FabSwingers.com forum: is it common?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hiya,do many of you find it usual to have a bit of a roller coaster ride on here? what i mean is, for me, i'm either all up for meeting and have a bit of a wild time...or...i just can't be arsed. it's like for 3-4 weeks i'm all up for it ,then a few months where it's too much effort. i got to admit tho,i just love these forums. anyway ,it would be good to hear your views. thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hiya,do many of you find it usual to have a bit of a roller coaster ride on here? what i mean is, for me, i'm either all up for meeting and have a bit of a wild time...or...i just can't be arsed. it's like for 3-4 weeks i'm all up for it ,then a few months where it's too much effort. i got to admit tho,i just love these forums. anyway ,it would be good to hear your views. thanks x"

That has been my experience completely, as well as an emotional one, as far as I am concerned. I am genuinely not looking for a relationship. I understand the concept of NSA. But I really would like a little bit of honesty sometimes. Do men think we will top ourselves if they change their mind? Too much to bear, the thought that they don't want to shag us senseless? What is wrong with a polite text saying "Listen, You're a nice girl but I've changed my mind." But no, it seems that they just decide to hide...

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

in my experience,females rule swinging.whether singles, or in a couple.it happens when the females feel like it.we do nothing for months,then all of a sudden,mrs saucy feels like it,we swing for a full month.i'm not complaining,i just wish i could see it coming some times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i think we all have that, sometimes work gets in the way, sometimes i just meet socially, possibly would like on occasions to take one further but just not possible

always slightly warey too of a guy thats booked a room as i know sometimes they are just thinking that the social will become sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" always slightly warey too of a guy thats booked a room as i know sometimes they are just thinking that the social will become sex

He's simply being prepared. Imagine yoyr frustration if you DID want to shag him but couldn't get a hotel room. Plus it means he can relax by having a couple of drinks with you knowing he doesn't have to drive later.

I'd applaud him for being concerned for his own safety, and for thinking of you by booking a room beforehand thus saving you any embarrassment you may feel standing there at the reception desk whilst trying to check in at a moment's notice with no luggage and getting an all knowing smirk from the night porter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" always slightly warey too of a guy thats booked a room as i know sometimes they are just thinking that the social will become sex

I would disagree with this.

I make it clear that the first meet is always social: I NEVER play on the first meet and NEVER play in hotels. If, after making my position crystal clear a meet still went ahead and booked a room then that would be the end of it: I wouldn't trust them.

Add to that someone who gets so d*unk on a first social meet they have to book a room to sleep it off?!! Sounds a right Prince, but I'd have to decline!

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

They don't have to be so d*unk they have to book a room to sleep it off.

2 pints, and they are unable to drive (some would say any alcohol and they are unable to drive), so a hotel room makes perfect sense. Unless they are going to sit drinking tea all night.

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By *ertnbeckyCouple
over a year ago

oldham

we found lovhuv so dont fight it life is a rollercoaster just gotta ride it

morning to all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They don't have to be so d*unk they have to book a room to sleep it off.

2 pints, and they are unable to drive (some would say any alcohol and they are unable to drive), so a hotel room makes perfect sense. Unless they are going to sit drinking tea all night. "

Missing the point a little, or I've not made my point clear. From my point of view I only meet local men, therefore, if it's a social meet and they're local I'd expect them to not drink and drive. So booking a room would have ulterior motives to me.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

" what i mean is, for me, i'm either all up for meeting and have a bit of a wild time...or...i just can't be arsed. it's like for 3-4 weeks i'm all up for it ,then a few months where it's too much effort. "

Yep, same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's not only you ladies who get a bit peed off with it.

I, Jack, have felt that I don't want to continue playing, on a couple of occaisions. Then we usually go to a party, I pull, and then I'm up for it again, lol.

Kate has never said that she's fed up. Seems like I'm the party pooper.

I love the forums though, and even if we stopped playing, I would still be here to take the pee out of you lot

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By *andsomgeorgeMan
over a year ago

Rugby

I'm like that with Cadbury's chocolate - I can eat bars and bars of the stuff and then it won't cross my mind for weeks or even months

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