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By *ik and rita OP   Couple
over a year ago

london

Really enjoying fab however we are noticing more hoax profiles daily. We would like advice from you experienced fabbers how to out the desperate men pretending to be woman or a couple. We have spoken to genuine couples and females but are finding a lot of fakes too. They seem to go to any length and it is annoying. Also do you think fab could do more to them out. We do like the block button when we spot the picture collectors and desperados.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust your gut feeling. x

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By *ik and rita OP   Couple
over a year ago

london


"Trust your gut feeling. x"

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By *lueballs41Man
over a year ago

Somerset

I hate this too , I enjoy fun on webcam with women , in my experience anyone who won't turn on their webcam is usually a man pretending to be a woman

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

[Removed by poster at 13/05/15 07:36:30]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate this too , I enjoy fun on webcam with women , in my experience anyone who won't turn on their webcam is usually a man pretending to be a woman "

I must be a man as i not only won't turn on my webcam but i don't have a webcam

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By *ik and rita OP   Couple
over a year ago

london


"I hate this too , I enjoy fun on webcam with women , in my experience anyone who won't turn on their webcam is usually a man pretending to be a woman "

We have had some really fun cam chats and play but there has been one who said their mic wa not working and when connected looks like a stream lol. We cut them off immediately and block lol. The depths they go to is bazaar.

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By *lueballs41Man
over a year ago

Somerset


"I hate this too , I enjoy fun on webcam with women , in my experience anyone who won't turn on their webcam is usually a man pretending to be a woman

I must be a man as i not only won't turn on my webcam but i don't have a webcam

"

I did say usually

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

In our experience it's a gut feeling. Overall, most if the profiles on here are real unless Fab HQ are playing dirty tricks on us all

One solution would be to increase the price of this site , it wouldn't stop all the fakers in their tracks but would certainly out a few of them. -Mr

(I await to be held in front of the dury for my last paragraph )

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By *lueballs41Man
over a year ago

Somerset


"I hate this too , I enjoy fun on webcam with women , in my experience anyone who won't turn on their webcam is usually a man pretending to be a woman

We have had some really fun cam chats and play but there has been one who said their mic wa not working and when connected looks like a stream lol. We cut them off immediately and block lol. The depths they go to is bazaar. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have come to learn that I can generally tell by the way in which a response is written in a message. The words that are used in someone replies is not something that a fem would say.

There have also been an increase in fem profiles that are working prostitutes on here as well....

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Trust your gut feeling. x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a couples profile in my area just now who are definitely fake. I came across the profile the first time I was on and they've deleted and set up a few profiles with the same pics, similar name and practically the same wording. They messaged me and sent me a friend invite yesterday and tried to play ignorant when I called them out on it yet again!

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By *ik and rita OP   Couple
over a year ago

london


"I have come to learn that I can generally tell by the way in which a response is written in a message. The words that are used in someone replies is not something that a fem would say.

There have also been an increase in fem profiles that are working prostitutes on here as well...."

To play inspector morse on every email is not fair on genuine fabbers. It is sad but this is what we are having to do aswell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust your gut feeling. x"

Feel the Force young Padawan, the longer you're here the stronger it becomes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

There have also been an increase in fem profiles that are working prostitutes on here as well...."

They are allowed to have profiles. Unless touting for business on here, in which case they should be reported.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In our experience it's a gut feeling. Overall, most if the profiles on here are real unless Fab HQ are playing dirty tricks on us all

One solution would be to increase the price of this site , it wouldn't stop all the fakers in their tracks but would certainly out a few of them. -Mr

(I await to be held in front of the dury for my last paragraph ) "

What a stupid idea. The greed will set in and lots will leave and its just the case of common sense and that wonderful DELETE BUTTON!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In our experience it's a gut feeling. Overall, most if the profiles on here are real unless Fab HQ are playing dirty tricks on us all

One solution would be to increase the price of this site , it wouldn't stop all the fakers in their tracks but would certainly out a few of them. -Mr

(I await to be held in front of the dury for my last paragraph ) "

Judge & jury here for that last paragraph! Increasing the cost would indeed out some of the fakes but also a LOT of the genuine Fabbers leaving it a rich mans (or ladies!) site. The site would be poorer for it and I think it works well enough as it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In our experience it's a gut feeling. Overall, most if the profiles on here are real unless Fab HQ are playing dirty tricks on us all

One solution would be to increase the price of this site , it wouldn't stop all the fakers in their tracks but would certainly out a few of them. -Mr

(I await to be held in front of the dury for my last paragraph )

What a stupid idea. The greed will set in and lots will leave and its just the case of common sense and that wonderful DELETE BUTTON!!!"

Hitting that delete button is no way near as satisfying as a good old whinge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I had trusted my gut and not wasted 2 hours waiting for a social meet. The girl turns out to be a guy and a rather rude one at that.

But hey I got to watch the football so nor a total loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even the hoaxers ignore ME

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

There have also been an increase in fem profiles that are working prostitutes on here as well....

They are allowed to have profiles. Unless touting for business on here, in which case they should be reported."

We keep reporting one profile every other day. She charges 40 quid a meet she gets removed and then the next day she has another profile on here. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have come to learn that I can generally tell by the way in which a response is written in a message. The words that are used in someone replies is not something that a fem would say.

There have also been an increase in fem profiles that are working prostitutes on here as well....

To play inspector morse on every email is not fair on genuine fabbers. It is sad but this is what we are having to do aswell. "

I have been fooled once..we had a party and I invited a single fem who got chatting. I gave my mobile number out to the people attending well needless to say the so said fem didn't show. Day after I had message saying sorry I didn't attend tour party but you thought I was a fem but in fact I am male and I would be interesting in meeting you I will pay you for your time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust your gut feeling. x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even the hoaxers ignore ME "

Who said that?

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

Okay, a price increase isn't the solution. -Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

men pretending to be women,ha,,thats crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"men pretending to be women,ha,,thats crazy"

They should have their fannies welded shut. That would teach them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate this too , I enjoy fun on webcam with women , in my experience anyone who won't turn on their webcam is usually a man pretending to be a woman

I must be a man as i not only won't turn on my webcam but i don't have a webcam

"

We were accused of this a while back because we don't do Skype nor do we webcam.

Strangely the guy who made the accusations had no photos on his profile and no verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do CD/TV count in this??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people get so obsessed with investigating this? If you fancy a meet - message - phone. You'll soon figure out if they're real.

If not ignore or block. Problem solved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In our experience it's a gut feeling. Overall, most if the profiles on here are real unless Fab HQ are playing dirty tricks on us all

One solution would be to increase the price of this site , it wouldn't stop all the fakers in their tracks but would certainly out a few of them. -Mr

(I await to be held in front of the dury for my last paragraph ) "

I think the logic that fakes won't pay and that genuine swingers would is fundamentally flawed.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"I hate this too , I enjoy fun on webcam with women , in my experience anyone who won't turn on their webcam is usually a man pretending to be a woman "

But I don't cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate this too , I enjoy fun on webcam with women , in my experience anyone who won't turn on their webcam is usually a man pretending to be a woman

I must be a man as i not only won't turn on my webcam but i don't have a webcam

We were accused of this a while back because we don't do Skype nor do we webcam.

Strangely the guy who made the accusations had no photos on his profile and no verifications. "

Our refusal to cam or give out phone numbers has led to similar accusations aimed towards us. Often it's from new and on the face of it genuine profiles who buy in to this ridiculous mantra that these are the only wsys to establish someone is genuine and ignore things like multiple verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people get so obsessed with investigating this? If you fancy a meet - message - phone. You'll soon figure out if they're real.

If not ignore or block. Problem solved."

To be fair, I don't think people are obsessed with it. It's a fair question. Some people are devious and it's not fair to the people they dupe. Yes it's life but knowing the types of things that dodgy people do certainly helps make this a more fun experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate this too , I enjoy fun on webcam with women , in my experience anyone who won't turn on their webcam is usually a man pretending to be a woman

I must be a man as i not only won't turn on my webcam but i don't have a webcam

We were accused of this a while back because we don't do Skype nor do we webcam.

Strangely the guy who made the accusations had no photos on his profile and no verifications.

Our refusal to cam or give out phone numbers has led to similar accusations aimed towards us. Often it's from new and on the face of it genuine profiles who buy in to this ridiculous mantra that these are the only wsys to establish someone is genuine and ignore things like multiple verifications"

You were new once. It's difficult knowing right from wrong on sites likes this. One person's right way is another person's wrong way.

I was called a fake the other night by a guy with a porn star's pic on his profile. I just smiled. No hassle.

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London


"In our experience it's a gut feeling. Overall, most if the profiles on here are real unless Fab HQ are playing dirty tricks on us all

One solution would be to increase the price of this site , it wouldn't stop all the fakers in their tracks but would certainly out a few of them. -Mr

(I await to be held in front of the dury for my last paragraph ) "

Your just seeking attention, and I won't give you that pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people get so obsessed with investigating this? If you fancy a meet - message - phone. You'll soon figure out if they're real.

If not ignore or block. Problem solved.

To be fair, I don't think people are obsessed with it. It's a fair question. Some people are devious and it's not fair to the people they dupe. Yes it's life but knowing the types of things that dodgy people do certainly helps make this a more fun experience. "

We all see them. Most days a new woman joins called 'fuckmehardinallholes4436' with a sexy obscure photo.

I admire the photo, block. Never see them again...

until they join again as 'fuckmeevenharderinallholes5534' a couple of days later

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I've been accused of being fake numerous times.

Apparently being a single female who actually meets alone - with couples and singles, means I must be fake. There is no fella that suddenly requires to be there for my safety

I don't cam, and very rarely give out my phone number before a social meet - if thats what people think makes me fake, then good luck to them - but I don't rush into meets either - with most of my meets being a few months of chat beforehand (My life away from here is busy, single mum, work, training etc)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people get so obsessed with investigating this? If you fancy a meet - message - phone. You'll soon figure out if they're real.

If not ignore or block. Problem solved.

To be fair, I don't think people are obsessed with it. It's a fair question. Some people are devious and it's not fair to the people they dupe. Yes it's life but knowing the types of things that dodgy people do certainly helps make this a more fun experience.

We all see them. Most days a new woman joins called 'fuckmehardinallholes4436' with a sexy obscure photo.

I admire the photo, block. Never see them again...

until they join again as 'fuckmeevenharderinallholes5534' a couple of days later "

And they always have a load of guys on their visible friends list.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And some twat will verify them just because he thinks he'll get his dick sucked.

I've had a couple 'female' profiles contact me and they were obviously men...one even admitted it when questioned. Can't really hold the site accountable for people who choose to live a lie though, just a part of life...people will be deceitful to get ahead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single males masquerading behind couples profiles with only pics and details of the lady?? Surely not?

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By *lueballs41Man
over a year ago

Somerset

I'm going on personal experiences when on webcam chat sites , why do people go on them and not put a cam on or say they don't own one , mostly because they've not come out of the closet and just want to watch guys wank !! if you just want to chat go on a chat only site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going on personal experiences when on webcam chat sites , why do people go on them and not put a cam on or say they don't own one , mostly because they've not come out of the closet and just want to watch guys wank !! if you just want to chat go on a chat only site "

Even if it is a guy that just wants to watch and wank... so what? Who is he harming?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really enjoying fab however we are noticing more hoax profiles daily. We would like advice from you experienced fabbers how to out the desperate men pretending to be woman or a couple. We have spoken to genuine couples and females but are finding a lot of fakes too. They seem to go to any length and it is annoying. Also do you think fab could do more to them out. We do like the block button when we spot the picture

collectors and desperados. "

I have spotted many a pic that is either from a website or a z list celebrity, rather than block I report them to fab to deal with them

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By *lueballs41Man
over a year ago

Somerset


"I'm going on personal experiences when on webcam chat sites , why do people go on them and not put a cam on or say they don't own one , mostly because they've not come out of the closet and just want to watch guys wank !! if you just want to chat go on a chat only site

Even if it is a guy that just wants to watch and wank... so what? Who is he harming?"

Well no one I suppose but for us straight guys it's nice if it's a woman watching

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

The best way is not to get drawn into the excitement of a potential meet (this is from a single male perspective) because meets could be rare. You still need that 'due diligence' approach, so you want to speak with the female to make sure she is part of everything etc etc - any excuses or continued avoidance tactics, bin them and block them. No point is wasting your time trying to blood out of a stone if it is not forthcoming.

There are plenty more genuine people out there who will be willing to verify themselves and operate in a way that gives you the confidence you need from them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And some twat will verify them just because he thinks he'll get his dick sucked.

I've had a couple 'female' profiles contact me and they were obviously men...one even admitted it when questioned. Can't really hold the site accountable for people who choose to live a lie though, just a part of life...people will be deceitful to get ahead."

I've had the same and tbh it's quite easy to spot them now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate this too , I enjoy fun on webcam with women , in my experience anyone who won't turn on their webcam is usually a man pretending to be a woman

I must be a man as i not only won't turn on my webcam but i don't have a webcam

"

Same here, I'm on here on my phone so don't have option to go on cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And some twat will verify them just because he thinks he'll get his dick sucked.

I've had a couple 'female' profiles contact me and they were obviously men...one even admitted it when questioned. Can't really hold the site accountable for people who choose to live a lie though, just a part of life...people will be deceitful to get ahead."

Shouldn't this last sentances be ' head' not "ahead"

Boom boom tish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a strange thing... Interesting reading this.

Hadn't really noticed this myself but by default I usually look to see if they've been verified. Not fool proof, as posters above have mentioned, but a start at least.

Phone call or cam verify from now on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate this too , I enjoy fun on webcam with women , in my experience anyone who won't turn on their webcam is usually a man pretending to be a woman

I must be a man as i not only won't turn on my webcam but i don't have a webcam

"

We only cam together and usually only to verify .. dont like to play without touching

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"I hate this too , I enjoy fun on webcam with women , in my experience anyone who won't turn on their webcam is usually a man pretending to be a woman

I must be a man as i not only won't turn on my webcam but i don't have a webcam

"

.

.

I went on cam..

Photo verified..

..even met a few..

and STILL I'm a guy pretending to be a girl...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate this too , I enjoy fun on webcam with women , in my experience anyone who won't turn on their webcam is usually a man pretending to be a woman

We have had some really fun cam chats and play but there has been one who said their mic wa not working and when connected looks like a stream lol. We cut them off immediately and block lol. The depths they go to is bazaar. "

Most real couples have verifications from others...we check those before we get into a lengthy message exchange r even send out face pictures

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By *lueballs41Man
over a year ago

Somerset


"I hate this too , I enjoy fun on webcam with women , in my experience anyone who won't turn on their webcam is usually a man pretending to be a woman

I must be a man as i not only won't turn on my webcam but i don't have a webcam

.

.

I went on cam..

Photo verified..

..even met a few..

and STILL I'm a guy pretending to be a girl... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate this too , I enjoy fun on webcam with women , in my experience anyone who won't turn on their webcam is usually a man pretending to be a woman

But I don't cam "

I do,,,,and love to pout,flutter my lashes wiggle my boobs n tease the boys

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