think you just turn up and they dish out food, it isn't so. I was explaining for the op really but glad you found it informative "

I gave bad advice now i know the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've had plenty of suggestions but seem to be shooting them down...........not much point in asking for help only to dismiss advice

He has thanked those that have given good suggestions, don't think he has shot down all of them. "

I'm just thinking that if I were as desperate as things are being described. If consider all options available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've had plenty of suggestions but seem to be shooting them down...........not much point in asking for help only to dismiss advice

He has thanked those that have given good suggestions, don't think he has shot down all of them.

I'm just thinking that if I were as desperate as things are being described. If consider all options available. "

I would be too

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )


"You've had plenty of suggestions but seem to be shooting them down...........not much point in asking for help only to dismiss advice

He has thanked those that have given good suggestions, don't think he has shot down all of them.

I'm just thinking that if I were as desperate as things are being described. If consider all options available. "

And he says he's taking steps, he's walking around town looking for cash in hand jobs, going to see his bank tomorrow, he's already spoke to his employer, he can't sell his car as he's living in it!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

You keep mentioning something that isn't allowed on the site even though I keep taking them off so I am going to shut this now.

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