FabSwingers.com forum: Psychologist please.........

By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Why do I really puke and delete when I get a message saying ... 'Come say hi' ........

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Why do I really puke and delete when I get a message saying ... 'Come say hi' ........"

Pavlovian response because in the past when you have gone and said hi you have received a message in return that made you hurl like a trooper?

Just a guess, I have no actual psychological training.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come say hi

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Why do I really puke and delete when I get a message saying ... 'Come say hi' ........

Pavlovian response because in the past when you have gone and said hi you have received a message in return that made you hurl like a trooper?

Just a guess, I have no actual psychological training."

Good thinking but I don't think that's it.

By the way I should have said it's a metaphorical up chuck.........

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Come say hi

blurgh .........

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Do you not just cum.. and then say hi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come say hi

blurgh ......... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, how are you?..!!!! Just as bad. Grrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey, how are you?..!!!! Just as bad. Grrrrrr"

I take it you ladies would just prefer a nice friendly "fuck off" lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Evolutionary Psychologists would state that your response may be hard wired, Granny, and is an innate aspect of human behaviour.

I'm leaning towards guessing that it's a learned/acquired behaviour, somehow - possibly not Pavlovian though.

Overall, it doesn't take much for me to feel the same when I get those oft repeated first message types. Did I have them when I first came to Fab? Hard to recall now, but it's very possible, so maybe evolutionary Psychology at work. Survival of the fittest, maybe those senders aren't that likely to spread their genes to many offspring.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Evolutionary Psychologists would state that your response may be hard wired, Granny, and is an innate aspect of human behaviour.

I'm leaning towards guessing that it's a learned/acquired behaviour, somehow - possibly not Pavlovian though.

Interesting ........ Must be hard wired come to think of it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Best avoid those genes Granny - though sure you weren't considering procreation.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

One could argue that at least they made an effort adding two words, instead of just "hi"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you are just sick of the sight of those three little words...

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"Hey, how are you?..!!!! Just as bad. Grrrrrr"

Sometimes I don't even get the full words - I have had 'hows u'.....on more than one occasion

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