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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do your friends and /or family know you swing; If yes how did they react and did/they judge you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The odd trusted ones,who are in the main quite envious, and obviously the ones who weve met in the lifestyle,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do your friends and /or family know you swing; If yes how did they react and did/they judge you?"

Yes.

I don't believe that they care.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Yes. Those who love me accept me for who I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't tell anybody outside swinging that I do this, I just don't seem the need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Close friends and thanks to privacy breach by ex housemate my family had to know roo! But not the extent thank goodness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,m single and just don't care a jot about anyone finding out, its my business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I,m single and just don't care a jot about anyone finding out, its my business"

I wouldn't care if anyone found out but I don't go out my way to tell people

I just don't see a reason why I would just tell people about my business, but if I was confronted by somone who found out I wouldnt loose any sleep over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is my alter ego, I remain private because of family and friends would not understand...... Fab is my dirty little secret lol

I do salute those who bare all to the world, I wish I could , but I'm not ready a the mo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I,m single and just don't care a jot about anyone finding out, its my business

I wouldn't care if anyone found out but I don't go out my way to tell people

I just don't see a reason why I would just tell people about my business, but if I was confronted by somone who found out I wouldnt loose any sleep over it "

I think it depends on your friendship group.

The people I spent time with are generally pretty open about sex, they don't really consider it something to be hidden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I,m single and just don't care a jot about anyone finding out, its my business

I wouldn't care if anyone found out but I don't go out my way to tell people

I just don't see a reason why I would just tell people about my business, but if I was confronted by somone who found out I wouldnt loose any sleep over it

I think it depends on your friendship group.

The people I spent time with are generally pretty open about sex, they don't really consider it something to be hidden."

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

My closest friends know, none of my family do.

My mates have all been very supportive and curious about what I get up to. Perhaps living vicariously through me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I,m single and just don't care a jot about anyone finding out, its my business

I wouldn't care if anyone found out but I don't go out my way to tell people

I just don't see a reason why I would just tell people about my business, but if I was confronted by somone who found out I wouldnt loose any sleep over it

I think it depends on your friendship group.

The people I spent time with are generally pretty open about sex, they don't really consider it something to be hidden."

to be honest I think it more comes down to me and what I want others to know than how they would react, a woman I work with is always telling me about men she meets off the internet so she's not likely to judge me for doing what she does but I still have never said I come on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of friends know im on here. No family.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Never felt the need,i think everyone should have a private life...

What would I gain? what would my motive be? When I was younger,i felt the need to tell everyone everything,now I am very selective..My closest friends know but that is all..Tho I suspect my two adult children have noticed on my laptop etc..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of friends. My family would go mad!!

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

I do not care as they have done all the nasty gossip in the past, sort of very free to do anything now yay ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do your friends and /or family know you swing; If yes how did they react and did/they judge you?"

My parents both knew... Neither judged just went on to tell me how they had done it for years... Cue a finger in my ears moment.

I got outed by a so called friend so most people in my life know. My older kids know my lifestyle choice but not details

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one outside of the Fab world knows and id rather it stay that way like one of the previous posters said this is my alter ego - my private play time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even tell my victims

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By *obka3Couple
over a year ago

bournemouth

A few of our friends know, some find it horrifying some not bothered and one or two want to try it for themselves, there is a lot worse things in life than swinging, I wonder how many that think its depraved have cheated on their partners?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My three closest friends know and I think my other close friend suspects.

They run cover for me and are my safe contacts etc.

Two approve to varying degrees and seem to get a vicarious thrill out of my stories. The other is much more closed off about sex but as long as I am happy and safe she's fine, though as she says she'd never dream of doing it herself.

I live in a small community so prefer to be discreet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bet you want pleased with housemate or ate you actually glad they aid something?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Likewise this is my alter ego, told a mate about it who then decided to prompt my othermate about what i had told him confidence. Had already mentioned it to that mate anyway... but what if i didn't want him to know.

My FB knows and couple mates but don't tell mates exactly what goes on just snippets lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No friends/ family know. This and my vanilla life are two seperate entities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my best friends and that's all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nice to know it's not just me

Have any of you recognised or been recognised by a fellow fabber; did he/she or you say anything?

Always fancied going xtasia but think it's a bit close for comfort. That being said i went to club out of my area and bumped into some brummies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice to know it's not just me

Have any of you recognised or been recognised by a fellow fabber; did he/she or you say anything?

Always fancied going xtasia but think it's a bit close for comfort. That being said i went to club out of my area and bumped into some brummies "

First time clubbing, may be an idea to go out of town

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