FabSwingers.com forum: not how you imagine

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

im not talking meeting people as such but when you see profiles of people on the forum and get a feel for the kind of person they are - does anybody build up a mental image of them from seeing pretty much all the body apart from a face -- then a face pic appears and its nothing like you imagined -

i know im still half asleep and making as little sense as usual

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

People I meet are nothing like I imagine them to be. I'm hopeless at imagining faces.

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I know exactly what you mean.I think...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im not talking meeting people as such but when you see profiles of people on the forum and get a feel for the kind of person they are - does anybody build up a mental image of them from seeing pretty much all the body apart from a face -- then a face pic appears and its nothing like you imagined -

i know im still half asleep and making as little sense as usual

This has definitely happened a few times...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people have been surprised by my personality when they meet me in person rather than my looks.

I'm still very straight talking but my morose sense of humour comes through a lot better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think people have been surprised by my personality when they meet me in person rather than my looks.

I'm still very straight talking but my morose sense of humour comes through a lot better."

Maybe I would have noticed if you were allowed to talk to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What your trying to say is..

Body from baywatch...

Face from crimewatch...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say, judging by some I have met, that there is a reason they don't show face pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What your trying to say is..

Body from baywatch...

Face from crimewatch...

not always - sometimes a lovely surprise -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think people have been surprised by my personality when they meet me in person rather than my looks.

I'm still very straight talking but my morose sense of humour comes through a lot better.

Maybe I would have noticed if you were allowed to talk to me

Haha, the Doberman was fierce in her resolve for me not to speak to any female that she had not previously approved.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I think this happens to everyone. You build up an image of someone's face based on what you like and what you'd like them to ideally look like. When that turns out not to be what the person looks like it can be a bit of a shock at first.

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"I would say, judging by some I have met, that there is a reason they don't show face pics

Like guys who have a pic of their arse as their avatar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say, judging by some I have met, that there is a reason they don't show face pics

Like guys who have a pic of their arse as their avatar?

Maybe you have a good face for radio?

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By *urvybrunette91Woman
over a year ago

tidworth

After reading this, I felt the need to put my face on show!

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"I would say, judging by some I have met, that there is a reason they don't show face pics

Like guys who have a pic of their arse as their avatar?

Maybe you have a good face for radio?

Thanks mate..

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"After reading this, I felt the need to put my face on show!

It's ok for you.You've got a nice boat!

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By *urvybrunette91Woman
over a year ago

tidworth

"After reading this, I felt the need to put my face on show!

It's ok for you.You've got a nice boat!

I do quite like my Yacht!

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By *Sin or Not 2SinCouple
over a year ago

A hop skip n a jump

Its like reading a book, you have a mental picture of the characters then they make the film and its just not the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the 'Gorgon' effect when I show my face. The only difference is a mirror doesn't prevent the effect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it's sometimes a disappointment & sometimes it's a fuck me, you're gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its like reading a book, you have a mental picture of the characters then they make the film and its just not the same

exactly that - better put than myself

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By *Sin or Not 2SinCouple
over a year ago

A hop skip n a jump

"Its like reading a book, you have a mental picture of the characters then they make the film and its just not the same

exactly that - better put than myself "

I have been awake a few hours

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Yes, it's sometimes a disappointment & sometimes it's a fuck me, you're gorgeous

Yes, you can't beat that feeling when the person turns out to be a real stunner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for some i even imagine what they sound like too

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"for some i even imagine what they sound like too "

Definitely this!

For the people I chat to a lot, I build up a complete picture of them. Have to say, I have always been pleasantly surprised, and my imaginings have been greatly surpassed by reality.

But I do the same thing talking to people on the phone - build up what you imagine them to be. I got told recently through work from someone I had spoken to on the phone, that when they met me they were expecting someone much larger as I am so cheerful (Not sure what thats all about lol)

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"for some i even imagine what they sound like too "

Yes I do that as well. It's amazing when they turn out to have a really sexy voice as well as being gorgeous

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Most people seem to imagine i'm like Miss Marple I think.Not what they expect generally.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Most people seem to imagine i'm like Miss Marple I think.Not what they expect generally.

I've just looked at your pics and I'm thinking all kinds of things, but Miss Marple is not one of them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"for some i even imagine what they sound like too

Yes I do that as well. It's amazing when they turn out to have a really sexy voice as well as being gorgeous

I've been put off some men just from how they sound on the phone

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"for some i even imagine what they sound like too

Yes I do that as well. It's amazing when they turn out to have a really sexy voice as well as being gorgeous

I've been put off some men just from how they sound on the phone

But I always snort when I'm excited..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never assume anything ...ever.

There are lots of hotties on here and equally a lot of shockers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I am nothing like people imagine from the image they get of me from the forums

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Meh....

Think is for a lot of people, having others appreciate their looks is a confidence booster.

Working out, improving your body is something they have control over.

Unfortunately your stuck with your face forever.

Some win the lottery and they are the beautiful people, the ones that stop a room dead when they walk into it.

Alas most of us are quite simply average.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

"Apparently I am nothing like people imagine from the image they get of me from the forums"

Apparently I'm nothing like I come across in any medium of text...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently I am nothing like people imagine from the image they get of me from the forums

Apparently I'm nothing like I come across in any medium of text..."

Lol just lol! I get that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had someone say they thought I would have a blue rinse or grey hair when my username was bad nanna,and that I speak like Angie Watts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm more mumsy in real life than people on here imagine

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By *ereforgigglesMan
over a year ago

Scotland

"I would say, judging by some I have met, that there is a reason they don't show face pics

Sadly this is my reason too

lol

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"I think I'm more mumsy in real life than people on here imagine"

Don't want to hear it.Walks away with hands over ears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say, judging by some I have met, that there is a reason they don't show face pics

Sadly this is my reason too

lol"

It's always a bummer when the conversation goes quiet after you send a face pic. ..That's why I do it early on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meh....

Think is for a lot of people, having others appreciate their looks is a confidence booster.

Working out, improving your body is something they have control over.

Unfortunately your stuck with your face forever.

Some win the lottery and they are the beautiful people, the ones that stop a room dead when they walk into it.

Alas most of us are quite simply average."

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

"I think I'm more mumsy in real life than people on here imagine"

A hot mum though!!

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By *ereforgigglesMan
over a year ago

Scotland

"I would say, judging by some I have met, that there is a reason they don't show face pics

Sadly this is my reason too

lol

It's always a bummer when the conversation goes quiet after you send a face pic. ..That's why I do it early on"

It's the "oh...." Bit that fucks me off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I'm more mumsy in real life than people on here imagine

A hot mum though!!"

You, sir, have just won some extra brownie points. See me after class to collect

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

"I would say, judging by some I have met, that there is a reason they don't show face pics

Sadly this is my reason too

lol

It's always a bummer when the conversation goes quiet after you send a face pic. ..That's why I do it early on"

That doesn't mean anything...

Had that happen to me loads of times, your just not that one persons type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't send face pics so seeing the

looks on people's faces when we meet or go on cam can be quite funny (run for the hills or mmmmm pleasantly surprised I've no idea) lol x

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

It has been known to happen but it's not all about looks though is it, and a true gent never let's the disappointment show

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

"I think I'm more mumsy in real life than people on here imagine

A hot mum though!!

You, sir, have just won some extra brownie points. See me after class to collect

They are building up... I'm gonna want a lot!

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"I would say, judging by some I have met, that there is a reason they don't show face pics

Sadly this is my reason too

lol

It's always a bummer when the conversation goes quiet after you send a face pic. ..That's why I do it early on

It's the "oh...." Bit that fucks me off lol"

I'd rather have an "oh..." early on than waste time chatting and getting to know someone to then put them off with a face pic.

Don't think anyone has been scarred for life seeing my pictures yet... (just for about a year and some counselling but they got over it

)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say, judging by some I have met, that there is a reason they don't show face pics

Sadly this is my reason too

lol

It's always a bummer when the conversation goes quiet after you send a face pic. ..That's why I do it early on"

Block

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"I think I'm more mumsy in real life than people on here imagine"

Mumsy or not, that is a great body!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

We send pics, well his single profile has quite a few revealing ones, but they do not always show us exactly as we are because seeing someone in the flesh is different. I do hate pics that are obviously twenty years out of date though .... what is the point of that? It is always obvious. Mine are always up to date in fact considering a new one as had a new hair cut yesterday. The one thing that caught me totally unawares when I met Mr for the first time were his eyes, totally amazing and not shown on his single profile as he wears sunglasses on it

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

sometimes but not often is a face shown. Always looking at profiles to match up the person to the words though, pretty sure we've been blocked a few times for mistakenly thinking we're perving which isn't 'always' the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never assume anything ...ever.

There are lots of hotties on here and equally a lot of shockers.

This.. Everyone seems to assume, I sport a handle bar, mussie and come complete, with shell suit

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

"sometimes but not often is a face shown. Always looking at profiles to match up the person to the words though, pretty sure we've been blocked a few times for mistakenly thinking we're perving which isn't 'always' the case.

Why would anyone who puts pictures of themselves on the internet, block someone else for perving?

It's too late, they are out there now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i know im still half asleep and making as little sense as usual

Happened a few times on face pic friday. I have been genuinely surprised how lovely the face pics I received were and what a shame it is that many are hidden (though I appreciate the reasons)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time. But I'm not very good at picturing people in the first place!

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By *iggy1Woman
over a year ago

DORCHESTER

"for some i even imagine what they sound like too

Yes I do that as well. It's amazing when they turn out to have a really sexy voice as well as being gorgeous

I've been put off some men just from how they sound on the phone

Quite agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think people have been surprised by my personality when they meet me in person rather than my looks.

I'm still very straight talking but my morose sense of humour comes through a lot better.

Maybe I would have noticed if you were allowed to talk to me

Haha, the Doberman was fierce in her resolve for me not to speak to any female that she had not previously approved."

Ha! She fucking spoke to me to for long enough via phone calls and text!! Weird!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's very surprising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if I'm unhappy...simple bag over the head does fine...saves me photoshopping their face out

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I am rubbish at visualising faces so I am often more pleasantly surprised than otherwise when I see the face of someone I have a vague impression of from forum posts and messages. On one or two occasions I have got it completely wrong though, and that's actually quite good fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do get a lot of people who assume that because I don't show my face I must be a minger. Which feels strange for me, because in real life I've had umpteen comments of the "you'd be gorgeous if you lost weight because you have a pretty face" variety. Reminds me to keep my feet on the ground and take everything on here with a pinch of salt.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"I do get a lot of people who assume that because I don't show my face I must be a minger. Which feels strange for me, because in real life I've had umpteen comments of the "you'd be gorgeous if you lost weight because you have a pretty face" variety. Reminds me to keep my feet on the ground and take everything on here with a pinch of salt. "

I get that all the time too in Real Life. As well as the whole 'you could be really pretty if you made an effort' line (that one is a regular from my mum particularly). At least on here the boob comments are open though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your gorgeous regardless of whether you lost weight Anna!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was thinking of an anna,breakfast,and ligelia session..I dunno though if their within my high standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was thinking of an anna,breakfast,and ligelia session..I dunno though if their within my high standards

and ligela

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was thinking of an anna,breakfast,and ligelia session..I dunno though if their within my high standards

and ligela

and _igeia

bloody spelling

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"I was thinking of an anna,breakfast,and ligelia session..I dunno though if their within my high standards

and ligela

and _igeia

bloody spelling"

My autocorrect has finally learned it. Next time I change username though I might try and pick one I can actually spell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was thinking of an anna,breakfast,and ligelia session..I dunno though if their within my high standards

and ligela

and _igeia

bloody spelling

My autocorrect has finally learned it. Next time I change username though I might try and pick one I can actually spell.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I show my face, so people can only visualise what I look like in drab mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I show my face, so people can only visualise what I look like in drab mode

You wouldn't ever be drab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes totally c

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm kind of showing a bit of face to anyone... But it is nice to talk to someone's face rather than arse, fits or dick. Or hairy chest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I'm kind of showing a bit of face to anyone... But it is nice to talk to someone's face rather than arse, fits or dick. Or hairy chest

TITS not FITS.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try and build a mental picture of someone I'm due to meet.but I've gotta say that on most occasions I've been very pleasantly surprised. The most recent is a regular contributor to the forums ????

where I was blown away

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"I show my face, so people can only visualise what I look like in drab mode

You wouldn't ever be drab. "

Aww thanks, but it would be fun to go to a social in drab, piss about, behave outrageously and then sod off, only to reappear 50 minutes later in glam and listen to everyone asking what happened to that strange youth who cycled through the club giving people Satsuma's...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think like that when it comes to radio dj's, they sound quite cool but when you finally see there face on TV ...... I wasn't expecting that lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funnily enough it's my mum who I get it from the most. That and "you shouldn't wear so much makeup, people might get the wrong idea"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think like that when it comes to radio dj's, they sound quite cool but when you finally see there face on TV ...... I wasn't expecting that lol."

This!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just get people shielding their children's eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also I have found because I hide my face and I have a muscular physique they expect me to have a face like brad pitt...... I'm more of a mitchell brother haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally get a

response after sending my face picture

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Its like reading a book, you have a mental picture of the characters then they make the film and its just not the same

That's a very good way of putting it

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