FabSwingers.com forum: Is it wrong

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For Catholic priests to give advice on things like marriage when they have never been married themselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For Catholic priests to give advice on things like marriage when they have never been married themselves?"

If you ask them they're hardly going to turn you away. Most of the preists i've known are daft though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I meant are they qualified to give advice on something they've never experienced.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

They've been doing it for centuries. Inappropriate for them possibly but it is part of their traditions.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"For Catholic priests to give advice on things like marriage when they have never been married themselves?"

Same could be said about my male doctor giving me advice about periods...what does he know?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For Catholic priests to give advice on things like marriage when they have never been married themselves?"

They can't give impartial advice due to Catholic doctrine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For Catholic priests to give advice on things like marriage when they have never been married themselves?

They can't give impartial advice due to Catholic doctrine."

Explain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For Catholic priests to give advice on things like marriage when they have never been married themselves?

They can't give impartial advice due to Catholic doctrine.

Explain"

Its sinful to have sex before marriage or get a divorce.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What about fucking someone you're not married to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about fucking someone you're not married to?"

That'd make his head spin through 360

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they don't play the game, they shouldn't make the rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stops by, looks in. Realises it's a thread about religion. *Slowly backs away and shuffles out the door*

As my dear old Nan used to say "Keep AWAY from the religion threads on sex and swinging sites young Daniel"

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Not wrong just strange.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Their little confession cubicles remind me of photos I see on here of glory holes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's not a thread about religion. It's more a thread about giving advice on something they have no personal knowledge about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not a thread about religion. It's more a thread about giving advice on something they have no personal knowledge about."
i was a priest we work for god and only offer advice on loving one another were not marriage guidance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about fucking someone you're not married to?

That'd make his head spin through 360

Think they would explode if you asked about fucking more than one person at the same time and different sexes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't wrong, and of course no-one (not even a Catholic) is obligated to take the advice given. Does a Relate counsellor need to be gay to offer advice to a gay couple? Does a Marie Curie nurse have to have had cancer themselves to be able to do their job?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not a thread about religion. It's more a thread about giving advice on something they have no personal knowledge about."

If that were wrong then a lot of people in a lot of professions are wrong. I don't believe you have to have personal experience of something to empathise and advise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not a thread about religion. It's more a thread about giving advice on something they have no personal knowledge about."

Most senior OB/GYN consultants are male so obviously have no personal experience.

i would hazard a guess that a lot of counsellors do not have personal experience with the field they specialise in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For Catholic priests to give advice on things like marriage when they have never been married themselves?"

Its a bit of a contradiction, though they do offer you a chance to talk, which is always good

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Stops by, looks in. Realises it's a thread about religion. *Slowly backs away and shuffles out the door*

Think I'll do the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Stops by, looks in. Realises it's a thread about religion. *Slowly backs away and shuffles out the door*

Think I'll do the same

It's not! I was really just wondering if someone who has never experienced marriage can give good advice on it!!

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"Stops by, looks in. Realises it's a thread about religion. *Slowly backs away and shuffles out the door*

As my dear old Nan used to say "Keep AWAY from the religion threads on sex and swinging sites young Daniel"

A wise woman your Nan

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"It's not a thread about religion. It's more a thread about giving advice on something they have no personal knowledge about.

Most senior OB/GYN consultants are male so obviously have no personal experience.

i would hazard a guess that a lot of counsellors do not have personal experience with the field they specialise in."

That was my point hours ago which the op ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stops by, looks in. Realises it's a thread about religion. *Slowly backs away and shuffles out the door*

Think I'll do the same

It's not! I was really just wondering if someone who has never experienced marriage can give good advice on it!!"

Because they are basing their advice on their religious beliefs, teachings of God etc etc....well that's how I see it anyway.

Whether you believe in it or act on it is upto the individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not a thread about religion. It's more a thread about giving advice on something they have no personal knowledge about."

The person who taught me to swim and dive couldn't swim. She understood what worked and why and could explain when and why something looked wrong and could give advice on how to fix it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can give you the moral speech, the Catholic view point.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Only if they say feck, girls, drink really loudly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stops by, looks in. Realises it's a thread about religion. *Slowly backs away and shuffles out the door*

As my dear old Nan used to say "Keep AWAY from the religion threads on sex and swinging sites young Daniel"

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Religious people will give advice based on their religious precepts.

If that's what you're after then ok. If not it won't be the best advice for you.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

"Stops by, looks in. Realises it's a thread about religion. *Slowly backs away and shuffles out the door*

As my dear old Nan used to say "Keep AWAY from the religion threads on sex and swinging sites young Daniel"

Realises its a religion thread *grabs popcorn, pulls up a chair and gets comfortable, watches and waits for the inevitable flaming/fights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nuts and the Catholic church brought that rule in not the Christian religion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Stops by, looks in. Realises it's a thread about religion. *Slowly backs away and shuffles out the door*

As my dear old Nan used to say "Keep AWAY from the religion threads on sex and swinging sites young Daniel"

Realises its a religion thread *grabs popcorn, pulls up a chair and gets comfortable, watches and waits for the inevitable flaming/fights. "

It's not a religious thread if you read it properly. And nobody has been insulting so move along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As i have always said, if sex is wrong, why is it soooooooo much fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's nuts and the Catholic church brought that rule in not the Christian religion."

Nuts?! Please don't lower the tone of the conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Course it's not wrong....it's probably gunna be shit. Advice

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

"Stops by, looks in. Realises it's a thread about religion. *Slowly backs away and shuffles out the door*

As my dear old Nan used to say "Keep AWAY from the religion threads on sex and swinging sites young Daniel"

Realises its a religion thread *grabs popcorn, pulls up a chair and gets comfortable, watches and waits for the inevitable flaming/fights.

It's not a religious thread if you read it properly. And nobody has been insulting so move along."

It has religious themes so likely will become a religious thread, they always do.

I'm not going anywhere, I'm comfortable now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Stops by, looks in. Realises it's a thread about religion. *Slowly backs away and shuffles out the door*

As my dear old Nan used to say "Keep AWAY from the religion threads on sex and swinging sites young Daniel"

Realises its a religion thread *grabs popcorn, pulls up a chair and gets comfortable, watches and waits for the inevitable flaming/fights.

It's not a religious thread if you read it properly. And nobody has been insulting so move along.

It has religious themes so likely will become a religious thread, they always do.

I'm not going anywhere, I'm comfortable now

Enjoying the hard boiled eggs up your arse?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As i have always said, if sex is wrong, why is it soooooooo much fun.

Exactly!!

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

"Stops by, looks in. Realises it's a thread about religion. *Slowly backs away and shuffles out the door*

As my dear old Nan used to say "Keep AWAY from the religion threads on sex and swinging sites young Daniel"

Realises its a religion thread *grabs popcorn, pulls up a chair and gets comfortable, watches and waits for the inevitable flaming/fights.

It's not a religious thread if you read it properly. And nobody has been insulting so move along.

It has religious themes so likely will become a religious thread, they always do.

I'm not going anywhere, I'm comfortable now

Enjoying the hard boiled eggs up your arse?"

I have no idea what that means

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Based purely on my limited time in these forums, I think the world is full of people giving advice on subjects that they clearly know nothing about!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Based purely on my limited time in these forums, I think the world is full of people giving advice on subjects that they clearly know nothing about!"

That was precisely my point. Single people give advice on marriages, people with no children give advice to parents. Priests give advice on matters they have no personal experience of.

Is it right that they should do so. I don't think I'd take much notice of someone who hadn't had first hand experience of what they were talking about.

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys

Surely you can give advice on some thing one has never experienced?

Social services

Police

Doctors/ nurses

Solicitor

I'm sure many professions do this

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"Stops by, looks in. Realises it's a thread about religion. *Slowly backs away and shuffles out the door*

As my dear old Nan used to say "Keep AWAY from the religion threads on sex and swinging sites young Daniel"

Realises its a religion thread *grabs popcorn, pulls up a chair and gets comfortable, watches and waits for the inevitable flaming/fights.

It's not a religious thread if you read it properly. And nobody has been insulting so move along.

It has religious themes so likely will become a religious thread, they always do.

I'm not going anywhere, I'm comfortable now

Enjoying the hard boiled eggs up your arse?

I have no idea what that means

I don't either but it does sound interesting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Based purely on my limited time in these forums, I think the world is full of people giving advice on subjects that they clearly know nothing about!

That was precisely my point. Single people give advice on marriages, people with no children give advice to parents. Priests give advice on matters they have no personal experience of.

Is it right that they should do so. I don't think I'd take much notice of someone who hadn't had first hand experience of what they were talking about."

Does that extend to male midwives or childless teachers?

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By *orthLincsIronCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Based purely on my limited time in these forums, I think the world is full of people giving advice on subjects that they clearly know nothing about!

That was precisely my point. Single people give advice on marriages, people with no children give advice to parents. Priests give advice on matters they have no personal experience of.

Is it right that they should do so. I don't think I'd take much notice of someone who hadn't had first hand experience of what they were talking about."

So you wouldn't listen to the expert advice given by a male cancer specialist concerning a female specific cancer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For Catholic priests to give advice on things like marriage when they have never been married themselves?"

Holy shite, that's a good question!

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