FabSwingers.com forum: Question for the guys.....

By *landfordfabbers OP Couple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

Well girls can answer too!

Is it normal for guys to prefer wanking over sex?

My friends fella rather wank and often goes to the toilet and has a wank before bed rather that get it on with her! I've tried to say that's not normal but she says his are mates are the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No , maybe he has just got too used to masturbation. That has happened to write a few people . They need to spice up their sex life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.....definitely not healthy.

Nothing wrong with an occasional wank....but in preference to sex....that is soooooo wrong.

He needs counselling/professional help?

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

We love a want together if we don,t have full sex but i never go and have a tug in the bath room on my own we both openly wank it,s up to the other one to join in we never hide it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't think of anything more degrading to a woman's confidence than her husband or partner favouring a wank in the toilet over playing with her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal is overrated. If they're both happy then it's all good.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Wanking in preference to sex? Nope!

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

how good are her handjobs?

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By *ad grandaMan
over a year ago

Fleetwood

Sometimes a wank before bed means the sex lasts longer no point in doing it if only ones cummin n whats the difference between an egg n a wank you can beat an egg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well I don't want to sound judgemental or generalizing but if the women have let themselves go,(and half the women in the UK now over weight) then what can they expect. Personally I love a good wank, I can be anywhere, with anyone, do anything. Maybe its an age thing with me, when I was younger I was fucking everything, all night long, but not anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well girls can answer too!

Is it normal for guys to prefer wanking over sex?

My friends fella rather wank and often goes to the toilet and has a wank before bed rather that get it on with her! I've tried to say that's not normal but she says his are mates are the same

I get nothing from a sad, lonely wank on my own.

If I loved it I would never leave the house!

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

No it's not normal if you have a partner to wank in toilet before bed, what the hell do you need to do that for! Would be insulting to partner.

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over a year ago

"well I don't want to sound judgemental or generalizing but if the women have let themselves go,(and half the women in the UK now over weight) then what can they expect. Personally I love a good wank, I can be anywhere, with anyone, do anything. Maybe its an age thing with me, when I was younger I was fucking everything, all night long, but not anymore "

You do sound judgemental and you have generalised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well girls can answer too!

Is it normal for guys to prefer wanking over sex?

My friends fella rather wank and often goes to the toilet and has a wank before bed rather that get it on with her! "

To physically leave the room and wank rather than have sex with her is odd.

Wanking in the presence of her on tits, face etc etc.

Well that's normal.

I like penetrative sex but its overrated imo.

I prefer loads of foreplay and filth.

You're not giving enough info though....

Are you saying he won't engage with her at all?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do sound judgemental and you have generalised

I was just thinking that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

67% of men and 57% of women are overweight or obese in the UK. By your logic, perhaps the OP's friends and his mates are the ones who are too fat to fuck.

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over a year ago

67% of men and 57% of women are overweight or obese in the UK. By your logic, perhaps the OP's friends and his mates are the ones who are too fat to fuck. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the lady is indenial thinking its normal

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Men like a wank. Nothing wrong with that, but a guy should always be preferring sex I think. Wanting to be with a woman should be the number one thing on any man's list.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"Men like a wank. Nothing wrong with that, but a guy should always be preferring sex I think. Wanting to be with a woman should be the number one thing on any man's list."

Unless he's gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with liking a wank, but if it's a preference to sex then it's not really a good thing in my opinion... especially for his other half

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

67% of men and 57% of women are overweight or obese in the UK. By your logic, perhaps the OP's friends and his mates are the ones who are too fat to fuck. "

Ooh I like it!!!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

it's a lil bit on the upper scale of odd, that one

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

67% of men and 57% of women are overweight or obese in the UK. By your logic, perhaps the OP's friends and his mates are the ones who are too fat to fuck. "

Well pointed out!!

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By *landfordfabbers OP Couple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

I'll point out she's just as slim if not slimmer than when they met. It's always been the same tho!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought every man would rather have sex than wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to wank everyday before I go to bed, it makes you sleep very good as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well girls can answer too!

Is it normal for guys to prefer wanking over sex?

My friends fella rather wank and often goes to the toilet and has a wank before bed rather that get it on with her! I've tried to say that's not normal but she says his are mates are the same

must be mayhem at bed time having hubby and his wankin in ya toilet

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

This man would, given the chance....!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got something there, I think your right. we're all getting too fat to fuck (with the lights on atleast

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I'd be more worried if it was him and his mates in the bog wanking together..

If its sex or a wank... Sex for me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't think of anything more degrading to a woman's confidence than her husband or partner favouring a wank in the toilet over playing with her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

67% of men and 57% of women are overweight or obese in the UK. By your logic, perhaps the OP's friends and his mates are the ones who are too fat to fuck.

Well pointed out!!

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee

Get her signed up here,bet he would take more of her notice then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would you feel if your partner would rather masturbate then get it on with you. Sounds like something has gone stale and things need spicing up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well girls can answer too!

Is it normal for guys to prefer wanking over sex?

My friends fella rather wank and often goes to the toilet and has a wank before bed rather that get it on with her! I've tried to say that's not normal but she says his are mates are the same

Has she gotten morbidly obease since they got together?

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By *ench and StripeCouple
over a year ago

Stenalees

From my point of view yes I do occasionally prefer to wank to sex. A wank can be a personal thing or just a quick release without the hassle of full sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex with the same person can get boring after a time. It could be his fault or her fault But if he prefers wanking , and obviously letting her know about it, than having sex with her then something is missing between them.

If it's just the occasional time then I'd think nothing was wrong , if it was every time and they no longer have sex then there's obviously a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well girls can answer too!

Is it normal for guys to prefer wanking over sex?

My friends fella rather wank and often goes to the toilet and has a wank before bed rather that get it on with her! I've tried to say that's not normal but she says his are mates are the same

Has she gotten morbidly obease since they got together?"

I don't get the suggestion that it is her fault.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

"Normal is overrated. If they're both happy then it's all good. "

I concur... Who is deciding what's normal nowadays?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well girls can answer too!

Is it normal for guys to prefer wanking over sex?

My friends fella rather wank and often goes to the toilet and has a wank before bed rather that get it on with her! I've tried to say that's not normal but she says his are mates are the same

Has she gotten morbidly obease since they got together?

I don't get the suggestion that it is her fault. "

Because we always assume if a man doesn't want sex, it must be the woman's fault because all men are supposed to want sex all of the time and if they don't then the Mrs must be to blame. Funnily enough, if a woman doesn't want sex, it's also her fault.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Well girls can answer too!

Is it normal for guys to prefer wanking over sex?

My friends fella rather wank and often goes to the toilet and has a wank before bed rather that get it on with her! I've tried to say that's not normal but she says his are mates are the same

Has she gotten morbidly obease since they got together?

I don't get the suggestion that it is her fault.

I find that works in all aspects of life. If in doubt, blame the woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well girls can answer too!

Is it normal for guys to prefer wanking over sex?

My friends fella rather wank and often goes to the toilet and has a wank before bed rather that get it on with her! I've tried to say that's not normal but she says his are mates are the same

Has she gotten morbidly obease since they got together?

I don't get the suggestion that it is her fault. "

It's not possible cause you said in your previous post it could be her fault or his and implied that it was because the sex is "boring".

Usually it's something more than boredom either emotional or physical. As a wank is still pretty routine but people don't stop doing it because they get bored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A possoble cause not not possible weird typo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good point - but aren't almost half the men in the UK overweight too??

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"I thought every man would rather have sex than wank

True..but it does depends on with whom is he having sex with.

Sometimes it's not so fun (for anybody) when it's a chore ..

It can be normal for an individual (man or woman) but i don't think it's normal for the relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck no lmao I'd rather have sex any day no better feeling that inside a nice wet pussy lol how can a hand be better than that obv he's too used to wanking off to enjoy pussy or something else going lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she's crap at sex.

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

Love wanking, but wanking instead of sex? Not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe she's crap at sex."

Maybe he has a wanking fixation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was a blow job rather than sex I could understand. He might be a lazy fucker and just want a quick release so he can sleep. Sex is too energetic for some men. Does he have a demanding job? Does he still kiss and cuddle her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your mate's wifey needs to find herself a real man....

Give her my contact I'll sort the little lady out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't think of anything more degrading to a woman's confidence than her husband or partner favouring a wank in the toilet over playing with her

Maybe this is why loads of guys on here have pics with there dick over the toilet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good point - but aren't almost half the men in the UK overweight too??

Too true, most are too fat to fuck with the light on, your not though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would rather have sex with a woman than a wank on my own.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I don't think it's normal but I've been there too. My ex used to wank in bed watching porn on the laptop whilst I was asleep next to him. Caught him several times and he was always 'really sorry and won't do it again'

I found it very hurtful. Most of the time we did have an interesting and varied sex life and as for being 'too fat to fuck', I was my biggest when we met and I lost weight during our relationship.

He was also rubbish at hiding the fact he'd had a sneaky wank as I'd find tissues and loo roll next to the bed and on the computer desk!

One of many reasons I ultimately had enough and called it a day.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Normal is overrated. If they're both happy then it's all good. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually it's something more than boredom either emotional or physical. As a wank is still pretty routine but people don't stop doing it because they get bored."

I don't. I find it boring because there's no mental aspect or another person.

I'd love to be able to express this part of myself more.

I just simply enjoy those aspects as much as the physical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I were a man I'd probably wank a few times a day if it felt good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a fiddle is jolly gun , but sex is a pleasure

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

If my man was doing that and not having sex with me at all I'd be very hurt and having serious words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanked instead of shagging my ex but that was cos I wasn't happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wank most days but sex wins every time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think it's normal but I've been there too. My ex used to wank in bed watching porn on the laptop whilst I was asleep next to him. Caught him several times and he was always 'really sorry and won't do it again'

I found it very hurtful. Most of the time we did have an interesting and varied sex life and as for being 'too fat to fuck', I was my biggest when we met and I lost weight during our relationship.

He was also rubbish at hiding the fact he'd had a sneaky wank as I'd find tissues and loo roll next to the bed and on the computer desk!

One of many reasons I ultimately had enough and called it a day. "

So you'd have been happier if we woke you up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually it's something more than boredom either emotional or physical. As a wank is still pretty routine but people don't stop doing it because they get bored.

I don't. I find it boring because there's no mental aspect or another person.

I'd love to be able to express this part of myself more.

I just simply enjoy those aspects as much as the physical. "

Then go talk to your wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually it's something more than boredom either emotional or physical. As a wank is still pretty routine but people don't stop doing it because they get bored.

I don't. I find it boring because there's no mental aspect or another person.

I'd love to be able to express this part of myself more.

I just simply enjoy those aspects as much as the physical.

Then go talk to your wife."

Oh why didn't he think of that? Of course, it's always that simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a woman to give me a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually it's something more than boredom either emotional or physical. As a wank is still pretty routine but people don't stop doing it because they get bored.

I don't. I find it boring because there's no mental aspect or another person.

I'd love to be able to express this part of myself more.

I just simply enjoy those aspects as much as the physical.

Then go talk to your wife.

Oh why didn't he think of that? Of course, it's always that simple.

Leading a long term series of affairs is easier than talking to your partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually it's something more than boredom either emotional or physical. As a wank is still pretty routine but people don't stop doing it because they get bored.

I don't. I find it boring because there's no mental aspect or another person.

I'd love to be able to express this part of myself more.

I just simply enjoy those aspects as much as the physical.

Then go talk to your wife.

Oh why didn't he think of that? Of course, it's always that simple.

Leading a long term series of affairs is easier than talking to your partner?"

In some cases it probably is. In others the talking may have already taken place. Point is, you don't know and I don't know, so why the need to pop up spouting ill-informed and not-asked-for "advice" to all and sundry?

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I found it very hurtful. Most of the time we did have an interesting and varied sex life and as for being 'too fat to fuck', I was my biggest when we met and I lost weight during our relationship.

He was also rubbish at hiding the fact he'd had a sneaky wank as I'd find tissues and loo roll next to the bed and on the computer desk!

One of many reasons I ultimately had enough and called it a day.

So you'd have been happier if we woke you up?"

Yes I actually told him on the first occasion or two that I'd rather he woke me for sex if he was horny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread reminds me of the movie Don Jon

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

I prefer sex over wanking anyday xxx

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"I can't think of anything more degrading to a woman's confidence than her husband or partner favouring a wank in the toilet over playing with her

Well said.

Mr _d40 says you dont keep a dog & bark yourself. Total wanker.

But seriously masturbation is for when you have been knocked back, not when the mrs is in bed! Bad boy get on the naughty step!

Mrs _d40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he feels his wife is stressed and tired with the pressures of being a mum/housewife holding down a day job etc etc. Rather than adding to that stress by her husband wanting sex when all she wants is some rest, he decided to masturbate rather than have an affair or harbour resentment about an unsatisfactory sex life...

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

My ex was like this. He'd knock one out before I got back from work, knowing full well I'd possibly be wanting sex later on. The when I tried to initiate something he'd tell me he had a low sex drive.

A counsellor friend said he may have had a problem with porn use. When I challenged him he said he didn't have the energy for sex. Even so, it made me feel like crap. Constant rejection isn't fun.

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