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By *urvybrunette91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

tidworth

No... Not the TV show.

I feel I'm at a bit of a crossroad in my life, and I don't know which path to take... So I thought I would ask you wise forumites!

I've been single for about a year now, and I am starting to get lonely and I guess I'm missing the feeling of dating someone... But I am also really really enjoying my time on Fab.

However the two are now becoming intertwined in my head, which I guess is not good for my own sanity.

Does anyone manage to keep NSA sex, and a dating life, completely separate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

date a swinger.. tah dahhhhhh

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"date a swinger.. tah dahhhhhh "

You beat me to it.

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By *urvybrunette91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

tidworth


"date a swinger.. tah dahhhhhh "

Where do I find one of these so called datable swingers?!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Check out the fuck buddy post - get yourself a friend with benefits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can do both but if it gets serious then I guess the fab side may need to put aside unless of course he says yes please to it

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field


"date a swinger.. tah dahhhhhh

Where do I find one of these so called datable swingers?! "

don't look, just have fun and see what happens.

I have several friends who are couples/married/have kids that met through the scene.

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By *urvybrunette91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

tidworth


"Check out the fuck buddy post - get yourself a friend with benefits "

I'm on that post! And I started a similar one previous to that.

I'm just having no luck seeing the same person more than a couple of times!

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

I was on the scene four years before having a meet with my now partner and we clicked straight away despite coming to it from different angles. We get on so well, and I could not imagine how I would be without him. Spent the day with the family and its not like we even met here, until we go to clubs together .... we enjoy the social side of the scene. If you really are set in swinging I think the only thing you can do is date a swinger as I am not sure vanilla men would understand the dynamic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When at a crossroad remember it doesn't matter which way you take, so long as you're moving forward x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When at a crossroad remember it doesn't matter which way you take, so long as you're moving forward x"

Unless you were happier before... In which case turn around! Lol

Sorry, no help whatsoever

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By *urvybrunette91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

tidworth


"When at a crossroad remember it doesn't matter which way you take, so long as you're moving forward x

Unless you were happier before... In which case turn around! Lol

Sorry, no help whatsoever"

It's ok - you tried your best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"date a swinger.. tah dahhhhhh

Where do I find one of these so called datable swingers?!

don't look, just have fun and see what happens.

I have several friends who are couples/married/have kids that met through the scene."

This. Just go with the flow and let things run naturally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience on here. Every woman I've interacted with around your age -25 wants to date.

I don't want to date at all.

Nothing wrong with what you want. .. But believe me you're not alone in that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel the exact same as this. My problem is the people I'd like to date and would date me are 50 million miles away. I'll be sticking to fuckin. I think until a tall hot bearded tattooed man falls between my legs.

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By *urvybrunette91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

tidworth


"I feel the exact same as this. My problem is the people I'd like to date and would date me are 50 million miles away. I'll be sticking to fuckin. I think until a tall hot bearded tattooed man falls between my legs. "

I call dibs on him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel the exact same as this. My problem is the people I'd like to date and would date me are 50 million miles away. I'll be sticking to fuckin. I think until a tall hot bearded tattooed man falls between my legs.

I call dibs on him! "

I'd be tempted to move to date either one of you-your both bloody gorgeous

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"date a swinger.. tah dahhhhhh

Where do I find one of these so called datable swingers?! "

At one of those parties you hold on your yacht maybe? I'm not really much help am I?

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