FabSwingers.com forum: Submissive...

By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

the term submissive covers a huge range of play form the dom/sub to just allowing things..

then there is lifestyle choice and just a one off scenario...

i had issues with this terminology myself..

for me there is no pleasure in being owned unless i want to be. i know as a person it couldnt be a lifestyle choice..

however i have an aspect that likes the service side of things. several fantasies include this as a primary turn on..

as a person who has a lot of responsibilities in every day life..the relief of knowing a man knows what he wants..which in my case, is also my pleasure,as well as his own, allows me to hand over certain things..the direction of a scene, the managing of the scene. sometimes its a relief to be able to trust someone enough, to just let them take charge for a while..this includes being with a couple not just a single guy..

i also like the positive wild man to come out, the feeling of a guy expressing his positive masculine, being the structure for play..is in itself sensual...