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"Im open to debate here... My question is if someone had a profile on here for over 12 months and not been verified do you think their account should be automatically deleted?" Some people join fab just for some horny chat, cham and forums and are not actually interested in meeting.... | |||
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"Like i said im open to debate but i personally dont see the point of coming on fab if your nevee going to meet anyone" Sigh...just...because...not...everyone...cares...about...verifications...doesn't...mean...they...don't...meet! Get it?!! | |||
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"If inactive yes might free up some of those user names otherwise no. Just because someone isn't verified doesn't mean that their not using the site properly. It's a site for meeting like minded people into the world of swinging not a sex site." So swingers don't have sex? lol. | |||
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"If inactive yes might free up some of those user names otherwise no. Just because someone isn't verified doesn't mean that their not using the site properly. It's a site for meeting like minded people into the world of swinging not a sex site." It's a sex site for me: I meet alone and with ny other half for sex, not bridge. | |||
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"If inactive yes might free up some of those user names otherwise no. Just because someone isn't verified doesn't mean that their not using the site properly. It's a site for meeting like minded people into the world of swinging not a sex site." | |||
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"I don't see the harm or bother that they're causing. If they broke site rules, they would be. If they find getting meets harder, then it helps others. Maybe they were once part of a couple and now like the social side? Not everyone wants lots of meets and they may be getting what they need. Not all users are as clued up as most forum users, so it seems harsh to penalize them. Even Shag, noted above, often tells us of his hardships in getting meets. Imagine someone without his six pack, in a remote area. Plus many overseas users, where less is going on. Lots of reasons. We're diverse, keep it as it is." Shag is not a swinger though.... | |||
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"I don't see the harm or bother that they're causing. If they broke site rules, they would be. If they find getting meets harder, then it helps others. Maybe they were once part of a couple and now like the social side? Not everyone wants lots of meets and they may be getting what they need. Not all users are as clued up as most forum users, so it seems harsh to penalize them. Even Shag, noted above, often tells us of his hardships in getting meets. Imagine someone without his six pack, in a remote area. Plus many overseas users, where less is going on. Lots of reasons. We're diverse, keep it as it is. Shag is not a swinger though...." tecknically no singles r swingers tho . | |||
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"I don't see the harm or bother that they're causing. If they broke site rules, they would be. If they find getting meets harder, then it helps others. Maybe they were once part of a couple and now like the social side? Not everyone wants lots of meets and they may be getting what they need. Not all users are as clued up as most forum users, so it seems harsh to penalize them. Even Shag, noted above, often tells us of his hardships in getting meets. Imagine someone without his six pack, in a remote area. Plus many overseas users, where less is going on. Lots of reasons. We're diverse, keep it as it is." Yes thats right penge is like isle of man lol and as well demographics plays a big role as well. | |||
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"Im open to debate here... My question is if someone had a profile on here for over 12 months and not been verified do you think their account should be automatically deleted? Some people join fab just for some horny chat, cham and forums and are not actually interested in meeting.... " Yep....and we are clear about this in our profile so that no one wastes their time......as long as they read our profile of course. | |||
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"Im open to debate here... My question is if someone had a profile on here for over 12 months and not been verified do you think their account should be automatically deleted?" . What would that cure?. They would be free to rejoin, you would just end up with alot of 3 month old profiles instead of 15 month old profiles | |||
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"Like i said im open to debate but i personally dont see the point of coming on fab if your nevee going to meet anyone" The word personally is key here. You behave in a way that's right for you personally and other people will do th same. There are much more important things to worry about. | |||
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"No I think that would be wrong , some people just use the site to chat and visit the forums. If people choose to meet pr not its their business." quite agree | |||
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"Im open to debate here... My question is if someone had a profile on here for over 12 months and not been verified do you think their account should be automatically deleted?" No because the site rules do not require members to be verified within a year. What others do is no business of yours or mine, as long as they comply with the rules of the site they can do as they wish | |||
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"Thats my point though...its about meeting swingers...if you dont meet anyone should you really be allowed so long on the site" What harm is it causing you? | |||
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"As long as they make it clear that they are not interested in meeting , no problem . If they constantly arrange meets and don't turn up , then that's different . They should be removed . And this is a sex site for some of us , we arrange sexual hook ups on here , and it works really well . " I agree with gloucsswingers comments | |||
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"Like i said im open to debate but i personally dont see the point of coming on fab if your nevee going to meet anyone" Huh? How do you know that? Some people don't like verifications. | |||
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"Read what glosswingers put above Thats my point put better by them lol" That wasn't what you said though. I agree with them that if people keep arranging meets then don't go through with them that they should be removed from site no matter how long they have been on here (which is the case anyway I believe) and that as long as people make it clear on their peofiles what they are looking for it's not a problem. But I disagree with your op that people with no veri's should be removed. | |||
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"No ! It's there profile and if they don't want to have it verified it's up to them in much the same way as it's up to you whether you make contact with a non-verified member. I think that's fair enough don't you ?" Exactly | |||
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"I don't see the harm or bother that they're causing. If they broke site rules, they would be. If they find getting meets harder, then it helps others. Maybe they were once part of a couple and now like the social side? Not everyone wants lots of meets and they may be getting what they need. Not all users are as clued up as most forum users, so it seems harsh to penalize them. Even Shag, noted above, often tells us of his hardships in getting meets. Imagine someone without his six pack, in a remote area. Plus many overseas users, where less is going on. Lots of reasons. We're diverse, keep it as it is. Shag is not a swinger though....tecknically no singles r swingers tho ." Depends how you got into it...if you joined here just for a shag then you are not a swinger....if you joined here having already swung as a couple,then you are a swinger.....Swinging is a lifestyle.... | |||
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"But at least you have met someone during your time on fab...i mean the first year" How do you know what people get up to? | |||
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"I don't see the harm or bother that they're causing. If they broke site rules, they would be. If they find getting meets harder, then it helps others. Maybe they were once part of a couple and now like the social side? Not everyone wants lots of meets and they may be getting what they need. Not all users are as clued up as most forum users, so it seems harsh to penalize them. Even Shag, noted above, often tells us of his hardships in getting meets. Imagine someone without his six pack, in a remote area. Plus many overseas users, where less is going on. Lots of reasons. We're diverse, keep it as it is. Shag is not a swinger though....tecknically no singles r swingers tho . Depends how you got into it...if you joined here just for a shag then you are not a swinger....if you joined here having already swung as a couple,then you are a swinger.....Swinging is a lifestyle.... " And swinging is exclusively a couple thing is it? Or is it just couples and single women? | |||
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"Im open to debate here... My question is if someone had a profile on here for over 12 months and not been verified do you think their account should be automatically deleted?" No...obviously not! | |||
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"Im open to debate here... My question is if someone had a profile on here for over 12 months and not been verified do you think their account should be automatically deleted?" Don't agree about the veris, but I would take a different approach, automatically delete those profiles that have not logged in for 12 months. Can't see the point of inactive profiles on here. If they've not logged in for 12 months are they likely to come back again? | |||
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"No. Not everyone cares about being verified: some people actually meet and fuck without announcing it to the world. Some people are in the armed forces. Some just want to cam/chat. I concentrate on my fab experience and leave others to theirs! " this.. and OP this has been asked before by the way.. so maybe there should be a ban on repeating posts..? | |||
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"Im open to debate here... My question is if someone had a profile on here for over 12 months and not been verified do you think their account should be automatically deleted?" Make it 7 months, the lazy fucks, obviously they're not real people, probably on benefits too, scum. | |||
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"Like i said im open to debate but i personally dont see the point of coming on fab if your nevee going to meet anyone" Maybe they just come on to use the chat rooms, maybe they just like going on cam or just like viewing cams and have no intentions of meeting, there is nothing in the rules that says this is not allowed | |||
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"No. Not everyone cares about being verified: some people actually meet and fuck without announcing it to the world. Some people are in the armed forces. Some just want to cam/chat. I concentrate on my fab experience and leave others to theirs! " | |||
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"Im open to debate here... My question is if someone had a profile on here for over 12 months and not been verified do you think their account should be automatically deleted? Don't agree about the veris, but I would take a different approach, automatically delete those profiles that have not logged in for 12 months. Can't see the point of inactive profiles on here. If they've not logged in for 12 months are they likely to come back again? " Now that's an interesting concept. Do what you like, as long as you visit the site. | |||
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"Like i said im open to debate but i personally dont see the point of coming on fab if your nevee going to meet anyone Maybe they just come on to use the chat rooms, maybe they just like going on cam or just like viewing cams and have no intentions of meeting, there is nothing in the rules that says this is not allowed " or some might just come on here to perv at the pics..? | |||
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"Like i said im open to debate but i personally dont see the point of coming on fab if your nevee going to meet anyone Maybe they just come on to use the chat rooms, maybe they just like going on cam or just like viewing cams and have no intentions of meeting, there is nothing in the rules that says this is not allowed or some might just come on here to perv at the pics..? " I do that often What about people who's last veri was in 2011 should they get banned too? | |||
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"Im open to debate here... My question is if someone had a profile on here for over 12 months and not been verified do you think their account should be automatically deleted?" . Some members seem a bit obsessed with verifications . If you have had an enjoyable meet , why would you post it on the site for everyone to see ? Why should other site members need to know if you have had any meets if not . In addition some members are only hear to chat , but make a significant contribution to the foeum. | |||
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"why ban them clearly if they been on year without meet they probs won't so don't arrange a meet with them let them do whatever they do" How do you know they haven't had a meet , for all anyone knows they may be out every night on a meet but chose not to advertise it. I agree that maybe those that haven't logged in for over a year should maybe be deleted but those that do should be left alone to use site however the want. | |||
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"If youve never met after a year on here how can you be a swinger?" Just because someone hasn't been verified doesn't Mean they haven't met anyone. They could ask not to get them for discretion, maybe they use the site to find out about social/clubs and parties and have met loads of people but just not been verified.. There's plenty of reasons. | |||
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"If youve never met after a year on here how can you be a swinger?" We've had half a dozen meets this year and none were from this site. Are we not swingers according to your swingometer ? | |||
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"No. Not everyone cares about being verified: some people actually meet and fuck without announcing it to the world. Some people are in the armed forces. Some just want to cam/chat. I concentrate on my fab experience and leave others to theirs! " This | |||
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"If youve never met after a year on here how can you be a swinger? We've had half a dozen meets this year and none were from this site. Are we not swingers according to your swingometer ? " this.. as good as the site can be its not the only avenue.. | |||
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"If youve never met after a year on here how can you be a swinger? We've had half a dozen meets this year and none were from this site. Are we not swingers according to your swingometer ? " All your meets should be verified via Fab or else they don't count towards your Swingers Lifestyle membership card. | |||
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"If youve never met after a year on here how can you be a swinger? We've had half a dozen meets this year and none were from this site. Are we not swingers according to your swingometer ? All your meets should be verified via Fab or else they don't count towards your Swingers Lifestyle membership card. " I'll get them to join then. | |||
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"Im open to debate here... My question is if someone had a profile on here for over 12 months and not been verified do you think their account should be automatically deleted?" I agree with you. Ban them! | |||
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"Im open to debate here... My question is if someone had a profile on here for over 12 months and not been verified do you think their account should be automatically deleted? I agree with you. Ban them! " Why? How do you know they've not been meeting and 'choose' not be verified. Why not just let others enjoy fab how they like and you enjoy yours. | |||
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"If they aren't verified then they are probably aliens trying to kidnap you for an anal probe. Don't fall for it folks " That's what turned me Vicci Boy, I was straight as a die before, honest | |||
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"If they aren't verified then they are probably aliens trying to kidnap you for an anal probe. Don't fall for it folks That's what turned me Vicci Boy, I was straight as a die before, honest " I always thought there was a bit of a Tarsus Prime look about you... | |||
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"As long as they make it clear that they are not interested in meeting , no problem . If they constantly arrange meets and don't turn up , then that's different . They should be removed . And this is a sex site for some of us , we arrange sexual hook ups on here , and it works really well . I agree with gloucsswingers comments" I see you have changed your opinion slightly, maybe you just realised what a a shite hawk your being!!! | |||
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"Im open to debate here... My question is if someone had a profile on here for over 12 months and not been verified do you think their account should be automatically deleted?" No why? | |||
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