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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone, I was just wondering if anybody had any experience of "regular" dating sites such as match and eharmony? I've been single for a couple of years now and I'm starting to hate the being alone.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on tinder and pof .but still single myself .had fun from them but that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've "dated" and got sex from both Tinder and POF.There are genuine people on them,but be careful if you're looking for love...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on tinder and pof .but still single myself .had fun from them but that's all "

im on tinder and pof and no issues with them but plenty from here on there

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By *wiggy2112Woman
over a year ago

some where in Yorkshire

I was a gud one but i decided it wasn't what i was looking for ...seen a few of the guys profiles on here which is quite funny as on the dating sites ya not their type but on here they are all over u lol x gud luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was a gud one but i decided it wasn't what i was looking for ...seen a few of the guys profiles on here which is quite funny as on the dating sites ya not their type but on here they are all over u lol x gud luck x "

yeah u say no on here yet they find you on a dating site and think you will change your mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will have luck on all sites op as its saturated with men lol.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I think I'd rather date someone from here as I know they'd be into this

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I was on Match,there was hardly anyone local to me and I didn't have one date!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I'd rather date someone from here as I know they'd be into this "

Well I do have that thought too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I'd rather date someone from here as I know they'd be into this

Well I do have that thought too!"

It's worked for us,we met on here. Would never get anything like this if we had met somewhere else.x

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"I think I'd rather date someone from here as I know they'd be into this

Well I do have that thought too!"

Yeah same here match is expensive for what you get plus they are alot of fakers on there.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

My advice is don't do it they set you up to fail. I tried before i met my ex when i was looking for a relationship. Did not get a single meet in 2 years. I have had more meets on here that what i have had on 6 different dating sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We watched a really interesting TV programme on Ch4 last week about Tinder, Grinder, etc.... They look like lots of fun. They also talked about an app called 'Thrinder' for people looking online for threesomes.... Haven't checked it out yet but apps for dating seem to be the future!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone, I was just wondering if anybody had any experience of "regular" dating sites such as match and eharmony? I've been single for a couple of years now and I'm starting to hate the being alone.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Xx"

I mostly find people to date and fuck on OKC. Better than here or any other site I've tried.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on pof but full of nutters and weird people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was a gud one but i decided it wasn't what i was looking for ...seen a few of the guys profiles on here which is quite funny as on the dating sites ya not their type but on here they are all over u lol x gud luck x "

Yeah...exactly...friend of mine is on POF and his profile says looking for relationship...and he is far from it! He is on here and currently really going for it on the meet front lol...he plays with couples mainly as then he gets the shag without the commitment lol...

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

At least on here you can see what potential partners like and dislike and other attributes xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder all the way....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on tinder and pof .but still single myself .had fun from them but that's all "
whisk do you prefer tinder or pof... or should i be asking which one you had most results from ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

iv had a few dozen 'cup of tea' meets on pof in the past.most of the time it ended up in bed.its quite easy if you don't mind being a bit economical with the truth when you tell them your looking for a long term relationship..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the years of been single and in a relationships iv found all the sites have plus and negative points its really what you make of it.

If your after than more than a fuck then don't put out for the first few dates if the guy is just wanting fun be will soon run off if he realise that ain't on the table. Lots of guys and women use them sites and lie about what they really want or are after.

So bit of forward thinking and can catch then out. Iv found realtionships from tinder. But also girl who wanted nothing more than a wham bam.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I used eharmony last year but everyone looked so vanilla! At least here the 'what you into sexually' conversation is easier and people are more likely to not be horrified! I've changed my fab profile text and trying here see if it's a viable option to meet a partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on POF as well and the women are just as unlikely to respond to messages on there as they are on here.

I guess it's still all down to looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was on Match,there was hardly anyone local to me and I didn't have one date! "

I'm glad it's not just me, I also find that people have completely lost the art of conversation... There's a few guys on there that send a wink almost daily.... Just write a sodding message if your that interested!!! It smacks of laziness and who wants to date someone like that?!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok I've gone for eharmony. It seems I don't have many appropriate photos though, my fault for always taking naughty selfies! Thanks for the help everyone, it's been really appreciated xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"iv had a few dozen 'cup of tea' meets on pof in the past.most of the time it ended up in bed.its quite easy if you don't mind being a bit economical with the truth when you tell them your looking for a long term relationship.. "

And here's where why we can't have a nice, honest community.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"iv had a few dozen 'cup of tea' meets on pof in the past.most of the time it ended up in bed.its quite easy if you don't mind being a bit economical with the truth when you tell them your looking for a long term relationship..

And here's where why we can't have a nice, honest community."

Yep and here's why my profile now finishes with 'life's too short for bullshit'

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"iv had a few dozen 'cup of tea' meets on pof in the past.most of the time it ended up in bed.its quite easy if you don't mind being a bit economical with the truth when you tell them your looking for a long term relationship.. "

Do a bit of bald-faced lying you mean??

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Ok I've gone for eharmony. It seems I don't have many appropriate photos though, my fault for always taking naughty selfies! Thanks for the help everyone, it's been really appreciated xx"

eHarmony was a TOTAL waste of time in my experience, sorry!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"iv had a few dozen 'cup of tea' meets on pof in the past.most of the time it ended up in bed.its quite easy if you don't mind being a bit economical with the truth when you tell them your looking for a long term relationship..

And here's where why we can't have a nice, honest community.

Yep and here's why my profile now finishes with 'life's too short for bullshit' "

And why mine starts with 'sick of time wasters and barefaced liars!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I've gone for eharmony. It seems I don't have many appropriate photos though, my fault for always taking naughty selfies! Thanks for the help everyone, it's been really appreciated xx"

One of my closest friends met his partner on E-Harmony and have been very happy together for over 10 years. They are vanilla though...as far as I know

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Ok I've gone for eharmony. It seems I don't have many appropriate photos though, my fault for always taking naughty selfies! Thanks for the help everyone, it's been really appreciated xx

eHarmony was a TOTAL waste of time in my experience, sorry!"

Me too...so where do you meet lovely genuine honest men with high sex drives. There must be some about somewhere!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few friends of mine are on Pof and badoo. Not bothered with it personally x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I've gone for eharmony. It seems I don't have many appropriate photos though, my fault for always taking naughty selfies! Thanks for the help everyone, it's been really appreciated xx

eHarmony was a TOTAL waste of time in my experience, sorry!

Me too...so where do you meet lovely genuine honest men with high sex drives. There must be some about somewhere! "

I'm seriously starting to think being alone is a much better idea,

Miley Cyrus has spoken out about women that choose to be alone, its quite interesting really, I sometimes feel that I put a lot of pressure on myself about finding someone when really there are more important things

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Not tried the pay sites such as match and harmony, I'm on pof ive had a few dates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on POF and did meet two guys and had some fun (sex)...which initially they liked...but then when they realised that I am kinky and full on they didn't want to meet again lol...fine by me...they can stay in their vanilla worlds ha ha

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Maybe fab should have an advert section for those looking for relationships.

"Geeky swinger, has her own lightsaber. Apply within"

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not sure how I'd go about dating again, think I'd prefer to stay on my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found most singles on here are also on pof, tinder and e harmony. Strange eh...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found most singles on here are also on pof, tinder and e harmony. Strange eh...? "

Why is that strange?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on tinder a year ago next week. We are perfect for each other and recommended persevering .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found most singles on here are also on pof, tinder and e harmony. Strange eh...? "

Very strange but oh so true

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

Met my last two LTRs on Pof and I know lots of people who've met and settled from there.

I would say there are lots looking for fun but they're easy to spot once you've been there a while and chatted to lots of people. Just trust your gut.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've just made an account on pof

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


"Hi everyone, I was just wondering if anybody had any experience of "regular" dating sites such as match and eharmony? I've been single for a couple of years now and I'm starting to hate the being alone.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Xx

I mostly find people to date and fuck on OKC. Better than here or any other site I've tried."

I'm on OKC and haven't had any luck so far, maybe because Iam married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone, I was just wondering if anybody had any experience of "regular" dating sites such as match and eharmony? I've been single for a couple of years now and I'm starting to hate the being alone.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Xx

I mostly find people to date and fuck on OKC. Better than here or any other site I've tried.

I'm on OKC and haven't had any luck so far, maybe because Iam married."
No, its the same like on all dating sites there is just to many men and one or 2 women lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"iv had a few dozen 'cup of tea' meets on pof in the past.most of the time it ended up in bed.its quite easy if you don't mind being a bit economical with the truth when you tell them your looking for a long term relationship..

And here's where why we can't have a nice, honest community.

Yep and here's why my profile now finishes with 'life's too short for bullshit' "

true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found most singles on here are also on pof, tinder and e harmony. Strange eh...?

Why is that strange?"

maybe it's just me, but I believe the other sites are for dating where as this site is unique. Nothing wrong with using sites but if I was on here as an open swinger I feel I would mislead someone if I was on a regular dating site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found most singles on here are also on pof, tinder and e harmony. Strange eh...?

Why is that strange?

maybe it's just me, but I believe the other sites are for dating where as this site is unique. Nothing wrong with using sites but if I was on here as an open swinger I feel I would mislead someone if I was on a regular dating site. "

Only if you continued though... If I met someone on a vanilla site I felt was the one for me I'd stop swinging. simple. It would always be here to come back to if I/ we wanted that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to have a boyfriend, been single almost 6 years now. I'm just lucky I came out of my 10 year relationship with a child.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on Pof and hardly get any messages on there and have even been called ugly a few times but on here I get loads and I don't have any rude pics up so I don't get it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have tried regular dating sites, but it's not for me. Fab is perfect for me right now in my life. I am single and enjoying myself, but sometimes I do want to be in a relationship but..........

to be continued

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on POF before. Dated and had sex with a few women on there.

Like someone said, be careful if you are looking for love.

Women have a lot of choice on there and it's easy for them to keep 'dating' in order to find their perfect man, whereas before internet dating I think people would give a relationship more of a chance than they do now as it's easy to just find another person to go on a date with.

There are some women who are on there for ages, I'd left and then came back on they'd still be on there.

I think internet dating has made people too fussy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i have met on POf and said i dont want a relationship but how about nsa sex, most dont have an issue with it

being upfront is a big thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on POF before. Dated and had sex with a few women on there.

Like someone said, be careful if you are looking for love.

Women have a lot of choice on there and it's easy for them to keep 'dating' in order to find their perfect man, whereas before internet dating I think people would give a relationship more of a chance than they do now as it's easy to just find another person to go on a date with.

There are some women who are on there for ages, I'd left and then came back on they'd still be on there.

I think internet dating has made people too fussy!!"

I couldn't agree more, someone's status update on here a while ago said ,"too much choice makes us fussy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on POF before. Dated and had sex with a few women on there.

Like someone said, be careful if you are looking for love.

Women have a lot of choice on there and it's easy for them to keep 'dating' in order to find their perfect man, whereas before internet dating I think people would give a relationship more of a chance than they do now as it's easy to just find another person to go on a date with.

There are some women who are on there for ages, I'd left and then came back on they'd still be on there.

I think internet dating has made people too fussy!!

I couldn't agree more, someone's status update on here a while ago said ,"too much choice makes us fussy"

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or people no desire to meet just chat shite on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on Pof and hardly get any messages on there and have even been called ugly a few times but on here I get loads and I don't have any rude pics up so I don't get it lol "

Your far from ugly. And no that's not a cheap way to get into your knickers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on Pof and hardly get any messages on there and have even been called ugly a few times but on here I get loads and I don't have any rude pics up so I don't get it lol

Your far from ugly. And no that's not a cheap way to get into your knickers."

i get strange messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I were looking for a vanilla long term relationship I would join one of the paid for sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on Pof and hardly get any messages on there and have even been called ugly a few times but on here I get loads and I don't have any rude pics up so I don't get it lol

Your far from ugly. And no that's not a cheap way to get into your knickers.

i get strange messages "

I've just sent you one. Hope it's not strange lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I were looking for a vanilla long term relationship I would join one of the paid for sites.

"

Does paying make the better? Serious question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I were looking for a vanilla long term relationship I would join one of the paid for sites.

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they arent any better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on Pof and hardly get any messages on there and have even been called ugly a few times but on here I get loads and I don't have any rude pics up so I don't get it lol

Your far from ugly. And no that's not a cheap way to get into your knickers.

i get strange messages

I've just sent you one. Hope it's not strange lol"

on pof or here L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I were looking for a vanilla long term relationship I would join one of the paid for sites.

"

I wish I had the money to take this risk but there's no guarantee that it would increase the chance of someone replying to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on Pof and hardly get any messages on there and have even been called ugly a few times but on here I get loads and I don't have any rude pics up so I don't get it lol

Your far from ugly. And no that's not a cheap way to get into your knickers."

Thank u

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"If I were looking for a vanilla long term relationship I would join one of the paid for sites.

I wish I had the money to take this risk but there's no guarantee that it would increase the chance of someone replying to you."

Tried and paid on match for a while virtually nothing those that did never turned up or deleted there accounts before we had chance too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that as long as you go into it with your eyes open, then you'll be ok. POF is full of fabsters - the married ones as well. The paid for sites are probably better - but I've had friends with no success who've paid a fortune. A proper dating agency can be great - but it's expensive. Perservere with whichever one you go for.

And strangely enough, saying all that -

I didn't expect it -I've had much more interesting evenings out for dinner/cinema /concerts/weekends away etc from here than on any proper dating site ! You'd think it would be the opposite .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I were looking for a vanilla long term relationship I would join one of the paid for sites.

Does paying make the better? Serious question.

"

,

An acquaintance met his wife on one and tells me they are the better option.

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


"I'm on Pof and hardly get any messages on there and have even been called ugly a few times but on here I get loads and I don't have any rude pics up so I don't get it lol "

You are certainly not ugly!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on Pof and hardly get any messages on there and have even been called ugly a few times but on here I get loads and I don't have any rude pics up so I don't get it lol "

I thinks it's a case of if in private go with what you like, and to be honest, some guys and girls will screw anything but if you're going out with someone whom your mates/family will see, you're likely fold to social pressure on what you think they see as acceptable.

I had a chance a few years ago (back in college) for a relationship (apparently she was really into me) with a larger girl, really pretty face, but being young and scared of being judged, I turned her down, because I thought that my friends and family would judge me as having settled for "second best" because she wasn't thin. I have regretted it ever since, and if I ever got the chance, I would apologise to her for being such a prig and hurting her by being so blunt and stupid. I know I hurt her emotionally and caused her self doubt about her looks, and I hope she is happy now with somebody who loves her.

Everybody is attractive to somebody else, maybe not the one you want, but someone is out there.

I may have gone a bit off topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on Pof and hardly get any messages on there and have even been called ugly a few times but on here I get loads and I don't have any rude pics up so I don't get it lol

I thinks it's a case of if in private go with what you like, and to be honest, some guys and girls will screw anything but if you're going out with someone whom your mates/family will see, you're likely fold to social pressure on what you think they see as acceptable.

I had a chance a few years ago (back in college) for a relationship (apparently she was really into me) with a larger girl, really pretty face, but being young and scared of being judged, I turned her down, because I thought that my friends and family would judge me as having settled for "second best" because she wasn't thin. I have regretted it ever since, and if I ever got the chance, I would apologise to her for being such a prig and hurting her by being so blunt and stupid. I know I hurt her emotionally and caused her self doubt about her looks, and I hope she is happy now with somebody who loves her.

Everybody is attractive to somebody else, maybe not the one you want, but someone is out there.

I may have gone a bit off topic "

Would of , could of, should of? We all have regrets. Just remember the 3 B's and everything will fall into place;

1)Boobs

2)Bums

3)Beer!

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on Pof and hardly get any messages on there and have even been called ugly a few times but on here I get loads and I don't have any rude pics up so I don't get it lol

I thinks it's a case of if in private go with what you like, and to be honest, some guys and girls will screw anything but if you're going out with someone whom your mates/family will see, you're likely fold to social pressure on what you think they see as acceptable.

I had a chance a few years ago (back in college) for a relationship (apparently she was really into me) with a larger girl, really pretty face, but being young and scared of being judged, I turned her down, because I thought that my friends and family would judge me as having settled for "second best" because she wasn't thin. I have regretted it ever since, and if I ever got the chance, I would apologise to her for being such a prig and hurting her by being so blunt and stupid. I know I hurt her emotionally and caused her self doubt about her looks, and I hope she is happy now with somebody who loves her.

Everybody is attractive to somebody else, maybe not the one you want, but someone is out there.

I may have gone a bit off topic "

I think your completely right. I can get secret fat girl sex whenever I want but people don't actually want me, they're happy to pick me up and drop me when it suits them but I'll never be someone that they're proud to be with, that's why I just hook up in clubs now!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I think your completely right. I can get secret fat girl sex whenever I want but people don't actually want me, they're happy to pick me up and drop me when it suits them but I'll never be someone that they're proud to be with, that's why I just hook up in clubs now!!"

Thing is I find now that I am really attracted to women with a little extra, but when I am looking for a relationship, they think all I want is a one night stand. I think this is a case of me reaping what I sowed, but at least I had the decency not to lead Jess on and use her. To be honest, one night stands leave me a little cold as I far prefer knowing someone as a friend with whom I am casually and mutually enjoying sex.

Why doesn't this forum let you edits posts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I think your completely right. I can get secret fat girl sex whenever I want but people don't actually want me, they're happy to pick me up and drop me when it suits them but I'll never be someone that they're proud to be with, that's why I just hook up in clubs now!!

Thing is I find now that I am really attracted to women with a little extra, but when I am looking for a relationship, they think all I want is a one night stand. I think this is a case of me reaping what I sowed, but at least I had the decency not to lead Jess on and use her. To be honest, one night stands leave me a little cold as I far prefer knowing someone as a friend with whom I am casually and mutually enjoying sex.

Why doesn't this forum let you edits posts?"

That wasn't a dig!! Sorry if it came across like that

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over a year ago

Not sure if it would class as a 'regular' dating site but tried TBW for a while with some success, however distance meant it fizzled out after 6 months or so. Fun whilst it lasted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I think your completely right. I can get secret fat girl sex whenever I want but people don't actually want me, they're happy to pick me up and drop me when it suits them but I'll never be someone that they're proud to be with, that's why I just hook up in clubs now!!

Thing is I find now that I am really attracted to women with a little extra, but when I am looking for a relationship, they think all I want is a one night stand. I think this is a case of me reaping what I sowed, but at least I had the decency not to lead Jess on and use her. To be honest, one night stands leave me a little cold as I far prefer knowing someone as a friend with whom I am casually and mutually enjoying sex.

Why doesn't this forum let you edits posts?

That wasn't a dig!! Sorry if it came across like that "

Sorry, I didn't think you were having a dig, and I certainly hope I didn't come across as taking one. All I was trying to say is that, as you noticed, most men are only too willing to screw you, but not let their mates see you together, and my behaviour as a teenager is directly attached to that. Letting others dictate my behaviour then is still one of my biggest shames, and I bet it is for a lot of people.

If you were closer to me I would be honoured to meet you in a club or a non swinging setting,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure if it would class as a 'regular' dating site but tried TBW for a while with some success, however distance meant it fizzled out after 6 months or so. Fun whilst it lasted. "

Couldnt do distance

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"I'm on Pof and hardly get any messages on there and have even been called ugly a few times but on here I get loads and I don't have any rude pics up so I don't get it lol "

I will join pof and send you loads of messages, you are yummy.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"Not sure if it would class as a 'regular' dating site but tried TBW for a while with some success, however distance meant it fizzled out after 6 months or so. Fun whilst it lasted.

Couldnt do distance "

Long distance relationships are very hard to maintain.If not impossible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure if it would class as a 'regular' dating site but tried TBW for a while with some success, however distance meant it fizzled out after 6 months or so. Fun whilst it lasted.

Couldnt do distance

Long distance relationships are very hard to maintain.If not impossible."

No I agree if you like them alot cool.

But crewe isnt long distance lol

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"Not sure if it would class as a 'regular' dating site but tried TBW for a while with some success, however distance meant it fizzled out after 6 months or so. Fun whilst it lasted.

Couldnt do distance

Long distance relationships are very hard to maintain.If not impossible.

No I agree if you like them alot cool.

But crewe isnt long distance lol"

Thanks that means alot x Id like to think i would do my best to keep the relationship going regardless of distance if the love was strong enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure if it would class as a 'regular' dating site but tried TBW for a while with some success, however distance meant it fizzled out after 6 months or so. Fun whilst it lasted.

Couldnt do distance

Long distance relationships are very hard to maintain.If not impossible.

No I agree if you like them alot cool.

But crewe isnt long distance lol

Thanks that means alot x Id like to think i would do my best to keep the relationship going regardless of distance if the love was strong enough."

If love is there it will happen

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"Not sure if it would class as a 'regular' dating site but tried TBW for a while with some success, however distance meant it fizzled out after 6 months or so. Fun whilst it lasted.

Couldnt do distance

Long distance relationships are very hard to maintain.If not impossible.

No I agree if you like them alot cool.

But crewe isnt long distance lol

Thanks that means alot x Id like to think i would do my best to keep the relationship going regardless of distance if the love was strong enough.

If love is there it will happen"

Always believed in love conquering all bit old fashioned thinking i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure if it would class as a 'regular' dating site but tried TBW for a while with some success, however distance meant it fizzled out after 6 months or so. Fun whilst it lasted.

Couldnt do distance

Long distance relationships are very hard to maintain.If not impossible.

No I agree if you like them alot cool.

But crewe isnt long distance lol

Thanks that means alot x Id like to think i would do my best to keep the relationship going regardless of distance if the love was strong enough.

If love is there it will happen

Always believed in love conquering all bit old fashioned thinking i guess "

and me

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"Not sure if it would class as a 'regular' dating site but tried TBW for a while with some success, however distance meant it fizzled out after 6 months or so. Fun whilst it lasted.

Couldnt do distance

Long distance relationships are very hard to maintain.If not impossible.

No I agree if you like them alot cool.

But crewe isnt long distance lol

Thanks that means alot x Id like to think i would do my best to keep the relationship going regardless of distance if the love was strong enough.

If love is there it will happen

Always believed in love conquering all bit old fashioned thinking i guess

and me"

Good to know im not the only one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure if it would class as a 'regular' dating site but tried TBW for a while with some success, however distance meant it fizzled out after 6 months or so. Fun whilst it lasted.

Couldn't do distance

Long distance relationships are very hard to maintain. If not impossible."

We both knew what we were after, days out/meals, weekends away and fun was good but incompatible work schedules made meeting difficult at times before she got job abroad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone, I was just wondering if anybody had any experience of "regular" dating sites such as match and eharmony? I've been single for a couple of years now and I'm starting to hate the being alone.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Xx"

I have used them before, met some nice people and some crazies, just like real lfe. It happens when it happens sadly. These sites just take the having to chat someone up but out of the equation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"iv had a few dozen 'cup of tea' meets on pof in the past.most of the time it ended up in bed.its quite easy if you don't mind being a bit economical with the truth when you tell them your looking for a long term relationship..

Do a bit of bald-faced lying you mean?? "

I never tell lies.i always tell the truth.the half truth.and nothing like the truth..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone, I was just wondering if anybody had any experience of "regular" dating sites such as match and eharmony? I've been single for a couple of years now and I'm starting to hate the being alone.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Xx"

I am single too...and a lot find me strange but a lot understand that i see Samantha as the girlfriend i dont have...still get to buy nice lingerie for her...er me lol

But was once on Plenty o Fish..and listed crossdressing as a hobby/interest...which it is i guess x

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By *unkydesignCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Hi everyone, I was just wondering if anybody had any experience of "regular" dating sites such as match and eharmony? I've been single for a couple of years now and I'm starting to hate the being alone.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Xx

I mostly find people to date and fuck on OKC. Better than here or any other site I've tried."

The male half of us was on PoF and OKC before we got together. He had more sex from PoF but they mostly had serious issues. Had a few nice meets via OKC and they were more compatible as there is a better search filter.

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