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Watching partner play together / or alone with other /guys and girls / jealous or more horny ?

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By *LLURS OP   Man
over a year ago

waterforx

So havea girlfriend / she now plays with other guys midweek and at weekends alone / she says she wil tell me if she fucks them / should I be happy and more horny for her / or a jealous lover / that she is only having fun with / mixed emissions / but want her to do what she wants / mane I'm being cuckolded / over to ye now ye sexy girls and guys / w

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Thought you had finished with her?

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By *LLURS OP   Man
over a year ago

waterforx

It's very hard to finish / she says she loves me but wants to play with other guys as we'll / she says she now wil tell me if she fucks them / but says she hasn't yet lady bee 77 / she even says she wants to get married to me one day / want her to be happy but confused / do love her 2 / over to you lady bee 77 / Paul thanks a lot

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

This guys a right nutter

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

You know what, you've had loads of advice, and not listened to one bit of it, so I wish you well, but will no longer comment on any of your threads as they seem to go round and round.

Best wishes.

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By *tloversCouple
over a year ago

Warrington

Only you know how you feel. We can't tell you whether to enjoy it or hate it because that's not how emotions work.

Some people would love it, some would hate it. There is no right or wrong answer or correct way to fee. You feel how you feel.

You need to decide if you can handle it. If you can't handle it then you need to let her go

.not because you don't love her or cos she doesn't love you but because you want different things and you, as a couple, are not meant to be.

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By *obka3Couple
over a year ago

bournemouth

she is taking the piss and making you look a fool, sorry being blunt just saying as I see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take the money you give her out of the equation. See if she still feels the same about you then?

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By *LLURS OP   Man
over a year ago

waterforx

Sorry lady bee 77 / I know you gave me lots of advise / so if it's all wrong / we should only be meeting other couples together / I know I should finish with her / but she very convincing that she loves me and just wants to play with other guys as we'll / don't think I'm a nutter _gne / but I know I wil haft to finish with her soon / she is the nutter not me / you are right robca3 / need to finish / please mail bk lady bee /took it advice / just hanging on to this stupor relationship / but it can't last / anyway /

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By *LLURS OP   Man
over a year ago

waterforx

Very good point affectionate bitch / she is looking 2 to 3 hundred a week in loans that she says is only a lend / think you have nailed it affectionate bitch / lady bee 77 is no longer replying think that little unfair / mail back my friends / what's ur input / affectionate bitch has nailed it for me / over to ye one guys and girls / Paul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very good point affectionate bitch / she is looking 2 to 3 hundred a week in loans that she says is only a lend / think you have nailed it affectionate bitch / lady bee 77 is no longer replying think that little unfair / mail back my friends / what's ur input / affectionate bitch has nailed it for me / over to ye one guys and girls / Paul "

From other things you've said it does seem similar to a cuckold relationship, and also financial domination, EXCEPT for the lies. She asks for a loan, she doesn't pay you back so she isn't actually being honest with you here. She wasn't being honest with you about meets before, now she says she will be honest but why would you trust her?

This relationship might suit you if both of you were being honest, but as it is now it seems like you are being used, lied to. I don't know if this will mess with your head or not. You seem to make a lot of topics about it recently so i'm guessing it's messing with your head already.

If you can handle being treated this way then leave things as they are. If you're enjoying this relationship and finding it weird and need conformation that it's ok to have a relationship like this then i'll tell you yeah it's fine, do whatever makes you happy.

If you want things to change you are going to have to become stronger and put some strategies in that make sure you get what you want from a relationship with her.

You can't force her to do anything for you and this is a fact, but you can ask for what you want and see if she is willing to give that to you. You can ask her to prove that she isn't a liar, think of some ways you've been lied to and then think of ways to make sure she can't lie again. You can cut off her benefits from the relationship and see whether that pushes her to give you more of what you want or if she gets rid of you.

I think you enjoy being submissive, but this doesn't mean you have to let someone walk all over you. I think you enjoy FLR but again this doesn't mean you have to do things you don't want to. But, again, if you are wanting confirmation that it's ok to enjoy something like this then i'll tell you again yes it is fine.

Do you want anything to change, are you happy with how things are? Either is fine, but you can change things if you want to.

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