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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've a couple on my friends list with whom i've shared a few messages over the last couple of weeks.

Tonight I log on and after a few minutes I get a message from obviously the male half asking if i'd like to go meet them at that moment in a hotel room they are staying in.

I apologise and explain that I can not due to having my young lad staying with me for the weekend, but say hi and hope they have a great time.

I then get a message right back saying how it's my loss and that they are blocking me before raging into an abusive rant at me????

The mind boggles, lol, I really do worry about the mental health of some people on this site.

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

You're a single guy on here. How dare you not just drop everything & be at the beck & call of a couple! What's wrong with you man?!? Pffft!

Don't you know their instant gratification is more important than the safety & wellbeing of your child?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bugga so that's where I went wrong, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't be surprised if they were struggling to get a meet and getting pissed off about it.

Hope you had a nice night with your kid, i turn down meets coz of mine being awake and that but not bothered and nobody has given me grief about it luckily.

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Well at least you are popular

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wouldn't be surprised if they were struggling to get a meet and getting pissed off about it.

Hope you had a nice night with your kid, i turn down meets coz of mine being awake and that but not bothered and nobody has given me grief about it luckily."

I did thank you, always great to have him over for the weekend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well at least you are popular "

lol, obviously not, but working on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't be surprised if they were struggling to get a meet and getting pissed off about it.

Hope you had a nice night with your kid, i turn down meets coz of mine being awake and that but not bothered and nobody has given me grief about it luckily.

I did thank you, always great to have him over for the weekend "

Good. He's all that matters.

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Wouldn't be surprised if they were struggling to get a meet and getting pissed off about it.

Hope you had a nice night with your kid, i turn down meets coz of mine being awake and that but not bothered and nobody has given me grief about it luckily.

I did thank you, always great to have him over for the weekend

Good. He's all that matters. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wouldn't be surprised if they were struggling to get a meet and getting pissed off about it.

Hope you had a nice night with your kid, i turn down meets coz of mine being awake and that but not bothered and nobody has given me grief about it luckily.

I did thank you, always great to have him over for the weekend

Good. He's all that matters. "

He certainly is Affectionate Bitch

Now that sounds wrong to me. I'd come and get you if I was closer young lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't be surprised if they were struggling to get a meet and getting pissed off about it.

Hope you had a nice night with your kid, i turn down meets coz of mine being awake and that but not bothered and nobody has given me grief about it luckily.

I did thank you, always great to have him over for the weekend

Good. He's all that matters.

He certainly is Affectionate Bitch

Now that sounds wrong to me. I'd come and get you if I was closer young lady. "

Young lady?

I'm older than you by the way...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wouldn't be surprised if they were struggling to get a meet and getting pissed off about it.

Hope you had a nice night with your kid, i turn down meets coz of mine being awake and that but not bothered and nobody has given me grief about it luckily.

I did thank you, always great to have him over for the weekend

Good. He's all that matters.

He certainly is Affectionate Bitch

Now that sounds wrong to me. I'd come and get you if I was closer young lady.

Young lady?

I'm older than you by the way..."

Age is just as much about ones state of mind as it is about a couple of digits. I plan to stay young forever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the 3 years I have been on this site I have never seen so many ppl with insecurities in one place. Some would be well suited to the Jeremy Kyle show..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In the 3 years I have been on this site I have never seen so many ppl with insecurities in one place. Some would be well suited to the Jeremy Kyle show.. "

I'm with you there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't be surprised if they were struggling to get a meet and getting pissed off about it.

Hope you had a nice night with your kid, i turn down meets coz of mine being awake and that but not bothered and nobody has given me grief about it luckily.

I did thank you, always great to have him over for the weekend

Good. He's all that matters.

He certainly is Affectionate Bitch

Now that sounds wrong to me. I'd come and get you if I was closer young lady.

Young lady?

I'm older than you by the way...

Age is just as much about ones state of mind as it is about a couple of digits. I plan to stay young forever. "

Yeah true.

Night, i'm well tired, don't even know how i stayted awake this long now that i've noticed the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wouldn't be surprised if they were struggling to get a meet and getting pissed off about it.

Hope you had a nice night with your kid, i turn down meets coz of mine being awake and that but not bothered and nobody has given me grief about it luckily.

I did thank you, always great to have him over for the weekend

Good. He's all that matters.

He certainly is Affectionate Bitch

Now that sounds wrong to me. I'd come and get you if I was closer young lady.

Young lady?

I'm older than you by the way...

Age is just as much about ones state of mind as it is about a couple of digits. I plan to stay young forever.

Yeah true.

Night, i'm well tired, don't even know how i stayted awake this long now that i've noticed the time. "

Nighty night and the sweetest of dreams. Ant x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the 3 years I have been on this site I have never seen so many ppl with insecurities in one place. Some would be well suited to the Jeremy Kyle show..

I'm with you there. "

To be honest, I would say you had a lucky escape. Better to have found out their true colours before you met them than after.. They don't sound like swingers to me. Just ppl that want blokes at their beck n call.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In the 3 years I have been on this site I have never seen so many ppl with insecurities in one place. Some would be well suited to the Jeremy Kyle show..

I'm with you there.

To be honest, I would say you had a lucky escape. Better to have found out their true colours before you met them than after.. They don't sound like swingers to me. Just ppl that want blokes at their beck n call."

Yeah I see it that way myself. Just found it odd thats all.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

As a couple we sometimes get the whole 'we are available right here, right now' messages from other couples and when we say no thanks we are staying in and playing with each other they either ignore, block or spit their dummy.

Not always but sometimes so I guess it must be even worse for single guys if you are expected to drop everything to oblige a demanding couple

Personally I like to meet people I have messaged a bit and all meets are pre arranged so I don't have a last minute panic trying to dash through the shower and dry my hair at the same time....I like to take my time getting ready

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By *emini1637Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire

I've experienced that a few times from guys on here! I'm a single mum and my daughter lives with me! I can not and will not drop everything and dump my child just so they can get their end away! They even ask to come to my house if they are really quiet she won't know!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems they're not too keen on u now Judging by their status lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seems they're not too keen on u now Judging by their status lol "

I won't be losing any sleep over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems they're not too keen on u now Judging by their status lol

I won't be losing any sleep over it. "

Lol quite amusing really isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair in the pics of her she does look a bit manic....wouldn't say you were too old at 40 though!!! Some people are just selfish.

The problem I have had recently was a guy I was meeting started getting huffy because I was seeing other people. I drew the line and sacked him off when he accused me of being a slag because I slept with my husband instead of him one night!!!!! Had to block him on every site etc.

Some nutters on here...Make me look normal lol

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