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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

what is the best way to do this, say bye and thanks, or just block the person and ignore them?

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

Say

Bye

Plenty more where you came from!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

You could try starting a thread about them.

Oh. Wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm depends.

I wouldn't block or ignore though.

Just stop chatting.

Mind you I do that a lot apparently, depending on who you ask.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

How would you like someone to end it with you.

I'd say thanks and bye.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I had the block n ignore! Hence the post! Lol. Just wondered if happened a lot on here

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells


"I had the block n ignore! Hence the post! Lol. Just wondered if happened a lot on here"

I've got no-one blocked

Yet!

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Well i had the ignore, blatantly done in the finest of cold manors, all those nice comments before as well

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

If it's been a long term thing then I think being mature and breaking it off nicely is the decent thing to do,just because its swinging it shouldn't mean that normal rules of caring about someones feelings don't count when you're telling someone you don't want to see them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's been a long term thing then I think being mature and breaking it off nicely is the decent thing to do,just because its swinging it shouldn't mean that normal rules of caring about someones feelings don't count when you're telling someone you don't want to see them again

"

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By *emini1637Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire

To block and ignore isn't nice. I would prefer to do the decent thing and talk like adults and say it's done, move on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheque please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they will read this thread and get the hint?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Be up front and tell them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's been a long term thing then I think being mature and breaking it off nicely is the decent thing to do,just because its swinging it shouldn't mean that normal rules of caring about someones feelings don't count when you're telling someone you don't want to see them again

"

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's been a long term thing then I think being mature and breaking it off nicely is the decent thing to do,just because its swinging it shouldn't mean that normal rules of caring about someones feelings don't count when you're telling someone you don't want to see them again

"

this

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Perhaps they will read this thread and get the hint?"

Or perhaps they'll read it and see it was them that did the blocking and ignoring?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is the best way to do this, say bye and thanks, or just block the person and ignore them?"

If it's a relationship... I'd class blocking them and ignoring a tad harsh.

They deserve to know its ended.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

blocking and ignoring isn't a great way of going on if you've had an on going thing. It does happen though and its probably best to chalk it up to experience and move along

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For the record they blocked me on here

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington


"Well i had the ignore, blatantly done in the finest of cold manors, all those nice comments before as well "

that goes to show you some will say any old shit they think you want to hear to get what thy want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had the block n ignore! Hence the post! Lol. Just wondered if happened a lot on here"

It's a shame when people don't have the courage to say they don't want to see you any more after a relationship. If it was a one off then it wouldn't be so bad but when you have gotten to know each other well the decent thing would be to say thanks but it's run its course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's been a long term thing then I think being mature and breaking it off nicely is the decent thing to do,just because its swinging it shouldn't mean that normal rules of caring about someones feelings don't count when you're telling someone you don't want to see them again

"

This in a nutshell.. Blocking after a relationship be it swinging or not, is cowardly, the other party deserves more. Unless of course they've been a shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to treat others how I would like to be treated but unfortunately not everyone subscribes to this.

It's not easy being on the receiving end by that's how it rolls sometimes.

chin up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And yet once again we have only one side to the story...

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Well i had the ignore, blatantly done in the finest of cold manors, all those nice comments before as well

that goes to show you some will say any old shit they think you want to hear to get what thy want! "

Yes, humans! tricky lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is the best way to do this, say bye and thanks, or just block the person and ignore them?"

Depends, how does you fab relationship work? Had there been a mutual understanding from the beginning? The best you can do is explain why and hope they understand and you go your own separate ways. If they can't except your decision then I'm afraid it's time for 'tough love'

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is the best way to do this, say bye and thanks, or just block the person and ignore them?"

Most people know the right way to do things, sadly some choose not to....usually for selfish reasons.

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Perhaps the person who blocks and ignors them, couldn't reason or communicate with them anymore & had no choice but to do this.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

If my FB decided he didn't want to meet me any more, I would expect him to say so, in fact I know he would. I would be the same with him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If my FB decided he didn't want to meet me any more, I would expect him to say so, in fact I know he would. I would be the same with him. "

I had also hoped that, but sadly not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is the best way to do this, say bye and thanks, or just block the person and ignore them?"

Treat them how you would like to be treated if the roles was reversed

Honesty

Respect

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

Get real people

NSA means I don't have to really care emotionally about these people

Nor they me

So

Simply bye is adequate

I'm such a bitch lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just explaining that you had fun but unfortunately it's run it's course. That's how I would do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get real people

NSA means I don't have to really care emotionally about these people

Nor they me

So

Simply bye is adequate

I'm such a bitch lol "

Yeah but it's a regular swinging relationship you do end up caring about that person as a friend. It's just one you see naked often

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells


"Get real people

NSA means I don't have to really care emotionally about these people

Nor they me

So

Simply bye is adequate

I'm such a bitch lol

Yeah but it's a regular swinging relationship you do end up caring about that person as a friend. It's just one you see naked often "

Very true

But I'd still be brutal lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is the best way to do this, say bye and thanks, or just block the person and ignore them?"

an explanation first, I'd have thought! that is common decency surely?

then bye and thanks, then if they still persist....block!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have feelings whether just fun or long term. Grow some balls and talk.

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By *he Mad ChatterMan
over a year ago

Wonderland


"an explanation first, I'd have thought! that is common decency surely?

then bye and thanks, then if they still persist....block! "

This

As they say, do unto others...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If it was a regular thing and not someone I'd seen a couple of times and it had fizzled out. I'd like to just be told sorry I don't want to see you anymore. I'd do the same, no explanation needed just politeness.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"what is the best way to do this, say bye and thanks, or just block the person and ignore them?

an explanation first, I'd have thought! that is common decency surely?

then bye and thanks, then if they still persist....block! "

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I would tell them nicely that its run its course and wish them all the best.

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