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"I would never give out details to anyone about somebody I had met, I find the thought of someone mailing me to ask me questions about someone who had verified me ridiculous " | |||
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"For a long while ive been suspicious of someone on here after some digging ive found the truth out and glad I followed my instincts So girls and boys do you research the question is often asked on here the importance of vverifications in some instance they are a vital tool follow the veri trail n don't be afraid to message the people who left the verification If it seams to good to be true it often is Here endeth the lesson according to the gospel of prettytiedup Happy Sunday xxxxxx" I hope they don't have a bunny 
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"In this instance it was the rite thing to do as all the pics r fake n the verifications although real say nothing of the fact the pics r fake Also if I haven't struck up a friendship with one of his meets I wouldn't of found out he was bitching behind my bk she sent me the evidence x" You sound obsessed. And not in a good way | |||
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"I would never give out details to anyone about somebody I had met, I find the thought of someone mailing me to ask me questions about someone who had verified me ridiculous "I entirely agree with this. I had a very creepy experience when a guy approached my veri (a good friend luckily) for intimate details. My veri refused to go into details because he thought it was odd and next thing the stalker guy had reported both of us for fake veris and written to my friends to say I was a fake....I mean wtf! I am not quite sure what your point is. I tend to trust my own judgment 100% of the time. If someone doesn't seem right to me then I just block and leave it at that. | |||
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"So indescrete and petty too..." so she should just ignore her gut feeling dnt check up and be made a fool of trying to meet a fckn creep??? | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl " You fell for a guy you have never met saying he loved you  | |||
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"In this instance it was the rite thing to do as all the pics r fake n the verifications although real say nothing of the fact the pics r fake Also if I haven't struck up a friendship with one of his meets I wouldn't of found out he was bitching behind my bk she sent me the evidence x You sound obsessed. And not in a good way" wtf?? obsessed? for checking a guy out who turns out to be a fake! | |||
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"Good to hear you found out and are safe... I wonder if there should be something on the site to help others pick up 'danger' signals ?" Yes thank you im glad I didn't meet him cos he aint who he sayes he is n spun me a web of lies yes im a fool for falling for his so called affection ill be more guarded now n keep emotionals safely locked away | |||
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"Good to hear you found out and are safe... I wonder if there should be something on the site to help others pick up 'danger' signals ?" | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl " A guy you've never met tells you he loves you (on a swingers site too) and you fall for it? That says as much about you as it does about him. | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl You fell for a guy you have never met saying he loved you "Yes have you never had your head turned by beautiful pics n sweet words | |||
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"Always follow my gut instincts " | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl A guy you've never met tells you he loves you (on a swingers site too) and you fall for it? That says as much about you as it does about him." Yes ive already said im a fool | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl " Had you actually met him? Would that not have been a clue his pictures were fake? And if you hadn't met him surely the fact someone you'd nevet met was declaring their love for you should have set off massive alarm bells | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl You fell for a guy you have never met saying he loved you
Yes have you never had your head turned by beautiful pics n sweet words"I've had head from someone that had beautiful pics and said sweet words - is that the same! | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl You fell for a guy you have never met saying he loved you
Yes have you never had your head turned by beautiful pics n sweet words"depends..I've had a good wank at them possibly  | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl You fell for a guy you have never met saying he loved you
Yes have you never had your head turned by beautiful pics n sweet words
I've had head from someone that had beautiful pics and said sweet words - is that the same!" | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl " I wouldn't believe half the shit that comes out of some guys mouths on here!! Some will say anything! | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl Had you actually met him? Would that not have been a clue his pictures were fake? And if you hadn't met him surely the fact someone you'd nevet met was declaring their love for you should have set off massive alarm bells "I hadn't met him now and yes I did at first be we talked every day for hrs and he was very convincing Hes impersonating an American baseball player ive since learnt | |||
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"Good to hear you found out and are safe... I wonder if there should be something on the site to help others pick up 'danger' signals ?" I don't think the site should be responsible for people's lack of comnon sense and gullibility | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl I wouldn't believe half the shit that comes out of some guys mouths on here!! Some will say anything!" As will some women. | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl You fell for a guy you have never met saying he loved you
Yes have you never had your head turned by beautiful pics n sweet words"No but then I'm a cold bitch according to my ex, couldn't stand him so not going to fall for anyone on here | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl I wouldn't believe half the shit that comes out of some guys mouths on here!! Some will say anything!" I've stopped masturbating at ur pics..outta respect and dignity | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl Had you actually met him? Would that not have been a clue his pictures were fake? And if you hadn't met him surely the fact someone you'd nevet met was declaring their love for you should have set off massive alarm bells
I hadn't met him now and yes I did at first be we talked every day for hrs and he was very convincing
Hes impersonating an American baseball player ive since learnt"Tineye would have found that out for you | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl I wouldn't believe half the shit that comes out of some guys mouths on here!! Some will say anything!" I will be more guarded from now on that's for sure x | |||
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"In this instance it was the rite thing to do as all the pics r fake n the verifications although real say nothing of the fact the pics r fake Also if I haven't struck up a friendship with one of his meets I wouldn't of found out he was bitching behind my bk she sent me the evidence x You sound obsessed. And not in a good way wtf?? obsessed? for checking a guy out who turns out to be a fake! " How would you describe messaging someone's verifications? | |||
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"Why had this woman verified him if he wasn't real?" She said she facetime with him so new what she was getting plus she saw it as just a shag he didn't "woo" her I was a fool | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl I wouldn't believe half the shit that comes out of some guys mouths on here!! Some will say anything! As will some women." | |||
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"I would never give out details to anyone about somebody I had met, I find the thought of someone mailing me to ask me questions about someone who had verified me ridiculous "This is exactly why I've hidden mine. I've had this happen 5 or 6 times. I find it spooky and quite frankly weird. | |||
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"I trust myself and my own instincts,I'd never ask around about a person,if I felt I needed to then there's obviously something not right and I'd back up onto paddys hard cock" aww sweetheart | |||
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"Why had this woman verified him if he wasn't real?" he isnt the only one on here with fake veris! do you know how easy it actually is?  | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl You fell for a guy you have never met saying he loved you
Yes have you never had your head turned by beautiful pics n sweet words
No but then I'm a cold bitch according to my ex, couldn't stand him so not going to fall for anyone on here "Can you be my mentor lol | |||
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"Why had this woman verified him if he wasn't real? She said she facetime with him so new what she was getting plus she saw it as just a shag he didn't "woo" her I was a fool " So if she knew his pics were fake and he was full if Shit why did she verify him? | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl I wouldn't believe half the shit that comes out of some guys mouths on here!! Some will say anything!" Some will say anything which makes it even harder for us genuine guys, of which I am one! All I'd say to any woman on here is take it all with a pinch of salt and take it slowly when dealing with guys. Get to know them over a long period of time. Don't just jump straight in because there's some proper nut jobs around. | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl Had you actually met him? Would that not have been a clue his pictures were fake? And if you hadn't met him surely the fact someone you'd nevet met was declaring their love for you should have set off massive alarm bells
I hadn't met him now and yes I did at first be we talked every day for hrs and he was very convincing
Hes impersonating an American baseball player ive since learnt
Tineye would have found that out for you"Tineye? | |||
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"In this instance it was the rite thing to do as all the pics r fake n the verifications although real say nothing of the fact the pics r fake Also if I haven't struck up a friendship with one of his meets I wouldn't of found out he was bitching behind my bk she sent me the evidence x You sound obsessed. And not in a good way wtf?? obsessed? for checking a guy out who turns out to be a fake! How would you describe messaging someone's verifications? " a general inquiry into how they actually are? | |||
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"I trust myself and my own instincts,I'd never ask around about a person,if I felt I needed to then there's obviously something not right and I'd back away" In hindsight xxx | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl I wouldn't believe half the shit that comes out of some guys mouths on here!! Some will say anything! Some will say anything which makes it even harder for us genuine guys, of which I am one! All I'd say to any woman on here is take it all with a pinch of salt and take it slowly when dealing with guys. Get to know them over a long period of time. Don't just jump straight in because there's some proper nut jobs around." Met, shag, go, works for me, I don't give them time to be nutters | |||
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"I trust myself and my own instincts,I'd never ask around about a person,if I felt I needed to then there's obviously something not right and I'd back up onto paddys hard cock aww sweetheart "With a cheesegrater for it | |||
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"So if you see he or she lasted for ages in bed its not necessarily true or best cock oral lol "Awww sorry shag xxxxx | |||
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"Why had this woman verified him if he wasn't real? She said she facetime with him so new what she was getting plus she saw it as just a shag he didn't "woo" her I was a fool So if she knew his pics were fake and he was full if Shit why did she verify him? "That I don't no she said she felt sorry for him | |||
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"Why had this woman verified him if he wasn't real? She said she facetime with him so new what she was getting plus she saw it as just a shag he didn't "woo" her I was a fool So if she knew his pics were fake and he was full if Shit why did she verify him?
That I don't no she said she felt sorry for him "now she should have been reported for leaving a FALSE verification ffs... | |||
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"Why had this woman verified him if he wasn't real? She said she facetime with him so new what she was getting plus she saw it as just a shag he didn't "woo" her I was a fool So if she knew his pics were fake and he was full if Shit why did she verify him?
That I don't no she said she felt sorry for him "Then she's equally guilty of the deception, how do you know you can really trust her after that. Perhaps she's full of Shit and he's the genuine one. Perhaps they fell out and she's bitter about it. This is why these types of private investigations are seldom useful. | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl I wouldn't believe half the shit that comes out of some guys mouths on here!! Some will say anything! Some will say anything which makes it even harder for us genuine guys, of which I am one! All I'd say to any woman on here is take it all with a pinch of salt and take it slowly when dealing with guys. Get to know them over a long period of time. Don't just jump straight in because there's some proper nut jobs around." Thank you I had attuly bein talking to him daily since November so I though I did no him and sadly believed him | |||
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"I trust myself and my own instincts,I'd never ask around about a person,if I felt I needed to then there's obviously something not right and I'd back up onto paddys hard cock aww sweetheart
With a cheesegrater for it "might provide some friction from that massively slippery fanny at least | |||
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"Why had this woman verified him if he wasn't real? She said she facetime with him so new what she was getting plus she saw it as just a shag he didn't "woo" her I was a fool So if she knew his pics were fake and he was full if Shit why did she verify him?
That I don't no she said she felt sorry for him "Are you sure she's genuine Dont mean to be rude but verifying someone you know isn't genuine does not make for someone I'd take their word for | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl I wouldn't believe half the shit that comes out of some guys mouths on here!! Some will say anything! As will some women." Not me. What's the point. | |||
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"So if you see he or she lasted for ages in bed its not necessarily true or best cock oral lol
Awww sorry shag xxxxx"I meant if you saw it on other profiles lol x. | |||
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"Why had this woman verified him if he wasn't real? She said she facetime with him so new what she was getting plus she saw it as just a shag he didn't "woo" her I was a fool So if she knew his pics were fake and he was full if Shit why did she verify him?
That I don't no she said she felt sorry for him
now she should have been reported for leaving a FALSE verification ffs..."I agree but I won't as she has helped me out she didn't have to tell me wit he was saying about me n screen sshooting it all | |||
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"Why had this woman verified him if he wasn't real? She said she facetime with him so new what she was getting plus she saw it as just a shag he didn't "woo" her I was a fool So if she knew his pics were fake and he was full if Shit why did she verify him?
That I don't no she said she felt sorry for him "So she's a liar too. | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl I wouldn't believe half the shit that comes out of some guys mouths on here!! Some will say anything! As will some women. Not me. What's the point." Me neither. | |||
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"Why had this woman verified him if he wasn't real? She said she facetime with him so new what she was getting plus she saw it as just a shag he didn't "woo" her I was a fool So if she knew his pics were fake and he was full if Shit why did she verify him?
That I don't no she said she felt sorry for him
now she should have been reported for leaving a FALSE verification ffs...
I agree but I won't as she has helped me out she didn't have to tell me wit he was saying about me n screen sshooting it all"Which is against site rules and indescrete. | |||
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"I've had people message people who've verified me before trying to get information about me, which is one of the reasons I don't display them now. I also rely on my instincts a lot more now I've been here for a while, if I'm not sure of someone then no amount of pretty pictures or lovely words from them would influence me. I don't pay attention to other people's verifications of them either for this very reason. " I think at the end of the day all we have are our instincts. Sadly sometimes we all make bad calls. We all live and learn at some time or other. | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl I wouldn't believe half the shit that comes out of some guys mouths on here!! Some will say anything! Some will say anything which makes it even harder for us genuine guys, of which I am one! All I'd say to any woman on here is take it all with a pinch of salt and take it slowly when dealing with guys. Get to know them over a long period of time. Don't just jump straight in because there's some proper nut jobs around. Thank you I had attuly bein talking to him daily since November so I though I did no him and sadly believed him" thank fck it didnt go any further! some reet slinky bastards on here lass and they will say owt for wank material! tell next guy you want a note from his mam! | |||
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"Why had this woman verified him if he wasn't real? She said she facetime with him so new what she was getting plus she saw it as just a shag he didn't "woo" her I was a fool So if she knew his pics were fake and he was full if Shit why did she verify him?
That I don't no she said she felt sorry for him
Then she's equally guilty of the deception, how do you know you can really trust her after that. Perhaps she's full of Shit and he's the genuine one. Perhaps they fell out and she's bitter about it.
This is why these types of private investigations are seldom useful."She screen shotted the convo they had so I no she was sticking up for me n he was saying nasty things about me Yes im a fool but a learned fool now | |||
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"Why had this woman verified him if he wasn't real? She said she facetime with him so new what she was getting plus she saw it as just a shag he didn't "woo" her I was a fool So if she knew his pics were fake and he was full if Shit why did she verify him?
That I don't no she said she felt sorry for him
now she should have been reported for leaving a FALSE verification ffs...
I agree but I won't as she has helped me out she didn't have to tell me wit he was saying about me n screen sshooting it all"And everything he was saying to her was unprompted? He was just randomly slagging you off to her? | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl I wouldn't believe half the shit that comes out of some guys mouths on here!! Some will say anything! As will some women." People will say anything to further their own ends. People will also make assumptions based on what they THINK is going on rather than asking. For a site supposedly based on honesty and trust there is a massive amount of bullshit and mis-trust lurking in the shadows. Heres a tip - ASK - stop messaging Veri's/friends, getting friends to check when they were last online, chasing forum posts, etc. You're an adult - fucking act like one and open your mouth.... | |||
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"Why had this woman verified him if he wasn't real? She said she facetime with him so new what she was getting plus she saw it as just a shag he didn't "woo" her I was a fool So if she knew his pics were fake and he was full if Shit why did she verify him?
That I don't no she said she felt sorry for him
Then she's equally guilty of the deception, how do you know you can really trust her after that. Perhaps she's full of Shit and he's the genuine one. Perhaps they fell out and she's bitter about it.
This is why these types of private investigations are seldom useful.
She screen shotted the convo they had so I no she was sticking up for me n he was saying nasty things about me
Yes im a fool but a learned fool now "So he was randomly chatting to her about you. That's an amazing coincidence. | |||
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"Why had this woman verified him if he wasn't real? She said she facetime with him so new what she was getting plus she saw it as just a shag he didn't "woo" her I was a fool So if she knew his pics were fake and he was full if Shit why did she verify him?
That I don't no she said she felt sorry for him
Are you sure she's genuine
Dont mean to be rude but verifying someone you know isn't genuine does not make for someone I'd take their word for
"She verified his technique as genuine not him as a person Given the things he got me to/do I wouldn't be surprised if he gave her wot to rite | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl I wouldn't believe half the shit that comes out of some guys mouths on here!! Some will say anything! As will some women. People will say anything to further their own ends. People will also make assumptions based on what they THINK is going on rather than asking. For a site supposedly based on honesty and trust there is a massive amount of bullshit and mis-trust lurking in the shadows. Heres a tip - ASK - stop messaging Veri's/friends, getting friends to check when they were last online, chasing forum posts, etc. You're an adult - fucking act like one and open your mouth...." And when you ask, and they blatantly lie time and time again....? | |||
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"Why had this woman verified him if he wasn't real? She said she facetime with him so new what she was getting plus she saw it as just a shag he didn't "woo" her I was a fool So if she knew his pics were fake and he was full if Shit why did she verify him?
That I don't no she said she felt sorry for him
now she should have been reported for leaving a FALSE verification ffs...
I agree but I won't as she has helped me out she didn't have to tell me wit he was saying about me n screen sshooting it all"Seriously I'm not having a pop but how can you know what she is saying is true How do you know she's not just saying it to put you off him Weird behaviour I know but some are on here | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl I wouldn't believe half the shit that comes out of some guys mouths on here!! Some will say anything! As will some women. Not me. What's the point." Nor me honestly is my downfall | |||
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"So if you see he or she lasted for ages in bed its not necessarily true or best cock oral lol
Awww sorry shag xxxxxI meant if you saw it on other profiles lol x."Don't confuse me shag lol | |||
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"I would never give out details to anyone about somebody I had met, I find the thought of someone mailing me to ask me questions about someone who had verified me ridiculous
This is exactly why I've hidden mine.
I've had this happen 5 or 6 times.
I find it spooky and quite frankly weird.
"I've never had this happen. But I would hide my verifications like a shot if I did. And if someone messaged me to ask about someone I'd met I'd reiterate my verification and no more, think it was weird and stalkerish and let the person I had met know they were being checked up on. After all, I've met them not some person attempting to dig up dirt on them and if there's any such thing as am unwritten law of Fab loyalty then that might be it. | |||
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"In this instance it was the rite thing to do as all the pics r fake n the verifications although real say nothing of the fact the pics r fake Also if I haven't struck up a friendship with one of his meets I wouldn't of found out he was bitching behind my bk she sent me the evidence x You sound obsessed. And not in a good way wtf?? obsessed? for checking a guy out who turns out to be a fake! How would you describe messaging someone's verifications? a general inquiry into how they actually are? "And you think that is okay? If I messaged someone that had verified you to ask if you were who you said you were you'd be happy with that? You wouldn't feel violated? And you wouldn't feel that your previous meet was being massively indiscreet entering in to that conversation? | |||
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"I've had people message people who've verified me before trying to get information about me, which is one of the reasons I don't display them now. I also rely on my instincts a lot more now I've been here for a while, if I'm not sure of someone then no amount of pretty pictures or lovely words from them would influence me. I don't pay attention to other people's verifications of them either for this very reason. I think at the end of the day all we have are our instincts. Sadly sometimes we all make bad calls. We all live and learn at some time or other." Yes im glad the haters r all perfect | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl I wouldn't believe half the shit that comes out of some guys mouths on here!! Some will say anything! As will some women. People will say anything to further their own ends. People will also make assumptions based on what they THINK is going on rather than asking. For a site supposedly based on honesty and trust there is a massive amount of bullshit and mis-trust lurking in the shadows. Heres a tip - ASK - stop messaging Veri's/friends, getting friends to check when they were last online, chasing forum posts, etc. You're an adult - fucking act like one and open your mouth...." | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl I wouldn't believe half the shit that comes out of some guys mouths on here!! Some will say anything! Some will say anything which makes it even harder for us genuine guys, of which I am one! All I'd say to any woman on here is take it all with a pinch of salt and take it slowly when dealing with guys. Get to know them over a long period of time. Don't just jump straight in because there's some proper nut jobs around. Thank you I had attuly bein talking to him daily since November so I though I did no him and sadly believed him thank fck it didnt go any further! some reet slinky bastards on here lass and they will say owt for wank material! tell next guy you want a note from his mam! "Hehehehe xxx | |||
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"Why had this woman verified him if he wasn't real? She said she facetime with him so new what she was getting plus she saw it as just a shag he didn't "woo" her I was a fool So if she knew his pics were fake and he was full if Shit why did she verify him?
That I don't no she said she felt sorry for him
Are you sure she's genuine
Dont mean to be rude but verifying someone you know isn't genuine does not make for someone I'd take their word for
She verified his technique as genuine not him as a person
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"Why had this woman verified him if he wasn't real? She said she facetime with him so new what she was getting plus she saw it as just a shag he didn't "woo" her I was a fool So if she knew his pics were fake and he was full if Shit why did she verify him?
That I don't no she said she felt sorry for him
now she should have been reported for leaving a FALSE verification ffs...
I agree but I won't as she has helped me out she didn't have to tell me wit he was saying about me n screen sshooting it all
And everything he was saying to her was unprompted? He was just randomly slagging you off to her?"She asked him when he was gonna tell me the truth | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl I wouldn't believe half the shit that comes out of some guys mouths on here!! Some will say anything! As will some women. People will say anything to further their own ends. People will also make assumptions based on what they THINK is going on rather than asking. For a site supposedly based on honesty and trust there is a massive amount of bullshit and mis-trust lurking in the shadows. Heres a tip - ASK - stop messaging Veri's/friends, getting friends to check when they were last online, chasing forum posts, etc. You're an adult - fucking act like one and open your mouth.... And when you ask, and they blatantly lie time and time again....? " What you believe to be lies or actual proof? Assumptions can be dangerous | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl I wouldn't believe half the shit that comes out of some guys mouths on here!! Some will say anything! As will some women. People will say anything to further their own ends. People will also make assumptions based on what they THINK is going on rather than asking. For a site supposedly based on honesty and trust there is a massive amount of bullshit and mis-trust lurking in the shadows. Heres a tip - ASK - stop messaging Veri's/friends, getting friends to check when they were last online, chasing forum posts, etc. You're an adult - fucking act like one and open your mouth...." Rather rude aint you I did ask him several times and I as I said he was very convincing | |||
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"Why had this woman verified him if he wasn't real? She said she facetime with him so new what she was getting plus she saw it as just a shag he didn't "woo" her I was a fool So if she knew his pics were fake and he was full if Shit why did she verify him?
That I don't no she said she felt sorry for him
Then she's equally guilty of the deception, how do you know you can really trust her after that. Perhaps she's full of Shit and he's the genuine one. Perhaps they fell out and she's bitter about it.
This is why these types of private investigations are seldom useful.
She screen shotted the convo they had so I no she was sticking up for me n he was saying nasty things about me
Yes im a fool but a learned fool now
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl I wouldn't believe half the shit that comes out of some guys mouths on here!! Some will say anything! As will some women. People will say anything to further their own ends. People will also make assumptions based on what they THINK is going on rather than asking. For a site supposedly based on honesty and trust there is a massive amount of bullshit and mis-trust lurking in the shadows. Heres a tip - ASK - stop messaging Veri's/friends, getting friends to check when they were last online, chasing forum posts, etc. You're an adult - fucking act like one and open your mouth.... And when you ask, and they blatantly lie time and time again....? " | |||
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"I would never give out details to anyone about somebody I had met, I find the thought of someone mailing me to ask me questions about someone who had verified me ridiculous
This is exactly why I've hidden mine.
I've had this happen 5 or 6 times.
I find it spooky and quite frankly weird.
I've never had this happen. But I would hide my verifications like a shot if I did. And if someone messaged me to ask about someone I'd met I'd reiterate my verification and no more, think it was weird and stalkerish and let the person I had met know they were being checked up on. After all, I've met them not some person attempting to dig up dirt on them and if there's any such thing as am unwritten law of Fab loyalty then that might be it."
The most recent weird shit was the female half of a couple asking how they could "turn" someone I'd recently met to have a lesbian encounter with her while her husband watched and whether I thought she'd be interested in that.
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl I wouldn't believe half the shit that comes out of some guys mouths on here!! Some will say anything! As will some women. People will say anything to further their own ends. People will also make assumptions based on what they THINK is going on rather than asking. For a site supposedly based on honesty and trust there is a massive amount of bullshit and mis-trust lurking in the shadows. Heres a tip - ASK - stop messaging Veri's/friends, getting friends to check when they were last online, chasing forum posts, etc. You're an adult - fucking act like one and open your mouth.... Rather rude aint you I did ask him several times and I as I said he was very convincing " That's the problem with compulsive manipulative liars. They are convincing and don't care about anyone apart from making themselves look good. It's pathetic that they have to act that way. Take it as a learn, even when you ask they will lie. Digging is often essential! | |||
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"Why had this woman verified him if he wasn't real? She said she facetime with him so new what she was getting plus she saw it as just a shag he didn't "woo" her I was a fool So if she knew his pics were fake and he was full if Shit why did she verify him?
That I don't no she said she felt sorry for him
now she should have been reported for leaving a FALSE verification ffs...
I agree but I won't as she has helped me out she didn't have to tell me wit he was saying about me n screen sshooting it all
Seriously I'm not having a pop but how can you know what she is saying is true
How do you know she's not just saying it to put you off him
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That I don't no she said she felt sorry for him
Then she's equally guilty of the deception, how do you know you can really trust her after that. Perhaps she's full of Shit and he's the genuine one. Perhaps they fell out and she's bitter about it.
This is why these types of private investigations are seldom useful.
She screen shotted the convo they had so I no she was sticking up for me n he was saying nasty things about me
Yes im a fool but a learned fool now
So he was randomly chatting to her about you. That's an amazing coincidence.
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl I wouldn't believe half the shit that comes out of some guys mouths on here!! Some will say anything! As will some women. People will say anything to further their own ends. People will also make assumptions based on what they THINK is going on rather than asking. For a site supposedly based on honesty and trust there is a massive amount of bullshit and mis-trust lurking in the shadows. Heres a tip - ASK - stop messaging Veri's/friends, getting friends to check when they were last online, chasing forum posts, etc. You're an adult - fucking act like one and open your mouth.... Rather rude aint you I did ask him several times and I as I said he was very convincing " There is no rudeness in my post - if you read it that way then I apologise. It is however straight - I don't bite my tongue on here as everyone knows so I don't see the point in playing the "White Knight" as happens on many occasions. "He said/she said/they said" will run round and round in circles until you put everyone in the same place and have it out in person. Otherwise it is purely conjecture and perception. "Chinese Whispers" has never been a more apt phrase. | |||
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"In this instance it was the rite thing to do as all the pics r fake n the verifications although real say nothing of the fact the pics r fake Also if I haven't struck up a friendship with one of his meets I wouldn't of found out he was bitching behind my bk she sent me the evidence x You sound obsessed. And not in a good way wtf?? obsessed? for checking a guy out who turns out to be a fake! How would you describe messaging someone's verifications? a general inquiry into how they actually are?
And you think that is okay? If I messaged someone that had verified you to ask if you were who you said you were you'd be happy with that? You wouldn't feel violated? And you wouldn't feel that your previous meet was being massively indiscreet entering in to that conversation?"Mayb. Im odd but iif ssomeone wanted confirmation then yrs is happily give it them/ | |||
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"Why are people that have a different opinion or that haven't had this happen to them haters? Because we're not all patting her on the back saying "lucky escape"." Exactly
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"Friends. A word often used on here that seems to differ hugely from the dictionary definition. Like facebook, kik, snapchat et al. How much of a friend is someone you've never actually met?
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"In this instance it was the rite thing to do as all the pics r fake n the verifications although real say nothing of the fact the pics r fake Also if I haven't struck up a friendship with one of his meets I wouldn't of found out he was bitching behind my bk she sent me the evidence x You sound obsessed. And not in a good way wtf?? obsessed? for checking a guy out who turns out to be a fake! How would you describe messaging someone's verifications? a general inquiry into how they actually are?
And you think that is okay? If I messaged someone that had verified you to ask if you were who you said you were you'd be happy with that? You wouldn't feel violated? And you wouldn't feel that your previous meet was being massively indiscreet entering in to that conversation?
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"Hang on. What makes him genuine or not genuine? He's a bloke and she either met him or cammed with him. I'm not seeing the issue here. he may or may not be full of shit but that's not what veris are for." His pics r all fake | |||
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"Why are people that have a different opinion or that haven't had this happen to them haters? Some of the replays r hateful" Nothing hateful has been posted as far as I can see. Just differing opinions. Having a thick skin is important on a site like this, ask any single bloke... | |||
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"At the end of the day until you actually meet someone in person you never really know what they're going to be like. That's how it always is. I know personally of all the people I message regularly, there's only two or three I really trust, but of course I'm basing that purely on my own instinct and experience with people." This is what ive learnt yes. I have two or three people on here I can defo trust and class them as friends | |||
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"Hang on. What makes him genuine or not genuine? He's a bloke and she either met him or cammed with him. I'm not seeing the issue here. he may or may not be full of shit but that's not what veris are for. His pics r all fake" Do you have difinitive proof or are you just taking this other persons word for it? | |||
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"Hang on. What makes him genuine or not genuine? He's a bloke and she either met him or cammed with him. I'm not seeing the issue here. he may or may not be full of shit but that's not what veris are for. His pics r all fake" I don't understand how you know that, you have never met him, she had never met him yet gave him a fake verification so how can either of you know his pics are fake I'm really not getting this Have I missed something ? | |||
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"Comes in with tea and biscuits and asks everyone to sit down, gives the OP some Jaffa cakes "googlereverseimage shows them jaffas are actually cheap farmfoods knockoffs...u fake hussy | |||
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"Why are people that have a different opinion or that haven't had this happen to them haters? Because we're not all patting her on the back saying "lucky escape"." I dont expect to be patted on the back i don't need to be patronized and ive admitted. Im a fool im nearly talking about a recent experience | |||
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"Is it me or does the word discreation not work on here anymore?
Apparently it's a word that's open to broad interpretation..."Seems that way.. hope you are ok sir n still enjoying life x | |||
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"Hang on. What makes him genuine or not genuine? He's a bloke and she either met him or cammed with him. I'm not seeing the issue here. he may or may not be full of shit but that's not what veris are for. His pics r all fake" See, this is where I'd have just as much of an issue with the person choosing to contact me to tell me his pics are fake who still verified him. I wouldn't thank them for informing me when they could have chosen not to verify someone they knew was fake or reported him themselves in the first place, saving me all the hassle from day one. That's the bit I just can't get my head around. It means you know, this woman who contacted you knows and yet he's still on here, verified and with no-one else any the wiser that his pictures are fake. | |||
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"Hang on. What makes him genuine or not genuine? He's a bloke and she either met him or cammed with him. I'm not seeing the issue here. he may or may not be full of shit but that's not what veris are for. His pics r all fake I don't understand how you know that, you have never met him, she had never met him yet gave him a fake verification so how can either of you know his pics are fake I'm really not getting this Have I missed something ?" They were all of David Cameron. He had a veri from election night. Obviously fake. A | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl I wouldn't believe half the shit that comes out of some guys mouths on here!! Some will say anything! As will some women. People will say anything to further their own ends. People will also make assumptions based on what they THINK is going on rather than asking. For a site supposedly based on honesty and trust there is a massive amount of bullshit and mis-trust lurking in the shadows. Heres a tip - ASK - stop messaging Veri's/friends, getting friends to check when they were last online, chasing forum posts, etc. You're an adult - fucking act like one and open your mouth.... Rather rude aint you I did ask him several times and I as I said he was very convincing That's the problem with compulsive manipulative liars. They are convincing and don't care about anyone apart from making themselves look good. It's pathetic that they have to act that way. Take it as a learn, even when you ask they will lie. Digging is often essential! "Thank you xxx | |||
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"In this instance it was the rite thing to do as all the pics r fake n the verifications although real say nothing of the fact the pics r fake Also if I haven't struck up a friendship with one of his meets I wouldn't of found out he was bitching behind my bk she sent me the evidence x You sound obsessed. And not in a good way wtf?? obsessed? for checking a guy out who turns out to be a fake! How would you describe messaging someone's verifications? a general inquiry into how they actually are?
And you think that is okay? If I messaged someone that had verified you to ask if you were who you said you were you'd be happy with that? You wouldn't feel violated? And you wouldn't feel that your previous meet was being massively indiscreet entering in to that conversation?
Mayb. Im odd but iif ssomeone wanted confirmation then yrs is happily give it them/
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"Hang on. What makes him genuine or not genuine? He's a bloke and she either met him or cammed with him. I'm not seeing the issue here. he may or may not be full of shit but that's not what veris are for. His pics r all fake See, this is where I'd have just as much of an issue with the person choosing to contact me to tell me his pics are fake who still verified him. I wouldn't thank them for informing me when they could have chosen not to verify someone they knew was fake or reported him themselves in the first place, saving me all the hassle from day one. That's the bit I just can't get my head around. It means you know, this woman who contacted you knows and yet he's still on here, verified and with no-one else any the wiser that his pictures are fake. " This surely by not reporting the woman who supplied him with a fake verification are making you both as guilty of misleading others as much as him? This thread has confoozled the living daylights out of me! | |||
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"In this instance it was the rite thing to do as all the pics r fake n the verifications although real say nothing of the fact the pics r fake Also if I haven't struck up a friendship with one of his meets I wouldn't of found out he was bitching behind my bk she sent me the evidence x You sound obsessed. And not in a good way wtf?? obsessed? for checking a guy out who turns out to be a fake! How would you describe messaging someone's verifications? a general inquiry into how they actually are?
And you think that is okay? If I messaged someone that had verified you to ask if you were who you said you were you'd be happy with that? You wouldn't feel violated? And you wouldn't feel that your previous meet was being massively indiscreet entering in to that conversation?
Mayb. Im odd but iif ssomeone wanted confirmation then yrs is happily give it them/
After asking permission? Or would you just spill private details?
I defo would not give out private details I would simply say yes they r or no avoid"So you'd verify someone publicly but privately tell others to avoid them? | |||
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"Why had this woman verified him if he wasn't real? She said she facetime with him so new what she was getting plus she saw it as just a shag he didn't "woo" her I was a fool So if she knew his pics were fake and he was full if Shit why did she verify him?
That I don't no she said she felt sorry for him
Then she's equally guilty of the deception, how do you know you can really trust her after that. Perhaps she's full of Shit and he's the genuine one. Perhaps they fell out and she's bitter about it.
This is why these types of private investigations are seldom useful.
She screen shotted the convo they had so I no she was sticking up for me n he was saying nasty things about me
Yes im a fool but a learned fool now
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl I wouldn't believe half the shit that comes out of some guys mouths on here!! Some will say anything! As will some women. People will say anything to further their own ends. People will also make assumptions based on what they THINK is going on rather than asking. For a site supposedly based on honesty and trust there is a massive amount of bullshit and mis-trust lurking in the shadows. Heres a tip - ASK - stop messaging Veri's/friends, getting friends to check when they were last online, chasing forum posts, etc. You're an adult - fucking act like one and open your mouth.... Rather rude aint you I did ask him several times and I as I said he was very convincing There is no rudeness in my post - if you read it that way then I apologise. It is however straight - I don't bite my tongue on here as everyone knows so I don't see the point in playing the "White Knight" as happens on many occasions. "He said/she said/they said" will run round and round in circles until you put everyone in the same place and have it out in person. Otherwise it is purely conjecture and perception. "Chinese Whispers" has never been a more apt phrase." It was your last sentence I found offensive If you follow my arrow i have had doubts about him for a while but as said he had a way of Makin me believe his lies Incerdently I wouldn't mind finding the American baseball player he was impersonating lol | |||
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"its often at times like this, and reading over some other posts from the self admitting gullible women out there..really do make me want to shout a little... I'd easily be bypassed by quite a few which is fair enough,for being what some would consider a player..but them some guy uses a fake pic and gets a hot chicks attention for months the injustice of it all "Were all cunts xxxx | |||
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"Is it me or does the word discreation not work on here anymore? "Ive not mentioned any names or personal details on here x | |||
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"Why are people that have a different opinion or that haven't had this happen to them haters? Because we're not all patting her on the back saying "lucky escape". Exactly
The thread not going how the OP wants clearly makes everyone 'haters'.
Im not after back patting or sympathy im just talking about an experience and ive put my hands up n said im an idiot its the rudeness I am objecting to "In your opening post the one thing you don't do is 'put your hands up and say that you;re an idiot'. In fact you seem to be celebrating the lengths you went to to catch him out and encouraging others to do the same | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl Had you actually met him? Would that not have been a clue his pictures were fake? And if you hadn't met him surely the fact someone you'd nevet met was declaring their love for you should have set off massive alarm bells
I hadn't met him now and yes I did at first be we talked every day for hrs and he was very convincing
Hes impersonating an American baseball player ive since learnt"Looking at your profile he was offering you just what you ask for. You state you are there to be used and he tried to use you. Don't blame him for being false blame yourself for asking for trouble with your profile. If you want to keep yourself safe take a good look at it and think just what it is saying to others. Sorry if this sounds harsh but everyone has to accept responsibility for their own safety | |||
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"Hang on. What makes him genuine or not genuine? He's a bloke and she either met him or cammed with him. I'm not seeing the issue here. he may or may not be full of shit but that's not what veris are for. His pics r all fake Do you have difinitive proof or are you just taking this other persons word for it?" Ive suspected for a while as pics he sent me personally his tattoo's came n went lol hence why I went digging | |||
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"Hang on. What makes him genuine or not genuine? He's a bloke and she either met him or cammed with him. I'm not seeing the issue here. he may or may not be full of shit but that's not what veris are for. His pics r all fake I don't understand how you know that, you have never met him, she had never met him yet gave him a fake verification so how can either of you know his pics are fake I'm really not getting this Have I missed something ?" She has meet him and when he turned up he wasn't who he said but she knew that as she had facetimed him so she was happy to go ahead her concern was for the fact he was lieing to me | |||
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"Why are people that have a different opinion or that haven't had this happen to them haters? Because we're not all patting her on the back saying "lucky escape". I dont expect to be patted on the back i don't need to be patronized and ive admitted. Im a fool im nearly talking about a recent experience Then why label those who don't agree with you as haters?" Ok haters I will take back but most threads i post end up with me receiving an ear bashing x | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl Had you actually met him? Would that not have been a clue his pictures were fake? And if you hadn't met him surely the fact someone you'd nevet met was declaring their love for you should have set off massive alarm bells
I hadn't met him now and yes I did at first be we talked every day for hrs and he was very convincing
Hes impersonating an American baseball player ive since learnt
Looking at your profile he was offering you just what you ask for.
You state you are there to be used and he tried to use you.
Don't blame him for being false blame yourself for asking for trouble with your profile.
If you want to keep yourself safe take a good look at it and think just what it is saying to others.
Sorry if this sounds harsh but everyone has to accept responsibility for their own safety"Actually this is good advice | |||
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"Friends. A word often used on here that seems to differ hugely from the dictionary definition. Like facebook, kik, snapchat et al. How much of a friend is someone you've never actually met?
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Tell me about it!"I'm saying maybe in the future don't believe anything that someone on the internet tells you. Don't be expecting everyone to be as truthful as you think you are. | |||
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"Why are people that have a different opinion or that haven't had this happen to them haters? Because we're not all patting her on the back saying "lucky escape". I dont expect to be patted on the back i don't need to be patronized and ive admitted. Im a fool im nearly talking about a recent experience Then why label those who don't agree with you as haters? Ok haters I will take back but most threads i post end up with me receiving an ear bashing x" lets get your fanny bashed instead...I'm a famous pianis...........t | |||
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"Hang on. What makes him genuine or not genuine? He's a bloke and she either met him or cammed with him. I'm not seeing the issue here. he may or may not be full of shit but that's not what veris are for. His pics r all fake See, this is where I'd have just as much of an issue with the person choosing to contact me to tell me his pics are fake who still verified him. I wouldn't thank them for informing me when they could have chosen not to verify someone they knew was fake or reported him themselves in the first place, saving me all the hassle from day one. That's the bit I just can't get my head around. It means you know, this woman who contacted you knows and yet he's still on here, verified and with no-one else any the wiser that his pictures are fake. " Yrs tbh im annoyed at the fact she verified him but I can't do anything about that Ive blocked n reported him its up to admin to check it out now hopefully they will x | |||
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"Hang on. What makes him genuine or not genuine? He's a bloke and she either met him or cammed with him. I'm not seeing the issue here. he may or may not be full of shit but that's not what veris are for. His pics r all fake" Ah fair enough. Soz | |||
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"Hang on. What makes him genuine or not genuine? He's a bloke and she either met him or cammed with him. I'm not seeing the issue here. he may or may not be full of shit but that's not what veris are for. His pics r all fake See, this is where I'd have just as much of an issue with the person choosing to contact me to tell me his pics are fake who still verified him. I wouldn't thank them for informing me when they could have chosen not to verify someone they knew was fake or reported him themselves in the first place, saving me all the hassle from day one. That's the bit I just can't get my head around. It means you know, this woman who contacted you knows and yet he's still on here, verified and with no-one else any the wiser that his pictures are fake. This surely by not reporting the woman who supplied him with a fake verification are making you both as guilty of misleading others as much as him? This thread has confoozled the living daylights out of me!"Me to n I started it lol Think that is on the cards as yes that is prob why she helped guilt maybe who knows | |||
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"In this instance it was the rite thing to do as all the pics r fake n the verifications although real say nothing of the fact the pics r fake Also if I haven't struck up a friendship with one of his meets I wouldn't of found out he was bitching behind my bk she sent me the evidence x You sound obsessed. And not in a good way wtf?? obsessed? for checking a guy out who turns out to be a fake! How would you describe messaging someone's verifications? a general inquiry into how they actually are?
And you think that is okay? If I messaged someone that had verified you to ask if you were who you said you were you'd be happy with that? You wouldn't feel violated? And you wouldn't feel that your previous meet was being massively indiscreet entering in to that conversation?
Mayb. Im odd but iif ssomeone wanted confirmation then yrs is happily give it them/
After asking permission? Or would you just spill private details?
I defo would not give out private details I would simply say yes they r or no avoid
So you'd verify someone publicly but privately tell others to avoid them? "I always give honest veris good or bad | |||
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"Sounds very stalkerish and creepy to me. If you don't think someone is genuine then just block them rather than turning into Miss Marple. I agree, don't give the strange trolls the satisfaction of letting yourself get wound up over some creep. Read profiles, verifications, _iew pics and initiate contact or reply to mail. If they don't feel right, fail to meet etc... Block and move on " That is exactly what I should of done in the first place but I fell for him its too easy to fall for someone but not so easy to escape sometimes Such is life | |||
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"Real friends are hard to find and a proper real valuable treasure My friends we don't always spend tome together yet we are there for each other I dont push or try to hard what will be will be X" this is something I am an idiot for and this aint the first time ive been a fool with friends or lovers but hopefully it will be the last | |||
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"How do you know the woman is real? Might be the same person. I've seen that before with fake profiles and veris etc. Doesn't make sense to verify someone genuine when they are blatantly not. Yrs of course I don't no for sure x" Have you spoke to this woman in cam or skype or phone Sounds suspicious | |||
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"Why are people that have a different opinion or that haven't had this happen to them haters? Because we're not all patting her on the back saying "lucky escape". Exactly
The thread not going how the OP wants clearly makes everyone 'haters'.
Im not after back patting or sympathy im just talking about an experience and ive put my hands up n said im an idiot its the rudeness I am objecting to
In your opening post the one thing you don't do is 'put your hands up and say that you;re an idiot'. In fact you seem to be celebrating the lengths you went to to catch him out and encouraging others to do the same "In a way yes because I can't think that anyone in their rite minds or not would want to be made a fool of by a fake | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl Had you actually met him? Would that not have been a clue his pictures were fake? And if you hadn't met him surely the fact someone you'd nevet met was declaring their love for you should have set off massive alarm bells
I hadn't met him now and yes I did at first be we talked every day for hrs and he was very convincing
Hes impersonating an American baseball player ive since learnt
Looking at your profile he was offering you just what you ask for.
You state you are there to be used and he tried to use you.
Don't blame him for being false blame yourself for asking for trouble with your profile.
If you want to keep yourself safe take a good look at it and think just what it is saying to others.
Sorry if this sounds harsh but everyone has to accept responsibility for their own safety"No that is a very good point thank you I will re_iew my profile but that does not excuse using fake pics | |||
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"Hey this guy was telling me he loved me n allsorts n I fell for it all im saying is im glad I struck up a friendship with this girl Had you actually met him? Would that not have been a clue his pictures were fake? And if you hadn't met him surely the fact someone you'd nevet met was declaring their love for you should have set off massive alarm bells
You mean you don't love me wheels?? Even after I bared my arse for you??
Je suis desole! "You two-timing HUSSY!!! | |||
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"Friends. A word often used on here that seems to differ hugely from the dictionary definition. Like facebook, kik, snapchat et al. How much of a friend is someone you've never actually met?
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hard enough finding real life friends who tell the truth, never mind people who you don't even actually know!
Tell me about it!
I'm saying maybe in the future don't believe anything that someone on the internet tells you. Don't be expecting everyone to be as truthful as you think you are."Im too trusting in all aspects of my life a crap quality lol x | |||
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"Why are people that have a different opinion or that haven't had this happen to them haters? Because we're not all patting her on the back saying "lucky escape". I dont expect to be patted on the back i don't need to be patronized and ive admitted. Im a fool im nearly talking about a recent experience Then why label those who don't agree with you as haters? Ok haters I will take back but most threads i post end up with me receiving an ear bashing x lets get your fanny bashed instead...I'm a famous pianis...........t" Hang on while I bend ova x | |||
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"Hang on. What makes him genuine or not genuine? He's a bloke and she either met him or cammed with him. I'm not seeing the issue here. he may or may not be full of shit but that's not what veris are for. His pics r all fake Ah fair enough. Soz" No apologies needed x | |||
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"How do you know the woman is real? Might be the same person. I've seen that before with fake profiles and veris etc. Doesn't make sense to verify someone genuine when they are blatantly not. Yrs of course I don't no for sure x Have you spoke to this woman in cam or skype or phone Sounds suspicious " No i haven't | |||
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"How do you know the woman is real? Might be the same person. I've seen that before with fake profiles and veris etc. Doesn't make sense to verify someone genuine when they are blatantly not. Yrs of course I don't no for sure x Have you spoke to this woman in cam or skype or phone Sounds suspicious No i haven't "Personally I'd report her too. She's quite obviously not trustworthy after giving a fake verification. | |||
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"shame it comes to this - i wouldnt trust the woman you have 'befriended' - if shes done this to him after verifying him - you should have just reported it to admin or if you had doubts just stay away - " | |||
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"shame it comes to this - i wouldnt trust the woman you have 'befriended' - if shes done this to him after verifying him - you should have just reported it to admin or if you had doubts just stay away - " Just reported her yes n hindsight hey xxx | |||
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Personally I'd report her too. She's quite obviously not trustworthy after giving a fake verification."Just done x | |||
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"How do you know the woman is real? Might be the same person. I've seen that before with fake profiles and veris etc. Doesn't make sense to verify someone genuine when they are blatantly not. Yrs of course I don't no for sure x Have you spoke to this woman in cam or skype or phone Sounds suspicious No i haven't
Personally I'd report her too. She's quite obviously not trustworthy after giving a fake verification.
Just done x"What about yourself for sharing personal information about other site members? | |||
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"How do you know the woman is real? Might be the same person. I've seen that before with fake profiles and veris etc. Doesn't make sense to verify someone genuine when they are blatantly not. Yrs of course I don't no for sure x Have you spoke to this woman in cam or skype or phone Sounds suspicious No i haven't
Personally I'd report her too. She's quite obviously not trustworthy after giving a fake verification.
Just done x"So yyou'v e reported the person you described as a friend earrlier in the thread and who's actions you've praised repeatedly? | |||
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" No that is a very good point thank you I will re_iew my profile but that does not excuse using fake pics " No of course it doesn't, but if you start with the _iew that evrything here is fake until you have confirmed that it is not you will save yourself a lot of grief. As others have said people will do virtually anything to get into your bed. The only person who can protect you is you | |||
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"How do you know the woman is real? Might be the same person. I've seen that before with fake profiles and veris etc. Doesn't make sense to verify someone genuine when they are blatantly not. Yrs of course I don't no for sure x Have you spoke to this woman in cam or skype or phone Sounds suspicious No i haven't
Personally I'd report her too. She's quite obviously not trustworthy after giving a fake verification.
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