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By *ony Hardcock OP   Man
over a year ago

Shepperton

Do you gorgeous ladies and gents pay any attention to winks?

I wink not to be lazy but to show interest. If I don't get a wink back then I don't message!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indifferent to em, they're flattering to receive but rarely followed up on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I find them completely pointless.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I look and delete.

99% of them i get are from bi guys and couples. Im not seeking either of those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's rare I look I mainly just delete ....I take it to mean I like your profile but not enough to.message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a wink on the rare occasions I get them.

Some people are very clear though - wink and you're blocked! So always read the profile first

Some people WILL think it's lazy and will expect you to spend half an hour crafting a 100% original piece of prose each and every time you message someone - and most likely you'll STILL be blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the time I realise ive been wink'ed a couple of days have passed, replying to it can be a bit too late. I prefer sending a message , articulate myself and come across as a silver tongued cavalier haha. Besides, winking is for grandads lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All winks accepted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Indifferent to em, they're flattering to receive but rarely followed up on. "

yeap,

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I sometimes look, and then say thankyou for the wink if I'm interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winking will make you go blind, or was that something else

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By *ony Hardcock OP   Man
over a year ago

Shepperton


"I like a wink on the rare occasions I get them.

Some people are very clear though - wink and you're blocked! So always read the profile first

Some people WILL think it's lazy and will expect you to spend half an hour crafting a 100% original piece of prose each and every time you message someone - and most likely you'll STILL be blocked

"

That's so true Dan it's like writing a cv to each person each time.

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By *ony Hardcock OP   Man
over a year ago

Shepperton


"Winking will make you go blind, or was that something else "

Like l Kevs

Anyone seen my glasses?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol i accept winks as an introduction but not everyone has the same view so I don't always depend on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a wink on the rare occasions I get them.

Some people are very clear though - wink and you're blocked! So always read the profile first

Some people WILL think it's lazy and will expect you to spend half an hour crafting a 100% original piece of prose each and every time you message someone - and most likely you'll STILL be blocked

"
i agree with this!!least you can test "are you interested"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink to test the waters, see if my profile is of interest. I get winked at a lot and that's how I interpret it, a way of testing the waters.

I look and, if I'm interested I wink back or message. If not I just ignore it. Some guys are serial winners and they just get blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I check my winks.

I take them as showing interest.

If I'm interested back I'll return the favour. And hope they send initial message.

On the odd occasion I will send a message upon receipt of a wink.

It's a good way of showing interest without the bs of trying to think of something to write in a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely check winks.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I like to receive winks, and i repond to any winks i receive with a message.

I don't send them though if a profile interests me enough to initiate contact I'll message i think the few minutes of my time is a worthwhile investment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wink notifications seem to come in months later

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Stop testing me

I did say if I was interested I'd respond to the wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look now and then and will wink back if they catch my eye.

Call me shallow but if it's a wink from someone without any pictures and a one line profile then I just leave it there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes look, and then say thankyou for the wink if I'm interested "

This is us ..also wink if we rushed

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By *ony Hardcock OP   Man
over a year ago

Shepperton


"I sometimes look, and then say thankyou for the wink if I'm interested

This is us ..also wink if we rushed "

We all have a busy life and it's always the way when you see that hot person you have two minutes of your lunch break left why not wink.

Thanks for the Wink Dan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally only wink if there's a forum thread about winking those you wanna fuck. I hate when i go to wink someone and they haven't deleted their winks in the last 30 days because generally i still wanna fuck them (or again)!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find them useful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not bothered, I see it as like being "poked" on Facebook, just a way of getting someone's attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I check my winks.

I take them as showing interest.

If I'm interested back I'll return the favour. And hope they send initial message.

On the odd occasion I will send a message upon receipt of a wink.

It's a good way of showing interest without the bs of trying to think of something to write in a message. "
spot on

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We normally reply to a wink with a message, it's a good way of showing an interest.

far better than a what's up message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a new wink woohoo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a new wink woohoo! "

Auto-correct is a killer isn't it?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I find them a little fun,as i would off line. Can't be bothered in second guessing what they mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look and return winks where necessary, send emails to those we're not interested in to say not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like the wink system, if we like what we see then we'll send a message back, we also send the odd wink if someone catches our eye.

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By *ony Hardcock OP   Man
over a year ago

Shepperton


"We look and return winks where necessary, send emails to those we're not interested in to say not interested"

A lot of people don't reply I have found, it's really nice you reply even to say no thank you.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

I occasionally send a wink, if I really really like the look of someone and there's no objection to winks in their profile - don't think I've ever had a reply though. If they can be bothered to read my profile, then I hope they'll get why I sent a wink instead of a message.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

A from me can mean i like ur profile, i think ur hot, i wanna fuck you ....eetc

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By *tockings and heels loverMan
over a year ago

Stourbridge

I think a lot of people ignore winks but I think it's a good way to show your interested and message if they like the look of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink to show interest,and if I get one back I send a message,usually with face pics...

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

We get winks and respond even if it no thanks which it often is as they are of no interest, smokers mostly.

We send them provided their is not a please do not on the profile, and it is a polite way we feel of saying hi we like what we have read and might like to know more.

The main problem with the site is people just do not read through the profiles.

L2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We look and return winks where necessary, send emails to those we're not interested in to say not interested

A lot of people don't reply I have found, it's really nice you reply even to say no thank you."

It some times leads to mails we don't want and ends in a block but hey needs must I spose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often send a wink just to make the person aware that I'm interested and like what I see. Some people say it's lazy but I prefer this approach as opposed to clogging up their mailbox with an unwanted message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All winks accepted "

Same here.

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By *affy55Man
over a year ago

Abergele

If I receive a wink, I return it with a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find them more effective in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tend to use them to show interest, if I get one back I'll then follow up with a message. Same the otherway too.

They're a handy tool to have.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

really useful,good introduction to say yr interested....I have had 3 today....yahooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find them more effective in real life "

A real life wink is a lot sexier

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I love it when a lovely lady winks me. I don't understand why people are so against the wink.

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Indifferent to em, they're flattering to receive but rarely followed up on. "

With you on that one (winks ) lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love winking!!!!

And feel very flattered that we receive them

Monkey x

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

all a wink shows me is they managed to find the wink button.....

it doesn't give me any feel for that person.....

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Ive just looked and currently have 392 winks if that's answers your question lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive just looked and currently have 392 winks if that's answers your question lol x"

You'll find one of mine lurking around in there - might have to go back 2 months though :p

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By *ony Hardcock OP   Man
over a year ago

Shepperton


"You'll find one of mine lurking around in there - might have to go back 2 months though :p "

I have looked fella but I can't find it

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