FabSwingers.com forum: Is a vwe BBC cock comment on Fab a racist comment?

By *ere-for-my-convenience OP Woman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

After all, how often do we see on a profile BWC big white cock?

When I'm sent messages that only state BBC in the message or profile, my standard response is

I DONT choose a playmate on the issue of colour alone!!

Discuss!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I don't believe it is

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By *omSub_bullcplCouple
over a year ago

Biddeford

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your preference is to meet black men how is it racist?

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Whenever we get messages like that I just reply with "I prefer ITV".

And then block, as they clearly haven't read our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

Next........

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

People will not call it 'racist' as they perceive having a bbc as a good thing.

Discrimination wether positive or not is still discrimination though, and the people who discriminate based on arbitrary physical appearances are to be pitied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think its racist, how can an acronym be racist if the term is innocent.

No different to BBW being weightest - I know thats not a word but you catch my drift.

Now kkk on the other hand ... lol

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By *ere-for-my-convenience OP Woman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

Ok well maybe not exactly racist but certain profiles use the phrase or term BBC with ease when it suits them to get sex

And it's deemed perfectly acceptable

But if your profile says no BBC then certain people find it objectionable

Just making an observation that's all

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Sigh...

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By *ere-for-my-convenience OP Woman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

"Sigh...

Yeah yeah

Whatever lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people will always find a reason to moan and whinge and find others objectionable on fab.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"Discrimination whether positive or not is still discrimination though, and the people who discriminate based on arbitrary physical appearances are to be pitied. "

Who we are sexually attracted to is not dictated by discrimination though. It is something that cannot be helped.

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By *illyrocCouple
over a year ago

north west

Isn't every think we say racist these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's racist unless the person thinks all black guys have big cocks, or all white and asian guys have small cocks.

There is racial preference happening though. But, as with all preferences, you can't really force anyone to have sex with someone they aren't interested in. You have autonomy over your own body and who can access it, that's a basic human right everyone has and laws have been made so that you keep this right.

There could be an argument here in that if small black, asian and white cock or large white and asian cock, can't get sex with anyone then they shouldn't be excluded from being given the chance lol coz it is racial discrimination in a way. But tbh loads of guys can't get sex so it's not just one particular type of guy who isn't getting any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After all, how often do we see on a profile BWC big white cock?

When I'm sent messages that only state BBC in the message or profile, my standard response is

I DONT choose a playmate on the issue of colour alone!!

Discuss! "

Anyone got a shovel

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

yawn sigh....zzzzzzzz

who really cares?

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By *ere-for-my-convenience OP Woman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

"Isn't every think we say racist these days

Exactly

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

"Discrimination whether positive or not is still discrimination though, and the people who discriminate based on arbitrary physical appearances are to be pitied.

Who we are sexually attracted to is not dictated by discrimination though. It is something that cannot be helped."

If one is sexually attracted to cocks rather than people, and discriminates based on colour of said cock. Then no one cannot be helped.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"Discrimination whether positive or not is still discrimination though, and the people who discriminate based on arbitrary physical appearances are to be pitied.

Who we are sexually attracted to is not dictated by discrimination though. It is something that cannot be helped.

If one is sexually attracted to cocks rather than people, and discriminates based on colour of said cock. Then no one cannot be helped. "

...Except it's usually not just the cock but the entire physical form of said cock's owner...

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

"Discrimination whether positive or not is still discrimination though, and the people who discriminate based on arbitrary physical appearances are to be pitied.

Who we are sexually attracted to is not dictated by discrimination though. It is something that cannot be helped.

If one is sexually attracted to cocks rather than people, and discriminates based on colour of said cock. Then no one cannot be helped.

...Except it's usually not just the cock but the entire physical form of said cock's owner..."

..Except we aren't discussing anyones personal attractions to black or white men. We are discussing the term bbc..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Discrimination whether positive or not is still discrimination though, and the people who discriminate based on arbitrary physical appearances are to be pitied.

Who we are sexually attracted to is not dictated by discrimination though. It is something that cannot be helped.

If one is sexually attracted to cocks rather than people, and discriminates based on colour of said cock. Then no one cannot be helped.

...Except it's usually not just the cock but the entire physical form of said cock's owner...

..Except we aren't discussing anyones personal attractions to black or white men. We are discussing the term bbc.."

I only wanna meet well hung guys. Doesn't mean i'll fuck any guy who is well hung, just means if someone isn't well hung i'm not interested.

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

"Discrimination whether positive or not is still discrimination though, and the people who discriminate based on arbitrary physical appearances are to be pitied.

Who we are sexually attracted to is not dictated by discrimination though. It is something that cannot be helped.

If one is sexually attracted to cocks rather than people, and discriminates based on colour of said cock. Then no one cannot be helped.

...Except it's usually not just the cock but the entire physical form of said cock's owner...

..Except we aren't discussing anyones personal attractions to black or white men. We are discussing the term bbc..

I only wanna meet well hung guys. Doesn't mean i'll fuck any guy who is well hung, just means if someone isn't well hung i'm not interested."

Which is entirely your prerogative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think in general people need to stop with these "is it racist" posts because at the end of the day, a persons ethnicity is a touchy subject, and you know you're going to end up rubbing someone the wrong way.

If a black man wants to call himself a BBC that's his prerogative, no one is stopping a white guy from doing the same lol, it's like when a girl calls herself a slut. She can do so as she pleases after all this is the nature of this website.

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By *ere-for-my-convenience OP Woman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

"I think in general people need to stop with these "is it racist" posts because at the end of the day, a persons ethnicity is a touchy subject, and you know you're going to end up rubbing someone the wrong way.

Very very well written and valid point

But I still find it hugely offensive to get a message from certain groups of Fab users and the message simply says

BBC BBE

And the profile says the also

Because it implies to me that they see themselves as just a coloured cock

And I see people purely as individuals

Hope that explains my _iews simpler

Sorry for any misunderstanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Discrimination whether positive or not is still discrimination though, and the people who discriminate based on arbitrary physical appearances are to be pitied.

Who we are sexually attracted to is not dictated by discrimination though. It is something that cannot be helped.

If one is sexually attracted to cocks rather than people, and discriminates based on colour of said cock. Then no one cannot be helped.

...Except it's usually not just the cock but the entire physical form of said cock's owner...

..Except we aren't discussing anyones personal attractions to black or white men. We are discussing the term bbc..

I only wanna meet well hung guys. Doesn't mean i'll fuck any guy who is well hung, just means if someone isn't well hung i'm not interested.

Which is entirely your prerogative. "

I meant that i'm looking for a type of cock, but like the above said the guy attached to it matters too.

Might be the same for people looking for BBC, they will have other requirements for the guy as well. Might be some who will enjoy anyone with a BBC? Dunno, they're quiet in here.

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

"Discrimination whether positive or not is still discrimination though, and the people who discriminate based on arbitrary physical appearances are to be pitied.

Who we are sexually attracted to is not dictated by discrimination though. It is something that cannot be helped.

If one is sexually attracted to cocks rather than people, and discriminates based on colour of said cock. Then no one cannot be helped.

...Except it's usually not just the cock but the entire physical form of said cock's owner...

..Except we aren't discussing anyones personal attractions to black or white men. We are discussing the term bbc..

I only wanna meet well hung guys. Doesn't mean i'll fuck any guy who is well hung, just means if someone isn't well hung i'm not interested.

Which is entirely your prerogative.

I meant that i'm looking for a type of cock, but like the above said the guy attached to it matters too.

Might be the same for people looking for BBC, they will have other requirements for the guy as well. Might be some who will enjoy anyone with a BBC? Dunno, they're quiet in here."

Yes but you are not stipulating what colour cock you want. I personally think you may well be missing out by only sticking to larger cocks, although it makes sense logically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see favouring someone because of their race as racist, rather, it's discrimination because of race that is racist.

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Clearly no clue what real racism is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't see favouring someone because of their race as racist, rather, it's discrimination because of race that is racist."

But favouring someone typical means discriminating someone else.

Ie segregation back in America was it discriminatory against the blacks or simply favouring the whites?

If I only employ black people am I discriminating against oriental and white people or am I simply favouring black people?

And so on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes but you are not stipulating what colour cock you want. I personally think you may well be missing out by only sticking to larger cocks, although it makes sense logically."

Oh, now i get you. Yeah i am not fussy about colour, just have to find the guy attractive overall. And yeah i am missing out on small guys but i have a cock fetish so the cock is a very important part of sex for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just stating their prefrence so people don't waste their time.

Same as people who say No BBC, No Asian or No White. I don't find it offensive at all

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"Discrimination whether positive or not is still discrimination though, and the people who discriminate based on arbitrary physical appearances are to be pitied.

Who we are sexually attracted to is not dictated by discrimination though. It is something that cannot be helped.

If one is sexually attracted to cocks rather than people, and discriminates based on colour of said cock. Then no one cannot be helped.

...Except it's usually not just the cock but the entire physical form of said cock's owner...

..Except we aren't discussing anyones personal attractions to black or white men. We are discussing the term bbc.."

That's fine if you want to take the term BBC LITERALLY to just mean a big black cock, but to most it means a black MAN with a big cock.

i.e: A white man with a dark skin tone around his genitals wouldn't pass off as a BBC...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not racist lol! I've heard of worst things in my short life and it's not like it's a bad thing ur saying about them haha! People look into stuff too much and over complicate things and what have u ha

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By *errygTV/TS
over a year ago

denton

i think the person with the bbc using it on some willing lady, racism would be the last thing he would be thinking about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously op.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whenever we get messages like that I just reply with "I prefer ITV".

And then block, as they clearly haven't read our profile."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All it is is a label. Do you think BBW is sizeist as you don't see slim women with SBW in their profile?

Some people have the BBC fantasy so I can see why it is used

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