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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you new that someone had cheated on someone , should you tell the person that had been cheated on ?

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

If I knew I would mind my own business ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on if it's a good mate

If it's not, it's not my business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

completely depends on the circumstances, who it was etc etc etc. There are too many variables...but I would lean towards keeping my nose well and truly out of other people's business.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lets put it this way round . Your the one being cheated on and a very good friend new about it and didn't say . How would you feel when you found out about it and that your friend had know all along ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lets put it this way round . Your the one being cheated on and a very good friend new about it and didn't say . How would you feel when you found out about it and that your friend had know all along ? "

How would I find out about it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Many ways . Bills for hotels , emails , text message . Overhearing a phone conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends whether you are beyond 10 years of age.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello ! Not sure i understand that comment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you new that someone had cheated on someone , should you tell the person that had been cheated on ? "

Me personally? If it was a friend or family and i was gonna be there to support her/him through it and i knew she/he wanted to know then yeah i would tell them.

If it was someone who i wanted to maintain an honest relationship with and knew they would want to know then yeah i would tell.

If it was randoms or people i had no clue if they wanted to know or not and didn't cared about then no i wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you new that someone had cheated on someone , should you tell the person that had been cheated on ?

Me personally? If it was a friend or family and i was gonna be there to support her/him through it and i knew she/he wanted to know then yeah i would tell them.

If it was someone who i wanted to maintain an honest relationship with and knew they would want to know then yeah i would tell.

If it was randoms or people i had no clue if they wanted to know or not and didn't cared about then no i wouldn't.

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this is how i see it too . I'm sort of stuck on what to do . I have to be honest and say that i feel i should tell the person that got cheated on but I'm very afraid it will fuck lots of people up. It was my partner, she shagged two of her oldest daughters partners . I wish i never new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you new that someone had cheated on someone , should you tell the person that had been cheated on ?

Me personally? If it was a friend or family and i was gonna be there to support her/him through it and i knew she/he wanted to know then yeah i would tell them.

If it was someone who i wanted to maintain an honest relationship with and knew they would want to know then yeah i would tell.

If it was randoms or people i had no clue if they wanted to know or not and didn't cared about then no i wouldn't.

this is how i see it too . I'm sort of stuck on what to do . I have to be honest and say that i feel i should tell the person that got cheated on but I'm very afraid it will fuck lots of people up. It was my partner, she shagged two of her oldest daughters partners . I wish i never new "

As in your current partner or ex partner?

The difficulty with being the one who tells someone is that sometimes, you somehow then get pulled into it all. Plus sometimes it backfires on you.

Personally , I'd rather know if I'm being cheated on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is how i see it too . I'm sort of stuck on what to do . I have to be honest and say that i feel i should tell the person that got cheated on but I'm very afraid it will fuck lots of people up. It was my partner, she shagged two of her oldest daughters partners . I wish i never new "

Yeah slightly different there, wtf was she thinking? I was more thinking your mate had been cheated on and that was that.

If her daughters aren't ok with swinging and sharing with their mum then i'd have a word with her and ask her what she's playing at. That's pretty bad, you're supposed to look out for your kids not mess them up.

I agree, if it does get out it will be messy and two girls are gonna get hurt and maybe mess up (even end) their relationship with their mum.

What do you think you should do?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you new that someone had cheated on someone , should you tell the person that had been cheated on ?

Me personally? If it was a friend or family and i was gonna be there to support her/him through it and i knew she/he wanted to know then yeah i would tell them.

If it was someone who i wanted to maintain an honest relationship with and knew they would want to know then yeah i would tell.

If it was randoms or people i had no clue if they wanted to know or not and didn't cared about then no i wouldn't.

this is how i see it too . I'm sort of stuck on what to do . I have to be honest and say that i feel i should tell the person that got cheated on but I'm very afraid it will fuck lots of people up. It was my partner, she shagged two of her oldest daughters partners . I wish i never new

As in your current partner or ex partner?

The difficulty with being the one who tells someone is that sometimes, you somehow then get pulled into it all. Plus sometimes it backfires on you.

Personally , I'd rather know if I'm being cheated on. "
ex partner. I have to say ,it is a bit of revenge thinking. That's not to say I'm going to say anything . But. !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you new that someone had cheated on someone , should you tell the person that had been cheated on ?

Me personally? If it was a friend or family and i was gonna be there to support her/him through it and i knew she/he wanted to know then yeah i would tell them.

If it was someone who i wanted to maintain an honest relationship with and knew they would want to know then yeah i would tell.

If it was randoms or people i had no clue if they wanted to know or not and didn't cared about then no i wouldn't.

this is how i see it too . I'm sort of stuck on what to do . I have to be honest and say that i feel i should tell the person that got cheated on but I'm very afraid it will fuck lots of people up. It was my partner, she shagged two of her oldest daughters partners . I wish i never new

As in your current partner or ex partner?

The difficulty with being the one who tells someone is that sometimes, you somehow then get pulled into it all. Plus sometimes it backfires on you.

Personally , I'd rather know if I'm being cheated on. ex partner. I have to say ,it is a bit of revenge thinking. That's not to say I'm going to say anything . But. !"
Ps i would like to know if i was being cheated on too . You can shot the messenger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

are you sure that the daughter would believe you? if her mum denies it?

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/383300

Strikes me you are angry.. If you are intending to tell the daughter I feel it would be wrong and spiteful.

Let your anger and hurt subside. then think again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends whether you are beyond 10 years of age."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/383300

Strikes me you are angry.. If you are intending to tell the daughter I feel it would be wrong and spiteful.

Let your anger and hurt subside. then think again."
i am trying to do this . Its sort of helping putting it on here and chatting to people that aren't involved in any way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"are you sure that the daughter would believe you? if her mum denies it?"
i think she would believe it and she may already know .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You said in an earlier thread that if she had told you the truth you'd have found it horny, so why so righteous now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would try blackmailing a shag out of them. Two shags if it is a female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did he no that I new your spelling is worse than mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You said in an earlier thread that if she had told you the truth you'd have found it horny, so why so righteous now "
i really don't think you could believe i would find it horny that my partner shagged her daughters partners. I found it horny when she went out on the pull .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did he no that I new your spelling is worse than mine"
my spellings completely shite ?? but this really isn't a worry. I'm not a English teacher. So what the fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You said in an earlier thread that if she had told you the truth you'd have found it horny, so why so righteous now i really don't think you could believe i would find it horny that my partner shagged her daughters partners. I found it horny when she went out on the pull . "

But you didn't leave her when you found out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You said in an earlier thread that if she had told you the truth you'd have found it horny, so why so righteous now i really don't think you could believe i would find it horny that my partner shagged her daughters partners. I found it horny when she went out on the pull .

But you didn't leave her when you found out "
this is true . And i should of done. Its something i think about alot . Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A decision that could tear a young ladies life apart and your making it all about you

Not cool,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A decision that could tear a young ladies life apart and your making it all about you

Not cool, "
very very true . However. I had said a little earlier that i wasn't going to say anything to her because of the hurt it would course

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