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"Yes, shallow as it sounds, if I'm not attracted to the photos of someone, I won't meet them." | |||
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"Yes, shallow as it sounds, if I'm not attracted to the photos of someone, I won't meet them. " | |||
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"I'd say looks are the main thing for the ladies of fab. Always seeing profiles etc with fit/hot guys only" I can fancy someone who isn't fit or hot by societal standards. | |||
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"I'd say looks are the main thing for the ladies of fab. Always seeing profiles etc with fit/hot guys only I can fancy someone who isn't fit or hot by societal standards. " Same! I love me a big fella! L | |||
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"No it don't as its casual sex." And this proves what for you then as you've had no meets...? | |||
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"Do physical looks always matter when looking for a meet?" Genuinely no. Masculinity and a good filthy attitude are much more important. | |||
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"Yes, shallow as it sounds, if I'm not attracted to the photos of someone, I won't meet them." | |||
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"I'd say looks are the main thing for the ladies of fab. Always seeing profiles etc with fit/hot guys only I can fancy someone who isn't fit or hot by societal standards. " The men I fancy wouldn't be classed as fit or hot necessarily but they do something for me. | |||
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"But if they come across as a complete dick, then no matter how good looking I found them in the first place, I wouldn't meet them." | |||
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"I have to buck the trend here. I go by personality first and foremost. If I find that attractive, I find the person attractive. That doesn't mean I don't perve visually attractive men and women with the best of them however." | |||
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"Yes, shallow as it sounds, if I'm not attracted to the photos of someone, I won't meet them." Most definitely. | |||
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"I need a bit of both. If you're hot but I can't talk to you or you are up your own arse then I'm not interested. If you're a pleasant person & good company but I'm not physically attracted I'm not likely to get hard." I'll make you hard, goddamn you | |||
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"But if they come across as a complete dick, then no matter how good looking I found them in the first place, I wouldn't meet them. " So true!! | |||
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"I need a bit of both. If you're hot but I can't talk to you or you are up your own arse then I'm not interested. If you're a pleasant person & good company but I'm not physically attracted I'm not likely to get hard. I'll make you hard, goddamn you " Is that a threat or a promise?! | |||
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"I need a bit of both. If you're hot but I can't talk to you or you are up your own arse then I'm not interested. If you're a pleasant person & good company but I'm not physically attracted I'm not likely to get hard. I'll make you hard, goddamn you Is that a threat or a promise?! " Bit of both | |||
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"I need a bit of both. If you're hot but I can't talk to you or you are up your own arse then I'm not interested. If you're a pleasant person & good company but I'm not physically attracted I'm not likely to get hard. I'll make you hard, goddamn you Is that a threat or a promise?! Bit of both " Zoiks!! | |||
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"being particularly blessed on all fronts means I have such a big list to get through..I have to bulk delete alot of mail on an hourly basis.I feel sorry for those who lose out." Good thing you don't have your Super Bomberman skills on your profile or you'd have even more mail!! | |||
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"being particularly blessed on all fronts means I have such a big list to get through..I have to bulk delete alot of mail on an hourly basis.I feel sorry for those who lose out. Good thing you don't have your Super Bomberman skills on your profile or you'd have even more mail!! " hands off my joystick bitch | |||
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"being particularly blessed on all fronts means I have such a big list to get through..I have to bulk delete alot of mail on an hourly basis.I feel sorry for those who lose out. Good thing you don't have your Super Bomberman skills on your profile or you'd have even more mail!! hands off my joystick bitch " Dude your joystick is all fleshy.....oh I see! | |||
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"Definitely 100%" "Definitely 100%" I'm not a trumpet blower but I'm quite good looking,(get your winks in girls) I'm not an ugly or weird person that's for sure. There's probably plenty of nutcases on here but Ive got a good personallity and Am up for a laugh.. drop me a bit of chat... I'll sent you some face pics xx | |||
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"Definitely 100% Definitely 100% I'm not a trumpet blower but I'm quite good looking,(get your winks in girls) I'm not an ugly or weird person that's for sure. There's probably plenty of nutcases on here but Ive got a good personallity and Am up for a laugh.. drop me a bit of chat... I'll sent you some face pics xx" But not good looking enough to show your face on here!! | |||
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"Do physical looks always matter when looking for a meet?" Not so much physical looks, but there has to be a physical ATTRACTION...or else why would people want to meet? Personality is also a massive factor in deciding to want to meet or not as well...and that, as far as I'm concerned, CAN be a deal-breaker. It's not just a case of 'fancy a fuck?'...the social aspect of a meet is important to me. | |||
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"Definitely 100% Definitely 100% I'm not a trumpet blower but I'm quite good looking,(get your winks in girls) I'm not an ugly or weird person that's for sure. There's probably plenty of nutcases on here but Ive got a good personallity and Am up for a laugh.. drop me a bit of chat... I'll sent you some face pics xx But not good looking enough to show your face on here!!" Fair point but some ppl like myself have a right to be a bit discreet.. I'm not ashamed or worried what I look like you can trust me on that.. if a girls varifyed I'll send em a few pics no trouble. | |||
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"being particularly blessed on all fronts means I have such a big list to get through..I have to bulk delete alot of mail on an hourly basis.I feel sorry for those who lose out." I read "on all fronts" as "on all fours." Sorry for my filthy mind | |||
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"Do physical looks always matter when looking for a meet?" Yes, as I can't play with someone I'm not attracted to, but that doesn't mean they have to have matinee idol looks. For example I prefer Alan Rickman to David Gandy, Tommy Lee Jones to David Beckham and Idris Elba to Denzel Washington. Looks are subjective! | |||
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"I'd say looks are the main thing for the ladies of fab. Always seeing profiles etc with fit/hot guys only I can fancy someone who isn't fit or hot by societal standards. " Me too. | |||
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"There needs to be some attraction. Not on here to boost someone's ego. Wouldn't sleep with someone I didn't fancy on or off fab " | |||
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"I find someone making me laugh more attractive, i have been in some very good looking male company, they thought they were casanovas Her" THIS! If I can laugh with someone then that goes a long way to the all important attraction. I find an early phone call goes a long way to starting that. If there's no chemistry, it's not heppening. | |||
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"I'd say looks are the main thing for the ladies of fab. Always seeing profiles etc with fit/hot guys only I can fancy someone who isn't fit or hot by societal standards. The men I fancy wouldn't be classed as fit or hot necessarily but they do something for me." | |||
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"Of course attractiveness is important, but that's not just down to physical looks. Someone can be average looking but hugely attractive through a blend of personality, a glint in the eye, intelligence etc And as others have said, one persons beauty is another's ugly. Anyone who's had the misfortune of corresponding or Face pic Friday'ing with me will know I'm visually challenged (i.e. a right ugly minger) so I'm always gonna struggle with those that seek conventional beauty " Tut. Sigh. Put a sock in it. You're not getting sympathy shags for that statement. | |||
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"Of course attractiveness is important, but that's not just down to physical looks. Someone can be average looking but hugely attractive through a blend of personality, a glint in the eye, intelligence etc And as others have said, one persons beauty is another's ugly. Anyone who's had the misfortune of corresponding or Face pic Friday'ing with me will know I'm visually challenged (i.e. a right ugly minger) so I'm always gonna struggle with those that seek conventional beauty Tut. Sigh. Put a sock in it. You're not getting sympathy shags for that statement. " Oh damn - that transparent hey? | |||
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"No it don't as its casual sex. And this proves what for you then as you've had no meets...?" I'd love to know why you think he's had no meets? My understanding is that he does pretty well on here! | |||
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"Do physical looks always matter when looking for a meet?" Iv got to be attracted to someone. | |||
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"Do physical looks always matter when looking for a meet? Iv got to be attracted to someone." | |||
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"I have found that I am not as shallow as I once believed I was. For me, the attraction starts with a conversation. I have found myself being attracted to people who I wouldn't look twice at in the street. Conversing with someone online is very different to chatting with someone you meet in a vanilla setting. You are more open, frank and honest (mostly) and I find that appealing. Occasionally, they have sent through a face pic after a while and my heart sinks (if that's the right expression) and I know it won't go any further sexually. However, having said that what I find attractive others won't. I am sure people feel the same way about me. " Yeah, I've had that too. Conversation is going really well, they make me laugh but I just know on seeing a face pic that I would never want to have sex with them. | |||
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"Good looks are a bonus, but have you ever been with a really good looking woman who is terrible in the sack? " Criminal | |||
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"Good looks are a bonus, but have you ever been with a really good looking woman who is terrible in the sack? Criminal" It happens mate. The point I'm making that it's not always about looks, it's all about how you use what you've got | |||
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"Yes, shallow as it sounds, if I'm not attracted to the photos of someone, I won't meet them." Sorry but this is me too | |||
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"Do physical looks always matter when looking for a meet?" Not entirely - sure i'm guilty of wanting to meet gorgeous, sexy as fuck women, but their sex appeal doesn't just come from their looks! | |||
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"You have to be attracted to the person but everyone has their own ideas about what's attractive and what isn't. They'll always be someone out there who will be attracted to you even if you think you're not particularly good looking yourself (in the traditional sense of the word). Everyone sees these things differently. Obviously the persons personality is the deal breaker. If they're a bit of a tosser then their good looks won't save them!" You're a bit of a tosser aren't you? | |||
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"Good looks are a bonus, but have you ever been with a really good looking woman who is terrible in the sack? Criminal It happens mate. The point I'm making that it's not always about looks, it's all about how you use what you've got " I have met absolute stunners that are completely vacuous relying entirely on their looks. Laying there like a stuffed seal waiting to be entertained. The legend about plain women being better in bed comes from here. It's the reason why I go for personality as a first preference | |||
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"You have to be attracted to the person but everyone has their own ideas about what's attractive and what isn't. They'll always be someone out there who will be attracted to you even if you think you're not particularly good looking yourself (in the traditional sense of the word). Everyone sees these things differently. Obviously the persons personality is the deal breaker. If they're a bit of a tosser then their good looks won't save them! You're a bit of a tosser aren't you? " I am. And even my good looks won't save me from that fact! | |||
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"You have to be attracted to the person but everyone has their own ideas about what's attractive and what isn't. They'll always be someone out there who will be attracted to you even if you think you're not particularly good looking yourself (in the traditional sense of the word). Everyone sees these things differently. Obviously the persons personality is the deal breaker. If they're a bit of a tosser then their good looks won't save them! You're a bit of a tosser aren't you? I am. And even my good looks won't save me from that fact! " But your arse will | |||
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"I hope people go more for arses than faces " You're a bit of an arse....harmless enough. | |||
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"I hope people go more for arses than faces You're a bit of an arse....harmless enough. " Its a good job I have put my claws away...otherwise I would make you rue those words. | |||
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"I hope people go more for arses than faces You're a bit of an arse....harmless enough. Its a good job I have put my claws away...otherwise I would make you rue those words. " Shame. I love a decent scratch. | |||
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"Do physical looks always matter when looking for a meet?" Yes, for both of us. We need to be attracted to those we meet. | |||
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"Do physical looks always matter when looking for a meet?" It does for me. I couldn't have sex without physical AND mental attraction. | |||
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"Do physical looks always matter when looking for a meet? It does for me. I couldn't have sex without physical AND mental attraction. " ... So it's a good job the ladies on here are fucking awesome | |||
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"looks personality all matter " No surely not?..Personality AS WELL?? | |||
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"Do physical looks always matter when looking for a meet?" Yes, if I dont find her attractive, it ends before it begins | |||
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"I'd say looks are the main thing for the ladies of fab. Always seeing profiles etc with fit/hot guys only I can fancy someone who isn't fit or hot by societal standards. The men I fancy wouldn't be classed as fit or hot necessarily but they do something for me. " | |||
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"I have to be attracted to them physically... Arousal just doesn't happen for me. " Well I'm gonna send you a couple pics then coz I just checked u out and your doing it for me xx Hope I'm your cuppa tea | |||
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"I wouldnt have sex with someone I'm not attracted to. But there's more to attraction than just looks." Exactly!!! | |||
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"Do physical looks always matter when looking for a meet?" Correct | |||
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