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Games or the Chase

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have noticed on the forums this is becoming more and more in some replies of threads

that some people like the chase, or they are playing games or have an agenda

Personally i'm not into games or the chase, if i like someone i converse swap numbers and meet.

But lately people think "playing hard to get is just the norm"

well this lady NO if i say no thanks i actually mean it

do you prefer a meet without the chase, the agenda and no games as thats what i like and prefer

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

The game and chase add to the fun ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just want a simple, hassle, drama free life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just want a simple, hassle, drama free life."

hell yes

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

I like the chase. It's better than tipping point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just want a simple, hassle, drama free life.

hell yes"

I love fun and games, but not that sort.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just want a simple, hassle, drama free life.

hell yes

I love fun and games, but not that sort."

mind games, unhonesty and agendas arent for me

thats what i meant x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just want a simple, hassle, drama free life.

hell yes

I love fun and games, but not that sort.

mind games, unhonesty and agendas arent for me

thats what i meant x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some just like the attention.I guess it is an ego boost.

I do my best to try and avoid them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have noticed on the forums this is becoming more and more in some replies of threads

that some people like the chase, or they are playing games or have an agenda

Personally i'm not into games or the chase, if i like someone i converse swap numbers and meet.

But lately people think "playing hard to get is just the norm"

well this lady NO if i say no thanks i actually mean it

do you prefer a meet without the chase, the agenda and no games as thats what i like and prefer

"

Oh i'm too old for playing games! I know whati want and what i'm looking for and not. With me, it's social meet then if both happy the REAL fun games begin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to flirt and have men flirt with me but any I want to meet I chat to though private messages as well as on forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's straight forward people here? Have one of them washed and sent to my room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im here for genuine meets. As for games I haven't the time or energy, and for the chase i don't mind as long as it leads somewhere.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"I love to flirt and have men flirt with me but any I want to meet I chat to though private messages as well as on forums "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the chase and the games at first but it gets boring very quickly!

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

here was me thinking u wanted to shag bradly Walsh

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Now this is for us is 'time wasting' when done in a certain ways, ie.,Initial interest, getting on fine then silence either way is anyones perogative. Picking up the convo a second and third time with months in between, setting up meet dates, silence, repeat is chasing/game playing. Don't have the time of day for that, the notes tool can be useful at times.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"here was me thinking u wanted to shag bradly Walsh"

why can u arrange it \_

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now this is for us is 'time wasting' when done in a certain ways, ie.,Initial interest, getting on fine then silence either way is anyones perogative. Picking up the convo a second and third time with months in between, setting up meet dates, silence, repeat is chasing/game playing. Don't have the time of day for that, the notes tool can be useful at times. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now this is for us is 'time wasting' when done in a certain ways, ie.,Initial interest, getting on fine then silence either way is anyones perogative. Picking up the convo a second and third time with months in between, setting up meet dates, silence, repeat is chasing/game playing. Don't have the time of day for that, the notes tool can be useful at times. "

this is the point

i say no thanks and that's what i mean not maybe,

if something has made me say no its there for a reason and i listen to my gut

some people who chase as they think "it will wear you down eventually" makes them look stalkerish and desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't give people the opportunity to mess around. Id much rather just say it like it is. When I've said thanks, but no thanks, then its usually been respected, if it isn't then I block.

As with most things, we're responsible for ourselves. If I've been messed around then its my own fault for allowing them to do it.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"I just want a simple, hassle, drama free life."

Amen.

I find people love playing with fire but are really shocked when they get burned.

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