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Choices (yes it's fucking political)

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

My apologies to Skunk Anansie.

I'm a Domme. Not all of my meets and partners are on a D/s basis but some are.

In D/s arrangements, sometimes I dictate things but usually I prefer to offer choices.

It's an entertaining game. I give my willing victim the choice between the unpalatable thing I want them to do, and a much worse option.

They can't complain, right? They chose that outcome so it must be what they want.

It's a great game and it amuses me endlessly.

So, when is a choice no fucking choice at all?

When does, or doesn't, a choice represent what we actually want? Or is it, since we rarely, if ever, have the choice of absolutely anything, only ever the best available or least dreadful option?

Can we ever really conclude that choosing something is an indication that's what we actually wanted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the choice we make

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And don't forget, if you don't make a choice for the reasons you're given - then you're not allowed to complain.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I have listened to Stoosh today

*courtesy of the useless information department*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Choose life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Choose life!"

Choose a fucking big television

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My apologies to Skunk Anansie.

I'm a Domme. Not all of my meets and partners are on a D/s basis but some are.

In D/s arrangements, sometimes I dictate things but usually I prefer to offer choices.

It's an entertaining game. I give my willing victim the choice between the unpalatable thing I want them to do, and a much worse option.

They can't complain, right? They chose that outcome so it must be what they want.

It's a great game and it amuses me endlessly.

So, when is a choice no fucking choice at all?

When does, or doesn't, a choice represent what we actually want? Or is it, since we rarely, if ever, have the choice of absolutely anything, only ever the best available or least dreadful option?

Can we ever really conclude that choosing something is an indication that's what we actually wanted?"

Easy your situation when boiled down come to two outcomes.

Outcome one) person does your hoped for option you win they lose.

Outcome two) person chooses the option neither of you want, you both lose.

It's all comes down to if you're willing to let them win or make sure you both suffer.

But of course there's always option 3.

Get up and walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only when the option you wanted was available is when you chose yourself. Anything else is hobsons choice. Imo.

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"My apologies to Skunk Anansie.

I'm a Domme. Not all of my meets and partners are on a D/s basis but some are.

In D/s arrangements, sometimes I dictate things but usually I prefer to offer choices.

It's an entertaining game. I give my willing victim the choice between the unpalatable thing I want them to do, and a much worse option.

They can't complain, right? They chose that outcome so it must be what they want.

It's a great game and it amuses me endlessly.

So, when is a choice no fucking choice at all?

When does, or doesn't, a choice represent what we actually want? Or is it, since we rarely, if ever, have the choice of absolutely anything, only ever the best available or least dreadful option?

Can we ever really conclude that choosing something is an indication that's what we actually wanted?

Easy your situation when boiled down come to two outcomes.

Outcome one) person does your hoped for option you win they lose.

Outcome two) person chooses the option neither of you want, you both lose.

It's all comes down to if you're willing to let them win or make sure you both suffer.

But of course there's always option 3.

Get up and walk away."

Ah, but option 2 still entertains me, even if it doesn't direct things the way I would have preferred, but realistically I know the chance of them choosing the worse option is very small.

I can't lose because I never offer them anything that doesn't suit me in some way.

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Choose life!

Choose a fucking big television "

Choose a bloody great bottle of vodka and a few large jars of sleeping tablets and painkillers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's is always the third option - Do Nothing.

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"There's is always the third option - Do Nothing."

In which case you get what you're given and still have no right to complain. After all, you were given a choice and opted not to use it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Choose to fuck Theresa May...if there's the option to.

I would...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's is always the third option - Do Nothing.

In which case you get what you're given and still have no right to complain. After all, you were given a choice and opted not to use it."

The third option of Do Nothing means neither option is acceptable. So nothing happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or if you dare to question the right to choice or more particularly how to debate the right to choice, or to be specific dare to question the person making the choices about how the choices may be debated...

Out come the ball gags and there ends any further discussion of choice. I look forward to said ball gag shortly

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"There's is always the third option - Do Nothing.

In which case you get what you're given and still have no right to complain. After all, you were given a choice and opted not to use it.

The third option of Do Nothing means neither option is acceptable. So nothing happens."

Except we both know that's not how it works.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I sometimes have this issue when I drive past a Burger King.

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I sometimes have this issue when I drive past a Burger King. "

I thought you were resolute in your view of Burger King?

Personally, I prefer Burger King because they do onion rings.

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