FabSwingers.com forum: Is he/she good to eat?

By *4STY OP Woman
over a year ago

Luanda/Angola

Am I the only one that likes to go for a drink/coffee before a meet? Been having this debate with a few people on fab (specially single guys) that get upset with me because I don't want to go straight to sex after seeing there face pics.

You might look good in the pic but If I don't click with you in real life sorry but no point going further or you might not be my kinda guy (lookwise) but when we meet we click. So why not meet for a coffee/drink and see if there's chemistry?

Do people in here just meet fuck, fuck and see you later? Not caring about anything? Do you just meet anyone?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Do people in here just meet fuck, fuck and see you later? Not caring about anything? Do you just meet anyone?"

yes......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We won't just meet anyone , but yes we do just meet and fuck . There is not a chance that we would even entertain a social meet .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only one that likes to go for a drink/coffee before a meet? Been having this debate with a few people on fab (specially single guys) that get upset with me because I don't want to go straight to sex after seeing there face pics.

Do people in here just meet fuck, fuck and see you later? Not caring about anything? Do you just meet anyone?"

Completely agree with you. Could never just fuck someone. Need to chat socially first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always like to chat firat with no expectations but if both are willing it dont take long to get to sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do people in here just meet fuck, fuck and see you later? Not caring about anything? Do you just meet anyone?"

You're not alone. I always have a social meet first. If i don't get along with the guy or we don't click then i wouldn't meet again. I always make it clear that our first meet is no gaurantee i'll sleep with someone. I've met a lot of guys from here but less than a quarter of them have gone on to be sexua encounters.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Depends, but on balance, no point in a social, not looking for any thing like a relationship anyway

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By *4STY OP Woman
over a year ago

Luanda/Angola

I'm not saying we got to be BFFs, after sex I don't care but before some sort of socialisation would be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do socials, some don't. There's no right or wrong way. Just do what's right for you.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

Do people in here just meet fuck, fuck and see you later? Not caring about anything? Do you just meet anyone?

yes......"

Occasionally yep

And it's great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to meet and fuck but a nice brew before wouldn't hurt to break the ice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily all the women I met never suggested a coffee meet... But Id oblige if it ever came up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they look good enough to eat, I like to get out 'Lecters Complete Gastronomy' and let the evening take it's course....

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

"I'd love to meet and fuck but a nice brew before wouldn't hurt to break the ice

I prefer a um not white coffee

Oops hahaha

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By *eshzMan
over a year ago

0151

I'd settle for a really fun, full of laughter and chilled out social meet...the rest if it happens...it happens...if it doesn't...it doesn't...I know I might sound weird but making and having friends is lots more exciting!!!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have shagged people in clubs that I never even spoke to, it was group fun and we played.

hey, my cock was hard and they were looking to get stuffed

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

"I have shagged people in clubs that I never even spoke to, it was group fun and we played.

hey, my cock was hard and they were looking to get stuffed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do people in here just meet fuck, fuck and see you later? Not caring about anything? Do you just meet anyone?"

I only do drink/coffee first as chemistry is important. Agree with everything you have said. I dont meet just anyone

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

I don't just meet anyone and everyone who asks

Just all of the ones i like lol

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

Do people in here just meet fuck, fuck and see you later? Not caring about anything? Do you just meet anyone?"

I'm happy to do it either way to be honest. Sometimes its good to go on a social first to see if there is any chemistry there, chat over a few drinks, etc.

On the other hand if women or couples just want to meet and get straight into the action i'm happy to do that too.

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By *4STY OP Woman
over a year ago

Luanda/Angola

My problem is that I had few guys sending pics and than when we meet they don't look like the pic at all. I even had guys sending pics when they were young and fit and when we meet they like way much older and not my cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social meet is always a good start, for safety reasons and also to make sure they are who you agreed to meet lol. Starbucks or a pub for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to meet in secluded graveyards at midnight before deciding if I'll fuck them

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I always have a social meet first! No ifs buts or maybes, if they don't like it? We don't meet, simple.....If they don't understand why a single female would have those rules? They are not worth meeting in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My problem is that I had few guys sending pics and than when we meet they don't look like the pic at all. I even had guys sending pics when they were young and fit and when we meet they like way much older and not my cup of tea. "

This is why i won't meet anyone i haven't seen and spoken to on webcam first. Saves a lot of time and hassle. I highly recommend it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had socials and I've had meets where the woman tore my jeans open from the off.

I'm happy either way tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to meet in secluded graveyards at midnight before deciding if I'll fuck them

I thought you looked familiar

haha

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"I always have a social meet first! No ifs buts or maybes, if they don't like it? We don't meet, simple.....If they don't understand why a single female would have those rules? They are not worth meeting in the first place

Exactly this for me too.

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By *iggy1Woman
over a year ago

DORCHESTER

Always social first... Come walk my German shepherd with me, if your not scared to get out the car.. Which has happened.. Mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when i meet a guy and just get down to it. I'm very fussy anyway, so pretty much the guys i choose to meet i fancy them anyway. And i only say i wanna meet guys when i'm in the mood for sex, although a couple of guys have managed to persuade me to meet them when i wasn't looking, and i enjoyed them too.

Probably is just the way things work in our head. I've had loads of kids, got a busy life (lol) so grab sex whenever i can, and been that way for years.

I've never been romantic, although i am very loving, so i don't need a connection to fuck, i just need the urge and a guy who fulfils my desires. Works well for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat for a bit first. Get to know each other. Webcam maybe. I'd do a local social, but I'd not travel for one. Unless it was a mass social meet that's different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time I've not done a social I had spoken to them for ages and knew I wanted them normally its a social or no meet

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