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By *lan43sum OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

OK sex makes babies. How come we still have a sex drive when we are way past bringing kids up?

Why do we remain curious about body parts even when we know what one looks like?

Anyone got any answers, serious or funny?

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

Considering the thousands of years our species has been around we're not designed to live to the ages we do.

Basically our sex drive doesnt shut down because there's nothing in our coding to do that as we never used to live to the ages that we do.

I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think as human beings we are smart enough to enjoy sex for pleasure, whereas most animals see it as a means of creating offspring and nothing else.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Considering the thousands of years our species has been around we're not designed to live to the ages we do.

Basically our sex drive doesnt shut down because there's nothing in our coding to do that as we never used to live to the ages that we do.

I think. "

Although I've never even considered the question this seems highly plausible.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

Modern medicine keeps us alive a lot longer than previous generations, before it our life expectancy was pretty low and with a nine month pregnancy with few offspring and lots that can go wrong our sex drive allowed us to reproduce with multiple partners to raise the chances of a successful birth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think as human beings we are smart enough to enjoy sex for pleasure, whereas most animals see it as a means of creating offspring and nothing else."

Most but not all animals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think as human beings we are smart enough to enjoy sex for pleasure, whereas most animals see it as a means of creating offspring and nothing else.

Most but not all animals."

Yep, that's why I said most!

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Because recreational sex is exceedingly good fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think mostly women lose some sexual drive way more than men do - as man can fertilise an egg but woman has to carry and nurture an embryo and older bodies unable to do this (generally - always exceptions)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just genes doing what genetics do!

I'm sure there's a few women who lose sex drive with the menopause and lots of men too.

It always makes me laugh how we as a society drive morals onto teenage girls not to have sex even though every gene they've got is saying mate,mate,mate!

Genes certainly wouldn't choose 30 like society does, technically we're well over the hill by then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex relieved the boredom of cold,dark nights when there weren't any candles,gaslight or electricity. It's a good way to keep warm and passes a bit of time. Animals have the ability to eat and sleep all day and night,they don't get bored. That's my theory anyway. Also,closeness to others helps build up immunities to diseases.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dolphins have sex for pleasure, and apparently a pig's orgasm lasts for 30 minutes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are animals!

This disconnection from nature where we see human beings as outsiders looking in has been going on far too long!

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington


"Considering the thousands of years our species has been around we're not designed to live to the ages we do.

Basically our sex drive doesnt shut down because there's nothing in our coding to do that as we never used to live to the ages that we do.

I think.

Although I've never even considered the question this seems highly plausible."

humans have lived into there seventys for thousands of years. Its only infant mortality that has really effected average life span. Dodgy health ministers pulling your puddin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's theories that sex is also for bonding and not just to make kids. Which is probably why people go off sex and hold back on sex with a partner when they aren't happy with them.

I think mainly sex drive is down to the brain, stimulation, etc and that doesn't switch off automatically, things affect it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's theories that sex is also for bonding and not just to make kids. Which is probably why people go off sex and hold back on sex with a partner when they aren't happy with them.

I think mainly sex drive is down to the brain, stimulation, etc and that doesn't switch off automatically, things affect it."

And hormones. I'm learning a lot about Serotonin at the moment as I'm having trouble with mine. Just learned that the parawhatsit thingy in the vagina produces Serotonin. I have a theory at the moment that this hormone,as well as controlling hunger and emotions can cause a libido surge. I'm looking into it as my desire for sex has increased a thousand fold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dolphins have sex for pleasure, and apparently a pig's orgasm lasts for 30 minutes. "

Its not just dolphins. Penguins, porcupines, walruses, horses and squirrels masturbate, too. It is not an uncommon thing in the animal world so it could be called a natural urge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are one of the few species that has sex for recreational pleasure... Hence we carry on past that stage.. as sex isn't just designed for procreation in our species .. it helps create bonds too x

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington


"Dolphins have sex for pleasure, and apparently a pig's orgasm lasts for 30 minutes.

Its not just dolphins. Penguins, porcupines, walruses, horses and squirrels masturbate, too. It is not an uncommon thing in the animal world so it could be called a natural urge."

have an unhealthy vision of a horse trying to crack one off thanks for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone seen the video of a zoo ape using a toad as a sex toy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's theories that sex is also for bonding and not just to make kids. Which is probably why people go off sex and hold back on sex with a partner when they aren't happy with them.

I think mainly sex drive is down to the brain, stimulation, etc and that doesn't switch off automatically, things affect it.

And hormones. I'm learning a lot about Serotonin at the moment as I'm having trouble with mine. Just learned that the parawhatsit thingy in the vagina produces Serotonin. I have a theory at the moment that this hormone,as well as controlling hunger and emotions can cause a libido surge. I'm looking into it as my desire for sex has increased a thousand fold. "

You can become addicted to hormones, and the better a hormone fits a receptor the more of a 'high' you get, and the more addicted (or not). Not looked into it too much myself personally. Hope you find some interesting ideas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone seen the video of a zoo ape using a toad as a sex toy? "

Yes, omg at first i found it gross but then i kind of liked it and found it amusing. Love how he just doesn't care who sees him wanking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still thinking about pigs. I mean. 30 Minutes!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dolphins have sex for pleasure, and apparently a pig's orgasm lasts for 30 minutes.

Its not just dolphins. Penguins, porcupines, walruses, horses and squirrels masturbate, too. It is not an uncommon thing in the animal world so it could be called a natural urge.

have an unhealthy vision of a horse trying to crack one off thanks for that "

It was the walrus that got me. Agh!

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington


"Has anyone seen the video of a zoo ape using a toad as a sex toy?

Yes, omg at first i found it gross but then i kind of liked it and found it amusing. Love how he just doesn't care who sees him wanking. "

"Your my little friend" poor liitle toad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone seen the video of a zoo ape using a toad as a sex toy?

Yes, omg at first i found it gross but then i kind of liked it and found it amusing. Love how he just doesn't care who sees him wanking. "

I felt sorry for the poor toad. Everyone just stood and watched him getting stuffed.

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington


"Has anyone seen the video of a zoo ape using a toad as a sex toy?

Yes, omg at first i found it gross but then i kind of liked it and found it amusing. Love how he just doesn't care who sees him wanking.

I felt sorry for the poor toad. Everyone just stood and watched him getting stuffed. "

bet he was hopping mad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone seen the video of a zoo ape using a toad as a sex toy?

Yes, omg at first i found it gross but then i kind of liked it and found it amusing. Love how he just doesn't care who sees him wanking.

I felt sorry for the poor toad. Everyone just stood and watched him getting stuffed. "

Not sure if it was already dead, i didn't think about the dead frog tbh - just realised i am heartless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The opposing thumb gave us great wisdom and morals.

It seems you can't have your cake and eat it!

Nature never fails to utterly amaze, bewilder, intrigue and appall me.

There's a butterfly that migrates from Africa to the UK, every third or fourth generation gets an extra big set of wings so it can fly all the way back to Morocco in one go. How the fuck does it know to go to Morocco!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone seen the video of a zoo ape using a toad as a sex toy?

Yes, omg at first i found it gross but then i kind of liked it and found it amusing. Love how he just doesn't care who sees him wanking.

I felt sorry for the poor toad. Everyone just stood and watched him getting stuffed.

bet he was hopping mad "

is that similar to kissing frogs

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts


"It always makes me laugh how we as a society drive morals onto teenage girls not to have sex even though every gene they've got is saying mate,mate,mate!

Genes certainly wouldn't choose 30 like society does, technically we're well over the hill by then lol"

I've been saying this for years, and people think I'm insane for having wanted kids for the past 6-7 years! I'm already getting on a bit, my time is running out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're also opportunistic as a species. If the chance is there we generally take it - again it's something hard wired to procreate though we do for pleasure too obvs.

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Blimey, i thought i was quite intelligent untill i saw all your comments.

Every days a school day on Fab.

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By *lan43sum OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Its been a very enlightening thread, thanks fir the thoughts and for the thinking.

I had wondered if anyone would pop up with the "originals sin" thing and commend celebacy as being good for the soul.

For men, now I'm no expert, but I think that having sex is also a factor in reducing the likelihood of prostrate problems -or is this just another way of saying that I like red wine therefore its good for me type stories?

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