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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can't stand guys who just expect you to drop what your doing just to meet them as and when it suits only them.

I did message a guy I've met a few times saying what nights this week I was free and he ignored me.

He'll then message me a night he's lonely and just expect me to call over. If I say no he'll keep going with his persistence. I used to give in but not now. Tonight I blocked him just for the sheer he'll of it.

Has anyone else been in that selfish predicament lately?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

The thing with NSA sex is people want it when they want it and a lot don't want to make the effort when they don't.

Putting yourself out when you don't want sex is like strings, they say. Thinking of what someone else wants is like being in a relationship.

Some see NSA as all about getting what they want, when they want it and expect sex on tap from sites such as this. They often end up moaning about women never wanting to meet.

Pestering when you've said no is unacceptable and would earn a block from me too.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I'd have blocked after being ignored as I would have assumed they weren't interested in meeting again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people can't plan sex, i think they wouldn't care what nights you're free and only wanna meet when actually horny. I'm like this too, and yes it is selfish but i can't help not getting excited over sex on specific times and dates.

Probably is best to find someone else more compatible, who enjoys not having spontaneous sex and gets a build up from planning meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block deserved ... its not click your fingers and i come running sex

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"The thing with NSA sex is people want it when they want it and a lot don't want to make the effort when they don't.

Putting yourself out when you don't want sex is like strings, they say. Thinking of what someone else wants is like being in a relationship.

Some see NSA as all about getting what they want, when they want it and expect sex on tap from sites such as this. They often end up moaning about women never wanting to meet.

Pestering when you've said no is unacceptable and would earn a block from me too."

I'll bear that in mind. he he

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"The thing with NSA sex is people want it when they want it and a lot don't want to make the effort when they don't.

Putting yourself out when you don't want sex is like strings, they say. Thinking of what someone else wants is like being in a relationship.

Some see NSA as all about getting what they want, when they want it and expect sex on tap from sites such as this. They often end up moaning about women never wanting to meet.

Pestering when you've said no is unacceptable and would earn a block from me too.

I'll bear that in mind. he he"

You're already blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the nature of it sadly.

Of course your name might not help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He totally deserved the block hun .. I'm horny 24/7 but I still like the build up to sex , the flirting , nawty txts etc .. A last minute hookup if your available is fine but the sex is never as good as it is when you've had time to imagine what your going to do with him

A x

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

No excuse for being rude or arrogant. His actions deserve a block. You did the right thing IMHO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to add, sorry for making light of your predicament OP. Block and move on.

Again, sadly, tis the nature of the beast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like mussels

I don't like any shellfish

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"The thing with NSA sex is people want it when they want it and a lot don't want to make the effort when they don't.

Putting yourself out when you don't want sex is like strings, they say. Thinking of what someone else wants is like being in a relationship.

Some see NSA as all about getting what they want, when they want it and expect sex on tap from sites such as this. They often end up moaning about women never wanting to meet.

Pestering when you've said no is unacceptable and would earn a block from me too.

I'll bear that in mind. he he

You're already blocked "

That's just because you're worried you may be falling for my irresistible charms and undoubted charisma. . LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't ever be at someones beck and call I meet when both parties are free and happy to meet. Op you did the right thing blocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't stand guys who just expect you to drop what your doing just to meet them as and when it suits only them.

I did message a guy I've met a few times saying what nights this week I was free and he ignored me.

He'll then message me a night he's lonely and just expect me to call over. If I say no he'll keep going with his persistence. I used to give in but not now. Tonight I blocked him just for the sheer he'll of it.

Has anyone else been in that selfish predicament lately?"

Yep I've came across people like that myself and have blocked them just like you did. If they can't take no for an answer let alone only interested when their horny and lonely then its just a no go, instant turn off tbh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there such a site? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd have blocked after being ignored as I would have assumed they weren't interested in meeting again. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I avoid this exact scenario by making it very clear from the start that I need to plan meets. I don't chat with guys that pester full stop.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

It is par for the course I am afraid, what most men seem to want - McSex. I don't block people as a rule, just toss them in the box marked 'junk food' and wait for a nice Bourgignon to appear!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Can't stand guys who just expect you to drop what your doing just to meet them as and when it suits only them.

I did message a guy I've met a few times saying what nights this week I was free and he ignored me.

He'll then message me a night he's lonely and just expect me to call over. If I say no he'll keep going with his persistence. I used to give in but not now. Tonight I blocked him just for the sheer he'll of it.

Has anyone else been in that selfish predicament lately?"

With your username you're surprised?!! Really?!!

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By *ove121LustCouple
over a year ago

LaLa Land


"Can't stand guys who just expect you to drop what your doing just to meet them as and when it suits only them.

I did message a guy I've met a few times saying what nights this week I was free and he ignored me.

He'll then message me a night he's lonely and just expect me to call over. If I say no he'll keep going with his persistence. I used to give in but not now. Tonight I blocked him just for the sheer he'll of it.

Has anyone else been in that selfish predicament lately?"

Not just guys, lots of people seem to think you don't have work/families/periods/a life!!!

I certainly don't want to have sex with someone because the can fit me in now!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't stand guys who just expect you to drop what your doing just to meet them as and when it suits only them.

I did message a guy I've met a few times saying what nights this week I was free and he ignored me.

He'll then message me a night he's lonely and just expect me to call over. If I say no he'll keep going with his persistence. I used to give in but not now. Tonight I blocked him just for the sheer he'll of it.

Has anyone else been in that selfish predicament lately?

With your username you're surprised?!! Really?!! "

Lol, I said that earlier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that only value the situation they are in, and do not give your situation a second thought are selfish.

Anything me, myself and i , is not a good meet, i would block and move on.

Having a common respect goes a long with me.

Her

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It would annoy me. Personally I need a lot of time to get ready, even supposing I'm free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is anyone up for a shag right now or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't stand guys who just expect you to drop what your doing just to meet them as and when it suits only them.

I did message a guy I've met a few times saying what nights this week I was free and he ignored me.

He'll then message me a night he's lonely and just expect me to call over. If I say no he'll keep going with his persistence. I used to give in but not now. Tonight I blocked him just for the sheer he'll of it.

Has anyone else been in that selfish predicament lately?

With your username you're surprised?!! Really?!! "

She may not have met him from here. He might know her as beg for it on another site

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Is anyone up for a shag right now or not?"

PMSFL

Shuttle and tactful. Works every time.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Oh well, he is blocked now there endeth your pain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its Fabswingers not Fab-Waiters haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there myself in "normal" relationships not just scene one's.

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